You can't have it, D. I'll die without it.

This is a completely hypothetical question, I was with two very shy girls for most of today and we never said anything to eachother, so this just popped into my head;

Is it possible for a relationship to happen if both the guy and girl are extrememly shy?

[QUOTE=Werny]This is a completely hypothetical question, I was with two very shy girls for most of today and we never said anything to eachother, so this just popped into my head;

Is it possible for a relationship to happen if both the guy and girl are extrememly shy?[/QUOTE]
well, it depends. do you like each other? do you have a connection? do you have similar interists? Does she play an instrument?

You can think about these, during the awkward silences:)

She spoke to me :D

I don't know if I've posted about this in here before, but I'll just explain here:

About a month ago when I was waiting for my counselling session, I was stood in the corridor and this girl walked past me, and she smiled at me. Then after college I went to the bus station and she was there again, at my stop, and again, she smiled at me, this time I smiled back. She grinned at me again as she got off the bus. (One stop before mine :D) This went on for a couple of weeks, me randomly seeing her and going all shy everytime I made eye contact with her, and her going all shy everytime she made eye contact with me. Then I started to really like her, and purposely get on the bus at the same time every Monday because I know that she'll get on at the next stop, so I can see her.

This morning she got on the bus as usual, we smiled at each other and looked away, as usual, and then she went and sat near the back of the bus with one of her friends. Then towards the end of the journey, she came and sat at the front of the bus on the seats opposite me. She sat and faced me and I could see her looking at me in the corner of my eye. This time I managed to look her in the eyes for a good couple of seconds but we both started laughing and looked away again. (My god this is turning into some sort of romance novel...)

When I got off the bus and was walking towards college, I felt a tap on my shoulder and I turned around, and it was her. This is basically how the conversation went:
Her - ''Hello''
''Hello''
''How are you?''
''I'm great thanks and you?''
''Yeah I'm good. I thought it was about time I actually spoke to you''
''Haha yeah I was going to say hi to you at some point too but I'm kinda shy''
''Yeah me too heh....So what time will you be at the bus station tonight?''
''Oooh about 4ish''
''Cool, well I'll see you there then''
''Alright then, bye bye''
''Bye''
And then she rubbed my back and walked off.

I'm so bloody excited. I know this post is really long and pointless but I really needed to tell someone. I've been wanting to speak to her for weeks, and she seems like a really nice girl. :D x 1,000,000

i slept with this guy then i accidentally slept with his best mate
everyone is having a go at me
everyone calling me the town bicycle

How do you accidentaly sleep with someone?

'Whooops, I just fell onto your penis, sorry about that.'

[QUOTE=*Blue Haze*]How do you accidentaly sleep with someone?

'Whooops, I just fell onto your penis, sorry about that.'[/QUOTE]

lmao funny as
no
it just happened he was really hot and i was half wasted

[QUOTE=dazmo]well, it depends. do you like each other? do you have a connection? do you have similar interists? Does she play an instrument?

You can think about these, during the awkward silences:)[/QUOTE]

Well like I said, I was being hypothetical. It's just a bit weird that I've been going to the same school with these girls (it's more than the two I mentioned) for at least 4 years now and we've never spoken to eachother, even when we're hanging out outside of school with other friends.

Basically I've always had this theory that if two people are really shy and nervous around each other then they can't have a relationship, and I was wondering if there's any truth to it.

[QUOTE=*Blue Haze*]How do you accidentaly sleep with someone?

'Whooops, I just fell onto your penis, sorry about that.'[/QUOTE]

*wakes up in someone else's bed* "Oops, sorry, did I have sex with you? My bad".

Yay, my girl is coming out of this piece of shjt clinic where they hardly talk to the patients and the groups are terrible.
I will see her this weekend.
Good times to be had. :) ;)

Not too easy to cope when your lover is away in whatever circumstance.

