Chin: Adulthood | Sputnikmusic

DominionMM1 01.15.15	"We have a lot of older users on this site I believe (19- 25?)" damn
BigHans 01.15.15	Its pretty simple. Never, ever, ever, I mean fucking ever, I sweat to God and all that is holy never, ever, holy shit seriously never Get married.
Ryus 01.15.15	yeah what how is that old
SitarHero 01.15.15	We have a lot of older users on this site I believe (19- 25?)" damn [2]
DominionMM1 01.15.15	enjoy the extreme highs and lows that come with being young dumb and full of cum
SitarHero 01.15.15	I dunno about that Dom. It's kinda nice actually knowing who one is and what one wants.
Jots 01.15.15	yeah I'm married and it's..... ....
Titan 01.15.15	"We have a lot of older users on this site I believe (19- 25?)" Fuck
Snake. 01.15.15	3 months and i'll come back to this thread to tell you
Ryus 01.15.15	"older than me haha. older is a pretty vague description and it's up to your own interpretation so I consider that older [ :" actually yeah that's true, in ~the real world~ i think that people who are around that age are "old" too haha so yeah oldness is relative
North0House2 01.15.15	Being an adult rules and sucks at the same time. It's super cool being independent and totally on your own, doing your own thing... but at the same time, you have to work your butt off and pay for things you don't want to pay for. For example- I worked a 50 hour week last week, so I know I'll have a big old paycheck coming in this Friday, but my truck is in the shop because my radiator is screwed over, I need a new steering gearbox, and some oil is burning in the engine compartment. So yeah, I'll probably drop around $1000 on that, which sucks. So enjoy not having much responsibilities. I wish I cherished my time as a careless kid more than I did back in the day.
deathschool 01.15.15	Growing up is stupid. Don't do it
Chortles 01.15.15	it's cool you can masturbate without worrying about ur mom finding out but you also have more responsibility so it's a tradeoff
bloc 01.15.15	"We have a lot of older users on this site I believe (19- 25?)" Really? I never would've guessed just from browsing around
DominionMM1 01.15.15	lol
Jots 01.15.15	I'm only 23, got a wife/kid/house though with all the responsibilities attached so I might as well be 33 tbh. and thx glad you like them
BigPleb 01.15.15	Growing up mostly sucks cos of most of the friends you see come and go, but you will always have a couple you'll know all your life. Damn, I miss school.
deathschool 01.15.15	Damn, Johnny. I'm 23 and nowhere near having my shit anywhere near together.
Jots 01.15.15	I kinda missed out on my early 20s in a sense, enjoy it man
Ryus 01.15.15	man people are always telling me to cherish my high school years but honestly it's kind of difficult to do that, i think. whatever stage you're at in life, you're always just waiting for the next to come, thinking it'll be better. you always think that everything sucks where you are in life but then when you look back at it you miss it
BigHans 01.15.15	Last post of night cuz marriage, kids, etch. Having kids is cool, the problem is that women turn into your worst nightmare once they transition from your girlfriend who puts out and doesn't try to take away every Goddamn meaningful friendship you've ever had once you get engaged, move in together, etch. The modern women seems to have one goal: stop their man from living like men used to be able to, aka, enjoying their lives. End rant. Kids are cool. Wives. Fuck em.
Relinquished 01.15.15	you guys must be doing marriage wrong, I'm doing fucking well. no kids though, fuck that noise.
North0House2 01.15.15	"you guys must be doing marriage wrong, I'm doing fucking well. no kids though, fuck that noise." I'm getting married pretty soon and my girl and I have decided to wait at least like... 5 years to have kids (circumstances permitting of course). She and I want to just take it easy for awhile. I don't know why people have kids so immediately, it seems like a pain to me. But to each their own.
anarchistfish 01.15.15	You still feel like a kid once you become an adult I suspect you always kinda will
anarchistfish 01.15.15	"you guys must be doing marriage wrong, I'm doing fucking well. no kids though, fuck that noise." difference between having a secure partner and an insecure one
Slut 01.15.15	Dont do it yeah
Jots 01.15.15	@relinquished - oh I'm good man, but in hindsight it woulda been chill to just be a dumb kid for a bit longer
deathschool 01.15.15	I don't ever feel like a different person as I get older, so I think Fish is spot on.
TomTomTomato 01.15.15	yeah same i actually can't believe i'm considered an adult and allowed to drive a car and buy alcohol etc - not that i'm not confident in myself when it comes to having responsibilities, i just don't feel or think of myself as an "adult" in that sense. idk growing up is weird
Calc 01.15.15	freaks.
Titan 01.15.15	Just work hard gentlemen, save your money, and keep your foot on that gas pedal while you're still young. You never know when you will need it.
deathschool 01.15.15	Then at the same time, Ive done a lot of stupid shit and made a lot of mistakes that I'm trying my best to never make again, so I guess you learn some things as you go along, but I'm still me you know? Yeah, growing up is just weird as fuck, cause that's contradictory but I feel like it's still the only way I can describe it.
RogueNine 01.15.15	Yeah I mean I'm 22 and don't feel it. Almost done with college and such but I feel like I oughta be a couple years younger. But each year seems to go by faster so maybe that's why.
