My apologies, man.

Can someone give me a recap of what his story is? Everybody's story seems like it's the same, and I don't want to get any of them confused.

That way, I can either justify or not justify laughing at this most recent development :/

EDIT: Nevermind, I looked back four pages and saw the whole "I'm fifteen and she's perfect and my dad said not to get a hold of her while she's in a relationship" shpeal.

[QUOTE=bumblebeebass]this is random, but im a little confused ok so here goes
my girlfriend ( im gay just for future reference) and i have been going out for about a month and all of a sudden any time she's with me she acts like she would rather be some place else. (now here's the confusing part) so i leave her alone for a while, ya know back off, give her space and then she like pulls a swicheroo and calls like twice a day every day :confused: any advice?[/QUOTE]
she was bored. which is a reaction to the way you were behaving.

then you started behaving differently. in a more "hard to get" way from her point of view.

she became more attracted and starts calling all the time.

there is no problem now. just make sure you maintain a nice balance between her compliance (calling you, demonstating her interest in you,....) and your attainablity to keep her interest in you.


and for gods sake, you SHOULDN'T talk about this whole episode with her. they way you acted (pulling back) worked. don't do the opposite (displaying that you're worried "OH MY GOD WHATS WRONG AHH PLEASE TALK TO ME")

so my mate is looking for a 2nd girl for a threesome. i know a girl who might be up for it, and am gonna hook him up

should i demand nude pics of the first girl (not his gf) in return?

bear in mind i have a gf, but this girl is hooot...

[QUOTE=Corkofski]so my mate is looking for a 2nd girl for a threesome. i know a girl who might be up for it, and am gonna hook him up

should i demand nude pics of the first girl (not his gf) in return?

bear in mind i have a gf, but this girl is hooot...[/QUOTE]

You sound like a douche. Seriously.












I like someone and I get the faintest hint that she's interested in me as well. :D

how do i sound like a douche, out of intrest?

[QUOTE=Corkofski]how do i sound like a douche, out of intrest?[/QUOTE]

oh I dunno might've had something to do with

[QUOTE]should i demand nude pics of the first girl (not his gf) in return?

bear in mind i have a gf, but this girl is hooot...[/QUOTE]

s'only like looking at porno?

[QUOTE=Corkofski]s'only like looking at animal photographso?[/QUOTE]

it's definitly not. You're talking about approaching a girl to ask her to have sex with not you, not only your friend, but his girlfriend as well.

And saying you won't do it unless he gets you pics of her naked.

I'm just saying that sounds pretty douchelike.

So i have a question.

My girlfriend doesnt want to orgasm... I've gotten her to the point plenty of times, but she wont do it. She always stops and says she doesnt want to do it anymore... help?

[QUOTE=littledrummerboy]So i have a question.

My girlfriend doesnt want to orgasm... I've gotten her to the point plenty of times, but she wont do it. She always stops and says she doesnt want to do it anymore... help?[/QUOTE]

just don't stop man

she'll change her mind.

edit: Well maybe you should try talking to her about it, too.

[QUOTE=littledrummerboy]So i have a question.

My girlfriend doesnt want to orgasm... I've gotten her to the point plenty of times, but she wont do it. She always stops and says she doesnt want to do it anymore... help?[/QUOTE]

She's scared. When she tells you to stop, just keep going until she can't repress it anymore. She'll thank you for it afterwards.

EDIT: And yeah, talk to her. Maybe she's shy to reach that point around you because she's a heavy squirter? I've known girls like that. Just tell her you'll keep a towel handy or something.

[QUOTE=Iscariot]She's scared. When she tells you to stop, just keep going until she can't repress it anymore. She'll thank you for it afterwards.

EDIT: And yeah, talk to her. Maybe she's shy to reach that point around you because she's a heavy squirter? I've known girls like that. Just tell her you'll keep a towel handy or something.[/QUOTE]

Or she'll hate him.

[QUOTE=Chrysostom]Or she'll hate him.[/QUOTE]

Or she'll want round two to commence.

[QUOTE=Chrysostom]Or she'll hate him.[/QUOTE]

I can't imagine that being possible unless there's a real reason and not just her insecurity.

In that case, he needs to talk to her.

[QUOTE=Iscariot]Or she'll want round two to commence.[/QUOTE]

W0rd. :cool:

[QUOTE=littledrummerboy]So i have a question.

My girlfriend doesnt want to orgasm... I've gotten her to the point plenty of times, but she wont do it. She always stops and says she doesnt want to do it anymore... help?[/QUOTE]
when she says stop get up and check your email

freezeout motha****a

just act normal. not pissed because that's being reactive and thats lame. you just have better things to do.

you seriously have to find out why she doesn't want to come though. how old are you guys?

and i wouldn't do the "keep going until she can't repress it anymore". in general, when a girl says "stop" or "no" its a good idea to listen. "we shouldn't be doing this" just verbally agree but continue doing what you're doing. but with "stop" or "no" a freezeout is a better idea.
[QUOTE=Corkofski]so my mate is looking for a 2nd girl for a threesome. i know a girl who might be up for it, and am gonna hook him up

should i demand nude pics of the first girl (not his gf) in return?

bear in mind i have a gf, but this girl is hooot...[/QUOTE]
him and his gf should find a girl themselves, its good bonding

[QUOTE=I Am a Hat]when she says stop get up and check your email

freezeout motha****a

just act normal. not pissed because that's being reactive and thats lame. you just have better things to do.

you seriously have to find out why she doesn't want to come though. how old are you guys?

and i wouldn't do the "keep going until she can't repress it anymore". in general, when a girl says "stop" or "no" its a good idea to listen. "we shouldn't be doing this" just verbally agree but continue doing what you're doing. but with "stop" or "no" a freezeout is a better idea.[/QUOTE]

Like I said..if he talks to her and finds out it's just insecurity he should warn her that he isn't going to stop next time.

