[QUOTE=Chaindrive]There are things you will never find out about the other person until you meet them face to face. I'm speaking of aspects of their personality. Do they leave the towels on the floor. Do they pick their nose. Do they drive too fast or slow.

All these things you don't see unless it's real life.[/QUOTE]

Yeah she picks her nose, as do I. She lives out of piles, as do I. I know there is more to it.

She drives carefully enough. Always tells me to hold on, and I can hear her carefully manuvering around and then when she gets back she tells me some person veered out yadda yadda...

I know there is more to it, but none of it compares to the good stuff that I know is there. I mean, there is nothing we haven't talked about.

[QUOTE=DBoon's Ghost]Yeah she picks her nose, as do I. She lives out of piles, as do I. I know there is more to it.

She drives carefully enough. Always tells me to hold on, and I can hear her carefully manuvering around and then when she gets back she tells me some person veered out yadda yadda...

I know there is more to it, but none of it compares to the good stuff that I know is there. I mean, there is nothing we haven't talked about.[/QUOTE]

Then you're probably good to go. :)

I just mentioned it because it probably wouldn't the the first thing to occur to someone in an internet relationship.

There go my plans to visit you, though. :upset:

[QUOTE=Route 1]Ok, weird situation.

My best friend Greg's gf flirts like a hooker on speed. Apparently, he doesn't know that she does, but I see her do it constantly. Last night they were at my house chilling, and Greg went to go on a food run. When he left, I got a call and I was just walking around the house chatting and out of nowhere she latches on to me in like, a semi-playful way and tells me "you're sexy" and gives me the "look". I was like "ok......you have a bf now get off" and she responded, "god, he's not here, it doesn't matter".

So, should I tell him that she's a horn dog and cause the break up outright, or should I hint at it until he catches on and let him do the work?[/QUOTE]

Yikes that's tough. I'd say leave it alone. You don't want to get involved in something that will undoubtedly get very messy. Let the guy make his own mistakes, hard though I know that is.

I'd at least tell him what she did with you. Because friends need to tell each other about that sort of thing. Don't go any gurther than her trying to mess with you though. She'll probably say it was a joke, so tell him it could've been a joke, but you're not too sure. :/

Edit: This was to Route 1 and I use the :/ smiley way too much.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Then you're probably good to go. :)

I just mentioned it because it probably wouldn't the the first thing to occur to someone in an internet relationship.

There go my plans to visit you, though. :upset:[/QUOTE]

Thats just it though. Neither of us truly consider it an "online relationship", it's just a relationship.

And why are our plans ruined now? I'm a heathen! No.. no I'm not.. But still.

I WANT TO HAVE MY CAKE AND EAT IT TOO!

It occurs to me, that saying neither applies to this scenario, nor makes any sense. I'll leave it though.

Your last sentence made no sense to me whatsoever.

It's probably just me, though.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Your last sentence made no sense to me whatsoever.

It's probably just me, though.[/QUOTE]


Um.

Well, I was referring to the saying.. "I want to have my cake and eat it too".

It makes no sense. If you have the cake, then ****ing eat it. If you don't have the cake, then you can't eat it. So what does it mean?

I wanted to say it applied because you rock, and all chicks who rock should certainly fly to me and serve me grapes and large glasses of Merlot.

But life aint like that is it? Nope. It's filled with sayings that don't make sense that we use anyways. Like when someone says.. "Well, that's par for the course"... Golf? How the hell does that apply anywhere but golf? Yet people say it.

Makes a sane man crazy I tells ya.

[QUOTE=DBoon's Ghost]I wanted to say it applied because you rock, and all chicks who rock should certainly fly to me and serve me grapes and large glasses of Merlot.
[/QUOTE]

Thank you.

*heads for airport*

Oh wait, I sneeze a lot in real life. Might be way to annoying to you.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Thank you.

