So *allegedly* no continued legal battles and no charges of any kind. Just the old... allegations?
Now if some third party could just double-check and confirm this so we can all move on instead of indulging in letting social media shitstorms decide on people's reputations and careers. For a label such as CM to drop a band based on rumors and allegations is simply a bridge too far. It's scary.
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Hmmm.
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Mmmm yeah I don't know if buy this. You'd think a label like Century Media would have the capability to do a thorough enough investigation (besides, not like they haven't signed any POS dudes before). Also I'm just naturally suspicious of any frontman where 3/4 of the band dips overnight over "disagreements"...
The most recent song they put out sucked also so who cares about them anyway
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guaranteed
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Half his bandmates jumping ship on him are pretty damning to me tbh, don't really think this story is that convincing. Just blame shifting and not acknowledging the accusations of previous abuse.
Anyways there's a few labels who won't give a fuck that will sign them so I'm sure they'll be fine. Agonia is always waiting in the wings with the pedo nazi band.
You for real never see a dude's bandmates dump him on some shit that isn't true, that's so sketchy but the simp fans will pretend it's normal.
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I have a very controversial opinion about this
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Sprinkles
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Sounds like a normal dude who was with a piece of shit woman to me. Typical in today's society to blow this out of proportion though. I know nothing about this band, but no label should drop an entire band because of something stupid like this.
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“For a label such as CM to drop a band based on rumors and allegations is simply a bridge too far. It's scary.”
C’mon now. They didn’t drop him because of “rumors and allegations” they dropped them because of an immense public outcry from people whose money they want. It’s not like CM was aware of the situation when they had initially signed them. It was a bad money and PR decision, so they let them go.
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there's no way Century Media hadn't heard of the abuse before signing the band. this has been public knowledge about DiSanto for like 3 years
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"They didn’t drop him because of “rumors and allegations” they dropped them because of an immense public outcry from people whose money they want."
Immense public outcry? If you take a look at the amount of positive response on Vektor's FB post on this, CM should be missing out on a lot of people's money, so poor marketing decision lol.
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excited to see what sputnik music . com's premiere detectives, psychoanalysts, and sanctioned oracles are able to divine from this personal affair that doesn't concern them
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"If you take a look at the amount of positive response on Vektor's FB post on this, CM should be missing out on a lot of people's money, so poor marketing decision lol."
Ahh yes Facebook, the central hub for unbiased opinions.
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This dude looks like David schwimmer in a wig on meth
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Goddammit Sprinkles!!!
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Anyone that buys this bullshit explanation is a chump.
Same guys that will dismiss the original statement, video, restraining order, multiple bandmates dumping his ass will somehow instantly believe this one statement uncritically. Make it make sense.
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really we just need a statement from the dog tbh
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YT comment: "If I was that dog I wouldn't want to be that close to DiSanto AND pillows."
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@Mars 60 minutes got the exclusive tell all interview.
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"I have a very controversial opinion about this" I always have controversial opinions hehe, but yeah, me too
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ok but can we talk about how he was (allegedly) going to leave dog poop on the stairs all night???
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"ok but can we talk about how he was (allegedly) going to leave dog poop on the stairs all night???"
Honestly he looks like the kind of guy who smokes weed every night (and god knows what else..) and would feel that's not such a big deal.
Many such cases...
I can absolutely picture him saying "chill babe, tomorrow I'll mop the dog's feces" with em stoned eyes...
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Weed is a hellavu drug
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Even if you just wanted to go by the musical merit, the single they released directly after everyone bailed and their larger fanbase stopped giving a shit was just midtempo adult contemporary tech-thrash-lite and it seems like DiSanto can't even do those wild vocals anymore, so really what does any of this matter?
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I’d like to hear Sprinkles’ side
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Shortly after rejoining, Erik posted a statement on facebook that made it sound like what David is saying could be true.
"(...)I think David is being treated very horribly for things I know did not happen, and it saddens me knowing what he's going through. We'll never fully know what happens behind closed doors, but I choose to believe in my friend of 16 years rather than someone so toxic that they would fabricate stories like these. He is a decent person who happened to get sucked into the most toxic relationship I've ever seen. I witnessed their marriage fall apart for years, and watched my friend stay with someone that was mentally abusing and torturing him. (...)"
