TheSpirit: Women = Pain

TheSpirit 07.21.10	I don't think I've ever felt this fucking meaningless. Apparently my two year relationship (which generally was very good) with this girl can't compare to a three week fling. Nice.
TheBaneofSputnik 07.21.10	That sucks dude. I find women to be the most heartless out of the two genders. I'd beat that guy's ass.
Prolapse 07.21.10	And then they get all of her friends to hate you
BigHans 07.21.10	Women = Pains in the ass. Be like me and become a chauvenist/mysoginyst
8bit 07.21.10	I know what you mean man. This has happened to me, but my bestfriend was the culprit hitting on her ffs.
BigHans 07.21.10	Honest question. Take away their vaginas and how truely useful are they? Honest.
TheSpirit 07.21.10	@Bane - I mean it's not that kid's fault persay, she knew exactly what she was doing and still now fails to recognize the wrong.
Flatliner 07.21.10	time to cuntpunt
Inveigh 07.21.10	by wall are you talking about a facebook wall? because if that's what she's doing she's not only a liar but also an idiot for thinking you wouldn't see it. anyways, sorry to hear it man. you should pretend like you don't know and then think of something really awful to do to her so she doesn't see it coming.
Apollo 07.21.10	women can be evil, ruthless and heartless. that's why women are literally only good for 4 things... but in all seriousness sorry to hear this has happened to you dude.
Gmork89 07.21.10	So be done with her, live for yourself.
Phideaux 07.21.10	That's rough man. Sorry to hear that. I agree. They can really cause some serious anguish.
8bit 07.21.10	some are cool, but most are shallow cunts looking for a 10 foot dick to suck on.
BallsToTheWall 07.21.10	This is a definite TMF hot topic.
TheSpirit 07.21.10	Essentially last night I saw it (while drunk) called her, freaked out, told her I would be perfectly content if she didn't exist anymore and told her I'd probably never talk to her again.
TheBaneofSputnik 07.21.10	You should beat hit ass because it can lead to her thinking you're crazy. That way she's always worried about the next thing you do rather than focusing on this new "squeeze." Get her to be afraid of you and keep her constantly thinking about what you do, and you win the breakup. And then you murder her.
8bit 07.21.10	Spirit does she have any hot friends?
Gmork89 07.21.10	Good, now just stick to. that will blow her mind that you actually can resist, women need to be taught this lesson. You will be saving some poor sod a heap of trouble down the road.
BeardedIdiot 07.21.10	I'm not a relationship expert, but maybe you're just overreacting? it's not like you caught her making out with that guy. And from my experience a lot of girls don't really think that this kind of behaviour is something bad. Then again, fuck women.
acorncheese 07.21.10	Here's the real question. If she's the love of your life, what makes you think that a break is going to help? Breaks don't solve anything. Ever. But yeah, seriously, I know the feeling.
Baphomet 07.21.10	Yay! Equations! 2 + 2 = 4 2y-5 = 3/4 (x+3)^2 People = Shit
Gmork89 07.21.10	It's still bullshit, he wouldn't do that to her and expect her to not react negatively. It's just a rule in a good relationship or "break", you don't do that stuff to each other.
BigHans 07.21.10	98% of modern women are either mouthy, entitled, demanding bitches, or cum dumpsters. Im speaking of my own and many friends experience. The last great generation of women was in WW2, when women actually knew what their role was, aka, NOT nagging your husband into fucking oblivion, being a good mother, and wife. for the 2% of you that have a decent woman, congrats.
halloway 07.21.10	SHE WAS POSTING HEARTS ON SOMEONE ELSE'S WALL?~! omgz...
TheBaneofSputnik 07.21.10	I say you slit her throat and while she's still struggling for breath, bury her alive. Am I going too far?
