Acanthus
08.31.11 | This especially happens when I glance through and see my ex or old friends who were hardcore into one scene or another. |
Restrikted
08.31.11 | yeah this girl used to be awesome and now she's a slutty scene |
theacademy
08.31.11 | i do this regularly. |
Acanthus
08.31.11 | Obviously people change, but sometimes it's ridiculous to look at from an "outsiders" point of view especially if you knew them well. |
Restrikted
08.31.11 | why do they have to announce the carter IV on the FB page it was so gay |
Acanthus
08.31.11 | Socially facebook is interesting in an of itself, the mix of avatars vs the "real" person is fun to watch.
I'm sure people look at my profile and say the same, visually I'm a completely different person than I used to be. |
toxin.
08.31.11 | Now that you come to think of it, I actually do that. But only with people whom I know well who have changed |
taxidermist
08.31.11 | Facebook is funny as fuck. Was messing with my cousins friends today. Funny stuff. |
Ovrot
08.31.11 | rammstein rule |
theashesfromautumn01
08.31.11 | facebook is a waste of time |
Acanthus
08.31.11 | Hell yeah they do, I love Mutter, Reise Reise, and Liebe Ist Fur Alle Da though I need their other work. |
Acanthus
08.31.11 | FB helps me annoy people (i.e keep in touch) but I can see where it could be a waste of time. |
Ovrot
08.31.11 | rammstein in my top 10 bands
i love everything they ever do |
Acanthus
08.31.11 | They have some great tracks, and their merch is awesome; can't wait to get a couple of hoodies and posters. |
Ovrot
08.31.11 | They will be touring the us soon too |
Acanthus
08.31.11 | Sweet, I missed them when they came through with Combichrist. |
someguest
08.31.11 | u jus lick cock |
Ovrot
08.31.11 | i just hope the tickets aren't too expensive |
someguest
08.31.11 | ovrot do you listen to mann gegen mann during intercourse |
Acanthus
08.31.11 | I don't mind paying $100+ to see them honestly, price doesn't matter to much to me if I enjoy the group.
@someguest - you jelly? |
someguest
08.31.11 | i worked a full day then sat at a repair shop for hours
have to take out my inner rage on the internet |
Acanthus
08.31.11 | Repair shops suck, rage away sir!
Though tbh I listened to their Mutter album when I first had sex : P |
someguest
08.31.11 | what did she mutter tell me I must know let me hear it what happened TELL ME NOW
lol |
Acanthus
08.31.11 | As far as I remember there wasn't any muttering, could be wrong though. She was German ironically enough. |
acorncheese
09.01.11 | i keep below 55 facebook friends. rules that way. |
someguest
09.01.11 | did she have SS tattooed on her intimates |
toxin.
09.01.11 | Facebook absolutely is a waste of time. I feel when I'm 28, though, it'll be exceedingly useful in keeping touch with my old friends. I should really, really delete all the idiots I don't talk to. I don't know what's the point of having 610 friends when I talk to 150 tops. |
Ovrot
09.01.11 | ovrot do you listen to mann gegen mann during intercourse
nope
Bück dich
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WE3-4VvIpXA&feature=related
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acorncheese
09.01.11 | "Facebook absolutely is a waste of time."
absolutely false. facebook rules. it's just a giant hangout with all your friends 24/7.
"I don't know what's the point of having 610 friends when I talk to 150 tops."
absolutely true. you'll feel amazing after you trim that fucking FAT. and only see updates from the people you care about. |
PayneTiger777
09.01.11 | Anyone who requests me for something in Farmville or any other stupid game gets deleted. |
Aids
09.01.11 | "Anyone who requests me for something in Farmville or any other stupid game gets deleted."
haha awesome good to know I'm not the only one who does this. that zombie-whatever game seriously got about half my grade 12 class deleted. |
Ovrot
09.01.11 | i schedule to go on facebook about once a month. |
someguest
09.01.11 | not surprised |
Yuli
09.01.11 | this list motivated me to whittle down my friends list to 173. |
Vesper
09.01.11 | "Though tbh I listened to their Mutter album when I first had sex : P"
Trying so hard not to make an Oedipal joke here, Acanthus... |
PistolPete
09.01.11 | I'm constantly evolving into far superior upgraded versions of myself. I'm currently on version 21.3.4, new model comes out in October. |
swallowtales
09.01.11 | 3 is great. |
Acanthus
09.01.11 | I keep 100 FB friends, it keeps things simple while ensuring that I care about what most of them post half the time. Though when I'm trying to find new faces to invite to things it kinda sucks.
@someguest - nope, she didn't get tat's until we'd dated a bit.
