As I Lay Dying discuss reunion

2018-06-17 by Eldar777 | 83 Comments
Recently reunited American metalcore band As I Lay Dying have released a heartfelt tear-shedding 30-minute video on their YouTube page explaining their decision to gather in classic line-up despite all the tensions and the resentment between the members after Tim Lambesis, the frontman of the band, tried to hire a hitman, who turned out to be an undercover detective, to kill his estranged wife.

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DamnVanne
June 17th 2018
3506 Comments


The most unmetal thing I’ve ever skimmed apathetically

Keyblade
June 17th 2018
30678 Comments


a bunch of grown ass dudes crying about being able to play mrtalcore with each other again

Feather
June 17th 2018
10108 Comments


uhhh

Storm In A Teacup
June 17th 2018
45703 Comments


No thanks still not interested

impoppy
June 17th 2018
2250 Comments


Seriously Darius. These guys are crying about their best friend committing a serious crime and being emotional over dealing with the interpersonal chaos that came with it? And people wanna talk about how metal that is or isn't? Lmao. I know guys are scared of emotions but Jesus Christ man...

heck
June 17th 2018
7093 Comments


y'all are pieces of shit and probably sociopaths

NonApplicable
June 17th 2018
3017 Comments


I get Sputnik posters always think they're hard and kvlt but this is some real shit. I found the whole discussion really raw and human. To see every member really speak their mind and not shy away from how Tim's hateful actions affected them on a emotional, creative, and even medical level was powerful. Nick's section was particularly potent.

I expected the band to give a relatively wrote and cliched statement about this whole mess. What we got instead was much more mature and open. I still have big reservations about Tim's ex-wife & kids part in all of this, but props to the band for leading on the right foot.

bloc
June 17th 2018
70024 Comments


I was only able to skim through it, but I think this is a good move by the band from a PR perspective. Obviously the benefits of internal damage control are implied.

vermillionZ
June 18th 2018
397 Comments


It's beyond me how anyone can still support and defend this guy.
You don't try to get your wife killed by a hitman because out of a mood or because of drugs, you do so because you are a ruthless psychopath with no empathy which is something that can't be fixed.

Also a couple of years ago the other bandmembers said they want nothing to do with this dude anymore, stating that he ruined their lives and all, now this.

Guess they ran out of... $omething.

kris.
June 18th 2018
15504 Comments


yeah, this was a good, healthy discussion to have. i don't know how the other guys could ever face him again after what he did to his wife and kids and them, but it's nice to see them kinda air out everything and unload, especially nick. i mean my goodness.

heck
June 18th 2018
7093 Comments


"It's beyond me how anyone can still support and defend this guy.
You don't try to get your wife killed by a hitman because out of a mood or because of drugs, you do so because you are a ruthless psychopath with no empathy which is something that can't be fixed.

Also a couple of years ago the other bandmembers said they want nothing to do with this dude anymore, stating that he ruined their lives and all, now this.

Guess they ran out of... $omething."

watch the video. they address every single thing you just said.

NonApplicable
June 18th 2018
3017 Comments


Yup Vermillion watch the video. Don't be like every other person on the internet and post based off an article title.

Deathconscious
June 18th 2018
27347 Comments


I have sympathy for the rest of the band. Tim doesnt have me convinced, but i hope theyre right about his change of character. Id hate to see them get fucked over again after such a rocky period.

bloc
June 18th 2018
70024 Comments


Honestly I feel like the new album is gonna rip hard

SCREAM!
June 18th 2018
15755 Comments


Just started the video and my initial thoughts are HOLY FUCK THAT BEARD THO

calmrose
June 18th 2018
6782 Comments


^lol yep, same here

bloc
June 18th 2018
70024 Comments


Dude's been growing it ever since the initial call to the hitman

XingKing
June 18th 2018
16149 Comments


This is a really heavy video, particularly Nick's portion

Deathconscious
June 18th 2018
27347 Comments


@doctuses how old are you?

BlackMalachite
June 18th 2018
3711 Comments


This honestly seemed genuine to me. Tim really cannot be forgiven for his actions, but at the same time the band wants to connect again and make music which is something to be commended if he truly wants to change his ways

someguest
June 18th 2018
30126 Comments


shots not fired

henryChinaski
June 18th 2018
5015 Comments


Interested to hear this, will check out later.

JayEnder
June 18th 2018
19781 Comments


Damn Nick looks like he needs rest.

JayEnder
June 18th 2018
19781 Comments


Also shit thread wow

heyadam
June 18th 2018
4395 Comments


Nick really does seem like one of the most genuine dudes in the scene. I dunno if playing music together is the greatest idea, but it does seem like it’s not all about publicity and making money.

cloakanddagger
June 18th 2018
730 Comments


This vid has me more hopeful about this reunion. It seems like everyone in the band genuinely wants to set things right. At the end of the day only time will tell how genuine Tim is about changing for the better, but I hope things go well for them.

