[QUOTE=Steerpike]I wouldn't. Sex is incredibly intimate and can have a very profound impact on those involved. It's not something to be taken lightly.[/QUOTE]
Well, I'm confused about it, because even though sex is a big step to take with someone who is just a friend, we have already done everything else but have sex. Anytime we're alone we end up fooling around and other things, and she knows that I'm not interested in her, but she says she doesn't mind.

I'm supposed to go over there at 7pm. :/

[QUOTE=purplefeet]Maybe if she didnt have feelings for you it may be different, but she does so I think that about nips it in the bud. I think that because she likes you and all, having sex would just increase that. As well, because you dont have feelings for her in return, I dont think it would be a good idea.[/QUOTE]
Yeah, that's what I thought, but she really wants to, and I am a male, so it's difficult to say no. :[

[QUOTE=AG]So the gig was cancelled or some shi[SIZE=2]t and I didn't see Steph.

I hate how women waste my fuc[/SIZE]king time. I specicifcally didn't go out with my friends tonight so I could see her. Jesus.


I think she can chase me for a bit if she actually wants to see me, I'm done with pandering to her.[/QUOTE]

Why didn't you do something else with her tonight instead of the gig?

[QUOTE=AG]So the gig was cancelled or some shi[SIZE=2]t and I didn't see Steph.

I hate how women waste my fuc[/SIZE]king time. I specicifcally didn't go out with my friends tonight so I could see her. Jesus.


I think she can chase me for a bit if she actually wants to see me, I'm done with pandering to her.[/QUOTE]
Not her fault the gig was cancelled.

Why don't you try making other plans?

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Why didn't you do something else with her tonight instead of the gig?[/QUOTE]


'If it is cancelled I'm gonna stay here and watch the match hun'



Match meaning football match, here meaning her friends house.

I'm not saying it's her fault that the gig is cancelled, but her blowing me off for a footy match on TV is.

[QUOTE=Gore Obsessed]I have a problem with my love life, if you may.

Theres a chick I really like, but I am very good friends with. I want to ask her to prom, but I don't want this to effect our friendship.

WHAT SHALL I DO?[/QUOTE]

Anybody? :mad:

[QUOTE=Gore Obsessed]Anybody? :mad:[/QUOTE]
That was already addressed.

[QUOTE=AG]'If it is cancelled I'm gonna stay here and watch the match hun'



Match meaning football match, here meaning her friends house.

I'm not saying it's her fault that the gig is cancelled, but her blowing me off for a footy match on TV is.[/QUOTE]
Oh. Didn't know that's what she was doing.

Well, that's different.
Well, yeah, don't make yourself so available.
Play hard to get.

[QUOTE=Gore Obsessed]Anybody? :mad:[/QUOTE]

Sorry, I thought someone would have gotten you by now.

Can you ask her out just as friends to the prom?

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Sorry, I thought someone would have gotten you by now.

Can you ask her out just as friends to the prom?[/QUOTE]
A girl I know is going to her fiend' prom with him, just as friends, and she doesn't mind. I know tons of girls have gone with their friends. I don't see why his situation would be any different, just make sure the girl knows he's wanting to go as friends.

[QUOTE=Tillius]Oh. Didn't know that's what she was doing.

Well, that's different.
Well, yeah, don't make yourself so available.
Play hard to get.[/QUOTE]


Yeh, I'm no longer gonna be chasing her.


This now means I'm out on the pull on Saturday night.



:D

[QUOTE=AG]Yeh, I'm no longer gonna be chasing her.


This now means I'm out on the pull on Saturday night.



:D[/QUOTE]
Good.

Have fun with that.

Well, I'm going to Kristen's. ><

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Sorry, I thought someone would have gotten you by now.

Can you ask her out just as friends to the prom?[/QUOTE]

:eek:

Oh my God dude that's a great idea! What a brilliant thought!

:p

[quote=Captain Manbitch of the SS Whipped]Well, I'm going to Kristen's. ><[/quote]

See: your new username.

[quote]Yeah, that's what I thought, but she really wants to, and [b]I am a male, so it's difficult to say no. :[[/b][/quote]

Man, I dunno if it's just me, but is it really that hard to keep your boner in check?

