Iamthe Nightstars: Rejection/getting Dumped

ILJ 02.29.12	It all really depends on the state of the relationship at the time. If things aren't going well and haven't been for a while, it's not that bad cause you sort of expect it. But if things are going great, you're happy, and it comes out of the blue, it's a crushing feeling. Also, length of the relationship plays a role too. Obviously, being dumped after two years is going to feel much worse than being dumped after two weeks. And yes, being dumped is much worse than rejection.
Hyperion1001 02.29.12	getting dumped by far rejection is quick and theres nothing really to dwell on afterwards getting let go leaves you with tons of memories
MMX 02.29.12	Wouldn't know I'm always the one that does the dumping and the 1 time I was dumped she begged me to take her back, So I wasn't too upset
Tyrannic 02.29.12	getting dumped by far [2] who cares if you get rejected? if it wasn't gonna happen, it wasn't gonna happen.
taxidermist 02.29.12	inb4 100 comments also, getting dumped by far [3]
ConsiderPhlebas 02.29.12	Gf of seven years chucked me last summer out of the blue. Didn't feel great.
Hyperion1001 02.29.12	i got dumped by text message this summer, i cant say i didnt see it coming but it still hurt the last words i ever said to her were "ok bye" we havent spoken since
Tyrannic 02.29.12	I got dumped because i like porcupine tree. wish i was kidding
ohfoxxxycole 02.29.12	idk i got dumped once but we hadnt been dating long and now were fwb so its all good if not better definitely better for my wallet
Trebor. 02.29.12	Rejection for me, because at least when you get dumped she used to like you at one point
taxidermist 02.29.12	Lol I got myspaced back in the day.
MartiniKisses 02.29.12	It really just depends on the situation!! It sucks to get cheated on :/
Eclecticist 02.29.12	"Gf of seven years chucked me last summer out of the blue. Didn't feel great." seven years holy shit you were really meandered on that one
Funeralopolis 02.29.12	if you were dating for seven years you deserve to get dumped lol
Recspecs 02.29.12	I've experienced both, can't say which was worse. The times I got dumped I was already disconnected with her by that point so it didn't matter. I would say being cheated on sucks the hardest.
Recspecs 02.29.12	Seven years? Put a ring on it mother fucker.
climactic 02.29.12	"I got dumped because i like porcupine tree." the life of a sputniker
Eclecticist 02.29.12	"if you were dating for seven years you deserve to get dumped lol" that is not true at all but he definitely meandered the fuck out of that relationship
Funeralopolis 02.29.12	"I got dumped because i like porcupine tree." someone took one of those youtube comments too seriously.
Aphrodisiac 02.29.12	no one cares shut up
Funeralopolis 02.29.12	where is academy's name when you need it
North0House2 02.29.12	I've been dumped around 5 times. It hurts like bloody no tomorrow. Fortunately, they were short relationships, so it only took me about a week to recover. I've been dating the girl I'm with for 9 months now. If she dumped me, I'd probably go into a coma for quite a period of time. I don't know how I'd handle it, especially since I get so attached to people I become close with due to the fact that I rarely trust people enough to express my feelings to them in the first place. I haven't ever been rejected, so I can't say what that feels like...
ohfoxxxycole 02.29.12	so youre pretty emotional huh
North0House2 02.29.12	Who me? If you're talking to me, I'm actually not. I honestly can't express my emotions. But, when it comes to someone I care deeply about, I feel a lot.
Tyrannic 02.29.12	god funeral do you have to be such a flaming fucking retard every minute of every day? jw :D
ConsiderPhlebas 02.29.12	We were engaged. The plan was to wait until after our studies to get married. As painful as it was in the end, it was a huge weight off my shoulders when the marriage/kids thing disappeared.
North0House2 02.29.12	"The plan was to wait until after our studies to get married." That's what scares me the most about my girlfriend. She's been one of my only friends/significant others for nearly two years now because I don't tend to like the company of many, so I don't bother making friends. She's going to college across the country. Dunno how that's gonna go.
Tyrannic 02.29.12	"She's going to college across the country." get ready for colossal heartbreak bud
ConsiderPhlebas 02.29.12	The whole long distance thing never seems to work, too many temptations involved. Having a small circle of friends is all good - I can only stand about four of the people I know. If the relationship goes tits up just tell yourself there's plenty more to come.
wacknizzle 02.29.12	It gets worse than that and that and that and that and that. FUCK.
Recspecs 02.29.12	I've spent many sleepless nights over past significant others. Specifically one where I was the one who fucked up big time. Life sucks sputbros :( :( :(
domakesayuhh 02.29.12	yeah that shit sucks. fight or flight man
Spec 02.29.12	"I got dumped because i like porcupine tree." Hahahahahaha
ncguitar 02.29.12	Recspecs you sleep with men dressed in police suits.
Spec 02.29.12	It's cool. I got the boot for not being Christian enough.
