Self Defense Family
Try Me


4.0
excellent

Review

by Mall USER (42 Reviews)
November 7th, 2014 | 32 replies


Release Date: 2014 | Tracklist

Review Summary: Money is why they invented sex

I haven't checked out every record in Self Defense Family's illustrious career, but 2014 is undoubtedly 'their' year. Having made a big splash with EP's such as Self Immolation Family and I'm Going Through Some ***, the collective announced their ambition to dominate post-hardcore with their unique bland of hoarse, gravelly music. Very poetic, Patrick Kindlon's lyrics have always been great but here they reach new levels of emotional disturbance, societal displacement and hopelessness in the face of those that cause his alienation.

These songs are fairly simple. Tithe Pig contains a twisting, writhing melody, with Kindlon's lyrics bellowing out aggressive, anti-establishment war cries, with lines like 'toss your phone, it's useless' and 'stay inside and keep watch with me' encouraging a sort of pacifist rebellion. But this is just one side of the multi-faceted monster that is Try Me, with each lyric encompassing the experience of an individual living an ordinary life. It might be reminiscent of a recently departed Sputnikmusic member to compare the stories here to those of La Dispute, but I must stress how the appeal of these songs is much wider than anything Jordan Dreyer, or someone of similar ilk could possibly write.

I'm Going Through Some *** reflected the tragedy of day to day life, represented by someone who understands it the best. Here there's nothing quite as gripping, but both Turn The Fan On and Mistress Appears At A Funeral portray characters stuck in a rut, playing out monotonous lives until they reach the end. The latter song features the gorgeous vocals of Caroline Corrigan, painting a new side to a story wrought with grief from an unlikely perspective. And the other song where these vocals appear, Apport Birds, is even more stunningly beautiful, a grinding, melodic epic featuring softer vocal melodies and jazzy drums.

Instrumentally this band aren't the most diverse, but they mostly manage to mix up enough with catchier guitar lines than previously before, the best example being Fear Of Poverty In Old Age's tense pre chorus. Of course, some songs drag on for far too long to maintain any consistency. Dingo Fence is easily the most boring track here, lacking many interesting features and taking the repetitiveness to a lyrical level with the majority of the song repeating an (intentionally?) cringeworthy lyric. Similarly, the grumpy old man vocals do start to grate just a tiny bit by this point, and you could happily shave this song by five minutes in order to make it less irritating.

Curiously, the thing that most people have claimed to be this album's biggest downfall (the interviews) do not bother me in the slightest. They're initially quite unwelcome and an awkwardly placed element amongst the generally very captivating songs, but the story told within them is such an emotional rollercoaster one wonders how anyone could not see how it ties in with the concept of the entire record. Having put out four excellent EP's this year, the band have more than proven their worth and this is their crowning achievement, a gorgeous display of lyrical perfection exemplified through one of the best post-hardcore bands around.



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Wadlez
November 7th 2014


5019 Comments

Album Rating: 3.0

Nice work. Album brings the snores.

Mort.
November 7th 2014


26404 Comments


i saw someone in london today with a self defense family sweatshirt on

thought you should know

Wadlez
November 7th 2014


5019 Comments

Album Rating: 3.0

There are elements I really like, just don't come back to it often.

Artuma
November 7th 2014


32828 Comments


sweet, pos'd. i don't think "to check out" is the word to use if you wanna write professional looking reviews tho

also, i find it easier to read the reviews when album names are in italics and song names are within quotation marks

Artuma
November 7th 2014


32828 Comments


[ i] and [ /i] and wow you get it in italics

adr
November 7th 2014


12097 Comments

Album Rating: 2.5

jesus another 6/5 review for this

Mort.
November 7th 2014


26404 Comments


i tried it ages ago and mal and thought it was pretty average. i do plan on giving them anothet try tho

adr
November 7th 2014


12097 Comments

Album Rating: 2.5

i dont get it either



Artuma
November 7th 2014


32828 Comments


you need to put them together like this [i]. i made that mistake so that you'd see how it works

SeaAnemone
November 7th 2014


21427 Comments


tHiS iS a Ve~~~Ry Good alBUM tbh

Artuma
November 7th 2014


32828 Comments


no problem m8

Pheromone
November 7th 2014


21850 Comments


this rules ye

Gameofmetal
Emeritus
November 7th 2014


12091 Comments


"also, i find it easier to read the reviews when album names are in italics and song names are within quotation marks"

damn mall I told you this like four reviews ago, my advice was worthless 2 u obviously

Gameofmetal
Emeritus
November 7th 2014


12091 Comments


"their unique bland"

think you meant blend*

Not sure starting the review off with "I haven't listen to every album in this band's career....." is a great way to start off.

"La Dispute, but I must stress how the appeal of these songs is much wider than anything Jordan Dreyer, or someone of similar ilk could possibly write."

pretty unnecessary dig on La dispute don't ya think?

Otherwise nice job and pos'd

BMDrummer
November 7th 2014


15279 Comments


been meaning to check this

YakNips
November 7th 2014


20114 Comments

Album Rating: 4.5

first verse to aletta has some of the best lyrics ever

Gameofmetal
Emeritus
November 7th 2014


12091 Comments


Which part did you explain why you were doing? The La Dispute dig?

Gameofmetal
Emeritus
November 7th 2014


12091 Comments


Oh ok, I still find it a little unnecessary but doesn't impact the review much.

Gameofmetal
Emeritus
November 7th 2014


12091 Comments


Up to you. I already pos'd. lol

Gameofmetal
Emeritus
November 7th 2014


12091 Comments


Dawg it looks like you dislike a lot of stuff I love so idk lol



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