So an update from [url=http://www.musicianforums.com/forums/showpost.php?p=11952699&postcount=3624]this[/url] post

Angela told jenny and jenny (yet agaun) said that were not friends anymore. I guess Angela said she would forgive Jenny if she paid her back in time (which jenny will) Jenny, i guess is constantly talking **** about me i guess even before this whole incident. So i guess jenny and angela will in time be really good friends again. The only reason jenny feels guilt is because she has finally gotten the consequences of all of this. Angela and I were talking and right now i honestly don't know if ill ever be friends with jenny again. Jenny thinks im trying to break up angela and hers friendship when she tried to break up our relationship soo many times.. **** her,

i dont know if i can hang out with angela anymore... it hurts waay too much because i like her A LOT. this isnt some passing crush either since i have liked her for over a year and a half now. And I want us to be going out again....

i dont know what to do :/

if you are in love there is only one thing to do, serenade her with backstreet boys a capella stylee

[QUOTE=monkeysonmars.]if you are in love there is only one thing to do, serenade her with backstreet boys a capella stylee[/QUOTE]

shut up

mmm my one friend is a pretty cool guy.

he's giving up being alone with his girl at his house (read: mansion-esque house) and having me come over. That's not the really good part. The good part being he's gonna get his girlfriend to bring over her friend so maybe me and her could hook up. His girl is gonna be there too. So i hope it doesn't turn into some weird 4-way.

Probably won't work though, unless my friend has his guitar. In which case i'll whip out an awesome rendition of some good song.

In other news: i got in a fist fight...with a girl today. Now it's usually against my policy to hit girls, but the bitch was askin for it. So this girl jennifer was doing something stupid, like usual. And i've known her for like 9 years, so i make fun of her for it. then she was like "evan, you're such an asshole, no wonder jessica (my ex) dumped you."

yeah that ticked me off.

*end vent*

This is BULL!

Pam WANTS to get back with me. She has ADMITTED it. But she WON'T FUC[size=2]KING[/size] DO IT!!!!!!!1

[QUOTE=thunderzstruck]shut up[/QUOTE]


dude that was grade-A advice.

[QUOTE=ThePinkPanther]In other news: i got in a fist fight...with a girl today. Now it's usually against my policy to hit girls, but the bitch was askin for it.[/QUOTE]

So you fought a girl huh?

Who won?

it would make my heart melt

Evening L&R...

I'm not too great. My Now Ex-Girlfriend broke up with me because she didn't feel anything for me after saying she loved me. She tried, but couldn't bring herself to do it. That was two days ago, and it still hurts to talk about it. I hope you guys are having better luck, cause having love and trust ripped from you isn't a nice way to go about the easter holidays...

Eh sometimes i want to give up.

[QUOTE=EizingerIsGod]So you fought a girl huh?

Who won?[/QUOTE]

my sister broke pulled me back before it got more than a couple hits.

course my sister, being a good sister, said that i shouldn't have to fight a girl and said she would do it for me.

[QUOTE=JohnnyT]Eh sometimes i want to give up.[/QUOTE]

I'm sick of trying to find someone who i feel doesn't even exist...

there's someone out there for everyone, granted one or two of you might end up with fat people, but they're still human for god's sake

[QUOTE=ThePinkPanther]my sister broke pulled me back before it got more than a couple hits.

course my sister, being a good sister, said that i shouldn't have to fight a girl and said she would do it for me.[/QUOTE]

That's good.

Be a good brother and don't put your sister in a harmful situation. Be the "bigger man" if you will and settle things minus the fighting.

Whoa, TE overload.

Hello, Jadey/Jamie/John if he comes in here/everyone.

[quote=PinkPanther]In other news: i got in a fist fight...with a girl today. Now it's usually against my policy to hit girls, but the bitch was askin for it. So this girl jennifer was doing something stupid, like usual. And i've known her for like 9 years, so i make fun of her for it. then she was like "evan, you're such an as[font=arial]s[/font]hole, no wonder jessica (my ex) dumped you."

yeah that ticked me off.

*end vent*[/quote]

So... did you win?

[QUOTE=EizingerIsGod]That's good.

Be a good brother and don't put your sister in a harmful situation. Be the "bigger man" if you will and settle things minus the fighting.[/QUOTE]

a couple things:

1. my sister can kick *** if she's fighting
2. i tried to pull her back but she pushed me off
3. the person was scared cause when my sister is pissed, she's pissed

Guys, if at any point you're thinking of giving up, realise that you're like...14/15/16/17 etc. There is plenty of time to find the one you're gonna spend the rest of your life with.


Go to a bar, drink a bit, and chat to some women. Have some fun.

[QUOTE=Linkinbassist]I'm sick of trying to find someone who i feel doesn't even exist...[/QUOTE]


Thats why not even having a gf makes life so much better.

[QUOTE=JohnnyT]Thats why not even having a gf makes life so much better.[/QUOTE]

I crave the strings that go with a relationship...I want love, i'm sick of validating myself through myself. I've had to do it all my life. I just want something that all of my mates have; a Long-term, love-filled relationship. Its something i've been hunting for and waiting for and its just not happening...i'm sick of it, i really am.