Relinquished 01.15.15	have fun, but be responsible about it. yea we might be all "adults" but that's just another word, one that you should remember when it comes down to choices and responsibilities. know your laws, your limits in your body, your influence on others and yourself. save your money and know what you need vs. what you want. improve your health and exercise your body, learn every fucking day. don't waste your time. /done
Funeralopolis 01.15.15	I'm 22 and I still feel like a kid. I don't wanna grow up!
deathschool 01.15.15	Wolfe spittin serious wisdom though
deathschool 01.15.15	Very ~adult~
TheSupernatural 01.15.15	"We have a lot of older users on this site I believe (19- 25?)" damn [20?] I'm 20 and it's just different priorities. You know all that free time you had to be a kid and do kid things? That disappears. "have fun, but be responsible about it. yea we might be all "adults" but that's just another word, one that you should remember when it comes down to choices and responsibilities. know your laws, your limits in your body, your influence on others and yourself. save your money and know what you need vs. what you want. improve your health and exercise your body, learn every fucking day. don't waste your time. /done" ^best advice here methinks
anarchistfish 01.15.15	"I'm 20 and it's just different priorities. You know all that free time you had to be a kid and do kid things? That disappears." I don't mind this. Childhood was dull
Phlegm 01.15.15	lonely
Phlegm 01.15.15	"Childhood was dull." lol
PayneTiger777 01.15.15	I'm 26 and work 56 hours a week. Have fun!
Relinquished 01.15.15	that was your choice payne
deathschool 01.15.15	56 hours may not even be a bad thing. Depends a lot on what the job is.
cliiint 01.15.15	never get married. agreed haarrdd. I love my wife, but no more than I did when she was my girlfriend. don't have kids before the age of 50. I love my daughter, but fuck me I can't remember the last time I spent an hour doing something I enjoy. games, music... guitar it's all just a distraction from making money and family time. if you follow these rules, adulthood is awesome. lots of money to buy what ever the fuck you want, lots of casual sex and drugs if that's what you're into. freedom man. work sucks but find a place you enjoy. I never thought I would end up where I'm working but I love my job. 50 hrs a week is easier than 30 a week at my last job. also don't smoke. never even try it. no one is happy they picked up smoking. /lif
PayneTiger777 01.15.15	Yeah, it sucks. Money is good, but it's not everything. I'm looking to get a better job and move in with my girlfriend soon. There's no use in being tired and stressed out all the time. Do what makes you happy. I wake up at 5am, get to work by 6am and don't get home until 6:30, plus I work on Saturday's. That's not what I want and I plan on changing it real soon.
TheSupernatural 01.15.15	I'm just at university but class 15 hours a week and often times homework that piles an additional 10-20 hours, sometimes more towards the end. Not quite the cake walk that movies make it out to be. Had a final project due last semester that I spent about 30 of the 48 hours before it was due working on. Yay college @fish: I enjoyed my childhood for what it was but now I feel like I wasted so much time on video games and things instead of gaining valuable life skills
RogueNine 01.15.15	I got offered my first job along my career path today so that was cool.
deathschool 01.15.15	Forreal, other death. Give us tha hookup.
Relinquished 01.15.15	the struggle is real bros endure it clint
Greyvy 01.15.15	if you're 21 and only working 12 hours a week and not also going to school then you're kinda fucking up
deathschool 01.15.15	"if you're 21 and only working 12 hours a week and not also going to school then you're kinda fucking up" Fuck you tbh
Relinquished 01.15.15	stay exalted 4th
deathschool 01.15.15	College isn't for everyone. If you're enjoying your life and supporting yourself fuck that "you're not doing enough" noise. Seriously the worst fucking type of people try to guilt trip you on that, hands down.
Relinquished 01.15.15	but there's a world outside of what you limit yourself inside of. maybe not through college if it's not for you, but educate yourself towards new changes. evolve. nothing lasts.
TheSupernatural 01.15.15	College isn't for everyone, but learning is. If you're in your 20's and thinking that you're done learning and advancing yourself, you're in for a very disappointing 30's
deathschool 01.15.15	I mean, I'm kind of in the middle of a lot of changes and I'm tryna do more with my life, but to imply that someone is fucking up by not going to college when they apparently have a steady ass job. Just I don't know. That's some stupid bull shit. There are more things in life is all. I know Greyvy is the type of user to just post stuff without thinking about it. It's not for real directed hatred toward him. Nor is it to defend Ov. I just know that the mentality exists, and it's dumb as fuk. /rantingtho
deathschool 01.15.15	Yeah, yeah
cliiint 01.15.15	Futures "yeah i wouldn't take advice from an admitted regular drunk driver" it's my only escape. I really get into the music with my foot on the pedal and 7 or 8 shots to the head. I do feel sorta guilty doing it with my daughter in the car but hey, that's what car seats are for! lol
Relinquished 01.15.15	smh a tryhard and a floormat
deathschool 01.15.15	Right. Comments can't be longer than 4 lines without you being a tryhard. I know the rules.
