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I’m not on tinder im on hinge, tinder is a scary place.
scoot that’s tight as fuck
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Hinge is pretty good. Way better than tinder. At least you can get dates and date around and see what you are looking for
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I had the most luck on match. This was about 2-4 years ago
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Meaning, I started using it about 4 years ago and stopped about 2 years ago.
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I met my current partner on bumble 5-6 years ago. I'd say it's worked out pretty well. I also found Tinder scary, even back then.
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I met my wife on OKCupid almost 7 years ago. Idk if that one's relevant now but that's the one I had the most success with.
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^ that's the one i had most success with way back as well. way better responses (and response rate) but also some very uh peculiar women were on there too lmao
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2010-2015 Okcupid was peak online dating.
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Tinder is a good option if you want to have your self confidence destroyed
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Tinder is just a shithole in general man. I was on there when I was younger and hotter and even then I’d still only get like 5-10 matches a day.
It’s a hookup app. If you’re looking for anything remotely serious putting a gun in your mouth would be a better alternative. Or Hinge I suppose. Never tried Bumble or any of the others, at least not from what I can remember.
Hinge hasn’t been too bad, it gives you a lot of room to fill out your profile with a lot of detail so I don’t feel like I’m using the same fucking pickup lines over and over again, it gives you a lot more to work with.
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funnily enough i met my wife on tinder, but i can't even imagine how shitty it's gotten over the years
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It was a lot better pre covid, idk what the fuck happened since but that app is a goddamn shitshow now
I did actually have some positive experiences on it once upon a time, girl I used to work with matched with me, neither of us admitted how we felt at work, wound up being the first serious relationship ever for me.
Now she’s married with three kids and I’m up at 2 AM on a Monday playing cyberpunk: life
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Album Rating: 4.0
Met my ex on tinder we dated for 6 years. Her best friend got married a year ago and met her husband on bumble. My brother is dating a women he met online. A good friend met his now fiance on bumble as well. Point is it’s still possible and online dating is the standard now like it or not. Frankly dating wasn’t much better before online dating albeit the apps have changed substantially and for the worse.
My unsolicited advice is you must take it seriously if you want any results. Get professional photos taken if you can or at least have a keen eye take yours and look them over. That way your photos actually attract women. Generally men tend to take photos in front of their cars, in the gym, with a dead fish in hand, or just simply while doing things that only really attract other men. Unless you’re outrageously good looking you have to take the right pics. Even if you do look like Brad Pitt if your photos suck you’ll end up with a lot of casual sex. My buddy is that good looking yet didn’t actually find real love until he greatly improved his profile.
Run your bio and answers to prompts by others and look on Reddit for examples of profiles that have had success. It’s kind of like modern job hunting, expect a lot of rejection but don’t get dismayed and do have confidence in yourself. If you are not conventionally attractive try to work on yourself before getting back out there in the same way you’d go back to school in order to get a better job.
People’s profiles(even women!) are so low effort that high effort ones standout even if you’re butt ugly. Ultimately I would still recommend putting yourself out there and trying hobbies where you may meet a woman. Also if you have friends go out and talk to women at bars and stuff for god’s sake. As someone with a lot of female friends they’re stunned that no one approaches them anymore.
-your friend and former man whore fourthreich aka very small peen
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I feel fortunate that I've never had to rely on dating apps. I've been with my partner for 10 years and we met through a band invite at uni, eventually plucked up the courage to ask her out irl and I've never looked back.
If I ever was single again in the future though I doubt I'd use dating apps judging by this thread, just seems like linkedin for hookups for the most part.
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Album Rating: 4.5
Private Information
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Album Rating: 5.0
Jesus Jason Bourne Christ. Reich's advice depresses the shit out of me. I truly sympathize with anybody having to traverse the dating landscape in today's climate. I met my wife in college in a random art history course. I knew jackshit about art and she was a studio art major. She was the one that actually initiated things because I was young, clueless, and of the opinion that I was a know-nothing outlier in the class. Our online interactions consisted of Facebook messages and (when we were apart for a year) email or instant messenger since my family was poor as shit and I was on a limited texting plan at the time. She offered to help me study and I was gullible enough to take the bait (legitimately, I thought she was doing charity). It'll be 16 years this November.
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I met my first love in studio art she was much older and approached me as well. It was an elective for me and it was her major. Something about art history majors i guess!
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I'd imagine a David Attenborough-style documentary about the impressionable men who wander into the art department and get eyed like a wounded gazelle.
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+1 to unclereich's advice. a couple of my women friends have shared their matches and the amount of men with poor selfies and barebone profiles whose opening line is "Hey" is staggering. to a large extent you get out what you put in. should go without saying to put some effort into your appearance too. way too many dudes out there with unkempt hair and beards wearing raggedy ass clothes from 10 years ago that don't fit right. women pick up on that!!
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Album Rating: 4.5
It's surreal seeing dudes sharing actual good advice. In this ever-growing toxic climate of "redpilled" Manosphere dorks that couldn't get a date on a tombstone and aren't even subtle about their hatred for women this is very refreshing. Bravo guys.
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