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Revolt! 02-09-2006 02:11 PM

[QUOTE=Tillius]Or, "I'm sorry. If you need anybody to talk to, I'll be here."
Or, "I'm sorry. I hope you pull through."[/QUOTE]

Or, "I'm sorry. Sucks to be you."

thunderzstruck 02-09-2006 02:30 PM

this doesnt have to do with love and stuff but its the only place i can vent


So today in a class we had to perform a piece of music that we have been writing for a while. Well, I was fine with doing it and all but one problem is I strained my wrist really bad yesterday. So then to make it WORSE ANOTHER class says they want to hear us so they sit in and watch.

Well with our song it begins and ends with a guitar part I write and play. Well I'm in pain the whole time of playing so then I get ****in nervous because of it. I **** up REALLY bad to the point that it isn't even the same. I'm a nervous wreck and my wrist is KILLING me

So then we ended and wow.. I can't believe what has just happened. It wasn't even audible of what I was playing. Now 30+ kids are now going to remember this for a looong time. And everyone excpet the people in my band knows why I did so bad (wrist) everyone else probabaly thought I was just extremely overly nervous.

GODDAMNIT

Tillius 02-09-2006 02:31 PM

[QUOTE=thunderzstruck]this doesnt have to do with love and stuff but its the only place i can vent


So today in a class we had to perform a piece of music that we have been writing for a while. Well, I was fine with doing it and all but one problem is I strained my wrist really bad yesterday. So then to make it WORSE ANOTHER class says they want to hear us so they sit in and watch.

Well with our song it begins and ends with a guitar part I write and play. Well I'm in pain the whole time of playing so then I get ****in nervous because of it. I **** up REALLY bad to the point that it isn't even the same. I'm a nervous wreck and my wrist is KILLING me

So then we ended and wow.. I can't believe what has just happened. It wasn't even audible of what I was playing. Now 30+ kids are now going to remember this for a looong time. And everyone excpet the people in my band knows why I did so bad (wrist) everyone else probabaly thought I was just extremely overly nervous.

GODDAMNIT[/QUOTE]
Why didn't you just say that you were in pain and couldn't play?

Revolt! 02-09-2006 02:31 PM

Hey good news guys. Lela finally answered her phone and while she's still kind of pissed, she's understanding of where I was coming from last night and things are back on the up and up.

Though this recent bout of depression seems to have triggered the return of my schizophrenia and I'm in desperate need of chronic to get it back under control, I'm doing better.

thunderzstruck 02-09-2006 02:32 PM

[QUOTE=Tillius]Why didn't you just say that you were in pain and couldn't play?[/QUOTE]

I thought I would be able to pull through it maybe...

I thought wrong.

Tillius 02-09-2006 02:32 PM

[QUOTE=Revolt!]Hey good news guys. Lela finally answered her phone and while she's still kind of pissed, she's understanding of where I was coming from last night and things are back on the up and up.

Though this recent bout of depression seems to have triggered the return of my schizophrenia and I'm in desperate need of chronic to get it back under control, I'm doing better.[/QUOTE]
Congrats.


Say no to chronic.:thumb:

The Fonz 02-09-2006 02:35 PM

k, so if you remember that girl i was talking about in L&R v.II, i think im gonna sk her out today, whats the most casual way to do it, like, with a date still implied.
or should i just go the way of "you wanna hang out this weekend?"

Tillius 02-09-2006 02:37 PM

[QUOTE=Guns'n'Zeppelin023]k, so if you remember that girl i was talking about in L&R v.II, i think im gonna sk her out today, whats the most casual way to do it, like, with a date still implied.
or should i just go the way of "you wanna hang out this weekend?"[/QUOTE]
Just go up to her, talk to her a bit, and when you're about to go away, just say, "So, would you be interested in doing something this weekend?"

The Fonz 02-09-2006 02:40 PM

[QUOTE=Tillius]Just go up to her, talk to her a bit, and when you're about to go away, just say, "So, would you be interested in doing something this weekend?"[/QUOTE]

aight yo, ain't dat da wa 2 go. dat ill get dat womin 2 go ot wit mi.


