Gyromania
11.14.14 | thanks in advance to anyone who helps |
Atari
11.14.14 | don't even know what to say man, that's terrible : [ for what it's worth, i'm sorry you had to go through that stuff. i wouldn't mind contributing later when i'm not so broke so just remind me |
Tunaboy45
11.15.14 | Lost for words, this is simply horrible. I wish you the best and I hope everything turns out ok in the end. |
Gyromania
11.15.14 | thank you both for the kind words |
BMDrummer
11.15.14 | holy fuck man, i feel so sorry for you. i'll post that link a few places if you like, i'm a kid with no money otherwise i'd probably help |
Cygnatti
11.15.14 | ...oh my |
Gyromania
11.15.14 | BMDrummer: cheers =] |
BMDrummer
11.15.14 | posted it on my bandcamp page and the fb page |
Dancedrewdance
11.15.14 | I'm not entirely sure what we are donating for ? To get your stuff into storage or what? |
Jots
11.15.14 | his home is getting repossessed, therefore he will be homeless in a couple weeks. |
MO
11.15.14 | holy shit Gyro that's terrible bro. I can't even begin to imagine how hard this is for ya. will donate hard. condolences on everything. I guess try and just stay positive bro, I know the worthy sputers will lend a helping hand |
JustinKing
11.15.14 | Gahdamn, man. I wish I could help you financially. For right now, I'll definitely send that link to a few of my friends that would try to help with me.
However, I will say that as cliché and hollow as the phrase is at this point, there is always a light at the end of the tunnel, and that has always been a truth to me. It can take a long time, but it always comes back around to a lighter place in life. You just have to find that will to tell yourself it will pass, because it truly will. I hope that it gets better very soon, but even if it isn't immediate, I hope above all else you can keep your head straight and keep that positive thought in mind. I'm not religious at all, either, but when my grandmother died, I decided to take comfort in that her beliefs may have been answered. I hope things get better soon, and know that you can always talk to me if you want. I know I'm just a stranger on the Internet, but I'm here if you need me, man. |
TalonsOfFire
11.15.14 | Wow I'm so sorry, I would donate if I wasn't a broke college student, I'll try to share the link though |
Gyromania
11.15.14 | thank you all; the support has been tremendous =]
justinking: not sure if we've talked on here before, but you seem like a good guy and i appreciate the advice. trying to move on from all of this but it's been hard when the grieving process has to be put on hold to deal with debt =/ i'll keep what you said in mind though and thank you for sharing the link. |
ExplosiveOranges
11.15.14 | There are no words. Dude, I can't even fathom what kind of emotional trauma you've had to experience. If I had the money to, I'd donate. Hope life gets better for you soon, buddy ;( |
JustinKing
11.15.14 | That's entirely understandable, man. It's best to just deal with one thing at a time in situations like this, and just try to think logically, though it genuinely is difficult to do so. I know it's hard to balance the grieving process with things like that. Try your hardest to never let it overwhelm you. When you lose control is when things spiral. |
Rail
11.15.14 | My girlfriend just donated $40. Hope you find a way to deal with the situation, Gyro. |
Duckman118
11.15.14 | Here I am depressed out of my mind over a girl, and yet here you are who's life was just ripped out from underneath him. My problems are absolutely nothing compared to what you have to go through, and I truly hope and pray you get past this. The least I can do is donate, be strong friend.
Your past six months remind me a ton of the story from defeaters album empty days and sleepless nights. Great album, hopefully you can find some solace in new music. |
NordicMindset
11.15.14 | words cannot describe how much you have gone through. i am so sorry for your loss. i wish i could donate but seeing as i'm only 14 and don't have a credit card, i can't do much :( i spread the link to the funding page on almost every website i frequent, hoping someone out there will help you out, man. things will get better from here on out, and i wish the best for you and your sister during these hard times. |
Spec
11.15.14 | This is an absolutely terrible situation, hang in there (I know thats easier said than done). Maybe when I get paid I can throw a couple bucks your way. |
zaruyache
11.15.14 | Stay strong, brother. |
RogueNine
11.15.14 | I am literally incapable of wrapping my mind around your circumstances right now. You have my most sincere condolences and best wishes, Gyro. Sput has a strong sense of community and I'm sure we can help you out in some fashion. |
ChoccyPhilly
11.15.14 | I'm so sorry to hear about things, man. It's difficult to rack my head around it because it's unimaginable, so I wish you the best and I'll spread the link around and hopefully donate myself. |
PappyMason
11.15.14 | My deepest condolences. I can't even begin to imagine what you have gone through. I wish you the best of wishes and hope that you can stay strong and come through this challenging time.
