Oh.

That's apt to bother you for awhile.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]You forgot modest. :p[/QUOTE]

Modesty is only for those who are afraid of offending people they don't care about.

[QUOTE=Eggo]Modesty is only for those who are afraid of offending people they don't care about.[/QUOTE]


See me in 20 years and tell me that same thing.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Oh.

That's apt to bother you for awhile.[/QUOTE]


yep.

not much L&R tonight is there =|

Not much at all.

I can always make up stories or something.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]See me in 20 years and tell me that same thing.[/QUOTE]

okay=)

Like THAT'S never happened before.

EDIT: To Jom.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Like THAT'S never happened before.

EDIT: To Jom.[/QUOTE]

Haha, you're so bitter about that. Hahahahahaha.

I never quite figured out why the sexual urge of men and women differ so much. And I never have figured out the whole Venus and Mars thing. I have never figured out why men think with their head and women with their heart.

For example: one evening last week, my girlfriend and I were getting into bed.

Well, the passion starts to heat up, and she eventually says "I don't feel like it, I just want you to hold me."

I said "What?! What did you say?"

So she says the words that every boyfriend on the planet dreads to hear: "You're just not in touch with my emotional needs as a woman enough for me to satisfy your physical needs as a man." She responded to my puzzled look by saying, "Can't you just love me for who I am and not what I do for you in the bedroom?"

Realizing that nothing was going to happen that night, I went to sleep.

The very next day I opted to take the day off of work to spend time with her. We went out to a nice lunch and then went shopping at a big, unnamed store. I walked around with her while she tried on several different very expensive outfits. She couldn't decide which one to take so I told her we'd just buy them all. She wanted new shoes to compliment her new clothes, so I said lets get a pair for each outfit. We went onto the jewelry department where she picked out a pair of diamond earrings. Let me tell you... she was so excited. She must have thought I was one wave short of a shipwreck. I started to think she was testing me because she asked for a tennis bracelet when she doesn't even know how to play tennis. I think I threw her for a loop when I said, "That's fine, honey." She was almost nearing sexual satisfaction from all of the excitement. Smiling with excited anticipation she finally said, "I think this is all, dear, let's go to the cashier."

I could hardly contain myself when I blurted out, "No honey, I don't feel like it."

Her face just went completely blank as her jaw dropped with a baffled "WHAT?!"

I then said "Honey! I just want you to HOLD this stuff for a while. You're just not in touch with my financial needs as a man enough for me to satisfy your shopping needs as a woman." And just when she had this look like she was going to kill me, I added, "Why can't you just love me for who I am and not for the things I buy you?"

Apparently I'm not having sex tonight either...

... but at least that bitch knows I'm smarter than her.

(wooooo @ mySpace bulletins)

Alright here's my situation:
My girlfriend means the world to me, we've been dating for a year. And without her, I don't even know what would happen to me. But here's her only downfall. She gets mad at her mom all the time. And when she gets mad at her mom, she takes it out on me. Or just if she's having a bad day, she takes it out on me. Like one day, this one girl was mad at her or something, and she was really pissed off. So I wanted to do something with her, so I call her and ask her if she wants to do anything that night. So I can already tell she's in a bad mood by the way she says " hello ". So I ask her" what's wrong with you ". And so she tells me " Nothing, but why are you always butting into my business. Maybe I don't want to tell you EVERYTHING about my life! ". And then she hung up on me. And she just gets into bitch mode like that often. And no she doesen't have abnormal periods. Haha. But I can tell that she loves me because by the end of the day we end up making out anyways. =) hehe. But anyways I'm kinda getting tired of it. And I don't want to come out and say it, because I have a feeling she'll go bitch mode on me. And most likely break up with me, but I dunno. Any advice?

[QUOTE=Sabian4015]Alright here's my situation:
My girlfriend means the world to me, we've been dating for a year. And without her, I don't even know what would happen to me. But here's her only downfall. She gets mad at her mom all the time. And when she gets mad at her mom, she takes it out on me. Or just if she's having a bad day, she takes it out on me. Like one day, this one girl was mad at her or something, and she was really pissed off. So I wanted to do something with her, so I call her and ask her if she wants to do anything that night. So I can already tell she's in a bad mood by the way she says " hello ". So I ask her" what's wrong with you ". And so she tells me " Nothing, but why are you always butting into my business. Maybe I don't want to tell you EVERYTHING about my life! ". And then she hung up on me. And she just gets into bitch mode like that often. And no she doesen't have abnormal periods. Haha. But I can tell that she loves me because by the end of the day we end up making out anyways. =) hehe. But anyways I'm kinda getting tired of it. And I don't want to come out and say it, because I have a feeling she'll go bitch mode on me. And most likely break up with me, but I dunno. Any advice?[/QUOTE]

Funny, this was mentioned here by someone else earlier today.

Unless you come out and say it I think you're probably doomed. She does that to you because you're allowing her to. She'll keep doing it until you stop allowing it.

Girls make me go hmm
because of their actions of wanting to get attention confuses the male, and thus, leads the male into thinking he is doing the right thing and ends up hurting the female.
Such example as follows

Are you sure you are ok about us breaking up
Yes

And the guy gets a new gf

OMG IT HURTS IM CRYING

You said you were ok, a lot of times that I asked

YOU DONT CARE

I care a lot, and I asked you so many times if you are okay and you said yes, like there was no worry in your head


Why do they do this, they are only hurting themselves, and am I wrong for getting another girlfriend?
It kills me, because I am not a guy who just walks out of someones life, I care, a lot.