TheSpirit 07.21.10	@BeardedIdiot - during this whole entire break she's been telling me she loves me, saying there is nobody else and all this other crap that has been inspiring hope. The whole time I've also been urging her to get back together. She knew very well that seeing someone else would send me over the edge, and then was careless enough to post something where I can see it. Just yesterday during the DAY she told me she loved me and not to worry, but then I found all this shit out by last night and I freaked out. I really don't think It's overreacting. I put a lot into those two years and I didn't think it would be so easy for her just to go and do something like that. Sure, i've been asked out since the break; but since I love(d) her I said no everytime, doing my best to make sure that when/if we got back together, I would feel bad about nothing and show her i was always dedicated. It hurts more then anything i've ever experienced to see that she couldn't do the same for me
Gmork89 07.21.10	As usual, yes haha.
Apollo 07.21.10	stfu Halloway I'm with Bane, murder the bitch
TheBaneofSputnik 07.21.10	Okay then, don't slit her throat, but still bury her alive. Teach the bitch a lesson, and there's no better way to teach a lesson than to deprive someone of precious oxygen.
8bit 07.21.10	Maybe you should call her sober and ask her if 2 years meant anything to her. Which it should.
BallsToTheWall 07.21.10	Put your dick in her ass and call it even.
BigHans 07.21.10	Spirit, it hurts now but (and trust me, no cliche here) you are better off. Any chick who would do this is clearly a whore (no offense). My advice, fuck her one last time, take off the rubber, throw it in her face, and leave.
acorncheese 07.21.10	What I went through at the beginning of summer probably wasn't as bad as this, but seriously, dude, if she's actually been with someone else, then call it a day. What's done is done. That is THE most important realization in life.
Sowing 07.21.10	in my experience, women are not capable of handling "breaks". it is best to be black and white about things, you are either together and working through it, or you are broken up and done working on it. i'm not even trying to be sexist, but women need boundaries or else they won't know how to behave.
BigHans 07.21.10	Oh and Spirit, listen to Third Eye Blind. Motorcycle Drive By is your medication.
Sowing 07.21.10	^and this
TheSpirit 07.21.10	@Bane - I wasn't drunk to the point of incoherency so I mean I did say that to her. I got the cliched "Of course it did". @Acorn - I don't really plan on talking her anymore. At least now I know I can move on instead of being stuck in some weird limbo.
greg84 07.21.10	Lol Good solutions guys. And yeah, women = pain at times.
Xplisit 07.21.10	sucks man, been there done that, you let yourself become too enamoured with a monster
Lelle 07.21.10	considering how much I've been hurt by females this whole homosexuality thing is starting to look more and more attractive j/k but I know your pain man
SlightlyEpic 07.21.10	sorry to hear dude, women are awful
lobby 07.21.10	most girls just arent very nice creatures and its hard to have any feeling towards them, only good for a root.
TheBaneofSputnik 07.21.10	I still think Spirit should hang the bitch up by her achilles and beat her senseless with a burlap sack filled with batteries.
TheBaneofSputnik 07.21.10	Chambered- You should know. You Giant's fans are good at beating up women.
bloc 07.21.10	Sorry to hear this bro, looks like another case of Summer and Pain.
jingledeath 07.21.10	women are bad blowjobs are good
R6Rider 07.21.10	I've been there and yeah it fucking sucks.
BigHans 07.21.10	All of this advice will be useful later Spirit. Right now you are most likely crushed beyond all recognition, and any piece of advice is worthless to you. Get through the shit, and emerge a more hardened, ready to destroy snatches, beast of a man.
R6Rider 07.21.10	The WW2 thing was pretty good Hans. I agree.
sumyunguy 07.21.10	do guys just go into relationships automatically thinking that they're gonna be with the girl forever? remember, if not for breakups we'd all marry the first girl we fuck...and 9 times out of 10 what a fucking disaster that would be. not saying it shouldn't hurt, of course it does, and it sucks. but putting too much into the relationship sets you up for a hard fall. no matter how hard it may seem, a guy should always have room for the possibility of a breakup, ESPECIALLY at our fuckin age. i mean, what the hell do you expect from a 19 or 20 year old chick?! haha
BallsToTheWall 07.21.10	^ this guy speaking truth
qwe3 07.21.10	women are pretty great idk bout you guys but i like women
BigHans 07.21.10	None of you fuckers should consider marriage until you're 30 unless you find the one in a million, in which case, dont even think about it until you're 25. Women under 25, are for the most part, incapable of being good wives.
lobby 07.21.10	yeah, and whats more, you tell a girl you don't love her at all and she won't talk to you for a week
BigHans 07.21.10	No, you tell a girl you dont love her and she will be all over you.
