neekafat
09.22.17 | Sorry for the vent |
Snake.
09.22.17 | hey dw I'm gonna through heartbreak too (kinda)
let's be sad together |
Conmaniac
09.22.17 | is it over officially man? |
neekafat
09.22.17 | Sorry to here that snake, I'm here with you bro
Yeah, over over this time |
SteakByrnes
09.22.17 | Her music taste would've annoyed me to no end
Sorry tho neekabro |
neekafat
09.22.17 | She also loved Floyd so it wasn't all bad, thankya dude |
SandwichBubble
09.22.17 | Dr. Selflove or: How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Beat my Knob |
Drifter
09.22.17 | So sorry to hear this neekabro. |
neekafat
09.22.17 | "How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Beat my Knob"
Already took care of that thanks
S'all good Drifter, I'm sure everything'll end up alright |
Sinternet
09.22.17 | Next date a techno girl so you can find good music |
neekafat
09.22.17 | Maybe I'll just date YOU |
SteakByrnes
09.22.17 | OH ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) |
Sinternet
09.22.17 | i hope you like boy pussy |
Drifter
09.22.17 | Lmao |
50iL
09.22.17 | Hey man, sorry for everything
If you need to vent anytime hmu on here or Discord, it's all good.
Best of luck my dude |
neekafat
09.22.17 | @Sint what other kind is there?
@50 will do man, thanks so much |
butcherboy
09.22.17 | neeka, my man you're having proper relationship blues.. I hope you feel better soon, dude, that stuff debilitates you, but at least it could focus you on your art somewhat.. stay productive, hope you're doing good.. I'm around if you need a chat |
neekafat
09.22.17 | Thanks Butcher, that's definitely the idea haha. Yknow, I don't care what they say about you, you're a pretty okay guy yknow that? |
butcherboy
09.22.17 | You're the one who says it, dammit! Vendetta! Vendetta! |
neekafat
09.22.17 | Prove it! |
butcherboy
09.22.17 | Vendetta!!!!!!! |
Astral Abortis
09.22.17 | now you can jam death metal instead |
dctarga
09.22.17 | Sorry to hear duders, but you'll be alright man. Look at all the fun you're having already! |
neekafat
09.22.17 | @Astral I'm workin' on it
Haha thanks Dctarga you might be on to something |
Deathconscious
09.22.17 | Nah mate, its only a matter of time before youll be able to jam these again. |
neekafat
09.22.17 | perhaps, but goddamn do I still love her... she says she loves me too, she just needs to figure herself out. Whatever I guess |
onionbubs
09.22.17 | sucks to hear man
...now is the perfect time to let alkaline trio into your heart |
BAT
09.22.17 | same but her shit was kevin gates, i'll live |
bgillesp
09.22.17 | I'm about to hit 2 years so I can't even imagine this. Good luck man |
Jasdevi087
09.22.17 | on the bright side, at least most of these aren't good :( |
neekafat
09.22.17 | Yeah we were two and a half years :/ |
Deathconscious
09.22.17 | yeah, 4 is really the only big loss. |
onionbubs
09.22.17 | 6 is a huge loss
...it's no alkaline trio tho bro just sayin... |
neekafat
09.22.17 | 6 is gonna be hard to listen to lol |
neekafat
09.22.17 | Hm... maybe I should check them...?
...nah |
Drifter
09.22.17 | Alk3 will only make you sadder |
onionbubs
09.22.17 | idk whenever going through shit they hit pretty hard but they give a sense of comfort which is why i rec them for this stuff especially |
Deathconscious
09.22.17 | i mean, i suppose id rather listen to Alkaline Trio than Green Day...i guess... |
MrSirLordGentleman
09.22.17 | Damn so sorry to hear that man. I know what a broken heart feels like
Someday someone that actually deserves you will appear man |
neekafat
09.22.17 | Thanks MrSir, Idk how I feel about it all yet |
ZippaThaRippa
09.22.17 | Lol |
AlexKzillion
09.22.17 | jam glassjaw |
neekafat
09.22.17 | Not a big hardcore guy fam, not yet at least |
Deathconscious
09.22.17 | if youre looking for breakup albums, jam Frightened Rabbit - The Midnight Organ Fight. |
neekafat
09.22.17 | Looks pretty tasty actually |
Lavair
09.22.17 | TPAB is a treasure and I don't think there's a whole lot of emotional baggage already on the album, especially on that song. That song has a high chance of coming back around to you.
