0GuyMan0: Divorce | Sputnikmusic

JKing92 07.22.21	As far as great music this year goes, my favorite album so far has been the new Tyler, the Creator album. Great album, even if I don't like it quite as much as Igor.
rage11111ro 07.22.21	:(( wish you lots of strength mate If you dig ulcerate it is hard to believe you won't dog the 2021 output from And nauseam. My favourite of the year so far is though a complete surprise: the debut album of Dunerider: Ruins
evilford 07.22.21	Sorry to hear my man, stay strong, shit gets better Check 2020 cryptic shift
MrSirLordGentleman 07.22.21	Sorry to hear about that buddy. It really is a tough situation. Hope you can get through with it. I know it may not seem like it at first but you can and deserve to be happy on your own Since you like metal you might be interested in VOLA's Witness
MO 07.22.21	All the best hommie, I can only imagine what you went through and still are. Stay strong and focus on yourself
Shuyin 07.22.21	Stay strong bro, better days will come. As far as recs go, the only thing that comes to mind is the new Year of no Light
chemicalmarriage 07.23.21	4 is so fucking good Forgive yourself. You are better than your past.
Muzz79 07.23.21	Yeah sucks. Hits you square in the stomach. Your graph and ratings are quite similar to mine actually but my fav finds this year are mostly some version of black metal. Maybe try new Thy Catafalque - Vadak
teamster 07.23.21	Sorry guyman - did not know you are going through this. If you need to talk, I am here. So far this year for me … Bossk Year Of No Light Enshine Duskmourn Amenra Also, last year I hope you didn’t miss Pull Down The Sun.
0GuyMan0 07.23.21	Hey. Thanks y'all. I'll check some of these and report back.
Larkinhill 07.23.21	Hey man, my wife of 15 years and I almost split a few months ago due to my drug and alcohol addictions, but we’re in a good place now. So I know how devastating it can be, even though we didn’t actually end up splitting — but it felt real for awhile and I’ve never been more distraught in my life. Really made getting sober difficult but I ultimately realized that was absolutely the only way we could possibly survive as a married couple. At any rate, probably my two favorites this year which you’ve undoubtedly already heard are Deftones Ohms and Chevelle NIRATIAS.
chemicalmarriage 07.24.21	Take that feeling you felt for a few months and now know that this is the rest of your fucking life. jesus christ man. Chevelle? Fucking chevelle. Ok
Piglet 07.24.21	honestly all you need to do is go rawdog sum rando thai bich and you'll feel roight as rain bruether
Larkinhill 07.24.21	Chevelle? Fucking chevelle. Ok Yes. Fucking Chevelle. Go cry about it. You’re a bit of a little bitch aren’t you?
chemicalmarriage 07.24.21	Not crying about it. Just pointing out your basic as fuck 8th grade angst of a record is probably not going to help this guy going through the hardest time of his life. Have you even heard the albums he has listed? Beyond the subject matter of the list, chevelle is dumb as fuck in regards to what he's after.
Piglet 07.24.21	all this heat just for recommending chevelle LMAO
Larkinhill 07.24.21	@chemicalmarriage sorry sir, it will not happen again. You’ve told me Chevelle sucks, therefore they must. My most humble apologies to the one actually acting like an 8th grader. The irony.
chemicalmarriage 07.24.21	I like rosetta and dvne. Just got divorced. Life is in a dark place, please rec some music. Dude have you heard of this band chevelle. They are fucking amazing.
chemicalmarriage 07.24.21	This reminds me of the time I almost got divorced because I'm a drug addict. It was a terrible feeling and the worst time of my life. I heroically quit drugs and saved my marriage. I know what you are going through. I've been there. Check chevelle. You'll feel better
cordwainerbird 07.24.21	cannot imagine having ur only relationship be 20 years long and also a marriage thats nuts
porcupinetheater 07.24.21	You've been waiting years for this discourse with that username, eh [@chem]
chemicalmarriage 07.24.21	This is a big moment for me
DePlazz 07.24.21	@chemicalmarriage get a life you fucking retard
DePlazz 07.24.21	@Guyman hang in there dude. Second the Ad Nauseam rec for 2021 btw
chemicalmarriage 07.24.21	Never
DavidYowi 07.24.21	God 20 years, I can't imagine how much that hurts. I'd recommend Nothing - The Great Dismal and Hum - Inlet, both are heavy but soothing shoegaze records that came out last year. A lot lyrics have to do with recovering from loss which might help you out emotionally (or it might make you feel even more depressed, but hopefully you enjoy them).
DavidYowi 07.24.21	Only sput can have a thread about a guy getting divorced spiral into fighting about Chevelle. Also Dvne is barely more sophisticated than Chevelle get over yourself
cordwainerbird 07.24.21	https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XDXrP9HET2A hope this helps
chemicalmarriage 07.24.21	I will not
Larkinhill 07.25.21	This reminds me of the time I almost got divorced because I'm a drug addict. It was a terrible feeling and the worst time of my life. I heroically quit drugs and saved my marriage. I know what you are going through. I've been there. Check chevelle. You'll feel better Lol you’re a complete goddamn idiot. Go home, I think it’s past your bedtime.
Larkinhill 07.25.21	@chemicalmarriage that being said, the irony of your username considering the discussion is pretty cool haha.
Larkinhill 07.25.21	Ok if we’re going with break up albums—Blood on the Tracks, Disintegration and Midnight Organ Fight.
Larkinhill 07.25.21	Gotta run it past chemicalmarriage first though to make sure the bands r kewl. Wouldn’t wanna disappoint the all knowing god of all music that is kewl. Only sput can have a thread about a guy getting divorced spiral into fighting about Chevelle. 😆 shit like this is the reason I love this place.
TheSonomaDude 07.25.21	get well man. i glad you're doing better.
0GuyMan0 07.26.21	The irony here is that I actually listened to that Chevelle album quite a bit when it dropped. I like it. I was an early adopter of theirs from before the ozzfest breakthrough, so I've always kinda followed their trajectory even if much of what they release doesn't have a lot of staying power. If I need to clarify - I don't need these tunes to heal me. I just need good tunes. Thanks all for the recs, and the fact that even this deteriorated into a sput-fuck is strangely comforting.
LeddSledd 07.26.21	Can't imagine that pain man, I really wish nothing but the best 3 fucking rules
0GuyMan0 07.27.21	you ain't kiddin'. This site has a couple stone-cold classics that need some attention and updated / retrospective reviews. That's one of them.
porcupinetheater 07.28.21	Yo Guy are you into hardcore
widowslaugh123 07.28.21	Yo guy are you into post-punk?
porcupinetheater 07.28.21	Yo Guy are you into shaking that butt?
EoinCofa 07.28.21	I Don’t Believe In Love, Never Have, Never Will
0GuyMan0 07.28.21	I think it's safest to just say "no" I'm not into hardcore or post-punk, but there are bands that I've dug in both genres.
widowslaugh123 07.28.21	Wait but you never told us if you’re into shaking that butt
0GuyMan0 07.28.21	I mean yeah, other butts.
0GuyMan0 11.10.23	The discourse in this thread made me smile again.
Ryus 11.10.23	hope ur doing well
Nikkolae 11.10.23	the meltdown over chevelle was defo lol worthy
pizzamachine 11.10.23	Quite a list to bump