EasternLight 07.21.10	having your heart ripped out hurts :( much support bro.
witchxrapist 07.21.10	Hey Spirit: T-T
qwe3 07.21.10	"No, you tell a girl you dont love her and she will be all over you. " uh no
BigHans 07.21.10	Qwe, I know what Im talking about. I have about ten years on you and a marriage/divorce under my belt. If you fawn over a chick, especially one in her late teens/early twenties, she might give you the time of day at first for an ego boost but she will eventually drop you/ignore you. If you ignore a chick that likes you a little, she will only like you more. If you beg for sex, you wont get it. If you pretend you dont give a shit, you will. These theories have been tried, true, and are virtually infallible.
Apollo 07.21.10	"None of you fuckers should consider marriage until you're 30 unless you find the one in a million, in which case, dont even think about it until you're 25. " pretty much. My first year of marraige was fucking hell because we were both 22. I love my wife and she is the one in a million but she doesn't know how to be a proper wife (i.e cooking/cleaning)
EasternLight 07.21.10	so basically we are all fucked
qwe3 07.21.10	yeah thats fairly true but that doesnt translate to "No, you tell a girl you dont love her and she will be all over you. "
BigHans 07.21.10	Apollo, I wasnt even talking about cooking/cleaning. That is no longer something a woman thinks she is required to do, and honestly, that doesnt bother me. What I was talking about is they do not know how to respect their men. And by that, I mean 1. Not trying to get him to stop seeing his friends 2. Not tryign to get him to give up everything he loves (ie sports, drinking) 3. Feeling the right to nag/bitch about every little thing when 50 years ago they would have gotten five across the eyes for less. I tell women I dont care if you cook, clean, or if you gain a few pounds. I will never be abusive. I have two rules: 1. dont try to control me, and 2. Do not be a mouthy bitch. Sadly, most cant even do that.
ShadowAmI 07.21.10	ive been there before man, chances are shes not worth the trouble. find a nice girl that will actually care about how you feel.
BigHans 07.21.10	Dude find a fat chick. She wont leave, and she will probably be a hell of alot cooler to boot. I mean, Im not condoning boning ar ORCA fattie, just one that is slightly overweight but is still slammable.
PuddlesPuddles 07.21.10	I've loved a girl for 4 years, was very faithful, passionate, and giving. I treated her like a princess and felt like a god but there was this evilness in the back of my brain picking at her flaws and storing them in my mind. So when the time inevitably came for us to break, of course being her doring, I would open up the memory drawer and laugh at all her personal and physical flaws. And if it wa an awful breakup, I would present the flaws to her. Me getting the last laugh at her weakness in heart and body, and me knowing that I can find someone who will be better. And you know the sick part? This made me more interesting to her, she know nows that I was the best she had. I simply said she wasn't in my life anymore, I've moved on within 2 days. But don't get me wrong, I made her feel like Aphrodite while we dated. The only difference is that I can now focus on someone else, no big deal. Never lose your ability to become detached and hurtful. Don't throw the first emotional punch, but don't fool yourself into thinking someone is perfect. The truth is, your ex was weaker than you. You don't want to be with someone that normal/average.
Foxhound 07.21.10	get money, fuck bitches. i've been single for like a year now, i luv it
Edwin 07.21.10	I hate being single, but to be honest, I've never met a female who has been honest to me. I swear to God, every girl I've been close to has either lied, cheated on me, or deliberately lead me on. I wish I could turn gay, for srs.
