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Permanent Solution 08-25-2007 07:02 PM

[QUOTE=Wotan;15194660]That's nothing more than opinion.
[/QUOTE]
I have little doubt there's reseach out there about the effects of internet and phone sociality versus in person sociality. If you really want me to dig up some studies I will.

Or I could even just get back to you Tuesday after my sociology class I'm sure my professor could recommend me some good reading.

Deth 08-25-2007 07:03 PM

Doesn't help your social situation any, does it?

EDIT: To Josh obviously

Nostalgia 08-25-2007 07:03 PM

In almost all ways that you look at it, any source of the internet doesn't promote a social enviornment. Even in a more social game you're still not embracing yourself to society because essentially you're not interacting with a human, you're communicating with another aspect of the internet.

You also don't get the feelings and emotions you get with a human because you have no real communication other than reading the words they type.

Illmatic 08-25-2007 07:04 PM

[QUOTE=Wotan;15194660]That's nothing more than opinion.[/QUOTE]

no it's definitely not.

Permanent Solution 08-25-2007 07:06 PM

[QUOTE=Nostalgia;15194674]In almost all ways that you look at it, any source of the internet doesn't promote a social enviornment. Even in a more social game you're still not embracing yourself to society because essentially you're not interacting with a human, you're communicating with another aspect of the internet.

You also don't get the feelings and emotions you get with a human because you have no real communication other than reading the words they type.[/QUOTE]
Even if you're video chatting it's not as social as in person contact.

Nostalgia 08-25-2007 07:07 PM

Yes, of course.

AA-12 08-25-2007 07:11 PM

Well like I said, I don't need people in general to be happy. I'm way past that. I understand what you mean though. There's a girl that i'd do anything to be with right now that lives in Kansas.

[QUOTE=Deth;15194672]Doesn't help your social situation any, does it?

EDIT: To Josh obviously[/QUOTE]

It makes it better.

Nostalgia 08-25-2007 07:13 PM

Well we all want to communicate and be with others because it's human nature, and I haven't yet gained up enough misanthropy to become anti-social, haha.

AA-12 08-25-2007 07:14 PM

[QUOTE=Nostalgia;15194722]Well we all want to communicate and be with others because it's human nature, and I haven't yet gained up enough misanthropy to become anti-social, haha.[/QUOTE]

Oh man I have. It's pretty simple.

Deth 08-25-2007 07:15 PM

[QUOTE=Wotan;15194714]
It makes it better.[/QUOTE]

Kay, I see the problem right there. If you don't, there are some MAJOR issues.

AA-12 08-25-2007 07:16 PM

[QUOTE=Deth;15194739]Kay, I see the problem right there. If you don't, there are some MAJOR issues.[/QUOTE]

How many times do I have to say it, i'm just flat out not in need of a lot of social interaction. I am perfectly fine just being alone.

Illmatic 08-25-2007 07:17 PM

[QUOTE=Deth;15194739]Kay, I see the problem right there. If you don't, there are some MAJOR issues.[/QUOTE]

it seems wotan isn't mature enough to deal with people he doesn't like (and rejection, it seems). he'd rather stay in his room his entire life than risk talking to someone who he might not get along with.

Permanent Solution 08-25-2007 07:17 PM

[QUOTE=Wotan;15194714]Well like I said, I don't need people in general to be happy. I'm way past that. I understand what you mean though. There's a girl that i'd do anything to be with right now that lives in Kansas.
[/QUOTE]
I'm not questioning your happiness being disjoint from society I despise people probably even more than you. I'm disputing your claim to be as social as a "normal" person. Because this is a fallacy. It's a fallacy regardless of whether or not you need to be social to be happy.

AA-12 08-25-2007 07:19 PM

[QUOTE=Permanent Solution;15194756]I'm not questioning your happiness being disjoint from society I despise people probably even more than you. I'm disputing your claim to be as social as a "normal" person. Because this is a fallacy. It's a fallacy regardless of whether or not you need to be social to be happy.[/QUOTE]

Whoa, hold on. I never said I was as social as a normal person. I'm far from it and have no reason to lie.