@Vesper - you cruel cruel woman! |
FromDaHood
09.01.11 | Don't get the whole 'keep belows deal. It's kind of cool to see what people you might not talk to are up to |
Acanthus
09.01.11 | Hmm I can see your point, I have a lot of people who would add me because I went to school with them and such but they never once said a word or replied to comments made. This way I know the caring is mutual I suppose. |
someguest
09.01.11 | "Hmm I can see your point, I have a lot of people who would add me because I went to school with them and such but they never once said a word or replied to comments made."
Yep, that's why I deleted more than half of my "friends". |
Acanthus
09.01.11 | There's also scientific studies concerning ones ability to balance/actually care for online friend groups over 150 or so people.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dunbar%27s_number -> the works cited helps if you're interested in the source material. |
Banion
09.01.11 | "This especially happens when I glance through and see my ex or old friends who were hardcore into one scene or another."
Uh huh... When you "glance"... Right... (Cyber stalking exes, we're all guilty, don't be ashamed) |
someguest
09.01.11 | That's why I had to remove Banion as a friend. |
Banion
09.01.11 | ^ True story. |
Acanthus
09.01.11 | Bwahaha both you and Vesper with the insight-fulness/creepyness!
On a serious note she made a point to keep me on there and I her; after her depression cleared up a bit and she was going to move out of state we talked one last time and I helped her out a bit financially like she had when we dated. I didn't want any strings attached anymore, no "you owe me for...." possibilities. I actually have her posts blocked, I don't desire to see what she's up to I just see her picture when she is online.... do I really cyber stalk!?!!?!?! |
someguest
09.01.11 | it sucks when you're still in that "I won't care about anyone else as much as I did her" rut
o well GOTTA CUT |
Banion
09.01.11 | "do I really cyber stalk!?!!?!?!"
You lie, that's one thing that's for sure. YOU STALKED. |
Acanthus
09.01.11 | "STALKED" - past tense, I can agree with that. |
Banion
09.01.11 | *YOU STALK AND ALWAYS WILL. |
Acanthus
09.01.11 | Whoa now, all this finality is a too sudden! If I'm doomed to stalk forever and always can I at least pick a more interesting person? Or a group, a group sounds cool? |
FromDaHood
09.01.11 | Anyone who says they don't stalk is a shameless liar |
taxidermist
09.01.11 | I don't stalk. Come at me. |
Apollo
09.01.11 | dude 3 rules hard
one of the best live shows I have seen |
Acanthus
09.01.11 | I love their videos from the Family Values Tour in '98; they certainly know how to put on a show.
@FromDaHood - I know sir. |
Vesper
09.01.11 | Sorry, man, had to say it. I know I would have burst out laughing if someone had me take their virginity to an album called "Mother", hahaha.
Especially if you got to the title track and it got to this line:
Ich durfte keine Nippel lecken
und keine Falte zum verstecken |
Acanthus
09.01.11 | I never realized what I was getting myself into here.... |
someguest
09.01.11 | nippel lecken eh |
Acanthus
09.01.11 | Hey now don't go making it out to be all boring or anything |
Vesper
09.01.11 | I apologize, I hope I haven't (completely) destroyed your memory of your first time. :)
Oh, as for your actual topic, I do that sometimes, but I also tend to keep my friends around 100. It's weird to search for people you used to know and find that they're completely different now. Like one of my friends in high school used to be this total tomboy punk girl, but now she has rainbow pot leaves tattooed on her ribcage and is a raver/slutty Asian girl (funnily enough, she and I used to hate on those types). |
Masochist
09.01.11 | Does anyone think that they're the person that other people are noticing the change in? |
Acanthus
09.01.11 | You didn't ruin anything, no worries (it's fun to be melodramatic on the internet).
I actually never search for anyone, they all just seem to find me. A lot of the friends I had through school end up not talking to me (religious reasons mainly, differing views) and that's fine. Since I mess with the industrial nights a lot of my friends are now far older which is strange to consider. |
Acanthus
09.01.11 | @Masochist - absolutely sir! I went from being average/inconspicuous to looking like a gothic rocker; tattoo's, piercings, make-up, all of it. I'm also far more curious about things and have a decidedly atheistic viewpoint towards religion, I'm sure a lot of people are surprised by my changes as well. |
Vesper
09.01.11 | Haha, okay.
Yeah, I hardly ever add anyone and block most people from high school who try to add me, but, occasionally, I wonder what happened to someone.
