[QUOTE=Jom]Completely agreed, really. I've tried getting old friends back together, but some people refuse to let things slide, or some people just flat-out move on.

Friends come and go; that's just a part of life. It's something I've learned very recently, really. It's not your fault - that's just how the cards are dealt sometimes.[/QUOTE]

Yeah, it's true. I think it's sad though thinking about all the times you spent together and it's all over with. But one thing is you get to look forward to meeting new people and doing new things

I guess you can have two different ways of looking at it

RAWR @ Dumb women.

Me and my girl argued again tonight, and I think I may have actually gotten through her thick skill this time. :gasp:

She says she wants time to think, so I left her alone. I was giving her space and doing my own thing lately, but she got all pissed because of a comment my ex left on my Myspace. It wasn't anything, she was just overreacting and I guess it was the straw the broke the camels back, so to speak.

Yeah... so I was going to leave her alone the rest of tonight and let her think or whatever, and get back to me when she fel ready. I'm not in a hurry anymore or anything. I have better things to do than wait for her to finally stop being a selfish brat.

Well, I log onto the game we both play, because I play it ever day almost, and have friends and stuff to do there. My girlfriend was online, as usual, but I didn't think nothing of it. I guess she logged off sometime, but I never noticed. She logged onto a friend of her's account, and started messaging me, thinking I wouldn't know who it is. She was trying to act likle someone else, and was hitting on me. What the hell? For one, it's a game, why the hell would anyone seriously flirt on a game? Two, why would she even take the time to do somethign that stupid? Does she think she's testing me by seeing if I'd respond to someone hitting on me correctly? She's never had problems trusting me before, and it's seems very lame to be worried about me flirting on a video game. If she was just screwing with me, then why would she even want to do that? Just to be a bi[size="2"]t[/size]ch?

Btw, I know 100% that it was her, because I physically saw her tell someone else that she was "Leigh"(her game name) on her friend's account.

That has to be the stupidest thing any girl I know has done to me.

I don't need advice, I just feel like ranting about my lame *** gf.

I read it :)

Wizard; Girls do that, my ex did that to me.

I think it's a sign of insecurity.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]I'm just gonna say this, Jon...as you get older you change friends. It's a natural evolution. Your group of friends not getting along right now is a growing pain. You probably won't be able to get the group back together how it was.[/QUOTE]
ya well lately i have been hanging out with my friend matt. and i met a lot of new people. they all do drugs but thats really normal i think. i just wont do the drugs. but these people are really nice

Make sure you dont do drugs just outta peer pressure then. Im telling you it will happen and you wont even realise its the pressure that did it to you.

Just make sure they know that you don't want any of that. I mean, they shouldn't mind, think about it, how bad do you think they want to give away their drugs. If there nice like they said, they shouldnt mind, this only thing would be it might be wierd being the only not high one, but i guess you could leave, or just get used to it, and take everything you hear and think "what would my reaction be if i was high" then do that, just so your not bored (unless its omethingr eally stupid)

camelfarmer is right... before you'll realise it'll happen. It happened to me. I had "nice" friends and a "nice" boyfriend who did drugs. Well, that's what i thought. Then they started talking me into trying weed which I did. Later on they started talking me into harder stuff and I fell for it. I'm not proud of it and regret it because i really liked the drugs and kept on doing it for a while. so all I gotta say, there's nothing wrong with you hanging with people who do drugs, but if they ever try to get you to do it, they aren't as nice as you might think they are.

^^^
What he said.
/talking about Guns.

Yeah my friends drink and I didnt till a little ago. They are nice and never tried to force me into it or make me feel left out. I still felt more comfortable drinking around them than not. However I do it cause I want to and we dont get drunk and we make sure we know our limits so its alright. I can still admit, though I dont like to, that its cause of them that I had my first drinks. I dont regret it cause like I said we have very very decent limits. Id never try to get a friend or partner into it just to make me or them feel more comfortable either.

I still feel a bit bad about it cause I always felt not drinking was cool, and now I feel having a few drinks is far cooler. As long as I dont get drunk and do something I regret Im fine with it though, its not like Im an addict, I havent had a single drink in three weeks.

Just watch yourself around drugs, they can be suprisingly addictive. The first time you've got fear and guilt. After that its just not wrong anymore. But if you have a clear mind and some will you'll be just fine.