*heads for airport*

Oh wait, I sneeze a lot in real life. Might be way to annoying to you.[/QUOTE]


That's fairly odd. Sneeze a lot?

I can remedy that. I mean, you probably wouldn't sneeze a whole lot with your mouth full right?






























From feeding you grapes silly! Hardy har!

No?

:lol:

I have wicked allergies. So I sneeze a lot whether my mouth is full of.....uh, grapes or isn't.

Crap! Allergies suck. I'm really only allergic to work. I don't sneeze but I suddenly get the urge to slack and I get very lazy. It's a good thing I sit at a desk all day.

I'm sorry to hear you have allergy problems though. Must make sleeping a nightmare when it's pollen season.

Hey Chaindrive..Long time since I've been in here..Whats up? Hows it going?

[QUOTE=DBoon's Ghost]Crap! Allergies suck. I'm really only allergic to work. I don't sneeze but I suddenly get the urge to slack and I get very lazy. It's a good thing I sit at a desk all day.

I'm sorry to hear you have allergy problems though. Must make sleeping a nightmare when it's pollen season.[/QUOTE]

Spring's a little rougher but I have allergies all year long...it sucks.

Nothing that a very large glass of Merlot wouldn't help, though.

Oh...and some...um...grapes.

:D

[quote=Lightning Strikes Twice]Hey Chaindrive..Long time since I've been in here..Whats up? Hows it going?[/quote]

Where you been? It's going okay.

Route 1: I say talk, straight to his face!
It will not be easy for either of you, but if he's a good friend I really think you should tell him.

I ask anyone in this thread to step forward if they would rather not know if their lover was acting that way, and not want to know..?

My guess is no.

So.. don't let it be, it will fester in you and it will fester in their relationship.

Truth > All.

Good luck.

He'll catch her at it eventually. I say don't get involved.

[QUOTE=DBoon's Ghost]I can honestly say I've fallen in love with her.[/QUOTE]

"And just when you stop believing in it, it looks like love is gonna show it's face"

/sings.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]He'll catch her at it eventually. I say don't get involved.[/QUOTE]
Personally, if I had a girl that tried somethign with one of my friends, and they didn't tell me, I would be pissed as hell at them for not telling me. I'm sure I'm not the only person who would be pissed either.

He shouldn't talk about stuff she does with other guys though, just whatever she tried with him.

[QUOTE=Chrysostom]Well in that case maybe you imagined the chemistry on her part.[/QUOTE]

Here's an update: She called me today and we talked for about an hour. We both agreed we would go hang out with each other on Friday. Apparantly she was in North Carolina and forgot to bring her phone with her, heh. I get paranoid of people ignoring me. Oh well, things are good once again for me :)

[QUOTE=DBoon's Ghost]That's fairly odd. Sneeze a lot?

I can remedy that. I mean, you probably wouldn't sneeze a whole lot with your mouth full right?


From feeding you grapes silly! Hardy har!

No?[/QUOTE]
:lol:

I think I can give some insight. I met a girl on here two years ago. She lives in the Netherlands and lurked in the L&R, from where we started to be great pen pals. We'd write ten page e-mails every other week for a good while. She got in trouble, whatever, we were still able to talk after some time. And last fall I went to England for the fall semester.

By fluke and her good timing a friend and I were able to stay at her house for a three-day weekend. Despite having a girlfriend for the previous year, I had always tinkered with little ideas of hitting it off with this girl, even though it was far-fetched and all. I was pretty sure it wasn't reciprocated, and it wasn't (so the relevance is only in part), but I was looking for some kind of spark to at least feel like I had something left in me; don't want to be put to pasture so quick.

We finally met in Amsterdam, her waiting at the train station. And right off I knew there was nothing. Beyond that we would barely talk in person--what we could write and IM about for hours was nothing without the physical appeal to something, friendship or otherwise. By the end of the trip we ended up talking a bit more and became comfortable, but since we haven't talked that much (either her being busy or loss of mystique or something). But there that went.