I've definitely changed a lot over the past few years, but I think most people expected the whole getting tattoos and wearing more black clothes thing from me, haha. |
Acanthus
09.01.11 | The visual changes are the ones readily available to the "public" eye but I really enjoy the mental/emotional changes as well. One of my friends went from being a bow hunting, Halo playing nerd to a devout Christian who goes to Haiti to help out the poor. It's weird to see him like that, and we don't get along since he views me as "lost" but it seems to make him happy.
No one really expected anything from me, but I like where I am for the most part. |
someguest
09.01.11 | "It's weird to see him like that, and we don't get along since he views me as "lost" but it seems to make him happy."
I don't like reading these kind of examples. Your friend should learn from Christ. The only people he hung around with were those who didn't believe in him, because overall they were much more genuine and caring individuals. A lot of people caught up deeply in religion are heartless. |
Trebor.
09.01.11 | I enjoy my Facebook chats with Polymath |
Acanthus
09.01.11 | It only happens on occasion, he asked once if I believed in the devil (or Satan, not sure on exact wording) and one of my other buddies (a devout Catholic, he's insanely awesome and has never batted an eye at anything I do/wear) was like "I'm pretty sure he's an atheist, so that'd be no"
I was pretty impressed to say the least, an opened the post up to discussion between the three of us but my other friend never replied, just dropped the subject and hasn't really spoken to me since other than to ask if I "wanted to run the world" or some such. |
someguest
09.01.11 | A true friend wouldn't abandon you, no matter the shit you're going through. |
Acanthus
09.01.11 | Indeed, I've got a couple like that (my Catholic buddy included). It's not a big deal to me though, having a few people dislike me in general is nothing new. |
Vesper
09.01.11 | Well, I was the "crazy artist girl" at my high school - one of my friends wrote a senior yearbook page about me and he collected all these joke quotes from my friends like "She isn't emo, she's just misunderstood!"
But, yeah, you get my drift - people who've kept up with me aren't surprised at the way my music tastes and my image (lol) have progressed. Unless they talk to me a lot, they wouldn't know much about my ideological changes over the years, though.
My Christian friends at college and my church back in Georgia had a talk with me when I announced my atheism, but they're all pretty smart and didn't do the whole "lost sheep" thing on me. |
Acanthus
09.01.11 | Good for you miss! As for being a "crazy artist girl" I must say that they are always interesting, art is something I cannot due yet I love to observe.
My family doesn't enjoy speaking with me, I'm not allowed inside their home unless I look "normal" and such; I think they recently figured out my atheism, hence the not speaking to me for an even longer than normal period of time. |
Vesper
09.01.11 | I definitely tone down my look when I visit my parents. They wouldn't refuse entry, lol, but it's not worth their nagging, so I wear shirts that cover my tattoos and don't wear anything too *outlandish*, hahaha. |
Hyperion1001
09.01.11 | I was wearing my Death shirt the other day and my mom was like "cool shirt". |
Acanthus
09.01.11 | All my tattoos are hidden if I'm wearing a shirt, my piercings not so much. I get annoyed having to take off eye-liner and nail polish just so I can go eat a family dinner, one of my pet peeves.
@Hyperion1001 - I roomed with a guy who's mom was like that, it's legitimately awesome. |
Hyperion1001
09.01.11 | Yeah it's awesome, she woke me up today to listen to an interview on the radio with the Wu-Tang.
She's so awesome. |
Acanthus
09.01.11 | I like when parents share their musical tastes/enthusiasm, I only got an appreciation for the 70's z.B. The Bee Gees. Throw in my love for Blondie and you've got what my parents passed on. |
Hyperion1001
09.01.11 | I wouldn't say she really shares my musical tastes, she likes a lot of the stuff i play but some of it not really.
But she's still super cool about anything i decide to do/listen to/watch whatever. |
Acanthus
09.01.11 | Right on, sounds like a good parent-child relationship within reason! |
AngelofDeath
09.01.11 | I got my mom into Fell Voices. m/ |
Acanthus
09.01.11 | I got mine to appreciate (though not like per say) Manson, I have not clue how that worked out. |
AngelofDeath
09.01.11 | I don't dress very much like a metalhead. Usually try to throw on a band tee or something when going to shows so I don't get called a hipster faggot or something. |
Ire
09.01.11 | dunno if we're still on topic
i had a friend who taught me guitar and got me into a ton of bm and dm when i was a freshman. he was fat and was awesome at bass.
he doesn't play guitar or bass anymore and is super buff and skinny. sellout |
Acanthus
09.01.11 | I wear band tee's until I go to a concert, then I wear a plain white shirt to be different and proceed to rock out. |
Acanthus
09.01.11 | @ Ire - topic doesn't matter sir, post away! As for your buddy it's weird... it sounds as if he musically digressed while physically improving?