I talk too much sometimes. Im going to bed.

i only smoked cirarettes last night but thats normal for me but i used to smoke but i learned that its really bad for uyou if u did it a lot(i did) and it affected my life big time. but they do cocaine and i drop the line right there, if my friends say that there gonna do cocaine, i just dont hang out with them that night cuz my cousin used to be addicted to cocaine and he would kill me if i tried it.

[QUOTE=Destined_for]i only smoked cirarettes last night but thats normal for me but i used to smoke but i learned that its really bad for uyou if u did it a lot(i did) and it affected my life big time. but they do cocaine and i drop the line right there, if my friends say that there gonna do cocaine, i just dont hang out with them that night cuz my cousin used to be addicted to cocaine and he would kill me if i tried it.[/QUOTE]


Yeah, exactly, thats the way to go, cause you don't wanna get mixed up with that s[SIZE="2"]h[/SIZE]it. Although, I'd be a bit concerned for them if there doing cocaine, especially if they do it frequently.

[QUOTE=Guns'n'Zeppelin023]Yeah, exactly, thats the way to go, cause you don't wanna get mixed up with that s[SIZE="2"]h[/SIZE]it. Although, I'd be a bit concerned for them if there doing cocaine, especially if they do it frequently.[/QUOTE]


Ya

that stuff is soo bad for you.

[QUOTE=Guns'n'Zeppelin023]me=jom

:smash: :smash:[/QUOTE]

Excuse me? Who are you?

Don't spam this thread, kids, or I'll start banning. It's one thing to joke around, but I don't want this spiraling out of control.

Thanks!

[quote] might be moving and transfering schools[/quote]

What, you can't handle being a Wildcat anymore? :p

Where are you headed, then?

[QUOTE=Super Cameron]dear morrisey or mozza or whatever seirous question

what are you doing sometime/wanna go out with me someitme

guys what should i do i might be moving and transfering schools osmetime but i want a girlfriend it sucks

jom= i didnt mean to spam i was just asking a question

like how i edited instead of posting again

i learn[/QUOTE]
Can't you just find a girlfriend wherever it is you move to?

[QUOTE=Super Cameron]dear morrisey or mozza or whatever seirous question

what are you doing sometime/wanna go out with me someitme

guys what should i do i might be moving and transfering schools osmetime but i want a girlfriend it sucks

jom= i didnt mean to spam i was just asking a question

like how i edited instead of posting again

i learn[/QUOTE]

Do you mean You want a girlfriend, as in a specific one, from the school your at now? If so, are you moving or just changing schools?

Jom- I was just jack[SIZE="2"]a[/SIZE]ssing around, .. you know,... thread title.
ack, nevrmind



Edit: So that girl, i was talking about, and when i asked her out, she gave me the whole her and her ex just broke up, which is true, but my guestion is, is it alright to still try and flirt and the like, or should I just...not. And wait a while?

[QUOTE=Guns'n'Zeppelin023]Do you mean You want a girlfriend, as in a specific one, from the school your at now? If so, are you moving or just changing schools?

Jom- I was just jack[SIZE="2"]a[/SIZE]ssing around, .. you know,... thread title.
ack, nevrmind



Edit: So that girl, i was talking about, and when i asked her out, she gave me the whole her and her ex just broke up, which is true, but my guestion is, is it alright to still try and flirt and the like, or should I just...not. And wait a while?[/QUOTE]
Well...

Speaking purely from a hypothetical point of view, I would say that if she's just got out of a relationship, and it didn't end on the best of terms, she might not feel ready for another one just yet. Give it about a week, after she's had a while to cool off a bit, and then try again. At least by then she might be able to give you a straight answer either way.

Good luck with it, chap.

[QUOTE=Guns'n'Zeppelin023]Do you mean You want a girlfriend, as in a specific one, from the school your at now? If so, are you moving or just changing schools?

Jom- I was just jack[SIZE="2"]a[/SIZE]ssing around, .. you know,... thread title.
ack, nevrmind



Edit: So that girl, i was talking about, and when i asked her out, she gave me the whole her and her ex just broke up, which is true, but my guestion is, is it alright to still try and flirt and the like, or should I just...not. And wait a while?[/QUOTE]
You can flirt a little bit, but if she's still feeling the effects of just now getting out of a relationship, then you should probably take it down a notch. Like I said earlier, ask her next week if she'd like to do anything over the weekend, strictly as friends.