I'll see what I can throw together and donate. |
StallionMang
11.15.14 | Unbelievably sorry to hear about this, this is devastating news. If I wasn't a penniless kid I would absolutely donate, but I'll post this link anywhere I can and hopefully bring you some support. |
SharkTooth
11.15.14 | woah, I have no words to say man, there's just so much here to take in at once. I just hope that you can keep the house for a bit longer until you know where to go next |
beachdude
11.15.14 | Incredibly sorry to hear of your losses... it's horrible that you're having to deal with repossession on top of everything else. I'm donating the little I can afford... hope you can find the light at the end of the tunnel, as corny as it sounds. Take care. |
Mongi123
11.15.14 | Man...I had no idea you were suffering like this. I'm so sorry. I recently lost my grandpa of whom I was very close to so I know loss is one of the toughest things in the world. Especially when you watch the life drain from them everyday I'd imagine. I just want to say that find solace in your friends. If your friends are good to you, they'll help you out, lift you up and not let anything happen to you. Also I'd recommend therapy in your situation. It seriously can't hurt and you'll come to terms with everything that's happened overtime. Whatever happened, happened and it sucks sometimes but life is a strange thing. I don't give a shit if this sounds corny, but as beachdude said, there's always a light at the end of the tunnel and itr may not seem like it now, but you'll find it soon. Just be happy to be alive man and carry on their legacy and make them proud. Keep your chin up my friend :) |
RoundOnEndHiInMiddle
11.16.14 | I can't even imagine how this must feel. I'd send some money if college hadn't already taken it. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers, and I wish you nothing but the best going forward. Keep your head up! |
RadicalEd
11.16.14 | oh dude that's beyond terrible. I really hope you can make it through this. If i had any money to my name right now, I'd give you some... to bad that being a student makes you poor as fuck and I need to pay my rent as well. But I didn't came here to whine about being a student. Just try to.. you know... solider on and don't let it consume you. |
Rowan5215
11.16.14 | All I can do is wish you the best of luck and hope, dude. Even at the worst of times life is always what you make of it |
Keyblade
11.16.14 | My god, dude that is awful. Hope you manage to pull through this man, my thoughts are with you and your family. |
toxin.
11.16.14 | oh my god that is just horrible. i don't even know what to say, my condolences and best wishes. |
NightProwler
11.16.14 | So sorry to read this, man. Dunno what to say except that things will get better. Donated a few bucks, hope it helps |
ShadowRemains
11.16.14 | holy hell man, that was hard to read
hopefully things improve soon and hopefully you and your family move out of this immense low, i can't imagine that many horrible things happening in such a short period of time
will try to donate when i get the chance |
ChoccyPhilly
11.16.14 | Shared this on reddit. Hopefully someone will read it and such. Hope everything works out for you, man! |
CrimsonFloyd
11.16.14 | Go to some support meetings. AA, NA or Al Anon (meeting for codependency, people who have dealt with the turmoil of drug
addicts and couldn't step back). I don't know if you use or think you are int he same boat as your parents, but any and all free
support should be welcome. I might appear throwing bullshit your way, but trust me and give it a shot.
I've suffered addiction to narcotics, primarily Dilaudid, and know how much stress your mother may have put you through. You
should really get support from people who have been through similar hardships. My condolences. |
Tunaboy45
11.16.14 | Shared this on my page by the way. |
Crysis
11.16.14 | I'm so sorry man |
letme69johndarnielle
11.16.14 | some level of happiness awaits, and it is worth fighting for.
"nothing makes any sense anymore,
but everything rhymes"
shit is still funny, shit is still meaningful, and there are things in life that are still enjoyable. Never do anything to take away from the things you enjoy, and you will be just as well off as the rest of us.
I know you can do it.
Finn |
bakkermaarten007
11.16.14 | No one should have to endure such hardship. You'll need time, I think you'll make it in time. Having read your story, you're strong, very strong. Hold on, you will prevail eventually. I'm nearly constantly broke, but I'll donate a couple of bucks, even if it's just that. I hope some rich guy reads your story and donates a whole lot more. |
Gyromania
11.17.14 | to everyone who's contributed either by sharing the link or donating i just wanted to say: thank you so much. your generosity and kind words in these shitty times are honestly tremendously helpful. i'll respond to the things people have said to me itt when i get some time. but yah, thanks. it's great to be able to talk about these things and receive as much support as i have. |
Muisc4Life26
11.17.14 | I'm so sorry bro, but if you need anyone to talk too, i'm always there. |
Aftertheascension
11.17.14 | shit.
I'm sorry man. That's all very hard to deal with. I'll give some money around Christmas if I get the opportunity. Best of luck. I'm always here if you need to talk. |
RadicalEd
11.17.14 | tbh i'm amazed by sputnik's reaction to this thread. I expected at least a few assclowns. |
Rowan5215
11.17.14 | Yeah Sputnik can be surprisingly genuine when something as touching as this comes up |
dimsim3478
11.17.14 | hey Gyro man this is crazy. i can't offer you much more than my deepest condolences, sympathies and other emotional sentiments, but here's an album to help you through the times; it's about death and staying strong and getting your life back together in the wake of tragedy.
https://thehotelyear.bandcamp.com/album/home-like-noplace-is-there |
Negator
11.17.14 | damn man I truly sympathize for all your losses and I hope you persevere through the hard times and are able to sort things out. Never forget their is a light at the end of the dark tunnel. |
JohnnyoftheWell
11.17.14 | My sincerest condolences - no-one should have to go through that, and I hope the future holds better things for you. Stay strong. |
klap
11.17.14 | will donate after work and spread the love man, hang in there |
bakkermaarten007
11.17.14 | Bump.