It's what I would do.

On the other hand, if she was actually afraid of something, I'd stop, but I'd still want to know what it was.

[QUOTE=AmericanWeiner]I can't imagine that being possible unless there's a real reason and not just her insecurity.

In that case, he needs to talk to her.[/QUOTE]
I have talked to her, alot. And it doesnt get any further. She's never done it (or so she says) and she says she is scared of it. I wouldnt know why but yeah. And she doesn't say "Stop I wanna get up and check my email" or something like that she just says to stop because its "So sensitive it hurts"...

As far as theey "reactive thing' goe, Im fine with it, I don't really mind. And i'm NOT going to keep going. Thats callled RAPE kiddies.

[QUOTE=littledrummerboy]I have talked to her, alot. And it doesnt get any further. She's never done it (or so she says) and she says she is scared of it. I wouldnt know why but yeah. And she doesn't say "Stop I wanna get up and check my email" or something like that she just says to stop because its "So sensitive it hurts"...[/QUOTE]

..Well that doesn't sound like fear at all.

That's a real problem and you need to change up how you get here there. Some girls are like that, and if you find the right place (you're probably knocking her clit a little too hard and missing the gspot completely), she'd probably love it.

EDIT: At the rape comment- the situation is entirely different than if she had been insecure about how she might lock up or squirt or whatever.

She needs to figure out how to get herself there comfortably, really, before you can help. That's all I really know.

Hey Guys and Gals,

Hows things? Aint been on in a long while. Hope all is well with ye'

Me on the other hand, im good. In the middle of my exams here in Ireland (Leaving Cert =/ )
Anyway on the L&R front. Me and sierra are going great, her mom wants me to come over to see her in the US. Ive been seeing so much of her latley, but this week she had to go to a workers weekend so yea. I drank a half bottle of whiskey last night for some reason. With a friend of course. But yea anyway i had to make a decision on going to Cambridge or staying with her. I Decided to stay here. Ive applied to Volunteer Work here, and ive got an Interview Lined up this week sometime.
She is coming down for a couple days again this week and hopefully when i go to Dublin for my interview, il take the night in her place in Dundalk 2hrs north of Dublin...

So anyway all is well and good. And yes. SHe is worth life changing decisions.

=)

No, I'm fairly sure I know what I'm doing. Like I said I can get her there fine, but she doesnt want to. I've even tried using KY and such..

[QUOTE=littledrummerboy]No, I'm fairly sure I know what I'm doing. Like I said I can get her there fine, but she doesnt want to. I've even tried using KY and such..[/QUOTE]

Well, you obviously don't, sir, if it's hurting her that badly. Driving a tank through your mail box isn't exactly the best way to get rid of bills, after all.

[QUOTE=AmericanWeiner]Well, you obviously don't, sir, if it's hurting her that badly. Driving a tank through your mail box isn't exactly the best way to get rid of bills, after all.[/QUOTE]
:lol:

No, it doesnt HUIRT her dude. You misunderstood. It's too sensitive. Get it? Like, shes there but she wont do it. It feels like she could orgasm but she doesnt want to. She's explained it to me.

She still enjoys the sex and stuff but I don't like sex being one sided, I want her to have the full experience.

[QUOTE=littledrummerboy]No, it doesnt HUIRT her dude. You misunderstood. It's too sensitive. Get it? Like, shes there but she wont do it. It feels like she could orgasm but she doesnt want to. She's explained it to me.

She still enjoys the sex and stuff but I don't like sex being one sided, I want her to have the full experience.[/QUOTE]

K well too sensitive and hurting come to the same conclusion- she wants to stop.

What do you want us to say?

[QUOTE=littledrummerboy]No, it doesnt HUIRT her dude. You misunderstood. It's too sensitive. Get it? Like, shes there but she wont do it. It feels like she could orgasm but she doesnt want to. She's explained it to me.

She still enjoys the sex and stuff but I don't like sex being one sided, I want her to have the full experience.[/QUOTE]

This is easily the strangest problem I've come (no pun intended) across in this thread.

Yeah exactly, I've never heard of the problem before. I just want to know what shes afraid of.

She told me once that she's seen videos of girls who squirt and shes afraid she would. I told her i wouldnt care, but it didnt help at all lol

[QUOTE=littledrummerboy]Yeah exactly, I've never heard of the problem before. I just want to know what shes afraid of.

She told me once that she's seen videos of girls who squirt and shes afraid she would. I told her i wouldnt care, but it didnt help at all lol[/QUOTE]

Tell her to talk to her friends or try it out alone (tub faucets work wonders). It sounds like you're just spinning your wheels.

[QUOTE=AmericanWeiner]Tell her to talk to her friends or [B]try it out alone [/B](tub faucets work wonders). It sounds like you're just spinning your wheels.[/QUOTE]

Good idea.

[QUOTE=AmericanWeiner]it's definitly not. You're talking about approaching a girl to ask her to have sex with not you, not only your friend, but his girlfriend as well.

And saying you won't do it unless he gets you pics of her naked.

I'm just saying that sounds pretty douchelike.[/QUOTE]
y'all got a bit confused. should have been clearer.

he has found one girl, who isnt his gf, but hes done before, and has pics of her.

he wants another girl, but not m,any people know about him and the other girl so hes asking me to scout and find willing gals