Hey everybody :wave:

[QUOTE=Jonzey]Hey everybody :wave:[/QUOTE]

Afternoon Jon. :wave:

Y'know, I found out today that [I]she[/I] blocked me on msn. I don't even know how long ago [I]she[/I] did it, or why. I didn't even message her that often, or say anything weird.

I honestly don't care cos I barely speak to her anymore anyway, but it's the principle of it- blocking someone on msn and then turning around and acting friendly in real life.

Just my vent for the day.

:)

How's everyone else's relationships going?

[QUOTE=Jonzey]Y'know, I found out today that [I]she[/I] blocked me on msn. I don't even know how long ago [I]she[/I] did it, or why. I didn't even message her that often, or say anything weird.

I honestly don't care cos I barely speak to her anymore anyway, but it's the principle of it- blocking someone on msn and then turning around and acting friendly in real life.[/QUOTE]

Wow, that's really odd. What the hell did she do that for? Perhaps it's precisely because you two don't talk much any more. Or maybe she's suddenly become uncomfortable about the whole 'V Day flower' thing?

im kinda the same way though...


i would rather just block someone, or blow them off, then to be blunt and tell them exactly what i think of them. Ex girl friends are really good examples. I wouldnt even shoot em in the face for the "money shot", but i would never tell them in real life that i think they are trifeling hoes

[QUOTE=Chrysostom]Wow, that's really odd. What the hell did she do that for? Perhaps it's precisely because you two don't talk much any more. Or maybe she's suddenly become uncomfortable about the whole 'V Day flower' thing?[/QUOTE]
Nah, she's not been online on my list for aaaaaages- Like at least a year. She says her computer is so bad she can only run one program at a time, and a lot of her friends back home don't use msn so she has no real need for it, but come on, I'm not that stupid!

is she even that cool?

[QUOTE=*Blue Haze*]She spoke to me :D

I don't know if I've posted about this in here before, but I'll just explain here:

About a month ago when I was waiting for my counselling session, I was stood in the corridor and this girl walked past me, and she smiled at me. Then after college I went to the bus station and she was there again, at my stop, and again, she smiled at me, this time I smiled back. She grinned at me again as she got off the bus. (One stop before mine :D) This went on for a couple of weeks, me randomly seeing her and going all shy everytime I made eye contact with her, and her going all shy everytime she made eye contact with me. Then I started to really like her, and purposely get on the bus at the same time every Monday because I know that she'll get on at the next stop, so I can see her.

This morning she got on the bus as usual, we smiled at each other and looked away, as usual, and then she went and sat near the back of the bus with one of her friends. Then towards the end of the journey, she came and sat at the front of the bus on the seats opposite me. She sat and faced me and I could see her looking at me in the corner of my eye. This time I managed to look her in the eyes for a good couple of seconds but we both started laughing and looked away again. (My god this is turning into some sort of romance novel...)

When I got off the bus and was walking towards college, I felt a tap on my shoulder and I turned around, and it was her. This is basically how the conversation went:
Her - ''Hello''
''Hello''
''How are you?''
''I'm great thanks and you?''
''Yeah I'm good. I thought it was about time I actually spoke to you''
''Haha yeah I was going to say hi to you at some point too but I'm kinda shy''
''Yeah me too heh....So what time will you be at the bus station tonight?''
''Oooh about 4ish''
''Cool, well I'll see you there then''
''Alright then, bye bye''
''Bye''
And then she rubbed my back and walked off.

I'm so bloody excited. I know this post is really long and pointless but I really needed to tell someone. I've been wanting to speak to her for weeks, and she seems like a really nice girl. :D x 1,000,000[/QUOTE]

Niiiice, Beckster. It's what, about 4 now where you are? Can't wait to hear what happens.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Niiiice, Beckster. It's what, about 4 now where you are? Can't wait to hear what happens.[/QUOTE]


I can't wait to hear what happens either! IN FULL DETAIL TOO OMG!

Kidding.

Or am I?