Until then, jam some DJ Shadow or Daft Punk until you feel better. Something that doesn't have any emotional attachment/value.
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LethalPaintball
09.22.17 | :-( |
DarkSideOfLucca
09.22.17 | This list isn't very metal so that should give you some solace |
neekafat
09.22.17 | This is true |
hobblepot
09.22.17 | I been where you are man, recently too, it might not seem it now but you'll get better, it'll take time but don't worry, someday soon you'll wake up and feel like things are improving :) |
Valkoor952
09.22.17 | Neeka jam The National - Trouble Will Find Me
It's a sad album, but it's very comforting after a few listens. |
wwf
09.22.17 | yeah, 4 is really the only big loss [100,000,00000]
probs including your girlfriend
there's other fish in the sea etc etc |
neekafat
09.22.17 | @Sweeny thanks man, I appreciate it (: Today feels a lot worse than yesterday because it's actually sinking in now lol |
neekafat
09.22.17 | @Valkoor I've actually been looking for an excuse to jam them so I might just
@wwf lol thanks man |
Drifter
09.22.17 | "[100,000,00000]"
This isn't a number |
wwf
09.22.17 | very astute wow |
MarsKid
09.22.17 | Sorry my man, I know how it feels. Can't listen to the Guardians of the Galaxy soundtrack anymore. Hope you get better dude |
neekafat
09.22.17 | I get that man, thanks < 3 |
MarsKid
09.22.17 | What are we jamming, it's always sad boy hours somewhere my guy |
artiswar
09.22.17 | When I got dumped I couldn't listen to AFI for years afterwards without getting nauseous. No I can listen to them again and enjoy them. I'm dead inside though. |
MarsKid
09.22.17 | Look at it this way, we all die eventually, you're just ahead of the curve o/ |
SteakByrnes
09.22.17 | I just listen to emotional post hardcore like Dayseeker during sadboi hours |
MarsKid
09.22.17 | Hotelier generally gets the job done for me. Modest Mouse if I'm getting existential |
neekafat
09.22.17 | Sad times artiswar :/
Lately I've been endlessly jamming 16 |
MarsKid
09.22.17 | Everyone's got a support album tbh |
neekafat
09.22.17 | Yeah I just bumped it to a 5 because sad |
DinosaurJones
09.22.17 | Hey man, sorry about your woes. I can't pretend to know what you're going through, but it seems as though you're adjusting to it well, even if you are bummed. So I just want to say good on ya. |
MarsKid
09.22.17 | 5s are partly what they are because of our emotions. No shame in it my man |
WretchedCacophony
09.22.17 | It's strange to me to see people connect through music because I sure as hell wont be finding any chicks who'll listen to Cannibal Corpse with me.
