DotEight: Dropped Like A Bad Habit

DotEight 03.18.13	Sorry everyone else bitches on here about their relationship problems on here, I figure I'm due one.
Calc 03.18.13	Fuking sucks man I'm sorry.
Scoot 03.18.13	don't listen to warning
Trebor17 03.18.13	keep wagging
CaptainHadouken 03.18.13	That sucks dude, heh females giving men clues? sad to say, maybbe we should talk about world peace first.
DotEight 03.18.13	Thanks Calc, some kind of heads-up would have been nice. At least a chance to fix it like fuck. I'm not telepathic.
patman1001 03.18.13	sorry to hear that man. that should have been something she could have just talked to you about though
MoosechriS 03.18.13	Sounds shit dude, sorry to hear.
CaptainHadouken 03.18.13	Yeah, it does suck to get blindsided man, Just keep your head up. Shit days happen, at least there is sputnik to .. well kinda listen.
DotEight 03.18.13	Yeah I figure after 3 years you kind of just know you're committed, but females don't recognize this logic. I guess I have to show it 24/7/365, and it's funny because she talks about the physical part and half the time she's the one jumping my bones so she's a hypocrite.
Titan 03.18.13	banging other broads always eases the pain my friend
Underflow 03.18.13	Sorry to hear that.
CaptainHadouken 03.18.13	Its funny how if you don't do the smallest thing they jump down you throat for it. Then because its something dumb like, you didn't take out the trash. This isn't working, god the logic of women does baffle me at times. Titans solution is good though.
DotEight 03.18.13	I don't know whether to get some rebound or wait it out a couple weeks and see if she's just letting off steam and needed a break - I'd be salty if I was fucking other girls and she came back.
Calc 03.18.13	W/E you do, make sure lifting is also included.
DotEight 03.18.13	Like she got pissed because she doesn't see my mother a lot anymore. Because they go shopping together all the time. And I didn't realize that was an issue that concerned me, she had my moms number like you're an adult call and ask.
CaptainHadouken 03.18.13	I dunno man. I'd give it a few days to think about it. If you think being single if the better choice, then go for it my man.
Titan 03.18.13	The way I always saw it was that you stay together and work thru the issues regardless. You break up once the issues can't be resolved or if either 'needs a break', which is never a good thing. I only say bang other broads to satisfy your feeling of rejection right now.
TheMoreira 03.18.13	Damn man... Happened the exact same to me June last year. 3 years and just out of nowhere, she did the same to me. In that same way. I know how you feel and yeah, at least a hint? I always spoke up when something was wrong, why can't women be more like that? You'll be fine and dandy and three years ending like that, you should also be proud of yourself. My tip, if i may, is to let go of everything that has her face slapped on it. Try to stay away from her as much as you can. Don't talk to her, force yourself to move forward. If you guys have it in you, stay friends, but for now you should really think of getting well and keep on rolling. That's what i did, and me and my ex are pretty good friends now. And pretty nice list Dot. Hold your head high bro!
DotEight 03.18.13	I don't mind being single but I mean I've known her since junior year of high school and we were off and on until senior year of college and then we started dating steady. So she's a big part of my life. And I'm not a very social person outside of the people I skate with and my pot-smoking metal buddies. It's hard to meet girls, I hate bars and clubs.
Scoot 03.18.13	http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wo80dxlOc58 this song is brutal in times like yours my friend
Gigglesdemon 03.18.13	I totally know the feeling. It's hard to get through at first, but you'll find someone or something better for your life. I know my breakup lead to me connecting better with true friends and finding out who my actual friends were. Some good will come out of it.
CaptainHadouken 03.18.13	Yeah, it is hard getting out there, but don't go looking bro, trust me you usually run into the best women when you least expect it. Just hang out with the people you can , Don't go to clubs, they are dumb anyways.
DotEight 03.18.13	Yeah I've had a couple other relationships that have lasted 2 years, and it just takes time. Eventually you just forget, but those first couple weeks after the drop are killer, it must feel like what a heroin addict is on withdrawal. Drinking helps a bit.
