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Old 03-21-2014, 08:22 AM   #21331
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niall acting like he's not always mad
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Old 03-21-2014, 08:24 AM   #21332
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Old 03-21-2014, 08:37 AM   #21333
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isnt it funny girls you used to think were super hot then you see them now and its like lolwtfbbq
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Old 03-21-2014, 08:43 AM   #21334
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i can't believe my penis went into some of these broads.

all good now though.
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Old 03-21-2014, 08:45 AM   #21335
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speaking of that i saw my ex at the gym yesterday for the first time since i told her i didnt want to fuck her anymore

she gave me sort of a long eye contact into my soul thing and i couldnt tell if it was a super sad stare or a super fuck you stare

whatev tho
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Old 03-21-2014, 09:02 AM   #21336
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Also, Ron. She's Bipolar.

She's cold all week. Makes a big deal about meet up. Gets you all stressed. Pushes the time back because she's getting chairs thrown at her, then cancels all together (proving she is not really concernde about you). Then she perks up, texts you like nothings wrong. "Oh by the way ron, my aunt, who. . im like totally not even close with died".

Thats a diversion tactic. She's using the death of a relative that she is not close with as a tool to keep you at a distance while she does whatevver she does during the day. If you were a concern and the communication thing was a big deal she would have kept to her word and talked with you. But she didn't. So much for communication. Instead she's back to her normal routine and just brushes shit under the rug.


It may sound cray but cray bitches are cray. Don't get sucked back in to her web of lies. In fact, start doing your own thing. Whatever your own thing is. Just do it. Without her. Don't tell her what your doing. Put your phone on silent. It's Friday, try to have a good night out with friends, my point is just do something.
I believe she told me at one point that her brother does have bipolar. I know for a fact she went to therapy at one point too.
I'm not saying she has the diagnosis but it just sprang to mind. A nurse at work I'm close with knows about my situation and she told me its a 50/50 chance she has it if a family member has it as well.

again, not saying any of this has to do with mental health problems, but it is interesting. To be fair though, I have no idea what her doc's voicemail was about, so it is a very real possibility she may have some sort of cancerous lump. That will def fuck you up emotionally.

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Old 03-21-2014, 09:09 AM   #21337
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@chuck. most likely the eff you stare.

@ Ron. No doubt that will fuck you up Ron, but in all fairness, it'll just be another issue to add to her plethora of issues. Over sensitive, non commital, separation anxiety, communication issues, stress at work, stress with her bitchy friends, stress of being with you ( not that you're stressful she just makes it stressful), potential mental issues, money, cancer, dead aunts. Thats a lot for anyone to handle daily. Thats even more for you to handle plus your own issues.


You really found a keeper ron. She needs to get herself together b4 she can be with anyone really.

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Old 03-21-2014, 09:14 AM   #21338
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idk, nothing was really going wrong until we came back from the trip. I'm so confused as to whether something happened on the trip I just don't realize yet
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Old 03-21-2014, 09:15 AM   #21339
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Old 03-21-2014, 09:23 AM   #21340
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we had a few bumps in the road but now...it took a noticable nosedive.
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Old 03-21-2014, 09:30 AM   #21341
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I think you're emotionally retarded
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Old 03-21-2014, 09:33 AM   #21342
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Honestly ron, the writing was on the wall from the beginning. The reasons you are noticing it now is because of "the honeymoon is over" syndrome.

That time period where you are head over heels. The problem is you remained head over heels, and even fell a little in love. The other problem is she was faced with this and sent her into a tail spin, all while dealing with her fucked up life/personality.

I don't say it to scare you but I'm a firm believer that the ex has something to do with this in some way shape or form. I know she says he doesn't but if you really think about it. . . something is going on.

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Old 03-21-2014, 09:34 AM   #21343
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idk, nothing was really going wrong until we came back from the trip. I'm so confused as to whether something happened on the trip I just don't realize yet
Google: Bipolar Disorder.

Google: Sociopathy/Psychosis.

See: Your "GF".

Profit???
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Old 03-21-2014, 09:36 AM   #21344
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I think you're emotionally retarded
he is a work in progress.

Ron has definite detatchment issues. Some bitch really hurt him in the past.
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Old 03-21-2014, 09:36 AM   #21345
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I guess the ex being part of it is a possibility but idk, she was really hard on the fact that he is basically dead to her
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Old 03-21-2014, 09:39 AM   #21346
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yeah. to make you feel good. remember when she would bring him up all the time and you were like. ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm ok lets not talk about it again because, reasons.
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Old 03-21-2014, 09:40 AM   #21347
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Rons creeping up on the 6 month point. That's approx. when a relationship either really takes off for the long haul or sinks.
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Old 03-21-2014, 09:47 AM   #21348
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Ron starting Monday I'm going to bill you for my services.

Shit or get off the pot broham.
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Old 03-21-2014, 09:48 AM   #21349
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kinda tired of my relationships not ever working
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Old 03-21-2014, 09:49 AM   #21350
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you need to learn to chill about it and not let yourself go and look after your fucking own and once you learn to do this poof dream girl

forcing it will work 0 times out of ever
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Old 03-21-2014, 09:50 AM   #21351
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you need to be more aloof and less clingy ron

wait, that sounded like advice

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Old 03-21-2014, 09:51 AM   #21352
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I don't think I forced much of anything with this one
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Old 03-21-2014, 09:53 AM   #21353
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you need to be more aloof and less clingy ron

wait, that sounded like advice

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I don't understand how I'm clingy
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Old 03-21-2014, 09:53 AM   #21354
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i don't think you even understand what it means to not force it

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Old 03-21-2014, 09:55 AM   #21355
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i don't think you even understand what it means to not force it

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where have I forced things
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Old 03-21-2014, 09:56 AM   #21356
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there is not equal reciprocation between you and her

reciprocation is the basis of all healthy relationships between any two people

look it up, psychology 101
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Old 03-21-2014, 09:59 AM   #21357
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honestly the reciprocation was wayyyy better before the last two weeks
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Old 03-21-2014, 09:59 AM   #21358
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When you asked to be bf/gf.

When you spent a week thinking about telling her you love her.

These are things that should be sort of spontaneous and sort of unspoken, so when they are actually voiced, its not a big hullabaloo its just a nice moment.
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Old 03-21-2014, 10:03 AM   #21359
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here this is what i was getting at http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Social_exchange_theory

what often blocks us from seeing a net negative return in the social exchange balance within a sexual relationship is our sexual instinct itself

aka take your dick out of it and realize this girl is making you miserable and it's only gonna get worse or remain shitty at best

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Old 03-21-2014, 10:06 AM   #21360
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I don't understand how I'm clingy
constantly feeling the need to ask how she is, are you ok, do you you want me to come by. . . .


in the female mind, that's clingy. That's called being a wet blanket.

Like BI, Kurrpt, Chuck, the new guys, Nads and myself have stated for the last 4 months.


You are clingy in her eyes. You are not playing the role of the aloof, Alpha rock. You make everything about feels and forcing conversation and talking shit out. She has girlfriends for that. You're actually closer to a gay man than a hetero when it comes to this shit. nohomo.

You own guns and kill animals don't you? Fucking act like it.

This shit is checkers Ron and your playing chess.

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