Vektor's drama updates

2022-09-28 by Fernando Alves STAFF | 97 Comments
In the wake of the drama surrounding thrash act Vektor, in which the band was dropped by Century Media less than 24 hours after signing a deal as a result of David DiSanto's domestic assault charges, DiSanto has posted the following statement:



Hello, this is David DiSanto of Vektor. I just want to take a couple minutes to set the record straight about the rumors surrounding me. I had hoped the allegations against me would eventually go away, but due to the band recently losing a record deal with Century Media because of the misperceptions about me, it’s time I addressed everything clearly for everyone. I apologize for my initial response in 2019 and my silence that followed. It was too much for me to handle at the time. So, now I want to clarify to our fans what’s actually going on in that dark, horrible video swirling around the internet.

This little guy (my dog, Sprinkles) set off a chain of events that I never could’ve imagined. In early 2019 he was still being potty trained, and he left a little poo on the stairs in the middle of the night after I had gone to bed. It was around midnight when I was woken up by my wife standing next to the bed repeatedly slapping my head, pulling my hair, and digging into my chest with her nails, screaming and yelling at me to pick up his poop immediately. I kept telling her to “leave me alone”, “it can wait until the morning”, but she wouldn’t stop after what seemed like 30 minutes. I finally stood up and was cornered against the wall between the bed and my dresser. I asked her to move so I could do the thing she was asking, but she wouldn’t budge and kept instigating and escalating the situation. So, I picked her up and moved her onto the bed, out of my way, so I could get by. I then threw a pillow and reiterated to her, “leave me alone”.

That is the truth and reality of what took place before and during that video. Some people might not think that’s a very big deal, but I want to make perfectly clear that I am truly sorry and embarrassed for how I reacted to that situation. Having my personal life being exposed to complete strangers has been a big opportunity for me to learn and grow. These past few years have humbled me to my core. Like so many others, I was caught in a toxic relationship and felt like I was trapped and couldn’t get out. I hope all the people that go through that find the power to heal themselves and move forward with their lives. That’s what I’m trying to do.

As for other rumors getting passed around online, there are no continued legal battles going on between my ex and myself. Our divorce was finalized in 2021 and it was very standard as far as divorces are concerned. We divvied up our assets and went our separate ways. I don’t have any kind of criminal record. I certainly have never been charged with any type of domestic violence. The mugshot that people are passing around is from a completely unrelated event from 2013 where I splashed beer on a Christian protester who was antagonizing the crowd at Scion Metal Fest in Memphis. I wasn’t charged for anything regarding that either.

Hopefully, people will eventually be able to judge us on our music and not our personal lives: my personal life. I’m continuing to better myself every day in all aspects of my life. It’s a shame that we lost a record deal because of lies and slander, but we’ll keep doing our best, continue to grow, and rise above the challenges.

I appreciate you taking the time to listen to my side of the story and how these events truly unfolded. On behalf of myself and Vektor, we look forward to your continued support and understanding about this matter. Thank you.

Tagged: Vektor

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DePlazz
September 28th 2022
4486 Comments


So *allegedly* no continued legal battles and no charges of any kind. Just the old... allegations?
Now if some third party could just double-check and confirm this so we can all move on instead of indulging in letting social media shitstorms decide on people's reputations and careers. For a label such as CM to drop a band based on rumors and allegations is simply a bridge too far. It's scary.

necropig
September 28th 2022
7405 Comments


Hmmm.

secondsun
September 28th 2022
51 Comments


Mmmm yeah I don't know if buy this. You'd think a label like Century Media would have the capability to do a thorough enough investigation (besides, not like they haven't signed any POS dudes before). Also I'm just naturally suspicious of any frontman where 3/4 of the band dips overnight over "disagreements"...

The most recent song they put out sucked also so who cares about them anyway



RadioSuicide
September 28th 2022
2606 Comments


guaranteed

Gameofmetal
Emeritus
September 28th 2022
11569 Comments


Half his bandmates jumping ship on him are pretty damning to me tbh, don't really think this story is that convincing. Just blame shifting and not acknowledging the accusations of previous abuse.

Anyways there's a few labels who won't give a fuck that will sign them so I'm sure they'll be fine. Agonia is always waiting in the wings with the pedo nazi band.