I'm so white. :upset:

me: so, umm, do you wanna go out sometiime?(its cool if you don't)
her um
her: well
her: kris and i did jsut break up
her: and i'm not really readyy yett
me: ayyyyy, no problem
her: yeah
me: yeah, alright, well, in a few weeks, ill try again

I'll make this a learning experience, what did i do wrong(not that i "failed", it wasnt a no, but you know")

Chaindrive 02-09-2006 02:42 PM

[QUOTE=Guns'n'Zeppelin023]aight yo, ain't dat da wa 2 go. dat ill get dat womin 2 go ot wit mi.


I'm so white. :upset:[/QUOTE]

:lol:

Stephanie 02-09-2006 02:43 PM

[QUOTE=thunderzstruck]

goddamn mind playing whores[/QUOTE]
Thats just exactly it.
And you got sucked into her game.

Tillius 02-09-2006 02:44 PM

[QUOTE=Guns'n'Zeppelin023]aight yo, ain't dat da wa 2 go. dat ill get dat womin 2 go ot wit mi.


I'm so white. :upset:[/QUOTE]
Umm, yeah.

B 02-09-2006 03:41 PM

I want to ask this girl out, but I just can't seem to ask her. Not like on a date, but like to go steady or whatever. Everytime I go to ask her I just can't seem to force it out. But I don't want it to just be me saying "would oyu go out with me" or anything, I kind of want it to be sweet. I may have to just force it out though, because I can't seem to get it out at all. This isn't really something anyone can help with. I'm just kind of typing it out.

Chaindrive 02-09-2006 04:06 PM

[QUOTE=Fire Whispers]I want to ask this girl out, but I just can't seem to ask her. Not like on a date, but like to go steady or whatever. Everytime I go to ask her I just can't seem to force it out. But I don't want it to just be me saying "would oyu go out with me" or anything, I kind of want it to be sweet. I may have to just force it out though, because I can't seem to get it out at all. This isn't really something anyone can help with. I'm just kind of typing it out.[/QUOTE]

Can you write her a note?

Tillius 02-09-2006 04:08 PM

[QUOTE=Guns'n'Zeppelin023]aight yo, ain't dat da wa 2 go. dat ill get dat womin 2 go ot wit mi.


I'm so white. :upset:

me: so, umm, do you wanna go out sometiime?(its cool if you don't)
her um
her: well
her: kris and i did jsut break up
her: and i'm not really readyy yett
me: ayyyyy, no problem
her: yeah
me: yeah, alright, well, in a few weeks, ill try again

I'll make this a learning experience, what did i do wrong(not that i "failed", it wasnt a no, but you know")[/QUOTE]
This actually HAPPENED?

Vitriolic Rage 02-09-2006 04:16 PM

[QUOTE=pohl_56]Ya just gotta forget her. Hard but has to happen.

[/QUOTE]
That's right

B 02-09-2006 04:17 PM

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Can you write her a note?[/QUOTE]
I would.. but I don't know.. writing a note seems like I'd be wussing out of doing it in person.

El Coyote 02-09-2006 04:17 PM

[QUOTE=Tillius]Congrats.


Say no to chronic.:thumb:[/QUOTE]

You know I would, except I enjoy smoking it and it makes my crazyness subdue.

Loch Tess Monster 02-09-2006 04:18 PM

[QUOTE=Revolt!]
Though this recent bout of depression seems to have triggered the return of my schizophrenia and I'm in desperate need of chronic to get it back under control, I'm doing better.[/QUOTE]
: /

Do you see a psychiatrist for your schizophrenia or take medication or anything besides getting high all the time?

El Coyote 02-09-2006 04:18 PM

[QUOTE=Tess-Tube Baby]: /

Do you see a psychiatrist for your schizophrenia or take medication or anything besides getting high all the time?[/QUOTE]

I was on several medications in the army, none of which were continued after I came home.