Just donated 5dollars, it's the lowest amount possible. It's actually not feeble for me but it's worth it, if only for us all to show we still care. |
Lord(e)Po)))ts
11.18.14 | bump, glad to see people donating. you have my best wishes matt |
Cygnatti
11.20.14 | Breaks my heart |
Mythodea
11.21.14 | I couldn't possibly expect such a touching story when I clicked on this list. It's been 7 days and it was
the first time I noticed. I want you to know that, even though I can't even imagine the way you feel, I hope
you'll be able to cope with it. Life is a hard place, I know, that's why all of us should stand together. I
want to wish you and your sister the best of luck and tell you that, in the darkest of times, their memory
will help you.
Is it necessary to have a credit card in order to donate?I haven't done this before, so I don't know the
process. Please someone tell me so I can see what I can do.
Hope everything turns out well my friend. Wish I was there to give you a hug. |
Intothepit
11.21.14 | Gyro, you and I have had our differences but that's rough bro. Condolences and best wishes. I posted this on my facebook and I'll see if I can make a donation. Good luck man. |
Gmork89
11.21.14 | Sorry to hear that bud, I lost my father to the same thing when I was 18. Hard to believe that was 7 years ago. Hang in there and don't ever be ashamed to ask for help when you need it. I'm definitely down to help out when I get a little money myself. |
deathschool
11.21.14 | I will donate some of what I can afford soon. I'm sorry to hear this, and I hope you can get through. |
climactic
11.22.14 | donated bro, keep your head up |
BigPleb
11.22.14 | This is truly awful, don't really know what to say Gyro but expect a donation from me.
Keep your head up man, you must be so strong to pull through this one. |
bach
11.22.14 | i seriously don't know what to say. i don't think i or anyone ever could say anything that could somehow ease the pain of this. i'm so sorry man. i hope you find some sort of peace in all this shit. this brought me to tears. i'll donate what i can. |
Ignimbrite
11.22.14 | Y'all are in my prayers, I can't imagine how it must be dealing with such a horrible situation. Donating hard. |
menawati
11.27.14 | sorry life's been so shit, hope things improve for you |
UnderTheNorthernScar
11.28.14 | I'll pray for you man, I can't even begin to imagine how this must feel and be for you. I'll see what I can do about donating, I want to help you as much as I possibly can. Stay strong and don't give up! |
Emim
11.28.14 | I'm so sorry to hear this, man. I can't imagine what you're going through, but just don't give up. There is always a reason to move forward and honor their memories with your life. I'll do my best to send some cash your way as well.
And if you need anyone to talk to, don't hesitate to hit me up. You'll be in my prayers, bro. |
cryptside
11.29.14 | Gyro, I'm really sorry to hear that this has happened to you. I lost my father to cancer, and then six months later my uncle. Two years before that, my grandpa passed away from cancer. That was all on my father's side. I had the ability to stop my mom from her downward spiral, but it was a 2 year ordeal that required me to financially and emotionally support her. The emotional and financial impact that all of this had on me and my loved ones was tremendous, and I know that everything is blur right now, just know that you can talk to me whenever you have an opportunity to sit down and sift through the difficult feelings that you undoubtedly have. It's an honest outstretched hand for you, and I've done a lot of living in my 26 years. It may be the best I can do, but I will also spread the link to my social media sites to see what happens. Keep your head up as well as you can, and know that many people will be here for you. |
Gyromania
11.29.14 | thank you all so much for your kind words, your donations, and helping to spread the word. this has become increasingly more difficult to deal with as time goes on, but the support has been extraordinary. to those of you who left me more personal messages: i plan on responding to you individually instead of in this thread. again, thank you so much |
Groink
11.29.14 | I'm not sure how old you are, but you're probably way too young to have all this thrown on you like this. I can't even imagine. Weaker people would probably fold, and it was very brave how you were there for your family through everything. Just try to keep a positive outlook for yourself, and keep being that rock for your remaining family members, and I promise you it will get better. Nothing can ever fill that void of the ones you lost, but the pain will lessen over time. |
Gyromania
11.29.14 | thanks for that ^ there have been days recently where i've felt like folding, but i have to try to remain strong for my sister. i've looked after her for years, helped get her through all the hard times in her life. my father wasn't there for years and my mother had her problems. i feel like i helped raise her.
ps: i'm 25 |
bakkermaarten007
12.05.14 | bump |