Tyrannic 02.29.12	spec, the girl was a christian too STRIKE TWO!
wacknizzle 02.29.12	Just meet someone else man, someone better. Just sayin, i got opportunity n shit but none of it means anything to me but trust me, things can be alot worse, you don't wanna be where i'm at right now.
ConsiderPhlebas 02.29.12	Where are you at?
Spec 02.29.12	Not really andcas.
Tyrannic 02.29.12	yeah man if i was wacknizzle... shit would SUCK.
Spec 02.29.12	Haha. I'll admit that turned me off of religion a lot.
Spec 02.29.12	sheesh
ohfoxxxycole 02.29.12	ew kimm really
Recspecs 02.29.12	Hahahahaha. I have too have been given the axe for not being Christian enough.
ncguitar 02.29.12	No, you get male groupies dressed like doctors and cops.
ConsiderPhlebas 02.29.12	How do these girls measure Christianity
wacknizzle 02.29.12	I just don't even know where to meet cool chicks anymore. Girls in Pittsburgh suck 99% of the time. It's always like 2 years between each time I meet a cool girl. So thats been like 4 girls i've been with since I was 16 and im now 22 and so I feel like i have to wait till i'm 24 before I meet someone else.
Recspecs 02.29.12	Lol good question. Idk, according to her "I cursed too much, didn't read my Bible enough, only wanted her body, listened to inappropriate music, cared too much about sports/partying, etc."
ohfoxxxycole 02.29.12	"Idk, according to her "I cursed too much, didn't read my Bible enough, only wanted her body, listened to inappropriate music, cared too much about sports/partying, etc." i think it has something to do with willingness to go down on her
ConsiderPhlebas 02.29.12	Go to a punk show and say hello to a few chicks. As long as you're confident and smell ok you'll meet someone half-decent. Most girls/people are retarded, just make do with one till a better one comes along.
wacknizzle 02.29.12	Sounds like u were listening to Disturbed or Linkin Park alot.
Tyrannic 02.29.12	phlebas- she demanded to hear slayer, since i cited it as my favorite back in the day. yelled at me for 30 minutes for actively loving satan or something. (oh the irony)
Recspecs 02.29.12	Yeah. Now I only associate with semi-religious/not religious at all girls.
North0House2 02.29.12	"get ready for colossal heartbreak bud" I know...
wacknizzle 02.29.12	Only religious girls i've ever met listened to country so fuck dat.
Spec 02.29.12	People wonder why Christianity has such a bad name.
ConsiderPhlebas 02.29.12	'did you just say you have to smell good to go to a punk show and pick up chicks?' Smell ok. Indie chicks and I'd say good.
Recspecs 02.29.12	Hahaha the real Christian girls suck and the fake ones are whores. Easy as that.
ohfoxxxycole 02.29.12	all the girls ive dated have been somewhat religious and they didnt mind my music. sounds like you just got some crazies
North0House2 02.29.12	"Go to a punk show and say hello to a few chicks. As long as you're confident and smell ok you'll meet someone half-decent. Most girls/people are retarded, just make do with one till a better one comes along." Or move countries. That's my plan in the end anyway. The girls in America tend to suck. Iceland all the way... or South America somewhere.
wacknizzle 02.29.12	True dat.
North0House2 02.29.12	No doubt. But I wouldn't know, I've never lived anywhere but America.
Tyrannic 02.29.12	edit: dammit guys
North0House2 02.29.12	Lol.
Recspecs 02.29.12	Not really, I'm semi-religious myself so I kinda have to find someone who gives some sort of shit about God lol.
North0House2 02.29.12	^^^ Same, I ain't a Christian anymore, but I still believe in God, so I can't just date an Atheist lol. But, I don't really want to date a hardcore Christian either, they're way blinded... But fake Christians just have sex with everyone... It's a slippery slope.
Tyrannic 02.29.12	or you could, you know, date an atheist chick who isn't a raging dickhead about it? like.. a good bunch of them?
Spec 02.29.12	Yeah why is that.
wacknizzle 02.29.12	Thats awesome if you feel that way. I just can't imagine dying and showing up in heaven. I just hope being dead isn't painful.
North0House2 02.29.12	" or you could, you know, date an atheist chick who isn't a raging dickhead about it? like.. a good bunch of them?" Where I live, the Atheists are pretty freaking in your face and kind of douchey to be honest. I know a few cool ones, but they're up in Canada and Washington.
Spec 02.29.12	Well you're gonna be alive for a long time so don't worry yet!
Tyrannic 02.29.12	yeah man the cool ones are out there. here's a hint: cooler people generally don't run their mouth all the time, so they're going to be less easy to notice.
ohfoxxxycole 02.29.12	this thread got lame
ohfoxxxycole 02.29.12	found a stinkbug climbing up my leg EWWWW
Spec 02.29.12	Dont have stinkbugs here.