Tillius 02-09-2006 04:19 PM

[QUOTE=El Coyote]You know I would, except I enjoy smoking it and it makes my crazyness subdue.[/QUOTE]
Sounds more like a crutch to me.

Loch Tess Monster 02-09-2006 04:23 PM

[QUOTE=El Coyote]I was on several medications in the army, none of which were continued after I came home.[/QUOTE]
Did they help you when you were on them? What were the side effects?

Chaindrive 02-09-2006 04:26 PM

[QUOTE=Fire Whispers]I would.. but I don't know.. writing a note seems like I'd be wussing out of doing it in person.[/QUOTE]

You are, but she doesn't need to know that. :p

Make it a really funny note.

El Coyote 02-09-2006 04:27 PM

[QUOTE=Tess-Tube Baby]Did they help you when you were on them? What were the side effects?[/QUOTE]

I wasn't really able to have mood swings or reality lapses because I was so drugged up from my medications.

The side effects? I couldn't function as a human being.

B 02-09-2006 04:28 PM

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]You are, but she doesn't need to know that. :p

Make it a really funny note.[/QUOTE]
:upset:

I might be able to do that. She seems to think i'm pretty funny so..

Chaindrive 02-09-2006 04:29 PM

[QUOTE=El Coyote]I wasn't really able to have mood swings or reality lapses because I was so drugged up from my medications.

The side effects? I couldn't function as a human being.[/QUOTE]

A long time ago I was on anti-depressants. They made me feel like that.

Chaindrive 02-09-2006 04:29 PM

[QUOTE=Fire Whispers]:upset:

I might be able to do that. She seems to think i'm pretty funny so..[/QUOTE]

That way you won't be so stressed out about the face to face thing...

B 02-09-2006 04:32 PM

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]That way you won't be so stressed out about the face to face thing...[/QUOTE]
That's true. I don't have to worry about her saying no though, so I'm not really sure what my problem is with doing it to her face.

Tillius 02-09-2006 04:36 PM

Fire Whispers, while a note can do good too, you're going to have much more of a chance with a face-to-face. She'll think you've got more courage that way.

B 02-09-2006 04:37 PM

I know, that's why I'm still thinking of asking her to her face, I just have to figure out how to do it. because I can't :-\

Gackt 02-09-2006 04:38 PM

Hey guys, Right well me and my girlfriend are fine or so i thought.

I have got to know some girl called Kirsty as a friend online that i talk to alot and i kinda moan sometimes to my girlfriend that she is annoying and flirts with me abit (which she does) but Kirsty is going through a bad time and she needs a friend.

So it seems that my girlfriend has been taking this really serious (she seemed to brush it off fine when i talk to her about Kirsty) i know she is pretty protective over me. Also which really gets on my nevies is she knows some guy called Chris who trys to 'touch' her. At first i thought she was just saying this but it always seems to be that he trys something and she hits him (which is cool, as my girl can handle herself)

But lately he seems to be doing it alot so i mentioned talking to him but it seems i can't contact him at all (my girlfriend goes to a diff school then me) and when i even mention beating him up alittle she says that she can handle it.

Anyway back to Kirsty, shes just a friend but my girlfriend mentioned telling her to stay away from me. So this evening i blocked Kirsty as she is always msging me and i was busy.Anyway im sitting at my computer browsering the forums and i got a email basically saying that my girlfriends best friend has been talking to Kirsty and told her to stay away from cus my girlfriend is really pissed off.

I don't know what to do as i shouldn't know and my girlfriend hasn't said anything about it :s

thanks for listening and hi new thread:wave:

EDIT: cleared it up abit

Tillius 02-09-2006 04:40 PM

[QUOTE=Fire Whispers]I know, that's why I'm still thinking of asking her to her face, I just have to figure out how to do it. because I can't :-\[/QUOTE]
It's natural to be nervous, and therefore there will be no easy way of doing it. So, just go with the flow, let it come out of your mouth naturally. Don't go up to her with some planned in detail way you were going to ask her out. Just be yourself and act natural. Best advice I can give ya.