[QUOTE=DBoon's Ghost]I can't wait to hear what happens either! IN FULL DETAIL TOO OMG!

Kidding.

Or am I?[/QUOTE]

I bet you aren't.

[QUOTE=*Blue Haze*]She spoke to me :D

I don't know if I've posted about this in here before, but I'll just explain here:

About a month ago when I was waiting for my counselling session, I was stood in the corridor and this girl walked past me, and she smiled at me. Then after college I went to the bus station and she was there again, at my stop, and again, she smiled at me, this time I smiled back. She grinned at me again as she got off the bus. (One stop before mine :D) This went on for a couple of weeks, me randomly seeing her and going all shy everytime I made eye contact with her, and her going all shy everytime she made eye contact with me. Then I started to really like her, and purposely get on the bus at the same time every Monday because I know that she'll get on at the next stop, so I can see her.

This morning she got on the bus as usual, we smiled at each other and looked away, as usual, and then she went and sat near the back of the bus with one of her friends. Then towards the end of the journey, she came and sat at the front of the bus on the seats opposite me. She sat and faced me and I could see her looking at me in the corner of my eye. This time I managed to look her in the eyes for a good couple of seconds but we both started laughing and looked away again. (My god this is turning into some sort of romance novel...)

When I got off the bus and was walking towards college, I felt a tap on my shoulder and I turned around, and it was her. This is basically how the conversation went:
Her - ''Hello''
''Hello''
''How are you?''
''I'm great thanks and you?''
''Yeah I'm good. I thought it was about time I actually spoke to you''
''Haha yeah I was going to say hi to you at some point too but I'm kinda shy''
''Yeah me too heh....So what time will you be at the bus station tonight?''
''Oooh about 4ish''
''Cool, well I'll see you there then''
''Alright then, bye bye''
''Bye''
And then she rubbed my back and walked off.

I'm so bloody excited. I know this post is really long and pointless but I really needed to tell someone. I've been wanting to speak to her for weeks, and she seems like a really nice girl. :D x 1,000,000[/QUOTE]
Awesome :D I hope things go well.

Well, since people are sharing, mayhaps I will share some of my joy with you all.

It's an odd tale of online love. For me anyways, since I openly mocked people who did stuff like this. Like, openly. Now I find myself in the same boat, and I'm a little freaked out by it.

Back in June when my wife left, I quickly tried to keep the excitement of being single again at the forefront of my brain so I can keep positive thoughts afloat. Doing this helps big time. Why wallow in misery, when I can find positive things to think about right? So.. I hit the bars and the awesomeness of the NYC scene.

By August, I had met no one cool. I had lotsa chicks throwing themselves this way or that, especially at work. Although, when a guy falls out of a long relationship, guys and girls alike for the most part think that the solution to all my problems is a good fu[size=2]c[/size]k. I tend to disagree. So, with that said, I will admit by default I set myself up for a letdown. The women I met all seemed to lack any real substance. All of them were the same. They wore the same trendy clothes, wore the same crappy perfumes. Asked the same materialist questions and all seemed to me to be holier then thou, but hey! Let's go fu[size=2]c[/size]k! Same with women at work who I had been friends with. I am no longer friends with any of them. I am single, and all of a sudden that means I should be dating them, banging them, and whatever else.

Umm.. no. If any of you young men are reading this, you're saying I'm an idiot. Well, I might be. But at least I can sleep better at night. See, when you bang some chick, it might be cool, but I'm the type who thinks too much. I wonder, and I feel guilty and all kindsa shame when I share myself with someone I truly could care less about. I've learned this the hard way. Maybe someday some of you might come to the same conclusions..