[QUOTE]Edit: So that girl, i was talking about, and when i asked her out, she gave me the whole her and her ex just broke up, which is true, but my guestion is, is it alright to still try and flirt and the like, or should I just...not. And wait a while?[/QUOTE]
Yeah you can flirt, just don't force yourself on her. If she has come out of a realtionship (that ended badly or well) she'll need time to get her head sorted out before thinking about other guys. Just take things slowly and let her come to you.

So how do you guys deasl with frustration, of any sort? Other than punching someone in the face. :mad:

[QUOTE=Wizard.]So how do you guys deasl with frustration, of any sort? Other than punching someone in the face. :mad:[/QUOTE]

i hate it

when my gf broke up with me, during random moments in the days afterwards i seriously had some much built up frustration that if someone were to do ANYTHING bad or something I would have unhesistantly punched them in the face

punching bag,music.. go running (helps ALOT)

[QUOTE=Wizard.]So how do you guys deasl with frustration, of any sort? Other than punching someone in the face. :mad:[/QUOTE]
Deal with frustration? That's a new one...

Generally speaking I try to stay out of everybody's way until I go to sleep, think everything over and usually by the morning I've forgotton what I was wound up about.

That or a nice bash on my drum kit or my puching bag depending on the time of day and the weather also does the trick. If you can afford it, get an electric drum kit! Take out your frustration, learn to play a new instrument and keep the peace with the neighbors all at the same time! Profit from your imperfections...

Eating chocolate calms me down for a bit but I wouldn't recommend this if you get wound up much. You pile on the old lbs.

i usually go list to some music
Eat lots of food. (im skinny)
play guitar
talk to one of my understanding friends.

[QUOTE=Tillius]You can flirt a little bit, but if she's still feeling the effects of just now getting out of a relationship, then you should probably take it down a notch. Like I said earlier, ask her next week if she'd like to do anything over the weekend, strictly as friends.[/QUOTE]


Alright, thats what i was thinking, just hang out, just as friends, and then see.

Thanks guys

Fustration- Music, running what they said.

Well, I'm going to the movies with some of my old friends and my ex tonight, because I need to go out and have fun. Plus, I want to piss off my girlfriend some more. :p

And don't tell me it's a bad idea, because you know the bi[size="2"]t[/size]ch deserves it. :mad:

She should trust me anyway.

[QUOTE=Wizard.]Well, I'm going to the movies with some of my old friends and my ex tonight, because I need to go out and have fun. Plus, I want to piss off my girlfriend some more. :p

[B]And don't tell me it's a bad idea, because you know the bi[size="2"]t[/size]ch deserves it.[/B] :mad:

She should trust me anyway.[/QUOTE]


:lol: Have fun, and don't give her a reason not to trust you. :thumb:

Just a question to any girl, would you like this if your boyfriend got it for you?

[url]http://tinypic.com/view/?pic=nmj2fo[/url]

Cause that's what i got my girlfriend. I look bad in that pic.

When I'm feeling frustrated, I go and see my girlfriend, which seems to help. If you don't have a girlfriend, hook up with somebody.

[QUOTE=ThePinkPanther]Just a question to any girl, would you like this if your boyfriend got it for you?

[url]http://tinypic.com/view/?pic=nmj2fo[/url]

Cause that's what i got my girlfriend. I look bad in that pic.[/QUOTE]

You look like my second cousin from montana. :amaze:
Im sure shell like it.

Tilius- haha, cuase the best advice for a thread based on emotional problems is to go have raunchy sex with a stranger.

(i may or maynot have exxagerated your post.)

AHH, that girl ive been talking about shes sick, and on Im but keeps going away to throw up, help me think of something really "sweet" i can do.

[QUOTE=Guns'n'Zeppelin023]You look like my second cousin from montana. :amaze:
Im sure shell like it.

Tilius- haha, cuase the best advice for a thread based on emotional problems is to go have raunchy sex with a stranger.

(i may or maynot have exxagerated your post.)[/QUOTE]
Hooking up doesn't EXACTLY mean to go have sex with them.
I mean, you can if you choose to, but not a necessity.