You for real never see a dude's bandmates dump him on some shit that isn't true, that's so sketchy but the simp fans will pretend it's normal.

Egarran
September 28th 2022
33903 Comments


I have a very controversial opinion about this

Sabrutin
September 28th 2022
9659 Comments


Sprinkles

PickleVai17
September 28th 2022
181 Comments


Sounds like a normal dude who was with a piece of shit woman to me. Typical in today's society to blow this out of proportion though. I know nothing about this band, but no label should drop an entire band because of something stupid like this.

TheSpirit
Emeritus
September 28th 2022
30304 Comments


“For a label such as CM to drop a band based on rumors and allegations is simply a bridge too far. It's scary.”

C’mon now. They didn’t drop him because of “rumors and allegations” they dropped them because of an immense public outcry from people whose money they want. It’s not like CM was aware of the situation when they had initially signed them. It was a bad money and PR decision, so they let them go.

el_newg
September 28th 2022
2075 Comments


there's no way Century Media hadn't heard of the abuse before signing the band. this has been public knowledge about DiSanto for like 3 years

DePlazz
September 28th 2022
4486 Comments


"They didn’t drop him because of “rumors and allegations” they dropped them because of an immense public outcry from people whose money they want."
Immense public outcry? If you take a look at the amount of positive response on Vektor's FB post on this, CM should be missing out on a lot of people's money, so poor marketing decision lol.

ramon.
September 28th 2022
4184 Comments


excited to see what sputnik music . com's premiere detectives, psychoanalysts, and sanctioned oracles are able to divine from this personal affair that doesn't concern them

Devastator
September 28th 2022
4398 Comments


"If you take a look at the amount of positive response on Vektor's FB post on this, CM should be missing out on a lot of people's money, so poor marketing decision lol."

Ahh yes Facebook, the central hub for unbiased opinions.

botb
September 28th 2022
17806 Comments


This dude looks like David schwimmer in a wig on meth

Slex
September 28th 2022
16545 Comments


Goddammit Sprinkles!!!

Gameofmetal
Emeritus
September 28th 2022
11569 Comments


Anyone that buys this bullshit explanation is a chump.

Same guys that will dismiss the original statement, video, restraining order, multiple bandmates dumping his ass will somehow instantly believe this one statement uncritically. Make it make sense.

MarsKid
Emeritus
September 28th 2022
21030 Comments


really we just need a statement from the dog tbh

DePlazz
September 28th 2022
4486 Comments


YT comment: "If I was that dog I wouldn't want to be that close to DiSanto AND pillows."

Devastator
September 28th 2022
4398 Comments


@Mars 60 minutes got the exclusive tell all interview.

Frost15
September 28th 2022
2815 Comments


"I have a very controversial opinion about this" I always have controversial opinions hehe, but yeah, me too

s8n
September 28th 2022
13 Comments


ok but can we talk about how he was (allegedly) going to leave dog poop on the stairs all night???

Frost15
September 28th 2022
2815 Comments


"ok but can we talk about how he was (allegedly) going to leave dog poop on the stairs all night???"
Honestly he looks like the kind of guy who smokes weed every night (and god knows what else..) and would feel that's not such a big deal.
Many such cases...
I can absolutely picture him saying "chill babe, tomorrow I'll mop the dog's feces" with em stoned eyes...

mkmusic1995
Contributing Reviewer
September 28th 2022
1734 Comments


Weed is a hellavu drug

Panzerchrist
September 28th 2022
730 Comments


Even if you just wanted to go by the musical merit, the single they released directly after everyone bailed and their larger fanbase stopped giving a shit was just midtempo adult contemporary tech-thrash-lite and it seems like DiSanto can't even do those wild vocals anymore, so really what does any of this matter?

TheManMachine
September 28th 2022
307 Comments


I’d like to hear Sprinkles’ side

vermillionZ
September 28th 2022
397 Comments


Shortly after rejoining, Erik posted a statement on facebook that made it sound like what David is saying could be true.

