DarkSideOfLucca
02.23.18 | Can't wait for all my billz yo |
Relinquished
02.23.18 | yoga, dude |
Kalopsia
02.23.18 | yep, take some time (if you can) to rejuv your mind. equally as important as taking care of your body. use some pto, go on vacation - even if you don't travel anywhere. |
DinosaurJones
02.23.18 | I hurt my back shoveling the other week, now I have this pain all down my right leg and the right side of my lower back...
I should probably go see a chiropractor or get it checked out, it's been like 2 weeks. It's probably something shitty like nerve damage. I feel ya.
I'm only 28 too, so this sucks. |
Relinquished
02.23.18 | yea dudes don't let that shit slide. life is long and so is lingering pain |
DominionMM1
02.23.18 | "stress about not having a partner in my third decade of life."
dude does not having a serious relationship really cause you stress? |
DinosaurJones
02.23.18 | It's understandable if he wants to have a family.
I'm sure when I hit 30, my reaction will be something along the lines of "Wait, how old am I? Wow. I was definitely planning on being married by now!" |
DarkSideOfLucca
02.23.18 | "dude does not having a serious relationship really cause you stress?"
Yeah dude lol - not as much as a lot of other stuff in my life, but going to a shit ton of my friend weddings and getting older and having stereotypical Jewish parents/a married brother with kids, etc and watching the dating pool getting thinner...it definitely stresses me a bit
But at the moment, full time job and full time school and some other MUCH more serious personal shit is stressing me out a bit more, but it's something that's still in my mind |
DarkSideOfLucca
02.23.18 | Thanks Mayhem m/ |
DominionMM1
02.23.18 | i mean when i hit 30 i wasn't exactly in the place i saw myself being in when i was younger but it didn't really cause any stress. |
DominionMM1
02.23.18 | dude stress out over things you can actually control |
DarkSideOfLucca
02.23.18 | "dude stress out over things you can actually control"
Ahaha I do that too |
foxblood
02.23.18 | gettin old sucks dude. do you want to get married? I could imagine the dating pool getting smaller and smaller around that age |
Kalopsia
02.23.18 | i stressed in my late 20s cuz i wasn't anywhere close to being married or starting a family. then i re-evaluated why i valued those things at this point in my life and realized it was my traditional/conservative upbringing. when i realized those stresses were coming from my family/parents and not from what I really wanted/prioritized, i started getting much happier. |
Sinternet
02.23.18 | deteriorating bodies? sounds pretty m/ if you ask me |
butcherboy
02.23.18 | you live near a coastline? because surfing/learning to surf is a fantastic way to decompress and get some exercise..
also yoga [122345].. |
DarkSideOfLucca
02.23.18 | "do you want to get married? I could imagine the dating pool getting smaller and smaller around that age"
Yes and yes aha
"deteriorating bodies? sounds pretty m/ if you ask me"
Fuck yeah, bro m/
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DarkSideOfLucca
02.23.18 | And yeah I should really check out yoga |
bloc
02.23.18 | All you broke ass niggas in this thread and on this site, listen up:
Drink waaaay more water than what you're doing now, and sleep fuckin early. Hoes, video games, the internet, that shit is all gonna be there the next day so don't worry. |
Trophycase
02.23.18 | Find a therapist or something then. Mental health is health my bro.
Check your sleep schedule. Sleeping at the right time is almost more important than the amount you sleep, if you are going to bed too late you're going to be fucked up. |
Kalopsia
02.23.18 | Live Fast, Die Young, and Leave a Beautiful Corpse |
DinosaurJones
02.23.18 | I drink water. The sleep thing I need work on. |
Papa Universe
02.23.18 | "If you're reading this, I'm dead" |
BeyondCosby
02.23.18 | Go get a massage dude. |
DominionMM1
02.23.18 | "Drink waaaay more water than what you're doing now, and sleep fuckin early. Hoes, video games, the internet, that shit is all gonna be there the next day so don't worry."
fuckin tom brady over here |
Kalopsia
02.23.18 | i hear drinking water prevents sun burns too. |
Relinquished
02.23.18 | nice try ginger |
guitarded_chuck
02.23.18 | eat mushrooms |
guitarded_chuck
02.23.18 | u think im kiddin dont u |
DinosaurJones
02.23.18 | Mushrooms are delicious. |
bloc
02.23.18 | "I drink water. The sleep thing I need work on."