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I think we are all just happy to see that Sprinkles is doing okay
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Lesson learned: never get a dog or they'll ruin your career
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gonna be some great discussion about this here on sputnik music dot com
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Sprinkles, Sprinkles, little star
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I always see more comments saying 'i bet there will be constructive conversation! / this will be a dumpster fire' in these types of threads than actual dumpster fire comments
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so it was dog poop all along!!!
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This story has reached the ever-impassable grey area of he-said-she-said bullshit that never ceases to frustrate me. I'll listen to a "cancelled" band and not give a shit but I tend to draw the line at merch for bands like that. It sucks in this scenario because Vektor is the type of band I would absolutely be getting merch from especially since I know their new drummer but since it's up in the air idk.
Nobody has a solid way of verifying truth from either party but Vektor has managed to book locally in Arizona and a whole European tour so they might be able to continue regardless. Either way I'm gonna hold my breath until I see them with some notable U.S. acts.
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These threads CAN be dumpster fires, but this has been discussed ad-naseum in the Terminal Redux review thread. Even with DiSanto recounting his side of the story, people are still thinking.. yeah right pillow man.
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From dogshit drama to dogshit new song
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> never ceases to frustrate me
I recommend a healthy dose of shrooms
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"Even with DiSanto recounting his side of the story, people are still thinking.. yeah right pillow man."
Idk, everyone in those youtube comments are standing by him..
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does "his side of the story" really tell us anything we didn't already know? he still was being a piece of shit to his wife. and so many comments on here making it seem like it all started with a lil dog poop. obv I have no proof but can pretty confidently guess these two had been abusive (verbally or otherwise) towards each other beforehand.
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It's the Depp v Heard drama all over again.
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This band is so overrated.
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"This band is so overrated" c'mon man! They are pretty good!
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dude saw the depp trial and went 'dogshit! that's how i'll win them back over'
but seriously, never got into vektor but remember the '2019 drama' and felt like everyone moved onto another topic within a week. people fuck up, it is what it is. for better or worse :at least he's not projared.
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now I see the dumpster fire potential lol
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dude's house prob smells like a dumpster fire if his reaction to his dog shitting on the stairs is "ahhhhh i'll clean it up in the morning"
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https://twitter.com/reactjpg/status/1457254031089303554?lang=en
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yeah it tells a lot about a person if their pet isn't house-broken.
And if they abuse their partner but ye
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He's so sorry that he had to read the apology off a screen
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To be fair, it would probably be difficult to recount the night you and your wife beat the shit out of each other over a tiny dog shitting on the floor without relying on a script
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Join the thrash discord to discuss further
https://discord.gg/Jd7kMaCjuE
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"To be fair, it would probably be difficult to recount the night you and your wife beat the shit out of each other over a tiny dog shitting on the floor without relying on a script"
Rofl true haha. Tbh I think both were probably potheads and drunkards. It smells like a pretty toxic relationship.
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i cant imagine a worst place on the internet
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"i cant imagine a worst place on the internet"
Then you have barely surfed the web my friend
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That sounds like a load of dogshit to me.
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If he wasn’t even charged with anything why are we even still talking about this?
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This dude pushed his wife onto a bed and threw a pillow at her. A monster like that doesn't deserve redemption.
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"Anyone that buys this bullshit explanation is a chump"
Provide some evidence then you whiney little piece of canine fecal dog smush
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Emeritus, more like douche meritus
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hear that noise??
that's my popcorn in the microwave
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Hmmmm
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this is referring to the pillow throwing incident? .-.
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"This dude pushed his wife onto a bed and threw a pillow at her. A monster like that doesn't deserve redemption."
I chuckled.
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Immense public outcry? If you take a look at the amount of positive response on Vektor's FB post on this, CM should be missing out on a lot of people's money, so poor marketing decision lol.
there are more general metal fans than there are vektor fanboys on facebook. this is simply an optics issue and a logical business decision.
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I always forget I met this dude and his wife years ago lol
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This whole situation looked like a total shitshow from the beginning and at this point i couldnt care less what happens in their personal lives, just give me more of dem eagle shrieks and guitar solos
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#BelieveAllMen
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don't recall asking for an update
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It is weird how one shitty domestic fight is such a public spectacle nowadays.