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Ire
09.01.11 | he introduced me to cynic and death
m/ rip |
AngelofDeath
09.01.11 | Nothing wrong with studding out if you still listen to cool jams. |
Acanthus
09.01.11 | Indeed there isn't, Sputniks got a surprisingly good collection of buff/ok people it seems. |
foreverendeared
09.01.11 | There are actual support groups for what you guys are talking about. People who grew up in religion, renounced it later, and get treated differently by their family because of it. |
Acanthus
09.01.11 | Somehow I don't doubt it, though I'd be lying if I said it didn't strike me as odd; never considered going anywhere for help. |
foreverendeared
09.01.11 | Well, it's not so much a help group as it is just a community of people who are in the same position as you're in. From what I understand, you eat pizza and drink beer and just meet like-minded people. |
Acanthus
09.01.11 | Haha sounds like an interesting place, I don't know if I'd go now but before I meet some people I might have gone at least once out of boredom/loneliness due to the shelter.
Seems like they've got groups for just about everything these days. |
foreverendeared
09.01.11 | Yeah, that's true. |
Acanthus
09.01.11 | One of the benefits of the internet I suppose, people banding together. Though you could argue that it also is hurting them at the same time, making them dependent. |
foreverendeared
09.01.11 | Solidarity is part of human nature, but yeah I suppose one could become too dependent upon others. |
Ire
09.01.11 | not? |
Acanthus
09.01.11 | Ok Ire you're wit has lost me, say again? |
BallsToTheWall
09.01.11 | Indeed there isn't, Sputniks got a surprisingly good collection of buff/ok people it seems.
Don't change who you are, be yourself. You know it seems like such a simple task but you look around and see all the pretenders it's quite discouraging.
To be healthy I believe solidarity is equally important as friendship and family. Neither one overlapping the other. You just gotta hang out on your own every once in awhile, find yourself, which by today society is uncool. There is so much pressure and stigma about solidarity like it's almost shunned upon.
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Acanthus
09.01.11 | "You just gotta hang out on your own every once in awhile, find yourself, which by today society is uncool. There is so much pressure and stigma about solidarity like it's almost shunned upon."
I did this awhile back, helped me really realize and appreciate who I was and I offer the advice to do the same to my friends.
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Ire
09.01.11 | your |
Ovrot
09.01.11 | i have no sput-friends on facebook |
BallsToTheWall
09.01.11 | I have too many sput friends on facebook but thats all good. |
Acanthus
09.01.11 | @Ovrot - same here sir
Ire either your being facetious or I'm being obtuse at this early hour! |
Acanthus
09.01.11 | @Balls - it gets annoying at times I'm guessing? |
BallsToTheWall
09.01.11 | Not really, it's just like communicating with my old neighborhood friends, or my high school crew or anyone that's grouped together and unknown to everyone else. |
Acanthus
09.01.11 | Ah well sweet then, it's weird how a music site weaves it's way into your daily routine so easily. |
BallsToTheWall
09.01.11 | The only people I talk to on facebook really are those small grouped together bunches like sput-bros and all that jazz. Everybody else including mutual friends, cousins, family, girls I used to see or talk too in the past I really have no contact with whatsoever. |
Acanthus
09.01.11 | Mine is mainly comprised of regulars from the industrial night, a few old roommates, and friends from college that I don't get to see often. |
foreverendeared
09.01.11 | I like reading your statuses on facebook. They're awesome. @Wylie |
BallsToTheWall
09.01.11 | Thank you sir.
As much time as I waste on facebook it's worth being able to communicate with people who now live out of state. |
Acanthus
09.01.11 | FB has been the bane of many a college final grade, it'd be a crazy percentage if anyone ever did a study. |
MO
09.01.11 | my list of friends could probably use some cleaning up
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Acanthus
09.01.11 | Since I only keep around a certain number I always laugh when someone removes/deletes me. |
MO
09.01.11 | whats funny is the fact that I only speak to 90% of my FB friends on a constant basis, so my list could very well be cut significantly |
Acanthus
09.01.11 | I had a few friend who had hundreds of friends.... then times got tough and they started to wake up and realize that hardly any of their "friends" really cared about them at all, it was hilarious to watch all this unfold. |
Eulogize
09.01.11 | Just read all of these comments. It was a good read. |
Acanthus
09.01.11 | Glad you enjoyed it sir, this is the largest list I've ever had and I must say it remained topic-relevant for a long time. |
bloc
09.05.11 | I don't spend too much time on Facebook but when I do this, it's quite eye opening. |