You bend your knees when shovelling too? I hope so. Always lift with your legs, not your lower back. |
DinosaurJones
02.23.18 | I do, but I was twisting my back to toss snow rather than turning my whole body. Bad move, I know. |
artiswar
02.23.18 | Lucca is in the rarified group of jews I want to fuck |
SitarHero
02.23.18 | "I hurt my back shoveling the other week, now I have this pain all down my right leg and the right side of my lower back..."
It's possible that you could have slipped a disc Dino. Get that shit checked out. I slipped a disc some years back and didn't get it diagnosed for over a month after it happened while it got progressively worse. |
SitarHero
02.23.18 | Man, being 30 and single ain't all that bad...unless you live in a tiny town with no plans of leaving. |
DarkSideOfLucca
02.23.18 | Just made an appointment for a massage tomorrow, also for my doctor in two weeks (again) - pretty pumped actually, haven't gotten a massage in a while.
And in response to the therapy thing, yeah I've been seeing therapists on and off for years now but in all honesty I have no time to go anymore between job, work, seeing my niece and nephew, general errands, trying to stay in shape, etc. That and it's insanely fucking expensive - still take anti-depressants, though.
"Lucca is in the rarified group of jews I want to fuck"
Message me for pics bb ; )
"Man, being 30 and single ain't all that bad...unless you live in a tiny town with no plans of leaving."
Aha I live in NY so it's definitely not tiny, but thanks man!
Also I know the mushroom thing was a joke, but I have been done with tripping since undergrad aha |
artiswar
02.23.18 | Consider this me msging you for pics ;)
Also what is the difference between job and work, just curious |
SitarHero
02.23.18 | "Aha I live in NY so it's definitely not tiny, but thanks man!"
Oh, in that case being 30 and single does suck...if you're a woman! I read this article about how hard it is for educated women to date in NYC because all the eligible men get snapped up early. Ain't no shame in Tinder/OKCupid my man. |
guitarded_chuck
02.23.18 | "Also I know the mushroom thing was a joke"
nah, its the best anti depressant
take vitamin d though
https://www.reddit.com/r/science/comments/7zdsq5/depression_substantially_reduced_with/
and your body is probably just weak, if you push past it and gain some strength you probably wont be in chronic pain |
DarkSideOfLucca
02.23.18 | "Also what is the difference between job and work, just curious"
Oh shit I meant work and school aha
My schedule usually is work/sputnik for 8-9 hours, food/rush in gym schedule, study and/or class until like 10 pm, maybe go to the bar and see a friend or two
and if it's the weekend it's work on saturdays/gym/study and do the majority of my homework until I die/maybe see someone for a couple hours |
DarkSideOfLucca
02.23.18 | "Oh, in that case being 30 and single does suck...if you're a woman! I read this article about how hard it is for educated women to date in NYC because all the eligible men get snapped up early. Ain't no shame in Tinder/OKCupid my man."
Thanks man m/ aha that does make me feel a bit better |
LeftyMcRighty
02.24.18 | Soooo......., I'm 44 and have lived a less than healthy lifestyle for the better part of the last 30 years to include smoking and drinking a shit-ton, working quite physical jobs (Airborne Infantry and construction) and being married to a [co-dependent] pot-smoking alcoholic for 16 years of my 20s-30s so I know a thing or three about getting broken down and haggard. I've learned that most of my pains will come and go from week to week and will be life-altering one day but be non-existent two weeks later so, that being said, hang in there. Shit just hurts as you age. |
LeftyMcRighty
02.24.18 | Oh yeah, surfing and yoga [4,720,659] |
UpwardSpiral
02.24.18 | I second supplementing with Vit. D. Meditate 20-30 minutes before going to sleep, you need to bring your stress levels down. Maybe also lower caffeine intake if you´re drinking it a lot |
DarkSideOfLucca
02.24.18 | Yeah I started getting into meditation last year for like two weeks but then fall off it, but I really gotta start up again. |