@Illmatic: Haha, i'm a very likeable person in real life and am nice to everyone I meet. Don't try the angry nerd approach on me.

Permanent Solution 08-25-2007 07:23 PM

[QUOTE=Wotan;15194766]Whoa, hold on. I never said I was as social as a normal person. I'm far from it and have no reason to lie.
[/QUOTE]

quoth you: Well I can't say much as i'm fairly agoraphobic and pretty much a teenage hermit, but i'm extremely content with a lack of real friends or friends in general. I fair very well by myself. The thing is though, talking/working with others is always the same even if done in different ways.


If you're not a hermit you sort of imply you're normally social. I forgot the mainthing I took dispute with though was that talking is always the same. Socialization is not the same online.

AA-12 08-25-2007 07:25 PM

[QUOTE=Permanent Solution;15194792]quoth you: Well I can't say much as i'm fairly agoraphobic and pretty much a teenage hermit, but i'm extremely content with a lack of real friends or friends in general. I fair very well by myself. The thing is though, talking/working with others is always the same even if done in different ways.


If you're not a hermit you sort of imply you're normally social. I forgot the mainthing I took dispute with though was that talking is always the same. Socialization is not the same online.[/QUOTE]

I see. What I meant was that it's still socializing. That's it.

Permanent Solution 08-25-2007 07:27 PM

It is still socializing but it's not the only social interaction humans need.

I can't imagine raising a kid solely through internet interaction would produce a "normal" child.

AA-12 08-25-2007 07:28 PM

[QUOTE=Permanent Solution;15194822]It is still socializing but it's not the only social interaction humans need.

I can't imagine raising a kid solely through internet interaction would produce a "normal" child.[/QUOTE]

I guess.

Where are you going with that?

Permanent Solution 08-25-2007 07:31 PM

[QUOTE=Wotan;15194829]I guess.

Where are you going with that?[/QUOTE]
That internet socialization is not as fulfilling to modern human needs as in person socialization is.

AA-12 08-25-2007 07:32 PM

It is on a different level. Me socializing in real like with my parents and a few friends completely fulfills me in a physically face to face way.

Permanent Solution 08-25-2007 07:35 PM

Oh don't get me wrong, I think the anonymity of internet socialization covers an entire aspect of human socialization that wasn't ever covered in the past.

If you spend time with family and friends close to daily I don't see why it wouldn't. But if you spent a year in your basement you'd start to feel that lack of human interaction (probably long before a year was up).

AA-12 08-25-2007 07:39 PM

[QUOTE=Permanent Solution;15194877]
If you spend time with family and friends close to daily I don't see why it wouldn't. But if you spent a year in your basement you'd start to feel that lack of human interaction (probably long before a year was up).[/QUOTE]

I generally only see one friend on a frequent basis and that's normally 3-4 times a month. It's good enough.

Permanent Solution 08-25-2007 07:44 PM

But you also have family.

I think when you move out you'll find you need to spend more time with friends.

AA-12 08-25-2007 07:44 PM

I doubt it, honestly.

Permanent Solution 08-25-2007 07:46 PM

That's because you've never lived alone so you take the social interaction inherent in living with someone for granted.

AA-12 08-25-2007 07:48 PM

[QUOTE=Permanent Solution;15194950]That's because you've never lived alone so you take the social interaction inherent in living with someone for granted.[/QUOTE]

I've been along for some time periods, though not for a permanent block of time. I still think if I lived alone i'd only hang out with family/friends 4 or 5 times a month.

Permanent Solution 08-25-2007 07:50 PM

Being alone for a long time is ok it's when you're perpetually alone that you seek humanity.

But bear in mind that shopping, school, work all add sociality to life so if you're engaging in these activities it's possible you're correct.

AA-12 08-25-2007 07:52 PM

Yeah, I agree with that.

Nostalgia 08-25-2007 08:09 PM

sup dogs

np: bone thugs - hell sent

AA-12 08-25-2007 08:09 PM

Sad.


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