Recspecs 02.29.12	Is it too much to ask for an in between Christian!?!?!
Recspecs 02.29.12	Don't care. I'll do what I do until I find the right girl. Until then: Ladies.....?
Aphrodisiac 02.29.12	people that come here to vent about their personal life are pathetic north house
ohfoxxxycole 02.29.12	hahah
Recspecs 02.29.12	Lol
Aphrodisiac 02.29.12	I've been dumped around 5 times. It hurts like bloody no tomorrow. Fortunately, they were short relationships, so it only took me about a week to recover. I've been dating the girl I'm with for 9 months now. If she dumped me, I'd probably go into a coma for quite a period of time. I don't know how I'd handle it, especially since I get so attached to people I become close with due to the fact that I rarely trust people enough to express my feelings to them in the first place. look how sensitive i am I've been dumped around 5 times. It hurts like bloody no tomorrow. Fortunately, they were short relationships, so it only took me about a week to recover. I've been dating the girl I'm with for 9 months now. If she dumped me, I'd probably go into a coma for quite a period of time. I don't know how I'd handle it, especially since I get so attached to people I become close with due to the fact that I rarely trust people enough to express my feelings to them in the first place.
ridethebus 02.29.12	getting dumped on probably sucks a bit maybe
North0House2 02.29.12	"people that come here to vent about their personal life are pathetic north house" O THX. lol.
Pentagon 02.29.12	whuts with sputnik and all these girl problems. get a pair or go see a therapist. also, getting dumped for realz
Apollo 02.29.12	sputnikvirgins.com Haven't had to worry about being dumped or rejected in over 5 years now. Sometimes being married sucks giant dick but most of the time it's swell.
Yuli 02.29.12	NorthHouse, don't mind the haters man Honestly religion hasn't ever really been a problem for girls and me, since I'm pretty damn neutral towards it all.
bakkermaarten007 02.29.12	Never been dumped, cause I stay away from relationships most of the time, they frighten me. I do want a girlfriend but the loss of independence frightens me. But if I do have one for a short time I end the relationship as soon as I feel we're growing too much towards one another. Fucked up right? haha
Recspecs 02.29.12	So you don't want to give up your virginity?
bakkermaarten007 02.29.12	Lol. I don't wait for months you know and sometimes if the girl takes initiatieve I can't refuse. Which doesn't mean I treat women like meatbags, I hate it when other guys do that and brag about it.
Tyrannic 02.29.12	^ that's what we in the business like to call: "why buy a cow when the milk is cheap" plan on living that way until the day i'm 35
bakkermaarten007 02.29.12	Lol tyrannic. I tried living that way cause it seems easy and all but I just can't.
Tyrannic 02.29.12	I never said the milk was free, yo. I said it was CHEAP. you still gotta have swag n shit.
EyesWideShut 02.29.12	getting dumped sux more. with rejection u never stood a chance getting her.
bakkermaarten007 02.29.12	"I never said the milk was free, yo." And I never would of thought of that way =) . I know what you meant.
Aphrodisiac 02.29.12	"NorthHouse, don't mind the haters man" says the fellow lonely dweeb
ffs 02.29.12	i`d say the HOLOCAUST is worse.
dammets 03.01.12	never been dumped got rejected once by a girl i was friends with and crazy about. She was pretty much my first love. I got over it pretty quickly though. I felt better getting rejected than I did when a day went buy that I didnt ask her out
Recspecs 03.01.12	dammit
dammets 03.01.12	wah?
Yuli 03.01.12	""NorthHouse, don't mind the haters man" says the fellow lonely dweeb" One of those descriptions is spot-on
Recspecs 03.01.12	DAILY DOUBLE!! Dude andcas is that your alt chick?
Katechon 03.01.12	If you don't want your fragile little heart broken then don't bother dating in the first place. Now shuddup and stop whining.
JWT155 03.01.12	Both are rough but getting dumped when you really like/love a girl is far worse
Yuli 03.01.12	CHON sighting, ladies and gentlemen!
MartiniKisses 03.01.12	I'm referring to the list made by shapeofpunk today.
MartiniKisses 03.01.12	Oh shit wrong account
theashesfromautumn01 03.01.12	ha.
theashesfromautumn01 03.01.12	i was really into a girl and she was way into me (and school wtf righ? whatever irrelevant) but then one day her parents said youre not allowed to talk to her out of nowhere so i think thats the worse than rejection or getting dumped.
dammets 03.01.12	what did the girl do?
Recspecs 03.01.12	Goddammit Martini, comment on the right account. Anywho, I'm not sure who that other alt is yet.
Sirob 03.01.12	getting dumped on is the worst... it smells bad
BallsToTheWall 03.01.12	SO CUT MY WRIST AND BLACK MY EYES
Iamthe Nightstars 03.12.12	I can see where you're coming from Trebor. I've thought of that before. But it's even worse when you find out you had a chance but didn't act on it.

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