[quote=Gackt]Hey guys,

Right well me and my girlfriend are fine or so i thought. I know some girl on msn that i talk to alot and i kinda moan that she is annoying and flirts with me abit (which she does) but shes going through a bad time and she needs a friend.

So it seems that my girlfriend has been taking this really serious (she seemed to brush it off fine when i talk to her about this girl) i know she is pretty protective over me. Also which really gets on my nevies is she knows some guy called Chris who trys to 'touch' her. At first i thought she was just saying this but it always seems to be that he trys something and she hits him (which is cool, as my girl can handle herself)

But lately he seems to be doing it alot so i mentioned talking to him but it seems i can't contact him at all (my girlfriend goes to a diff school then me) and when i even mention beating him up alittle she says that she can handle it.

Anyway back to this girl, shes just a friend but my girlfriend mentioned telling her to stay away from me. So this evening i blocked this girl as she is annoying when im trying to watch a movie. Anyway half war through i got a email basically saying that my girlfriends best friend has been talking to this girl and told her to stay away from cus my girl is really pissed off.

I don't know what to do as i shouldn't know and my girlfriend hasn't said anything about it :s

thanks for listening and hi new thread[/quote]
I have no idea what you just said.

B 02-09-2006 04:45 PM

[QUOTE=Tillius]It's natural to be nervous, and therefore there will be no easy way of doing it. So, just go with the flow, let it come out of your mouth naturally. Don't go up to her with some planned in detail way you were going to ask her out. Just be yourself and act natural. Best advice I can give ya.[/QUOTE]
Thanks. I'm hoping to do it tomorrow, I just have to rack up the courage to do it first.

I already know she'll say yes too, so i'm just being dumb really :(

Pazz 02-09-2006 04:45 PM

[QUOTE=Fire Whispers]I know, that's why I'm still thinking of asking her to her face, I just have to figure out how to do it. because I can't :-\[/QUOTE]

Do what I did?

Ask her out and at lunch when the two of you are alone. You can do it after school too. But I think a note would work too. I actually considered it.

Tillius 02-09-2006 04:47 PM

[QUOTE=Fire Whispers]Thanks. I'm hoping to do it tomorrow, I just have to rack up the courage to do it first.

I already know she'll say yes too, so i'm just being dumb really :([/QUOTE]
Okay, it's good if you already know that she'll say yes.
However, there is a difference in being confident and being cocky.
Going in there being confident is good, but don't act too cocky like you'll know she'll say yes, just let the confidence help you out a bit.

B 02-09-2006 04:48 PM

[QUOTE=Pazz]Do what I did?

Ask her out and at lunch when the two of you are alone. You can do it after school too. But I think a note would work too. I actually considered it.[/QUOTE]
We're hardly ever alone at lunch :-\

Tillius: Yeah I know, I'm not exactly a confident person, nevermind cocky :p

lil_drummer_girl 02-09-2006 04:48 PM

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]A long time ago I was on anti-depressants. They made me feel like that.[/QUOTE]

They just make me completely lose my sex drive. Hooray.

Pazz 02-09-2006 04:49 PM

[QUOTE=Fire Whispers]We're hardly ever alone at lunch :-\

Tillius: Yeah I know, I'm not exactly a confident person, nevermind cocky :p[/QUOTE]

True. At the end of the day may be easier. I can keep some of the people away. If I just told Meg, she would like clear the damn hallway for you.

B 02-09-2006 04:52 PM

Lmao I know.

The end of the day is lame though. I probably will at lunch and just ask her to talk for a sec*.




*sex >_>

Pazz 02-09-2006 04:53 PM

[QUOTE=Fire Whispers]Lmao I know.

The end of the day is lame though. I probably will at lunch and just ask her to talk for a sec*.




*sex >_>[/QUOTE]

Alright, sounds good. I will be seeing before 5th period if you asked her out or not.:p


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