Butkuiss
07.28.23 | We have fun :) |
bellovddd
07.28.23 | 4 and 6. how dare they. |
Butkuiss
07.28.23 | Bold to assume my partner is a she, bellovddd |
evilford
07.28.23 | They may not be the one bro, js |
bellovddd
07.28.23 | yes. it was. |
dedex
07.28.23 | ascendant vierge you a real one ✊ |
Butkuiss
07.28.23 | It was your review that turned me onto them, dedex :) |
dedex
07.28.23 | 🥰 |
Koris
07.28.23 | Is this over the course of just one trip, or different trips over time? |
DoofDoof
07.28.23 | good takes tbh |
mechamagica
07.28.23 | seems a bit unpleasant - hope it's somehow more good natured than it sounds |
Butkuiss
07.28.23 | @Koris various trips over the past month |
gravityswitch
07.28.23 | Did they like actual music or |
normaloctagon
07.28.23 | Lmao tbh feature this |
normaloctagon
07.28.23 | I’m going to lobby the mod team to get electronic in your pie chart b boy, how do you feel abt that |
unclereich
07.28.23 | never too late to make a change of partner |
Butkuiss
07.28.23 | My pie chart is entirely inaccurate because I never bother rating anything any more but used to obsessively rate every dodgy local punk EP I heard when I first joined the site over ten years ago |
Demon of the Fall
07.28.23 | mostly based partner (I dig Syro and there's a few where I have no clue what they are)
I am wondering what they actually like tho. At least there's a bit of variation here and it's not the most inaccessible selection. |
Tundra
07.28.23 | So theyre a swiftie |
unclereich
07.28.23 | fat bitches need love to Craig |
Butkuiss
07.28.23 | My partner mainly listens to very specific EDM artists (mostly microhouse, wonky, ambient house, deep house) and like, Lana Del Rey and Sufjan Stevens and stuff. They really dislike loud noises, distortion and any form of dissonance lmao.
This list is like 60% stuff I put on that I thought they’d like and was dead wrong about and 40% stuff I put on knowing it’d annoy the hell out of them. |
Demon of the Fall
07.28.23 | hmm, well I dig some house but that's a very restrictive diet, lol
are you gonna give up the ghost, or continue to throw on the 'irritating' ones just to annoy them? |
unclereich
07.28.23 | imagine putting on Illinois and not getting a headache |
Shemson
07.28.23 | “They really dislike loud noises, distortion and any form of dissonance lmao”
*Throws on Scaring The Hoes’ 🤣
It’s funny that it was the offensiveness that got her before the abrasive madness of the album tbh |
Purpl3Spartan
07.28.23 | This list is couples goals but unironically |
unclereich
07.28.23 | if not music what do you have in common with this person |
Shemson
07.28.23 | Six months into dating my now wife she managed to get me the Casualties of Cool record for my birthday and it was that day I knew she was a keeper! |
unclereich
07.28.23 | love it! I just cant imagine not sharing the lot of my music taste with my partner. years ago an ex gf of mine said etched headplate gave her headaches. today she's divorced weighs 250 lbs and has a kid. hotchie motchie |
kkarron
07.28.23 | they right |
Jasdevi087
07.28.23 | "My partner mainly listens to very specific EDM artists (mostly microhouse, wonky, ambient house, deep house) and like, Lana Del Rey and Sufjan Stevens and stuff. They really dislike loud noises, distortion and any form of dissonance lmao. "
unbelievably twee lol |
Demon of the Fall
07.28.23 | I've been with my wife 12 years and I'd give her an 'outside chance' of being able to name 5% of my top 100 albums (not an exact science here but yeah), lol |
Trifolium
07.28.23 | Hahahahaha love this.
My bf likes some of my faves, and we share many 4.0s and thereabouts, but he ultra dislikes many of my 5.0s. |
unclereich
07.28.23 | I've been with my wife 12 years and I'd give her an 'outside chance' of being able to name 5% of my top 100 albums (not an exact science here but yeah), lol
sure but I'd be very bummed if someone I was keen on was as dismissive towards my taste as this. but I clearly place more importance on shared interest in tunes than others. I'd be interested in knowing how long this relationship has been going on for, im bringing up aphex twin on a first date hehehe |
Demon of the Fall
07.28.23 | music has been somewhat of a solitary hobby for most of my life, at least once I started developing my own tastes outside of what was commonplace amongst my peers / friends
I'm not really fussed these days. If I wanna chat music, then well that's why I'm here. |
Storm In A Teacup
07.28.23 | I dont listen to any of this music but this list is indeed my life |
unclereich
07.28.23 | I certainly dont fuss over music but I suppose next to shared values my circle of friends really bond over music and gigs and, unsurprisingly, my few long term relationships were with people who also loved music and were open minded about hearing new stuff-and of course so am I.