As for the singleness and ****ing: I passed up so many opportunities Friday night because I feel guilty about it meaning nothing (besides being a little attached to the ex I recently dumped). Now I'm being a hawk for a reasonable rebound, which won't happen and is terrible, but hey, I'm young.



And good luck, man :) (it took forever to load this)

yeah so i got dumped last night, and i'm actually kind of depressed, even though I only dated this girl for about a month

wtf is wrong with me, im pathetic.

i always end up getting too attached to girls, it's so stupid.

[QUOTE=thisistj]yeah so i got dumped last night, and i'm actually kind of depressed, even though I only dated this girl for about a month

wtf is wrong with me, im pathetic.

i always end up getting too attached to girls, it's so stupid.[/QUOTE]
You're not pathetic man. This stuff happens to everyone.

yeah, but the fact that i only dated her for such a short amount of time really bugs me....why should i care so much?

i guess the reason i'm so bummed is because i liked her for so long before i actually had the guts to ask her out, but still...it really irks me that i'm letting it hurt me.

girls are dumb.

[QUOTE=thisistj]yeah, but the fact that i only dated her for such a short amount of time really bugs me....why should i care so much?

i guess the reason i'm so bummed is because i liked her for so long before i actually had the guts to ask her out, but still...it really irks me that i'm letting it hurt me.

girls are dumb.[/QUOTE]


yes they are. I can toally agree with that statement, but not all are :)

Sometimes. And, then again, sometimes not.

Good on you that you had the guts to ask her out, but...stuff happens.

[QUOTE=thisistj]yeah, but the fact that i only dated her for such a short amount of time really bugs me....why should i care so much?

i guess the reason i'm so bummed is because i liked her for so long before i actually had the guts to ask her out, but still...it really irks me that i'm letting it hurt me.

girls are dumb.[/QUOTE]
Well, the trick is not to get too into her at first just incase this does happen.

Why did she dump you?

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Sometimes. And, then again, sometimes not.

Good on you that you had the guts to ask her out, but...stuff happens.[/QUOTE]


I think the better quote is s[B]h[/B]it happens.


So i broke up with her. She understood and we are staying friends.

Im still upset though.

:upset:

I know it was for the best though.

[QUOTE=The Profit of Maine]:lol:

I think I can give some insight. I met a girl on here two years ago. She lives in the Netherlands and lurked in the L&R, from where we started to be great pen pals. We'd write ten page e-mails every other week for a good while. She got in trouble, whatever, we were still able to talk after some time. And last fall I went to England for the fall semester.

By fluke and her good timing a friend and I were able to stay at her house for a three-day weekend. Despite having a girlfriend for the previous year, I had always tinkered with little ideas of hitting it off with this girl, even though it was far-fetched and all. I was pretty sure it wasn't reciprocated, and it wasn't (so the relevance is only in part), but I was looking for some kind of spark to at least feel like I had something left in me; don't want to be put to pasture so quick.

We finally met in Amsterdam, her waiting at the train station. And right off I knew there was nothing. Beyond that we would barely talk in person--what we could write and IM about for hours was nothing without the physical appeal to something, friendship or otherwise. By the end of the trip we ended up talking a bit more and became comfortable, but since we haven't talked that much (either her being busy or loss of mystique or something). But there that went.[/QUOTE]

So she was really really freakin' ugly? oic :p

[QUOTE=Jom]So she was really really freakin' ugly? oic :p[/QUOTE]
Hehe. No, she's quite pretty, but I can't send you the pictures to prove it :p

(Don't want to violate whatever trust that is.)

Ok, just a question for anyone to answer here, my mate likes this chick right but didn't tell anyone, so me and her got it on and then he got all pissed at me (that was when I found out he liked her) Is he within his rights to have a go at me for this?

well, if he didnt tell you, its not like you have a crystal ball. Id say if you slept with her first, then you have dibs on her