Eh well she was asking for it... |
MarsKid
09.22.17 | Music can be hard to find a common ground on sometimes. I know my relationships kinda varied with that. It is what it is, people can connect through other things. |
bloc
09.22.17 | I absolutely love several of the songs on this list and to imagine not listening to them ever again just sucks. |
SteakByrnes
09.22.17 | A lot of my 5s have a strong emotional tie to them, so no shame in 5ing an album that has an emotional attachment to it |
bloc
09.22.17 | You could argue that's the only reason to 5 an album |
neekafat
09.22.17 | @Dino appreciate it bud, thanks (:
@Mars she probably had the best taste out of anyone I dated, probably because she was a musician so I just associate music in general with her lol
@bloc yeah man, I'm sure I'll be able to deal with a few sometime, but I still can't listen to "Time of the Season" after a relationship that horribly imploded from 4 years ago
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SteakByrnes
09.22.17 | Very true bloc |
Bigpapad
09.22.17 | Tragedy you can't jam Regina Spektor. |
neekafat
09.22.17 | @bloc honestly yeah that's true
@Bigpapa, I've been jamming everything else by her anyway haha |
AsleepInTheBack
09.22.17 | shit man what happened? stay strong. |
neekafat
09.22.17 | She's just concerned that we've spent so much time together during an important part of our lives that we're losing who we are as individuals, she needs to figure out who she is and I should to and focus on my art
Idk, I understand what she's saying and I agree with her to an extent, but the way she went about it was just frustrating and disappointing |
Deathconscious
09.22.17 | ahh, the old "i need to figure out who i am" line. |
neekafat
09.22.17 | Yeah whatever, she has a point but I'm not holding my breath for a happily ever after |
bloc
09.22.17 | "She's just concerned that we've spent so much time together during an important part of our lives that we're losing who we are as individuals, she needs to figure out who she is and I should to and focus on my art"
No offense, but that is the dumbest reasoning I have ever heard. And I've been seeing these breakup lists since 2008. |
Bigpapad
09.22.17 | I once had a girl break up with me by telling me Jesus talked to her while she slept and told her that it was time to end it. Definitely didn't lose out much on that one. |
MarsKid
09.22.17 | One time I lost a relationship because she wanted to go to college, drink and smoke and have sex and was "sparing" me from who she was going to become |
bloc
09.22.17 | LOL I stand corrected...twice |
MarsKid
09.22.17 | Marsbro knows how to pick em |
Deathconscious
09.22.17 | @big hahahahaha oh my fucking god, that is the funniest thing ive read in awhile. |
Feather
09.22.17 | Ayyyyyy I used 16 as emotional support long ago! You'll be okay homie, hang in there. |
MarsKid
09.22.17 | Jesus knows my man, don't doubt the lord's personal pimp |
Bigpapad
09.22.17 | I let Jesus take the wheel on that one. |
neekafat
09.23.17 | It sounds stupid when I say it lol but it makes sense for where we are right now I guess, I just don't like it.
Bigpapa and Mars tho... I don't even know what to say xD
@Feather thanks man, it's sooooo good |
SandwichBubble
09.23.17 | This is still getting to the top of "my discussions" for me so hopefully this will end the discussion
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9gNPUoQCbFg
hope things are better neek |
dctarga
09.23.17 | @Mars
At least she was honest I guess? lol. Definitely bs, but if that's what she really wanted to do it's better than living a lie I suppose |
neekafat
09.23.17 | We were always honest with each other, so there's that
She keeps saying she loves me and that she's sorry and I believe both of them but I really need my space rn, hopefully she'll respect that |
MarsKid
09.23.17 | Oh I for sure see the other side. But considering how things dragged out before then it was a shitty situation. I was probably better off in hindsight, but whatever. Life is a crazy thing. |
neekafat
09.23.17 | Yeah man, I def here you there |
dctarga
09.23.17 | For sure, and yeah "Life is a crazy thing." [∞] |
MarsKid
09.23.17 | At the time I was incredibly upset and furious to be honest. But once you get older you get a different perspective. Still sucked though. |
deathschool
09.23.17 | It'll be k |
neekafat
09.23.17 | I'll be k ye |
dctarga
09.23.17 | Oh yeah, I definitely would have been as well. Kinda like a "oh I'm not good enough?/I just wasted "x" amount of years" deal. Probably would have been butthurt for quite a while
But, knowing the truth sooner is much easier on you mentally than believing in something false and then finding out later it was all for not.
That's my pseudo mental health perspective at least lol |
neekafat
09.23.17 | Haha fair |
neekafat
09.23.17 | My brother's girlfriend just broke up with him too -.- |
dctarga
09.23.17 | Wth?