"(...)I think David is being treated very horribly for things I know did not happen, and it saddens me knowing what he's going through. We'll never fully know what happens behind closed doors, but I choose to believe in my friend of 16 years rather than someone so toxic that they would fabricate stories like these. He is a decent person who happened to get sucked into the most toxic relationship I've ever seen. I witnessed their marriage fall apart for years, and watched my friend stay with someone that was mentally abusing and torturing him. (...)"

DungeonBoy
September 28th 2022
9696 Comments


I think we are all just happy to see that Sprinkles is doing okay

Kusangii
September 28th 2022
6380 Comments


Lesson learned: never get a dog or they'll ruin your career

YoYoMancuso
Staff Reviewer
September 28th 2022
18858 Comments


gonna be some great discussion about this here on sputnik music dot com

DePlazz
September 28th 2022
4486 Comments


Sprinkles, Sprinkles, little star

SomeCallMeTim
September 28th 2022
4088 Comments


I always see more comments saying 'i bet there will be constructive conversation! / this will be a dumpster fire' in these types of threads than actual dumpster fire comments

starboystargirl
September 28th 2022
687 Comments


so it was dog poop all along!!!

pjquinones747
September 28th 2022
4240 Comments


This story has reached the ever-impassable grey area of he-said-she-said bullshit that never ceases to frustrate me. I'll listen to a "cancelled" band and not give a shit but I tend to draw the line at merch for bands like that. It sucks in this scenario because Vektor is the type of band I would absolutely be getting merch from especially since I know their new drummer but since it's up in the air idk.

Nobody has a solid way of verifying truth from either party but Vektor has managed to book locally in Arizona and a whole European tour so they might be able to continue regardless. Either way I'm gonna hold my breath until I see them with some notable U.S. acts.

DungeonBoy
September 28th 2022
9696 Comments


These threads CAN be dumpster fires, but this has been discussed ad-naseum in the Terminal Redux review thread. Even with DiSanto recounting his side of the story, people are still thinking.. yeah right pillow man.

MonumentsOfParalysis
September 28th 2022
844 Comments


From dogshit drama to dogshit new song

Egarran
September 28th 2022
33903 Comments


> never ceases to frustrate me

I recommend a healthy dose of shrooms

SomeCallMeTim
September 28th 2022
4088 Comments


"Even with DiSanto recounting his side of the story, people are still thinking.. yeah right pillow man."

Idk, everyone in those youtube comments are standing by him..

el_newg
September 28th 2022
2075 Comments


does "his side of the story" really tell us anything we didn't already know? he still was being a piece of shit to his wife. and so many comments on here making it seem like it all started with a lil dog poop. obv I have no proof but can pretty confidently guess these two had been abusive (verbally or otherwise) towards each other beforehand.

ConcubinaryCode
September 28th 2022
7542 Comments


It's the Depp v Heard drama all over again.

Voivod
Staff Reviewer
September 28th 2022
10710 Comments


This band is so overrated.

Frost15
September 28th 2022
2815 Comments


"This band is so overrated" c'mon man! They are pretty good!

BAT
September 28th 2022
1789 Comments


dude saw the depp trial and went 'dogshit! that's how i'll win them back over'

but seriously, never got into vektor but remember the '2019 drama' and felt like everyone moved onto another topic within a week. people fuck up, it is what it is. for better or worse :at least he's not projared.

SomeCallMeTim
September 28th 2022
4088 Comments


now I see the dumpster fire potential lol

AlexKzillion
September 28th 2022
17152 Comments


dude's house prob smells like a dumpster fire if his reaction to his dog shitting on the stairs is "ahhhhh i'll clean it up in the morning"

DadKungFu
Staff Reviewer
September 28th 2022
4740 Comments


https://twitter.com/reactjpg/status/1457254031089303554?lang=en

SomeCallMeTim
September 28th 2022
4088 Comments


yeah it tells a lot about a person if their pet isn't house-broken.

And if they abuse their partner but ye

XingKing
September 28th 2022
16149 Comments


He's so sorry that he had to read the apology off a screen

DadKungFu
Staff Reviewer
September 28th 2022
4740 Comments


To be fair, it would probably be difficult to recount the night you and your wife beat the shit out of each other over a tiny dog shitting on the floor without relying on a script

Jmal00
September 28th 2022
35 Comments


Join the thrash discord to discuss further
https://discord.gg/Jd7kMaCjuE

Frost15
September 28th 2022
2815 Comments


"To be fair, it would probably be difficult to recount the night you and your wife beat the shit out of each other over a tiny dog shitting on the floor without relying on a script"

Rofl true haha. Tbh I think both were probably potheads and drunkards. It smells like a pretty toxic relationship.