CaptainHadouken 03.18.13	Haha, just don't drink alone, get a motley crue, have a good time, or just mosh out. Post breakup mosh drinking is the best.
TheMoreira 03.18.13	Cope with it the way you can man. Just don't go out ruining yourself, there's no point in doing that. And like Hadouken said, sometimes is actually better to stop looking. Completely agree with that
JackSparrow 03.18.13	Listen to Park - It Won't Snow Where You're Going I swear
Melons 03.18.13	Shit, sucks man, sorry to hear.
intotheshit 03.18.13	Was it because you listen to within the ruins? If it is, her decision is completely justifiable.
DotEight 03.18.13	I mean everyone gets those unclear moments where they want to do something stupid because they feel lost, and I do it. But I feel like she just needs a break, we are together all the time. But if she can just drop me like that then it must not be a huge deal to the magnitude I expect.
CaptainHadouken 03.18.13	You never know man. Maybe space is good, the best thing is to just take a few days. After just stand up and figure things out. Breakups suck, but hey thats life. For every shit day there will be an awesome day, thats kinda my outlook on it.
DotEight 03.18.13	Yeah, you just get so in the routine of being with someone almost everyday for a few years, whether it's your best friend or a girlfriend it's hard to get over.
TheMoreira 03.18.13	I understand Dot, and yes, everyone can make mistakes in the heat of the moment.. It's for you to figure either it's one of those situations, or if the cow is actually dry by now. To each case its own folks, but i recon that kind of break up speech comes from someone who has had enough. Either way (and hope you don't take my words wrong) , she did brake up with you. So the best for you to do is to hold your head high and leave it be. If there's still something worth fighting for, she will realize that later on and come back to you. If that doesn't happen, you did good by moving on. No point roaming the boat by yourself.. It's not good for you, or for her. Again, just trying to add something helpful here.
CaptainHadouken 03.18.13	I def. get that. Having some shit breakups myself it kinda feels weird for a while.
fromtheinside 03.18.13	dance your sorrows away the 20/20 experience awaits
TheMoreira 03.18.13	Sometimes routine is what keeps us going.. Look around yourself and behold. Life's full of change, who knows if this isn't what you needed to start another adventure with someone else!
DotEight 03.18.13	I usually just listen to metal and drink some Jack. That always cures the symptoms slightly.
FourthReich 03.18.13	fucking women
TheMoreira 03.18.13	Do what you will if it makes you feel better. Hope this thread will come in handy for ya, for motivational purposes. haha
CaptainHadouken 03.18.13	Yeah, listen to what From suggested as well, it does cheer you up surprisingly enough.
DotEight 03.18.13	Well drinking always helps, no matter the situation. It's temporary but I can deal with that.
J0ckstrapsFTW 03.18.13	Damn dot that sucks man. women are just trouble
CaptainHadouken 03.18.13	Heh, just keep your head high man, and party on.
DotEight 03.18.13	Women are evil. In some form or another, whether it's obvious or subtle. Women have a way of tearing you apart with a short sentence, or they can talk your head off until you commit suicide, which is the same outcome.
CaptainHadouken 03.18.13	Haha, yet they also seduce us with their cunning ways, and we relent a lot of times.
ZilbelPing 03.18.13	Don't listen to Warning [2]
sideburndude 03.18.13	jus b gey
J0ckstrapsFTW 03.18.13	"Haha, yet they also seduce us with their cunning ways" CAN I GET AN AMEN?
CaptainHadouken 03.18.13	AMEN brotha.
TheMoreira 03.18.13	HAAAYMAN
Trebor17 03.18.13	Women do shit like this and then call you a misogynist when you complain about it and it's like how am I being misogynist if guys never do shit like this I mean come on If she had a problem she should have just told you about it, but no they just expect you to know or whatever. "You never want to go dancing" "Ok let's go dancing" "No it has to be your idea, I just told you I want to go dancing" "Is wayne brady gonna have to choke a bitch my word"
CaptainHadouken 03.18.13	hahaha trebor thats all way too true
DominionMM1 03.18.13	that sucks dude. just surround yourself with cool people and get yourself some strange and you'll be fine.