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At the bottom of the ocean, the fish wont judge you by your thots

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yea jesse is not the worst of the cases that exist involving this



nah tbs are dicks from what i’ve read

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they play pop punk so maybe they like young girls?

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In an effort to address recent events and the public conversation currently happening, I feel it is important to make a clear and personal statement.

The actions of my past have caused pain and harm to a number of people, and I want to say that I am absolutely sorry. I do not stand in defense of myself nor do I forgive myself. I was selfish, narcissistic, and insensitive in my past, and there are a number of people who have had to shoulder the burden of my failures. I apologize for the hurt I have caused, and hope to be able to take the correct actions to earn forgiveness and trust.

Early on in my life, I developed a dependent and addictive relationship with sex. I was scared of it, ashamed, and unwilling or unable to admit it, and so it grew into a consistent and terrible problem. Years ago, after admitting my habits and cheating to my then soon to be wife, I began to approach my problem in a serious way. I entered professional treatment, both in group therapy and individual counseling, and revealed the realities of what a terrible place I had gotten to in my life, and what a terrible impact my actions had on people.

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Do you think they jack off to bestiality porn?

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Lust, sex, love, and arousal were coping tools for me, and I returned to them repeatedly. I detached my own feelings and emotions from most of my sexual interactions. I hid, or lied about my behavior to escape reproach. I was a habitual cheater. I have been unfaithful in many, if not most of my relationships, including the relationship with my wife, who has with all of her might, patience, and grace, tried to hold our marriage together, despite having to endure the pain of the revelations of my past. It is heart wrenching that the most important changes in my life have come at the expense of others.

I am sorry for how I have hurt people, mistreated them, lied, and cheated. I am sorry for ignoring the way in which my position, status, and power as a member of a band affected the way people viewed me or their approach to their interactions with me. And I am sorry for how often I have not afforded women the respect, support, or honesty that they deserved, and which is their right. I believe in the equality and autonomy of all, but in my life I have been more of a detriment to these ideals than an advocate.

I am working to shed all my narcissism and my self obsession, and to be better. In sobriety I have changed my life and my mind in real and important ways. I have also revealed the truth of my behaviors to myself and to others. I do not have words to express the patience and help my wife has offered me. I love my family with an intensity and realness that I have never felt before, and as a husband and a father I have been granted the opportunity to wake up each day with the intent to serve my family and the people around me, and to feel, for the first time that I have purpose.

The fact remains that none of us get to put a wall up between who we are and who we were. I need to earn forgiveness. Concepts like repentance, compassion, and love, are made real through actions, and it’s through my actions that I need to prove change. I hope I can show humility, and that the pain I have caused people can heal. I am not above reproach, and no one should be.

Jesse Lacey

whose excuse is that

edit nvm

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Oh boy here we go

i just want y'all to know that it's a known strategy to openly admit stuff, even if you're not guilty, because it gives you points in the public eye. the statement is carefully planned to minimize damage and earn the most points possible -- save for his sorry excuse of 'i was sex addicted'

just so you don't forget he was sexually harassing a 15 yo girl

nice now that he apologized Sowing can *really* make excuses for it and go back to pretending that this was the fault of a 15 year old girl sick

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Fucked up. At least he manned up, but still.

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Shut the fuck up Sea. Do you see me making excuses.

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While we're at it, we should also persecute Depeche Mode. Those guys' open love for underage girls in their early music is really uncomfortable

it's been a tough week for sowing, given this and now that taylor swift joined the kkk

yeah let's persecute depeche mode, never liked the band anyway

depeche's case might be just romanticizing the pedo ~*aesthetic*~, like nabokov's lolita

which is just as creepy, but was kinda popular at the time with new wave bands. the whole ~*innocence uwu*~ thing

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you realise that all that mj shit was fake right?

snide: lmao

michael jackson straight up admitted to sleeping in bed with children regularly

are u gonna defend that sint?

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at least he owned up to it?