Greyvy 01.15.15	all i was saying is whats the point of working only 12 hours if you aren't going to school also? you're spending a lot of free time fucking around doing nothing when you could be stackin paper na mean?
Relinquished 01.15.15	it's all relative man don't sweat his situation
cliiint 01.15.15	"endure it clint" clenches fist
VinVal 01.15.15	this has been a great read, i doubt many of these people do what they are preaching here irl, so let that be a lesson to you too. acknowledge the hypocrisy but always practice what you preach.
Relinquished 01.15.15	doubt what you wish vin remember you only know your own experience. I agree on the last sentiment.
R6Rider 01.15.15	I could write a lot here but I'll try to keep it short. I turned 31 last year. They say time flies the older you get and they weren't lying. Get a good career and do the things you've always wanted to do. Always protect yourself first and foremost. I know a lot of dudes that were married and got dicked over in the end. And what BigHans said about women once you get married is pretty accurate for the most part.
someguest 01.15.15	I speak with other adults all day, every day. Most are still children.
deathschool 01.15.15	That gives me hope more than anything though. I'm terrified of losing my aspirations. Even if I never obtain my dreams, I hope that I always strive for them.
VinVal 01.15.15	"doubt what you wish vin remember you only know your own experience." yeah i agree with you and my comment wasnt directed at anyone in particular. I think it's important to have the ability to see it in other people and most importantly in yourself
someguest 01.15.15	The fact is most of these people go from depending on their parents to depending on the State, at least around here. They don't even know how much net worth they have at any given time. Living paycheck to paycheck doing the same dumb shit over and over and over is no way to spend your entire adult life.
Relinquished 01.15.15	but that's a massive problem that extends out of one's own hands. societal judgement/biases and systematic weight that secretly promotes lack of education and experience to keep one's self-worth, skills, and knowledge down to what will keep the machine running. not everyone is meant for great lifestyles. one should enlighten themselves and experience to the fullest at least while they age away.
Uranium 01.15.15	when the hell did we all get married and old
someguest 01.15.15	You see to me acknowledging your own self worth comes into play more than you think. If you maintain the thought that you're actually here to be the best you can be the chances you'll make it regardless of your environment is quite high. This is why you have successful people from all walks of life.
Relinquished 01.15.15	that's why success is another subjective idea. strive for greatness but not the greatness that is dictated by the insecure masses. follow your heart but don't be naive, only through vision will you follow the path that lights your life.
climactic 01.15.15	"got a night job with good pay and minimal hours and focuses on what i loved. this way i can keep my mental condition in check and i still make enough money to live." #australia
Relinquished 01.15.15	my vague poetic bullshit aside, life isn't easy but surviving never was to begin with. want to be successful? figure out what that means first. want to live comfortably? figure out how to get to that path first. don't delude yourself with pretentiousness, life is real and so should you be too. you're entitled nothing, earn your claim.
someguest 01.15.15	Success is doing what you want to achieve personal growth and long-term fulfillment without giving others the means to dictate your path.
Relinquished 01.15.15	yea man, a textbook definition that's missing on many editions take note sputnik
someguest 01.15.15	A big one is debt. If you don't owe anyone money, you can tell anyone to fuck right off.
someguest 01.15.15	always good to have a positive apparition opinion
Phlegm 01.15.15	don't delude yourself with pretentiousness, life is real and so should you be too. you're entitled nothing, earn your claim. ...fuk
LambsBread 01.15.15	thisll answer your question: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BhjJbdZnPXk
ADanceReturns 01.15.15	No doubt makes the future look scary
Sniff 01.15.15	There is no such things as long-term fulfillment.
Davil667 01.15.15	I don't ever feel like a different person as I get older, so I think Fish is spot on. [2] Just enjoy good music, good friends' company and everything will be fine.
Dodenakker 01.15.15	My back hurts, a lot.
Davil667 01.15.15	"Of course there is." ^ Definitely true.
Sniff 01.15.15	"Routine and then Death"
Shuyin 01.15.15	life becomes the biggest bully ever
KILL 01.15.15	shit film
VinVal 01.15.15	boyhood was pretty good
ExcentrifugalForz 01.15.15	Once you get married and have a kid the only people you can hang out with are other married people with kids. A terrible life. You know what sux? Wasting your weekends at childrens birthday parties.
thacoconut94 01.15.15	I'm 20 years old and I still masturbate like a 11 year old boy that's just found out his one eyed purple soldier can now throw custard
thacoconut94 01.15.15	Yeah your damn right I was blowing load aged 11 Sputnik, you fucking bitches
guitarded_chuck 01.15.15	its kind of like this http://www.sputnikmusic.com/images/members/1057282.jpg
DoctorDoom 01.15.15	I'm in my 20's now and it sucks. You're never too young to lay the foundation for your future. Stay in the moment, be mindful and focused.
DoctorDoom 01.15.15	I will listen to Converge and Integrity until I am in a nursing home. No care.
BlackLlama 01.19.15	Man, if 25 is older I must be ancient :D Listen to what you like; and when you sing along, sing like nothing fucking matters regardless of who's paying attention. Best advice I can give
Feather 01.19.15	being an adult is a myth.