[QUOTE=Linkinbassist]I crave the strings that go with a relationship...I want love, i'm sick of validating myself through myself. I've had to do it all my life. I just want something that all of my mates have; a Long-term, love-filled relationship. Its something i've been hunting for and waiting for and its just not happening...i'm sick of it, i really am.[/QUOTE]


I know how you feel. I really do. Suffering is unstopable., but how you deal with it makes a different. Try to be more positive. I know its hard, but it will be worth it in the end and you will find somebody.

who is Jom? but hi anyway :)

Jom is one of my favorite mods. He and Strum.

well that resolves everything

[QUOTE=JohnnyT]I know how you feel. I really do. Suffering is unstopable., but how you deal with it makes a different. Try to be more positive. I know its hard, but it will be worth it in the end and you will find somebody.[/QUOTE]

I've had to stay positive all my life...Keep a straight face when **** goes down the pan with my friends and having to keep my family from crumbling whilst my dad goes out of the country with the army for months on end. since August last year, things have been going slowly downhill. My best friend of 5 years has moved up north, and whilst trying to come back down has ran into so many walls with people just not co-operating with her plight. I've stood back and watched my freinds tear each other apart from the inside. i thought things were on the up with this girl, i thought she was gonna be in it for the long run, and then boom, She turns around and holds up the 'no feelings at all' card. I'm failing subjects in college, and if things continue slipping like this i'm seriously going to have a nervous break down. My friends tell me i'm a great guy, that I (along with a couple of my single friends) deserve someone special. We stand around, we fill the search criteria and its just not happening for us. I'm just not all there with anything right now, this is one event from the straw that'll break this camels back...

[QUOTE=Linkinbassist]I've had to stay positive all my life...Keep a straight face when **** goes down the pan with my friends and having to keep my family from crumbling whilst my dad goes out of the country with the army for months on end. since August last year, things have been going slowly downhill. My best friend of 5 years has moved up north, and whilst trying to come back down has ran into so many walls with people just not co-operating with her plight. I've stood back and watched my freinds tear each other apart from the inside. i thought things were on the up with this girl, i thought she was gonna be in it for the long run, and then boom, She turns around and holds up the 'no feelings at all' card. I'm failing subjects in college, and if things continue slipping like this i'm seriously going to have a nervous break down. My friends tell me i'm a great guy, that I (along with a couple of my single friends) deserve someone special. We stand around, we fill the search criteria and its just not happening for us. I'm just not all there with anything right now, this is one event from the straw that'll break this camels back...[/QUOTE]


Well i know all is going hard, but the best thing to do right now is by making a list starting with the most important things. if you get the important things done first and keep doing them you will have time for other stuff. Like for school, try to get good grades while keeping good relationships with friends. This will lead to you being happier and finding a new girl. Keep strong dude. I know its hard but nobody said life is easy. Just stick it out. Dont turn to drugs or alcholol. That will make things worst. Keep a level head and just keep going on. Its gonna be hard but everybody has times when everything is going downhill.

[QUOTE=JohnnyT]Well i know all is going hard, but the best thing to do right now is by making a list starting with the most important things. if you get the important things done first and keep doing them you will have time for other stuff. Like for school, try to get good grades while keeping good relationships with friends. This will lead to you being happier and finding a new girl. Keep strong dude. I know its hard but nobody said life is easy. Just stick it out. Dont turn to drugs or alcholol. That will make things worst. Keep a level head and just keep going on. Its gonna be hard but everybody has times when everything is going downhill.[/QUOTE]

I'd never turn to drugs. I drink, but not to excess...I'm to the point where i just won't be able to climb the next hill. These last few days i've really questioned everything and everyone...its so f[SIZE="2"]uc[/SIZE]king hard to watch everyone get that 'love fix' that i crave so badly, now more than ever. I'm trying to stick it out for now, but one more incident and i will just explode, and i'll be letting my friends see a side of me that i've been pushing down for the last 8 months. I'm so f[SIZE="2"]uc[/SIZE]ked up right now, i hate it...

[QUOTE=Linkinbassist]I'd never turn to drugs. I drink, but not to excess...I'm to the point where i just won't be able to climb the next hill. These last few days i've really questioned everything and everyone...its so f[SIZE="2"]uc[/SIZE]king hard to watch everyone get that 'love fix' that i crave so badly, now more than ever. I'm trying to stick it out for now, but one more incident and i will just explode, and i'll be letting my friends see a side of me that i've been pushing down for the last 8 months. I'm so f[SIZE="2"]uc[/SIZE]ked up right now, i hate it...[/QUOTE]


I cant blame you. Last year i was at my lowest. I was always depressed and mad. It was terrible, but it took time for me to get better. My friends helped a lot. They help me find myself again. But you WILL find somebody. I think you should take a break from girls for a month or so and get everything up and running. Ah i know that feel of "love fix" it sucks. The only thing that helped me through it was music and friends. I have given up on my family mostly. Keep standing dude.