KevinKC
June 18th 2018
1254 Comments


@Vermilion "It's beyond me how anyone can still support and defend this guy.
You don't try to get your wife killed by a hitman because out of a mood or because of drugs, you do so because you are a ruthless psychopath with no empathy which is something that can't be fixed."

I don't know about Lambesis, I didn't watch the video and won't. But Your statement is wrong, naive and a bit presomptuous. I'm sure that like many of us, you've already been on the verge of killing your neighbour because they were mowing their lawn at unspeakable hours, think for a minute of your wife cheating on you with the most despisable guy possible, leaving you and taking your kids, who are now going to be raised by the douchebag, and asking for your money for the kids, that she won't spend on them. I'm not talking about Lambesis here, i'm just giving you an example in which, wanting to kill someone doesn't proove that you're a ruthless psychopath with no empathy but on the contrary, what brings you there is to be a well-balanced person who cares and values love, feelings and emotions, trust, what is right, respect etc..
Once I met a guy who had wanted a child all his life and was very depressed that he never found a woman to have one with him. He was in his fourties. Thank to the internet, suddenly he found one. Their couple wasn't very convincing but well, they had the child. And she moved to the south of the country without warning him to live with her parents. When he tried to get his daughter back legally, she accused him of beating her. He saw his baby once. And while he was fighting legally to get the right to just be a father to his daughter, he kid was growing her up and taught that her dad was useless. etc... it's easy to give someone the desire to kill.

Trebor.
Emeritus
June 18th 2018
59838 Comments


"When your lead singer goes to prison but you still put an album out 2 decades earlier than TOOL"

heck
June 18th 2018
7093 Comments


there's a lot of people who are truly just ruthless psychos, but desperate and emotionally damaged people in really low places can make really poor choices with tragic consequences. if someone shows genuine remorse and proves that they've changed over a long period of time, I don't believe they should be written off completely.

Sharkattack
June 18th 2018
1731 Comments


Someone check on Kevin before it’s too late

Kascade
June 18th 2018
119 Comments


Haha I remember going to Hastings and seeing this band's albums having a used or returned sticker on them. A lot of people apparently got butt-hurt over what Tim did like honestly wtf. What he did is fucking childs play, its not like he took matters into his own hands.

Deathconscious
June 18th 2018
27347 Comments


lol yeah like whats the big deal??

BlackwaterPork
June 18th 2018
4390 Comments


This thread is the embodiment of AIDS

InFlamesWeThrash666
June 18th 2018
10557 Comments


Here's some live footage from their concert: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jNEYJzEMqTY

Deathconscious
June 18th 2018
27347 Comments


Tim definitely sounds out of practice there.

InFlamesWeThrash666
June 18th 2018
10557 Comments


"Haha I remember going to Hastings and seeing this band's albums having a used or returned sticker on them. A lot of people apparently got butt-hurt over what Tim did like honestly wtf. What he did is fucking childs play, its not like he took matters into his own hands."

Also,wtf is this comment

cloakanddagger
June 18th 2018
730 Comments


"What he did is fucking childs play, its not like he took matters into his own hands."
Dude wtf.

BlackwaterPork
June 18th 2018
4390 Comments


Wow the user who posted that stupid comment was Kascade, what a surprise

BlackwaterPork
June 18th 2018
4390 Comments


Your comments are as stupid and thoughtless as your reviews

vermillionZ
June 18th 2018
397 Comments


Kevin No, I genuinely never actually considered to kill anybody for real, that's not normal you should go seek help lol.
You become a psychopath once you don't just think about it but actually try to hire a fucking hitman.

artiswar
June 18th 2018
13329 Comments


I remember when I murdered MY wife, I did it with my own hands LIKE A MAN. lmao what a keyboard warrior

InFlamesWeThrash666
June 18th 2018
10557 Comments


" I genuinely never actually considered to kill anybody for real, that's not normal you should go seek help lol."

There's a huge distance between thinking about something and actually doing it though.

Sharkattack
June 18th 2018
1731 Comments


There’s a big difference between thinking about something and paying somebody to do it though

InFlamesWeThrash666
June 18th 2018
10557 Comments


True but we didn't talk about Tim's case specifically. Tim crossed that line and he got what he deserved (even if he should have stayed in prison for a longer time imo)

Sharkattack
June 18th 2018
1731 Comments


Oh true sorry I just skimmed right over your quote my bad.

Deathconscious
June 18th 2018
27347 Comments


Heh. This is merely childs play. *tips fedora*

0xME
June 18th 2018
1071 Comments


This actually seemed heartfelt and genuine; did not expect this starting the video

0xME
June 18th 2018
1071 Comments


vermillion, you don't "become" a psychopath by hiring a hitman or even killing someone, actual psychopaths are extremely rare.

OldCrime
June 18th 2018
432 Comments


I noticed no one actually verbalised exactly what Tim did i.e., trying to hire a Hitman to murder his wife. It was always refered to as "what Tim did". Kinda made it feel less severe. I mean, if he had succeeded as he intended a woman would be dead and there is no chance in hell we would see this lineup again.

Would these guys still feel he had really "changed"?