Sinternet
Contributing Reviewer
September 28th 2022
26572 Comments


i cant imagine a worst place on the internet

Frost15
September 28th 2022
2815 Comments


"i cant imagine a worst place on the internet"
Then you have barely surfed the web my friend

Gibleson
September 28th 2022
123 Comments


That sounds like a load of dogshit to me.

Anthracks
September 29th 2022
8012 Comments


If he wasn’t even charged with anything why are we even still talking about this?

Detective Dan
September 29th 2022
261 Comments


This dude pushed his wife onto a bed and threw a pillow at her. A monster like that doesn't deserve redemption.

conesmoke
September 29th 2022
7875 Comments


"Anyone that buys this bullshit explanation is a chump"

Provide some evidence then you whiney little piece of canine fecal dog smush

conesmoke
September 29th 2022
7875 Comments


Emeritus, more like douche meritus

AlexKzillion
September 29th 2022
17152 Comments


hear that noise??

that's my popcorn in the microwave

GoodNeighbour
September 29th 2022
93 Comments


Hmmmm

Asdfp277
September 29th 2022
24289 Comments


this is referring to the pillow throwing incident? .-.

SitarHero
September 29th 2022
14702 Comments


"This dude pushed his wife onto a bed and threw a pillow at her. A monster like that doesn't deserve redemption."

I chuckled.

zaruyache
September 29th 2022
27381 Comments


Immense public outcry? If you take a look at the amount of positive response on Vektor's FB post on this, CM should be missing out on a lot of people's money, so poor marketing decision lol.

there are more general metal fans than there are vektor fanboys on facebook. this is simply an optics issue and a logical business decision.

sonictheplumber
September 29th 2022
17533 Comments


I always forget I met this dude and his wife years ago lol

migueldemolina
September 29th 2022
39 Comments


This whole situation looked like a total shitshow from the beginning and at this point i couldnt care less what happens in their personal lives, just give me more of dem eagle shrieks and guitar solos

Flugmorph
September 29th 2022
34096 Comments


#BelieveAllMen

Jasdevi087
September 29th 2022
8124 Comments


don't recall asking for an update

DadKungFu
Staff Reviewer
September 29th 2022
4740 Comments


It is weird how one shitty domestic fight is such a public spectacle nowadays.

Gameofmetal
Emeritus
September 29th 2022
11569 Comments


chumpsmoke

The brains of you fucking dimwits that immediately trust in a comical three year late explanation that blatantly ignores half the accusations should be dissected by scientists, you're truly a special kind of abominable stupidity.

Egarran
September 29th 2022
33903 Comments


lol

SomeCallMeTim
September 29th 2022
4088 Comments


"It is weird how one shitty domestic fight is such a public spectacle nowadays."

p sure this was well beyond one incident, he just addresses the one really in his uPdAtE

Detective Dan
September 29th 2022
261 Comments


Nope, it was just that one incident. Internet white knights have managed to turn it into a bigger and bigger deal every iteration instead of just recognizing for what it was, two shitty people in a toxic relationship having a domestic squabble. Aka every single artist you've ever loved.

Jasdevi087
September 29th 2022
8124 Comments


oh word?

Flugmorph
September 29th 2022
34096 Comments


gotta trust a detective on this one

zaruyache
September 29th 2022
27381 Comments


sorry dan detectives are cops and all cops are liars

SitarHero
September 30th 2022
14702 Comments


Ever hear of a private detective?