So, in any event, I happened to be in this group of gamers I been running with over the last couple of years. 3 years in fact. We have some females among us. So, I ended up getting very close to a peticular young lady who apparently had a crush on me, and I had a little crush on her. We had been friends for a year before we started talking seriously. She's a little younger then me, but not by much. Also, I didn't know this when I was talking to her, but she is extremely attractive. Like.. beautiful! She lives in another state though, and quite frankly, since we started talking in August, I can honestly say I've fallen in love with her. Totally lost. Details not needed eh? Now, I'm going out to see her on Friday. I am getting on a plane, and spending 7 days with a woman who I can honestly say is the woman of my dreams. I know it's bizarre, but I don't think I need to explain specifics. It's a risk I know, but I aint gettin any younger. We've talked about everything, and I think she's become closer to me than anyone I've ever known. We have this connection I cannot explain. It's an emotional one, a sexual one, but a friendly one as well.

My question to anyone who can answer is, what can I expect to change when we do meet? We've exchanged a lot of pictures, and none of them were sexual at all, but I know her mind as well as I can without meeting her, and I know for a fact it's the same for her. We even have solid serious plans for her to move here to NYC. She lives in a crap state in a crap town that she hates. I know she would be happier here, and we've already agreed to how and all that, without ever having met.

So, aside from you guys thinking me totally insanse, umm.... and this is more of me just sharing, because if I stop posting, she tied me up and killed me. Poor judegment on my part, but seriously, I am beyond excited over this thing, and I just know it's for real. At the same time, I'm a little apprehensive about what is gonna change after we meet.

[QUOTE=DBoon's Ghost]I am beyond excited over this thing, and I just know it's for real.[/QUOTE]

Awesomeness ++++++++++++++++++

So glad that things have turned around for you man! :D :D

Thanks!

Ok, there's this girl I really have a strong feeling for, I met her at school and we've had good chemistry. But, she's been ignoring me lately, I think it may have been when I text messaged her asking if she wanted to hang out sometime over break. Since then she hasn't talked to me. Should I just forget about my feeling? Or wait it out to see if she will talk to me again?

[QUOTE=6Stringer]Ok, there's this girl I really have a strong feeling for, I met her at school and we've had good chemistry. But, she's been ignoring me lately, I think it may have been when I text messaged her asking if she wanted to hang out sometime over break. Since then she hasn't talked to me. Should I just forget about my feeling? Or wait it out to see if she will talk to me again?[/QUOTE]

How quickly have you pushed this thing? If you've moved fast she'll be freaked out. Hence lack of radio contact.

[QUOTE=DBoon's Ghost]So, aside from you guys thinking me totally insanse, umm.... and this is more of me just sharing, because if I stop posting, she tied me up and killed me. Poor judegment on my part, but seriously, I am beyond excited over this thing, and I just know it's for real. At the same time, I'm a little apprehensive about what is gonna change after we meet.[/QUOTE]

There are things you will never find out about the other person until you meet them face to face. I'm speaking of aspects of their personality. Do they leave the towels on the floor. Do they pick their nose. Do they drive too fast or slow.

All these things you don't see unless it's real life.

the real question is, how much do you really invest in such things?

[QUOTE=Chrysostom]How quickly have you pushed this thing? If you've moved fast she'll be freaked out. Hence lack of radio contact.[/QUOTE]

I didn't force it on her. We've been talking for a few months, so I'm guessing it shou'dn't have been that scary.

[QUOTE=6Stringer]I didn't force it on her. We've been talking for a few months, so I'm guessing it shou'dn't have been that scary.[/QUOTE]

Well in that case maybe you imagined the chemistry on her part.

Ok, weird situation.

My best friend Greg's gf flirts like a hooker on speed. Apparently, he doesn't know that she does, but I see her do it constantly. Last night they were at my house chilling, and Greg went to go on a food run. When he left, I got a call and I was just walking around the house chatting and out of nowhere she latches on to me in like, a semi-playful way and tells me "you're sexy" and gives me the "look". I was like "ok......you have a bf now get off" and she responded, "god, he's not here, it doesn't matter".

So, should I tell him that she's a horn dog and cause the break up outright, or should I hint at it until he catches on and let him do the work?