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chumpsmoke
The brains of you fucking dimwits that immediately trust in a comical three year late explanation that blatantly ignores half the accusations should be dissected by scientists, you're truly a special kind of abominable stupidity.
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lol
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"It is weird how one shitty domestic fight is such a public spectacle nowadays."
p sure this was well beyond one incident, he just addresses the one really in his uPdAtE
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Nope, it was just that one incident. Internet white knights have managed to turn it into a bigger and bigger deal every iteration instead of just recognizing for what it was, two shitty people in a toxic relationship having a domestic squabble. Aka every single artist you've ever loved.
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oh word?
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gotta trust a detective on this one
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sorry dan detectives are cops and all cops are liars
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Ever hear of a private detective?
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Cosmic trems of dick
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thats a different band
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private dicks are usually former cops you can't fool me
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Maybe this guy is a piece of shit, but it’s genuinely sad to see how most just gloss over his allegations of her abusing him. Genuinely what’s a guy to do if his girl is abusing? If he makes claims she can just claim he hit her and the guy is fucked. Or you let it build up and eventually lash out. Either way as a guy you’re fucked. Or maybe he’s just an abusing manipulative asshole. Either or.
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what a horrible take
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if you're a good dude who's being abused, SOMEBODY will have something good to say about you. almost everyone has left him because they've all probably had the same experience.
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^yeah no, not almost everyone has left him. Look over at the yt comment section for some alternative facts lol.
Seeing these guys in 3 weeks, looking forward to the music.
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sevengill was probably referring to almost all members of the band leaving
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ah yes the youtube comments, where people really know him personally
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Bandmates dipping out how they did is sus for sure, but as a lad who's been abused by a girlfriend in the past, I feel where he's coming from sure. It sucks being a man suffering from abuse at the hands of a woman in this world. Every moment you're in it, walking on eggshells and trying to be perfect out of fear, as you find yourself asking how it could all be painted to make you look like the perpetrator of the issue in the eyes of the world, and many abusive women know this and weaponize it too. If the guy is a POS, so be it. If he is in fact a victim of domestic abuse and ended up being a little fucked up from it, my heart goes out to him. I got out of my situation rather unscathed spiritually thanks to a good support network and a predisposition to emotional awareness, but not everyone gets those gifts. I hope whatever road to healing he needs, he finds - and us as the general public would be wise to reserve our judgements of a situation that isn't any of our business. People are complicated and so are their relationships. If you're empathetic, move along and don't fan the flames here. We don't know the whole picture and speculation is useless at best and unfairly damning at worst.
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Absolutely on point comment Orb. It's absolutely soul breaking to be a guy abused by a woman in this world. Thanks for sharing your story.
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Couldn't care less about either side of this. Maybe that makes me a bad person but i'm not in a position to affect the outcome of this for any party. I've been given the gift of being unburdened personally by a shitty situation and im gonna take advantage of that gift.
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Maybe that makes me privileged?
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Maybe privileged but not in the negatively connotated way the American hivemind has wrought the word. I mean, I'm now polyamorous and have two amazing partners that make my world the most amazing place to be. Is that privilage? I'd wager no, because I built my life from the ground up after being somewhere very dark. I'm both unburdened and truly fulfilled at this point in my life so I get where you're coming from though. I'm not losing sleep over this lad's plight - I got enough on my hands and don't know the shape of this man's character in any way. I have a good life now, and all I had to do was take full responsibility for my own life and happiness instead of hitching those hopes onto the wagons of others.
@Frost - cheers m8
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Agreed
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@Orb m/
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"ah yes the youtube comments, where people really know him personally"
Well maybe his own sister knows him personally.
Then there's Erik Nelson, the band member that didn't leave him. He gave a clear statement on this.
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@orb i don't know u but wishing u well & good on u for surviving an abusive relationship !
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bootstraps
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> If you're empathetic, move along and don't fan the flames here. We don't know the whole picture and speculation is useless at best and unfairly damning at worst.
Can we have this under every news story please?
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agreed
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Couldn't have said it any better myself Orb! And from someone who's been through something eeriely similar to what you speak of I tend to steer clear of these kinds of threads completely but it's nice to see someone dropping some realness in here and possibly making some in this thread hopefully put a little more thought into what they put out there
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