SCREAM!
June 18th 2018
15755 Comments


Although Ive thought about that as well, I don't see any point in that line of thought. What happened happened and it's best to leave what ifs out of it I think. We can only hope Tim also feels some sort of relief that he was never able to go through with it and it would seem the people closest to him feel that he does.

OldCrime
June 18th 2018
432 Comments


Tim went through with his part.

Devastator
June 18th 2018
4398 Comments


Everyone except Tim looks super uncomfortable to even be in the room.

deadcrown
June 18th 2018
926 Comments


I dont really care if you cry

Deathconscious
June 18th 2018
27347 Comments


"I noticed no one actually verbalised exactly what Tim did i.e., trying to hire a Hitman to murder his wife. It was always refered to as "what Tim did". Kinda made it feel less severe."

I think they didnt want to dwell on that particular thing too much considering in Tim's public apology. he said he would say nothing more on the matter out of respect for his ex wife and kids.

SCREAM!
June 18th 2018
15755 Comments


"Tim went through with his part."

He tried to but ultimately he didn't succeed

pjquinones747
June 18th 2018
4240 Comments


Wow this thread

DungeonBoy
June 18th 2018
9696 Comments


choose a side

pjquinones747
June 18th 2018
4240 Comments


When your lead singer goes to prison but you still put an album out 2 decades earlier than TOOL [2]

bloc
June 18th 2018
70024 Comments


Hiring a hitman to do the bada-bing takes class. And Tim sounded good in that live clip, seems like his growls have gone down in pitch almost to a death metal tone.

Durrzo
June 19th 2018
3276 Comments


"I noticed no one actually verbalised exactly what Tim did i.e., trying to hire a Hitman to murder his wife."

Tim's original apology stated that he would never speak about his wife or his kids publicly again, because that was her wish. I'm guessing they're just trying to avoid bringing the conversation in her direction.

"Everyone except Tim looks super uncomfortable to even be in the room."

I mean yeah, they're a bunch of men talking openly about their feelings in an extremely public way. I would be uncomfortable as fuck.

Sauce
June 19th 2018
930 Comments


can somebody give us the tl;dr bc i don't wanna spend 32 minutes on this.

bloc
June 19th 2018
70024 Comments


Ugh just watch it you lazy fuck but fine tl;dr band is trying to figure out a new way to kill Tim's wife without getting caught this time

SteakByrnes
June 19th 2018
29751 Comments


lmao

GhostB1rd
June 19th 2018
7938 Comments


Tim is planning to put titty guns on on his bra and do a drive by on her new residence.

Spec
June 19th 2018
39400 Comments


How are so many of you defending Tim? Fuck man reddit is even worse.

heck
June 19th 2018
7093 Comments


I don't see anyone actually defending what he did

GhostB1rd
June 19th 2018
7938 Comments


I was saying Boo-urns.

SCREAM!
June 19th 2018
15755 Comments


"I don't see anyone actually defending what he did"

not wanting to see him drawn and quartered is essentially the same as defending him basically

MuhNamesTyler
June 19th 2018
6707 Comments


Lol are you saying you want him drug by a horse and then cut up into 4 pieces

someguest
June 19th 2018
30126 Comments


I can't wait to see how these assholes get trolled once they start playing shows again.

Durrzo
June 19th 2018
3276 Comments


Well their first show was a massive success and half the people in the room were screaming things like "we love you Tim!"

So...

treos777
June 19th 2018
593 Comments


men who treat women like that don't deserve second chances imo

henryChinaski
June 19th 2018
5015 Comments


That was kinda lame.

Deathconscious
June 19th 2018
27347 Comments


"Well their first show was a massive success and half the people in the room were screaming things like 'we love you Tim!'"

"we forgive you!" lmao

OldCrime
June 19th 2018
432 Comments


AdolfChrist and Durrzo - ahh, that makes sense

antilaser
June 22nd 2018
13 Comments


Fuck this band and anyone that gives them money. The guy tried to have his wife killed, how is that not completely past the point of no return for you people? Just because someone makes music you like doesn't mean they're absolved of their crimes, like say for instance TRYING TO HAVE YOUR WIFE KILLED. I don't care how much these guys cry, this band shouldn't be back together, Tim should be in jail, and none of you should be supporting this.

heck
June 22nd 2018
7093 Comments


somebody didn't watch the video.

OldCrime
June 22nd 2018
432 Comments


Yeah the video cannot explain away the fact that he tried to have his wife killed. It does tell us that Tim is a self-confessed manipulator and willing to hurt those closest to him. But hey, he's had a complete personality change since being released from prison, right?

bloc
June 22nd 2018
70024 Comments


I've tried to kill my wife, haven't y'all??

Deathconscious
June 22nd 2018
27347 Comments


@antilaser lol shut the fuck up.

GhostB1rd
June 23rd 2018
7938 Comments


lol he totally should still be in jail tho

OllieS
June 23rd 2018
2280 Comments


antilaser is right. Lambesis is basically a murderer. Also get a load of the men downplaying violence against women in their defenses of him

OldCrime
June 23rd 2018
432 Comments


^^^ this



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