MetalMarcJK
September 30th 2022
1003 Comments


Cosmic trems of dick

Asdfp277
September 30th 2022
24289 Comments


thats a different band

zaruyache
September 30th 2022
27381 Comments


private dicks are usually former cops you can't fool me

SIMBOLIC
September 30th 2022
6731 Comments


Maybe this guy is a piece of shit, but it’s genuinely sad to see how most just gloss over his allegations of her abusing him. Genuinely what’s a guy to do if his girl is abusing? If he makes claims she can just claim he hit her and the guy is fucked. Or you let it build up and eventually lash out. Either way as a guy you’re fucked. Or maybe he’s just an abusing manipulative asshole. Either or.

el_newg
September 30th 2022
2075 Comments


what a horrible take

Sevengill
September 30th 2022
11989 Comments


if you're a good dude who's being abused, SOMEBODY will have something good to say about you. almost everyone has left him because they've all probably had the same experience.

DePlazz
September 30th 2022
4486 Comments


^yeah no, not almost everyone has left him. Look over at the yt comment section for some alternative facts lol.
Seeing these guys in 3 weeks, looking forward to the music.

Asdfp277
September 30th 2022
24289 Comments


sevengill was probably referring to almost all members of the band leaving

el_newg
September 30th 2022
2075 Comments


ah yes the youtube comments, where people really know him personally

Orb
September 30th 2022
9343 Comments


Bandmates dipping out how they did is sus for sure, but as a lad who's been abused by a girlfriend in the past, I feel where he's coming from sure. It sucks being a man suffering from abuse at the hands of a woman in this world. Every moment you're in it, walking on eggshells and trying to be perfect out of fear, as you find yourself asking how it could all be painted to make you look like the perpetrator of the issue in the eyes of the world, and many abusive women know this and weaponize it too. If the guy is a POS, so be it. If he is in fact a victim of domestic abuse and ended up being a little fucked up from it, my heart goes out to him. I got out of my situation rather unscathed spiritually thanks to a good support network and a predisposition to emotional awareness, but not everyone gets those gifts. I hope whatever road to healing he needs, he finds - and us as the general public would be wise to reserve our judgements of a situation that isn't any of our business. People are complicated and so are their relationships. If you're empathetic, move along and don't fan the flames here. We don't know the whole picture and speculation is useless at best and unfairly damning at worst.

Frost15
September 30th 2022
2815 Comments


Absolutely on point comment Orb. It's absolutely soul breaking to be a guy abused by a woman in this world. Thanks for sharing your story.

evilford
September 30th 2022
64150 Comments


Couldn't care less about either side of this. Maybe that makes me a bad person but i'm not in a position to affect the outcome of this for any party. I've been given the gift of being unburdened personally by a shitty situation and im gonna take advantage of that gift.

evilford
September 30th 2022
64150 Comments


Maybe that makes me privileged?

Orb
September 30th 2022
9343 Comments


Maybe privileged but not in the negatively connotated way the American hivemind has wrought the word. I mean, I'm now polyamorous and have two amazing partners that make my world the most amazing place to be. Is that privilage? I'd wager no, because I built my life from the ground up after being somewhere very dark. I'm both unburdened and truly fulfilled at this point in my life so I get where you're coming from though. I'm not losing sleep over this lad's plight - I got enough on my hands and don't know the shape of this man's character in any way. I have a good life now, and all I had to do was take full responsibility for my own life and happiness instead of hitching those hopes onto the wagons of others.

@Frost - cheers m8

evilford
September 30th 2022
64150 Comments


Agreed

DePlazz
September 30th 2022
4486 Comments


@Orb m/

DePlazz
September 30th 2022
4486 Comments


"ah yes the youtube comments, where people really know him personally"
Well maybe his own sister knows him personally.
Then there's Erik Nelson, the band member that didn't leave him. He gave a clear statement on this.

Asdfp277
September 30th 2022
24289 Comments


@orb i don't know u but wishing u well & good on u for surviving an abusive relationship !

Flugmorph
September 30th 2022
34096 Comments


bootstraps

Egarran
September 30th 2022
33903 Comments


> If you're empathetic, move along and don't fan the flames here. We don't know the whole picture and speculation is useless at best and unfairly damning at worst.

Can we have this under every news story please?

Flugmorph
September 30th 2022
34096 Comments


agreed

combustion07
October 1st 2022
12822 Comments


Couldn't have said it any better myself Orb! And from someone who's been through something eeriely similar to what you speak of I tend to steer clear of these kinds of threads completely but it's nice to see someone dropping some realness in here and possibly making some in this thread hopefully put a little more thought into what they put out there



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