I saw you posted this in another thread.

Is this for real?

Nah, you're not wrong for getting another girlfriend - she's just unstable after she realizes that you're with someone new. It's like going into singledom shock or something.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]I saw you posted this in another thread.

Is this for real?[/QUOTE]
Yeah, I posted it in the "what makes you think" thread, and someone suggested to post it in here.
This recently happened to me and I dont know how to handle it.

Still have feelings for the X, strongly

[QUOTE=RahXephoN]Yeah, I posted it in the "what makes you think" thread, and someone suggested to post it in here.
This recently happened to me and I dont know how to handle it.

Still have feelings for the X, strongly[/QUOTE]

Seems like she has feelings for you too. It can't be worked out?

wow sooo much has happened in the past few days, but i don't feel like typing it all out

basically, i got into some [b]very[/b] unneeded drama aand even though i do know its pointless and stupid aaand i know it will pass (like all drama) its so friggen annoying

My whole life i had avoided drama like the plauge and i was happy, but i stupidly got myself into it.....


oooh welll

[QUOTE=thunderzstruck]wow sooo much has happened in the past few days, but i don't feel like typing it all out

basically, i got into some [b]very[/b] unneeded drama aand even though i do know its pointless and stupid aaand i know it will pass (like all drama) its so friggen annoying

My whole life i had avoided drama like the plauge and i was happy, but i stupidly got myself into it.....


oooh welll[/QUOTE]

What's the point in posting this if you're not going to tell us? You can't just be like "Derr developments but I'm not gonna post them derr." :p

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Seems like she has feelings for you too. It can't be worked out?[/QUOTE]
I tried to work it out while I was single and she was, but she acted like meh, like I can tell she had feelings, but I sorta saw them slipping away to a friendship type feelings. I tried to get close again but I dont know if I did something wrong, its all too confusing.
I think I should stay with where I am at now, ya know

I already broke up with the current gf to give the X a try, I dont think I wanna do it again. Its more painful to me and it is to them.

Well, the next time the ex gives you something like, "I'm dying here", say that she had her chance.

Jom: Doug and I got in a hairy fight today.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Jom: Doug and I got in a hairy fight today.[/QUOTE]

Just kick his as[font=verdana]s[/font] next time, enough of this wussy pulling-of-the-hair bullshi[font=verdana]t[/font] :angry:

[QUOTE=Jom]Just kick his as[font=verdana]s[/font] next time, enough of this wussy pulling-of-the-hair bullshi[font=verdana]t[/font] :angry:[/QUOTE]

When you get unbusy, I'll tell you about it. It was confusing.

Derr, I've been active for awhile...

[QUOTE=Jom]What's the point in posting this if you're not going to tell us? You can't just be like "Derr developments but I'm not gonna post them derr." :p[/QUOTE]

for postcount++

heh, just kidding [size=1]plz dont band me[/size]

OOOOKAY here it goes

Sooo Jenny was ALWAYS talking to me about how much she hated being around Angela and how much she never wanted to speak to her again. Blahblahblah

Well Angela wanted to do something with Jenny on Sunday but Jenny blew her off. Angela was talking to me and I just said "Well I don't think Jenny really considers you a friend anymore." So Angela sent Jenny an angry text message and then Jenny called me and got pissed at me.

She went on and on on how bad she feels now because she hurt angelas feelings when she told BOTH of us that she never to do anything with us ever again. So Jenny not wanting to be friends with angela is NOTHING new and we both know she will just change her mind in a week or two.

Well Jenny acted like what she said upset her SOOO MUCH, and she started to suck up to her. She left a comment on myspace saying "Oh we never hang out anymore and i miss that aand i miss that and i want to get closer to you again" (all of it was bull****)

Well so jenny and i are talking on aim and i brought that up. Well jenny said she felt sorry for her and i asked "Were you just leading her on?" yeah, she said. So obviously she STILL didn't want to be friends.

Well Angela called me later that night asking did she REALLY say all that and i guess she didn't really believe me because of all of jennys sucking up. I sent her the convo of jenny talking about leading her on. The next day jenny invites angela out to her grandmas farm for some of next week and now i just got a text saying from jenny "kyle, stop telling angela ****- its not gonna make her go out with you. GET OVER IT."

woooow jenny is stupid. If one of my friends was saying as much **** about me behind my back i would want to know too. Especially when all angela does it praise her and jenny just puts her down at every chance.


Well thats about it
/feels stupid for having such a dramatized post

EDIT: basically its gonna be a bitch to work out but i think im gonna take the route of just see what happens and dont say anything i will regret

/thoughts?

you need to drop both those drama queen hos like the dead weight they are, bro

also

shave your dirty stash

Drama sucks. Experience ++

[QUOTE=Eggo]you need to drop both those drama queen hos like the dead weight they are, bro
[/QUOTE]

i would, but around here, they are some of the least dramatic girls i know.. sadly

so i couldnt do much better

Welcome to my life bro. Every single girl I know is a drama queen to some extent, nothing you can do about it. Best thing really is, "That's nice, dear."

well can't you just be friends with both