SwagChef 07.21.10	Here's a site to cheer you up. http://www.menarebetterthanwomen.com
Emim 07.21.10	Damn, dude, I'm sorry. Honestly, taking a break never solves anything. I'll help you kick the guy's ass though; I know what this all feels like.
TheSpirit 07.21.10	Thanks Emim. I really don't have a problem with the kid, because I'm fairly certain he has no idea whats going on. But she is just ugh. She still wants to like. try and work it out, she just said she needs more time. So idk what the means, i don't know if i should be hopeful all i know is that need to try and move on so i don't get disappointed once again
DoubtGin 07.21.10	I'd absolutely say you should move on since the girl didnt seem to value the last two years.. you might want to try again and hope she finally gets it, but I think this will result in further disappointments.
Lelle 07.21.10	If she wants you even after what she has done, you say fuck you and move on. My previous girlfriend randomly decided to break up to "gain access" to some other guy, then she came back and when I found out I gave her one hell of a scolding, but she continued trying to use both me and the other guy. That's when I SHOULD have said fuck off instantly, but I didn't and ended up getting severly dissappointed and hurt several times more. Women are evil, move on
TheSpirit 07.21.10	It's just really confusing because last night when i freaked out on her, she text my best friend saying "i feel like the most terrible person in the world, i don't know what to do" and stuff like that. And then she went and asked him to like. console me. So obviously she still cares, but i don't know what the fuck is taking her so long to realize i'm better then that other faggot. It's weird because she is NOT LIKE THIS AT ALL. this is so untypical of her usual behavior. I don't know what i'll do. I'm gonna try to date and whatnot and idk hopefully it just all works out in the end
SlightlyEpic 07.21.10	may as well, what's the worst that could happen
Lelle 07.21.10	dissappointment and a month spent together with Jane Doe
Gmork89 07.21.10	There is always a light at the end of this tunnel man, and that is the fact that you WILL get over it, no matter how much it seems like you won't.
PuddlesPuddles 07.21.10	I'm telling you, though, stay aware. Maybe she is a good girl and regrets this and turns out for the better, but do not let your guard down. Use this time to start detaching from her, think about this smartly. Treat her right and have a lot of fun, but don't depend on anything dealing with her. She will do what she wants regardless of you, end of story. It's just the psychology of normal girls her age. Show her a good time and a be a gentleman and she will learn from this and will have respect for herself, that's the most you can hope for.
pneumoniahawk93 07.21.10	Dude, I'm really sorry, but she doesn't still care, at least not in a romantic way. The fact is, she doesn't want to seem like a bad person, which is the worst, because she's being facetious. I say you should move on. As the archetypal nice guy, (it's like a disease) this has happened to me so many times before, but it shouldn't discourage you from being yourself. Sure, you shouldn't overload on her, but at the same time, when the right person does come along, she will appreciate it. Just give it time, and I'm sure the right decision will present itself. Hope that helps.
Deviant. 07.21.10	Sorry to hear Spirit, can I ask what she actually wrote on the wall though (I didn't look at all the comments in case you already posted it) And gotta agree with qwe3, some of the comments I saw here were just idiotic
WeepingBanana 07.21.10	http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mxbTRh1o_RU Just listen to this song man
Metalstyles 07.21.10	Well as a dude who is still in a relationship with a girl who I have broken up with 6 (yeah, no lie) times, I can tell you you are already somewhat screwed regardless of which option you choose. On one hand, chances are that if you try to move on, she will still haunt you. On the other, chances are she's not worth your efforts anyway. If I were you I'd still give it a go, since you never know, she might just be the love of your life or whatever, and you don't want to look back and think "what could've been", since that is one of the most emotionally painful things ever. Do try to be like Puddles suggested though and do not get too emotionally attached right away - it might cost you dear. I mean, hey, despite 6 breakups, I'm still with my girl and even though I sometimes think she's a selfish, emotionless sack of misery, I still absolutely love her and the feeling seems to be mutual (well it better be!). My point is, if you never try you never know and even if it all falls to pieces, you will at least gain some valuable experience.
Zoo 07.21.10	Yup, happens to all of us at one point, I think.
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