Love and Relationships Thread, no spam allowed

***morrissey*** · 02-08-2006, 08:47 PM

A new thread, same rules apply. Any Love or Relationship advice/questions go in here, serious questions only.

Enjoy.

Here are the old threads for reference:
http://www.musicianforums.com/forums/showthread.php?t=162078
http://www.musicianforums.com/forums/showthread.php?t=223609

thunderzstruck · 02-08-2006, 08:50 PM

My last couple of posts:

yeah.. i am starting to realize that. I can't believe I thought she actually had some decency in her once. (That's one of the reasons I liked her a lot)

If she just wants to **** around like this **** her. Seriously. I thought she was one of the only girls I met with some decency but I have just noticed she actually doesn't care.

The fact that all of this is being treated as a joke to her. She has gone and told her friends on how "badly" I treated her. She has over exaggarated every small bad thing I have done and now suddenly the breakup is MY fault.

She was talking to me about her new boyfriend last night and how good he treats her and just this.

There's a lot more too but yeeah these are only what I can come up with off the top of my head.

Special Brew · 02-08-2006, 08:52 PM

Why exactly was a new thread needed?

Tiger · 02-08-2006, 08:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Wizard.

Why exactly was a new thread needed?

The old one was filled with tears and vaginal fluid.

zombie autopilot · 02-08-2006, 08:55 PM

To start fresh.

Scoot · 02-08-2006, 08:57 PM

I was worried for a second.

*Jom* · 02-08-2006, 08:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Wizard.

Why exactly was a new thread needed?

I don't know; Amit wanted it closed because it was getting big or something.

YOU SPAM, JOM SMASH BWAHAHAHA.

pohl_56 · 02-08-2006, 08:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by thunderzstruck

My last couple of posts:

yeah.. i am starting to realize that. I can't believe I thought she actually had some decency in her once. (That's one of the reasons I liked her a lot)

If she just wants to **** around like this **** her. Seriously. I thought she was one of the only girls I met with some decency but I have just noticed she actually doesn't care.

The fact that all of this is being treated as a joke to her. She has gone and told her friends on how "badly" I treated her. She has over exaggarated every small bad thing I have done and now suddenly the breakup is MY fault.

She was talking to me about her new boyfriend last night and how good he treats her and just this.

There's a lot more too but yeeah these are only what I can come up with off the top of my head.

Ya just gotta forget her. Hard but has to happen.

Hey new thread!!!

I Am a Hat · 02-08-2006, 09:01 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by thunderzstruck

...

use it to learn from, don't forget it.

the way you acted in that relationship made her bored, made her lose her attraction towards you, and lose all respect for you it seems.

learning process activate

thunderzstruck · 02-08-2006, 09:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by pohl_56

Ya just gotta forget her. Hard but has to happen.

Hey new thread!!!

yeah.. im going to try to cut almost to all connection with her..

but its so hard seeing a 2 year friendship just die right now. She emphasized last night when we were talking that she still wants to be friends and that I'll be able to get over it and we just hang out like we used to.

I really wanted to but because of all of what happened tonight I am realizing that I am nothing more than a joke to her. She doesn't care about me or anything to do with me. ****
I just can't comprehend how after being such great friends and such she can just downplay all of this.

JohnXDoesn't · 02-08-2006, 09:03 PM

Wow. Hello new emo thread.

EDIT: Where is Kimmie? She's gotta break tihs one in.....

thunderzstruck · 02-08-2006, 09:06 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by I Am a Hat

use it to learn from, don't forget it.

the way you acted in that relationship made her bored, made her lose her attraction towards you, and lose all respect for you it seems.

learning process activate

I am REALLY starting to agree with Tiger and Hat's views. I noticed before all of this that they were just pessemisstic but I am realizng it's the TRUTH.

She asked last night "Why didn't you ever call me beautiful?

" I was just like "COME ON! I called you pretty and everything else but it just flew right past you. Beautiful wouldn't have dont ANYTHING."

goddamn mind playing whores

Tiger · 02-08-2006, 09:07 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by thunderzstruck

I am REALLY starting to agree with Tiger and Hat's views. I noticed before all of this that they were just pessemisstic but I am realizng it's the TRUTH.

