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Old 04-19-2017, 05:37 AM   #30451
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Old 04-19-2017, 06:15 AM   #30452
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I don't talk to anyone in the gym usually just keep myself to myself but she was asking about how you're supposed to use one of the machines or something.
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Old 04-19-2017, 06:16 AM   #30453
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With my ex but not with my ex its great cant wait for it to blow up in my face
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Old 04-19-2017, 06:16 AM   #30454
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Not only do I not work out in jeans, I work out completely naked in the public gym I am subscribed to.
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Old 04-19-2017, 07:40 AM   #30455
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With my ex but not with my ex its great cant wait for it to blow up in my face
yeah mine and i did this song and dance for months but ive put an end to it. we were just taking turns getting our feelings hurt. she's hurt at the moment now since she can tell i'm being serious about it this time, and i feel terrible, buttttttt... she dumped me.

whether or not things work out with this new girl she has at least shown me the value of being with a genuinely good person. i'm trying not to fuck it up by being too awkward about it, i don't even know how to act really.

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Old 04-19-2017, 10:09 AM   #30456
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Chuck, you're like the male Taylor Swift of Canada. Do you write breakup songs for every one of them or just letters here for the board?
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Old 04-19-2017, 11:29 AM   #30457
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this forum has devolved from a vehicle for fruitful music / musician conversation to guitarded chuck's journal
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Old 04-19-2017, 11:29 AM   #30458
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chuck your ex is probably not a bad person
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Old 04-19-2017, 11:34 AM   #30459
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youre about the first person i known including her friends to say that to me

ive been told i was way too nice to her

im not going to get into details i dont feel like trash talking her to people on the internet

in fact even irl i tend not to complain about her because for people not in tune with the situation their response will be the same as yours

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Old 04-19-2017, 11:48 AM   #30460
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i'm sure she did some stupid shit but if you mix up 'currently being nice to you' and 'good person' because your ex stopped being nice to you you are just going to get into another bad situation
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Old 04-19-2017, 11:52 AM   #30461
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she was never nice to me, or anyone else for that matter, family friend or acquaintance

a younger version of myself put up with the poor attitude because A i figured it'd "keep things interesting" B she was hot as fuck

thanks for your opinion without context though, duly noted
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Old 04-19-2017, 11:58 AM   #30462
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you are never 100% right chuck, back in the day you thought she was a great person and i was being a cynical ass about that too
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Old 04-19-2017, 12:07 PM   #30463
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well i always knew she had the attitude but i was putting it to the back of my mind in order to get it, i doubt i would have been on here complaining about it regardless, and also i was kind of blind to it and have come to this realization more so in the past year or so yeah

the nail in the coffin of our relationship was a new years party this year at her friends house where she was being a total cunt to more than just me and two of her closest / oldest friends took me aside and were like "we feel really bad for you, are you sure you see yourself with her forever, maybe you need to reconsider this, this isn't the first boyfriend she's treated bad, most of them left her early on because of it, blah blah blah" and it was a huge eye opener dude

my willingness to put up with her bullshit went down to about zero at that point and the next time she was being a bitch i told her what her friends said to me and it was game over
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Old 04-19-2017, 12:09 PM   #30464
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what did she do that was so mean-spirited? was it moodiness, insecurity or something? did she actively insult you, or was it more of a tone thing?
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Old 04-19-2017, 12:13 PM   #30465
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just generally mean-spirited, defensive, she was the type of person that would never say sorry about anything except in perhaps the most extreme of instances, and was literally incapable of mentally handling any sort of criticism

there is zero bargaining with her, she shuts down completely, and when she is even the slightest bit annoyed with someone she treats them like absolute shit

she's not a completely terrible person no but at this point in her life i don't think any self-respecting person could maintain a relationship with her and right now she's really upset about the fact i'm moving on, i told her about the yoga girl etc, and i think she's starting to realize she took for granted what she had, but unfortunately i think that was an experience she needed to have for her own growth and the only way it was going to happen was for me to actually leave

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Old 04-19-2017, 12:22 PM   #30466
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what were the sources of conflict? jealousy, money, what?
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Old 04-19-2017, 12:23 PM   #30467
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maybe you weren't very tactful at giving criticism
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Old 04-19-2017, 12:29 PM   #30468
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i don't think that's it nads honestly. she went from living in her parents basement with a stay at home mom that would even do her laundry as a 22 year old to sharing a living space with me with an attitude that she could try and tell me what i should or should not be doing, but without anything of that from me. and now she's back where she started, complaining to me that she misses the freedom, all this shit and i'm like uhhhh yeah now you're going to be 25 and you're still acting irresponsible. she's back to being waited on hand and foot, going out getting drunk every weekend. like it's a shit show dude

sources of conflict i don't know, chores like i said above, i don't know man the usual dumb ultimately probably quite meaningless shit that comes up when you live with a partner for years

i think she'll be a great partner for someone someday but i don't think she's ever had her heartbroken, ever had her ego fucked with at all, and right now she's definitely feeling that what with me moving on like i said and it'll be a good experience for her. hopefully she learns from it. i'm no jesus but guys i'm a decent guy and if she wants a decent guy in life she needs to smarten up a bit.

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Old 04-19-2017, 12:33 PM   #30469
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so she told you to do shit around the house but wouldn't do what you told her? was she domestically retarded?
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Old 04-19-2017, 12:34 PM   #30470
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now youre getting it yeah
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Old 04-19-2017, 12:44 PM   #30471
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i think i tend to attract broody women who do my laundry and shit. then when i get up and fix a shelf very poorly while wearing undersized pants that offer my arse crack to the heavens they shower me with kisses because they think i'm gonna be father of the year all years when i grow up. it's pretty chill
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Old 04-20-2017, 03:41 AM   #30472
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chuck sounds like a nightmare.

niall that does sound chill!
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Old 04-20-2017, 11:46 AM   #30473
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She took the pet. Shes awful.
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Old 04-20-2017, 12:32 PM   #30474
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oh that too

im getting my own in two weeks tho all good

im just really focusing on myself and my new pup right now
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Old 04-20-2017, 02:23 PM   #30475
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im just really focusing on myself and my new pup right now

best thing to do man hope it goes well for you
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Old 04-20-2017, 03:34 PM   #30476
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chuck is focusing on himself guys

sorry chuck just joking with ya.

7 months with my gal now! so happy.
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Old 04-21-2017, 08:36 AM   #30477
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happy for you Laura, congrats!
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Old 04-30-2017, 07:36 AM   #30479
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Uh.... Love is complicated

I quit my last GF because she kept calling me Nazi just because I was German XD. She was the racist in our relationship, not me. Damn, she freaked me out. But she was hot as fvck.
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that sounds....extremely true
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