I'll never forget being introduced to boards of canada and refused by a former partner when I was 18 right around the time I joined the site. im very into sports but for me thats a solitary thing and I could not care less if a partner is into it, but it would be a bummer if I put on aphex twin and they got a headache lol. though like I said I'd suss that out on a first date and probably not pursue them further |
PizzaBear
07.28.23 | “This is the most annoying song I’ve ever heard” (in reference to the title track)
Based. My fiance plays this one sometimes and I suffer through it in silence |
gravityswitch
07.28.23 | having a headache while listening to Aphex Twin seems pretty normal tbf |
Bazman
07.28.23 | I hear you mate, my car journeys are just as fun |
Ryus
07.28.23 | my gf will tolerate literally everything i play including brutal dm. its lit |
ArsMoriendi
07.28.23 | This list seems pretty diverse genre wise
Kinda makes your partner seem close minded for being bothered by this many different styles |
Ryus
07.28.23 | she right about 13 doe |
PotsyTater
07.28.23 | Pretty based |
JohnnyoftheWell
07.28.23 | 13 is a based take fr
"makes your partner seem close minded for being bothered by this many different styles"
tbh you could easily scrape together the equivalent of this list for you, fogza and budgie (maybe others) from the old SOTD threads |
zakalwe
07.28.23 | “This is so offensive”
Fuck off out the car love unless you can speak proper
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Havey
07.28.23 | 8 is the only L |
PotsyTater
07.28.23 | Maybe it’s not the styles themselves… |
zakalwe
07.28.23 | If you actually read this consecutively they clearly have autism.
Keeper material |
DadKungFu
07.28.23 | Get your partner into Vomir |
MoM
07.28.23 | @3 😦
The descriptions make them sound pretty annoying, but that might be the point, i dunno |
DoofDoof
07.28.23 | I probably only play about 20% of the stuff I like in the presence of the wife and then that stuff she really likes.
Previous relationships was more like 80% and yeah...better to compromise/apply that filter. |
Sevengill
07.28.23 | it's times like this I'm especially glad I met my girlfriend at one of my shows. sorry, sweaty, the Agalloch road trip is non-negotiable. |
Spec
07.28.23 | Show them Opeth next. |
Ryus
07.28.23 | the one thing my gf doesnt like is 90s hip hop because she says the flows are boring. breakup incoming |
Shemson
07.28.23 | Lol to be fair my Mrs rarely likes my hip hop stuff but she cracks me up listening to brutal shit whilst she’s putting on her make up looking all sweet getting ready to go visit my parents for dinner and be charming 🤣 |
mryrtmrnfoxxxy
07.28.23 | 9 is so funny to me. it's incubus! lmao. cool list |
twlight
07.28.23 | Dump em for not liking 14 |
Butkuiss
07.28.23 | Damn, this got a bigger response than expected. I will periodically add to this list as more interactions like this occur. |
Jash
07.28.23 | 10 is surprising |
Butkuiss
07.29.23 | And we’re off with the first additions |
DType
07.29.23 | 1 is so good |
BAT
07.29.23 | Wuts her thoughts on 'Jane Doe' tho |
PitchforkArms
07.29.23 | my gf loves kezia, lucky me |
Butkuiss
07.29.23 | My partner would not consent to listen to converge, sorry BAT |
Storm In A Teacup
07.29.23 | My girlfriend can barely tolerate any kind of metal and she considers most post hardcore in the realm of metal. Basically any pxc that has any screaming she cant stand. There are two songs we can watch together. She tolerates Rolo Tomassis Ritual song after hating it at first but asked to watch the music video many times. And the other metal song she actually does like is the music video for Rivers of Nihil Where Owls Know My Name |
Storm In A Teacup
07.29.23 | She will tolerate other Rivers of Nihil stuff but not much. |
Butkuiss
07.30.23 | Yeah the “post hardcore / punk is not metal” conversation drives me up the wall but we’ve agreed to just use the term “screaming music” as a catch all now LOL |
bellovddd
07.30.23 | ah screaming music. thats how my ex described it lol. |
Butkuiss
07.30.23 | But she’ll listen to Limp Bizkit no problems. Odd! |
PizzaBear
07.31.23 | My gf isn't into much metal but she can tolerate it and sometimes sort of appreciate it even if it isn't her thing which I appreciate a ton about her
Hell, she even gets the death metal/black metal distinction most of the time now lmao |
Demon of the Fall
07.31.23 | I think my wife is just particularly sensitive to sounds of all descriptions (not necessarily just 'music'), so it's not fair exposing her to stuff that she really can't stand - which is a lot of things, seemingly
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FREETHEGUYS
07.31.23 | If your girl turnin off type O LMAOOOOOOOOOOO pull out the calculator……. Do the math.:.:.::::: |
SomeCallMeTim
07.31.23 | your partner suggesting that peter's vocals on october rust are anything less than gravy smoothness is sacrilege |
ArsMoriendi
07.31.23 | Now that you’ve added that she can’t stand Aretha Franklin, I’m doubling down on my initial comment |
Dewinged
07.31.23 | Dunno if it has been said before but someone's gotta say it. She's not the one bro. |
SomeCallMeTim
07.31.23 | drop their discogs here |
Dewinged
07.31.23 | Ok it was said before and I also assumed their pronoun. Sorry. Gotta say though your partner is right about a few of these lol |
Demon of the Fall
07.31.23 | “This is like Teen Angst the Musical”
okay, now that one made me chuckle, even tho I love that album, lol
And how is there 'too much going on' re Sneaker Pimps... seriously? |
Ryus
07.31.23 | when i see this on the homepage for some reason my brain goes to “Records My Partner Has Turned Into” |
SomeCallMeTim
07.31.23 | Records My Partner Gets Turned On To |
Demon of the Fall
07.31.23 | same here actually Ryus, how weird
I’m thinking it’s just an association thing, like the next word should be ‘into’ even tho that makes no logical sense whatsoever 😆 |