You guys always say that once you're not blinded by desire or 'love'. The second you guys are thinking rationally and clearly you magically begin to agree with what we say.

Odd.

thunderzstruck · 02-08-2006, 09:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tiger

You guys always say that once you're not blinded by desire or 'love'. The second you guys are thinking rationally and clearly you magically begin to agree with what we say.

Odd.

Yeah, it's the truth.

Now all I have to do is go meet new girls...

I Am a Hat · 02-08-2006, 09:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by thunderzstruck

She asked last night "Why didn't you ever call me beautiful?

" I was just like "COME ON! I called you pretty and everything else but it just flew right past you. Beautiful wouldn't have dont ANYTHING."

goddamn mind playing whores

thats the reaction she was looking for there.

i would've just asked her why she never bought me flowers or something.

all throughout the relationship keep it playful and not take her seriously when she throughs out little tests like that.

Quote:

Originally Posted by thunderzstruck

Yeah, it's the truth.

Now all I have to do is go meet new girls...

hell ya

thunderzstruck · 02-08-2006, 09:13 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by I Am a Hat

thats the reaction she was looking for there.

i would've just asked her why she never bought me flowers or something.

all throughout the relationship keep it playful and not take her seriously when she throughs out little tests like that.

Yeah, I did do it a lot. But some of them would actually get to me.

The ones that didn't though she got mad at me because it didn't work. She was talking on how some guy was staring at her in school and she told me about it. I just said, "that means I have a hot girlfriend, that's a compliment to me!" (joking manner) She then got mad and said "I guess you don't care, you're supposed to get jealous!!"

*rollzeyes*

Timm · 02-08-2006, 09:21 PM

sounds like a little drama queen
your ex that is

Chaindrive · 02-08-2006, 09:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JohnXDoe

Wow. Hello new emo thread.

EDIT: Where is Kimmie? She's gotta break tihs one in.....

Hi, new thread.

*hugs new thread*

Tillius · 02-08-2006, 09:24 PM

Holy freakin crap. What did I miss?

mcmurray · 02-08-2006, 09:29 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by thunderzstruck

but its so hard seeing a 2 year friendship just die right now. She emphasized last night when we were talking that she still wants to be friends and that I'll be able to get over it and we just hang out like we used to.

I really wanted to but because of all of what happened tonight I am realizing that I am nothing more than a joke to her. She doesn't care about me or anything to do with me. ****
I just can't comprehend how after being such great friends and such she can just downplay all of this.

i've been there, and i know it's shitty. usually when they say they want to still be friends, it's so they don't feel bad and/or mean. that happened to me last year and she only talked to me a minimal amout about a week after the breakup, and never talked to me again after that.

you just have to move on and don't worry about it anymore.

02-08-2006, 08:47 PM	#1
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02-08-2006, 08:50 PM	#2
thunderzstruck Here's to Life! Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: Minnesota Posts: 6,319	My last couple of posts: yeah.. i am starting to realize that. I can't believe I thought she actually had some decency in her once. (That's one of the reasons I liked her a lot) If she just wants to ** around like this ** her. Seriously. I thought she was one of the only girls I met with some decency but I have just noticed she actually doesn't care. The fact that all of this is being treated as a joke to her. She has gone and told her friends on how "badly" I treated her. She has over exaggarated every small bad thing I have done and now suddenly the breakup is MY fault. She was talking to me about her new boyfriend last night and how good he treats her and just this. There's a lot more too but yeeah these are only what I can come up with off the top of my head.

02-08-2006, 08:52 PM	#3
Special Brew does not hate fun Join Date: Oct 2004 Posts: 23,012	Why exactly was a new thread needed?

02-08-2006, 08:55 PM	#5
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JohnXDoesn't Trolled off MX Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: i got told Posts: 19,671	Wow. Hello new emo thread. EDIT: Where is Kimmie? She's gotta break tihs one in.....

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Tillius Custom User Title Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Dallywood Posts: 12,563	Holy freakin crap. What did I miss?