The stars and planets must be aligned in some fucked up way lol |
neekafat
09.23.17 | Yeahhh rough time for the family lol |
danielcardoso
09.23.17 | Aw sorry to hear all this Neeka :( |
neekafat
09.24.17 | @S'all good man, there's so many things I want to say to her but I'm trying to just wait and give it some time before talking again |
oWhoadYo
09.24.17 | damn dude, shit happens. this time last year, my girlfriend of 3 years broke up with me. Awful time to be alive. but life goes on and youre better for it. You'll be fine my man. I didnt think I would be, and Im not all the way yet, but I'm doing so much better. Got a new girlfriend and she's A okay. You'll find someone else, no worry. She may not be 'better', but she'll be different. That's important. |
neekafat
09.24.17 | That's a good point man, thank you |
oWhoadYo
09.24.17 | and dont you dare stop listening to Stand Inside Your Love, that is way too good of a song. Fuck her |
neekafat
09.24.17 | I know it sucks man but the feels are too much
Fuck it I'll give it a go |
Asdfp277
09.24.17 | hey i thought u was gay bro
sucks tho |
neekafat
09.24.17 | Not the first I've heard that
Life would be much easier if I were gay |
Asdfp277
09.24.17 | ain't gon say nothin about that |
oWhoadYo
09.24.17 | maybe dont try it right now haha i just mean, dont let it ruin it forever or even for awhile. For me, when my first girlfriend broke up with me (not the one last year), I couldnt listen to the smiths for a good long while. we had a connection with them, always listened to em, thats how me met, all that good shit. But I shouldnt have let that ruin it for me for as long as it did. Because the smiths are reallllllly good. Same thing happened with Michael Jackson with my last girlfriend. We used to jam MJ a lot. but i didnt let it bother me this time. Just disassociate the two. Think of why you like the song. Focus on the music, not the memories. try to understand what makes the song good. And eventually it'll just be a little emotional scar and sting each time you hear it. It'll always do something for you, you will never completely remove the feelings, but it'll be a fondness, in time, if that makes sense. It's like a happy pain, for me at least. Like a testament to what you've overcome and to the great times you had. makes the songs better, maybe. it's just living, life is shit a lot man, but you get used to it. but ya gotta live for the shitty moments, but when you're old as fuck youre gonna wanna look back on this stuff because you'll be so callous that nothing is a new pain, really. love is the heartbreak, I think. enjoy it |
neekafat
09.24.17 | Fuckin' A dude, thank you |
oWhoadYo
09.24.17 | yeah i was rambling a lot there. but in there i think i made a lick of sense. I think i've gone through my share of heartbreak so to speak. I can give some insight. The way i see it now after going through the rig amoral of falling in and out of love and all that good stuff, and just really dealing with shit, I know what to expect. In a way it bums me out. Inadvertently ya go into new stuff with connotations. Just knowing what the end is like, in any situation. That's why I say enjoy the pain while it is there. Cus it is going away in time. that means you had something and at least it meant something to you, ya know? i felt that in times like these, its the most powerful emotion and feeling there is. That gutting feeling of loss and what if and why. It is so strong and compelling. they say love is the most powerful and all that gay shit, so wouldnt this make that love? Embrace anything that makes you feel strongly in one way or another. what scares me is that lately, the past 8 months or so, I find it hard to feel much of anything. Dont feel strong feelings one way or the other. in a take it or leave it kind of mentality about everything, more or less. I kinda miss it. but im sure, this too, will pass. it all does. new shit happens all the time, it just does |
Asdfp277
09.24.17 | now that whoad helped u heal, listen to trespassers william |
neekafat
09.24.17 | Love and loss may be one in the same mate
I'm sure you'll be able to get it back man, sometimes I feel like that too, but you're right, it'll pass |
neekafat
09.24.17 | Looks spicy asdf |
oWhoadYo
09.24.17 | alright boys, take care. Imma eat my 2am McDonald's and go to bed |
neekafat
09.24.17 | Night boyo |
Asdfp277
09.24.17 | bye dude |