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Chaindrive 03-19-2006 07:48 PM

Hi, Jay.

:wave:

How's it going?

pohl_56 03-19-2006 07:50 PM

[QUOTE=Rasta Rockerstat3]Are Jon and J.D. friends? How does Elora feel about J.D., and how does she feel about Jon? If it's over between Elora and JD, then he needs to learn that it's over and it's time to let go.

EDIT: didn't see the above posts. Bros before hoes.

And I have a petty question...what's the best way to ask a girl to be your girlfriend. I haven't had one since last summer. I don't know if "will you go out with me?" is too middle school, or "will you be my girlfriend?" is better? So yeah, stupid question, but I just don't know. I'm not saying it's just between those two, but any suggestions?[/QUOTE]

Would you be interested in going out with me? Would you wanan give going out a try? Seems to work for me.

ATC 03-19-2006 07:50 PM

Liking someone longer is no measure of anything.
The bros before hoes thing is juvenile. He should do what is in his best interest, whatever that might be.

B 03-19-2006 07:52 PM

[QUOTE=Strongbad]I guess I didn't read that post...

I'm sorry, I have the slowest computer ever. Unlike you guys who can zip through the pages of the thread and read every post in a matter of seconds, it takes like 5 minutes just to load up one page, so I never have the time to read everything, so I prolly overlooked his problem.

I thought that he was complaining because his girlfriends previous boyfriends fingered her, and now he comes out saying that he's fingered her too, but doenst care because he now has a new girlfriend. It just seemed to me like he was posting that crap for the sake of boosting his postcount or somethin, plus I was a bit steamed that I was being ignored, like I always am.

But YOU always manage to haunt me and tell me how crappy my posts are and all that crap. ALWAYS. If you have a problem with me, then just f[size=2]ucking[/size] ban [B]my always will be single a[size=2]ss[/size].[/B][/QUOTE]
Calm down you're fifteen. I think.

Jom 03-19-2006 08:03 PM

[QUOTE=Strongbad]But YOU always manage to haunt me and tell me how crappy my posts are and all that crap. ALWAYS. If you have a problem with me, then just f[size=2]ucking[/size] ban my always will be single a[size=2]ss[/size].[/QUOTE]

No, YOU seek attention on the Internet and then freak out when people couldn't care less that you're bored or lonely. People had a right to be pissed off in R&M because there was decent discussion going on and for you to interrupt it with...

[quote]im bored :([/quote]

... is bunk. It's part of my responsibility to make sure that posts like that get removed.

And if you're going to bitch for the sake of bitching, I can suggest the following sites:

[url]http://www.myspace.com/[/url]
[url]http://www.deadjournal.com/[/url]
[url]http://www.livejournal.com/[/url]
[url]http://www.xanga.com/[/url]
[url]http://www.aboutmylife.net/[/url]

As opposed to you trying to seek gratification on the Internet.

You're how old, again? Fifteen?

If you're having the worst time of your life right now, I envy you, kid, 'cause you're going to lead one happy life.

FIFTEEN YEARS OLD. How can you be depressed at age fifteen?

nobodyblossomsforever 03-19-2006 08:08 PM

[QUOTE=Jom]No, YOU seek attention on the Internet and then freak out when people couldn't care less that you're bored or lonely. People had a right to be pissed off in R&M because there was decent discussion going on and for you to interrupt it with...



... is bunk. It's part of my responsibility to make sure that posts like that get removed.

And if you're going to bitch for the sake of bitching, I can suggest the following sites:

[url]http://www.myspace.com/[/url]
[url]http://www.deadjournal.com/[/url]
[url]http://www.livejournal.com/[/url]
[url]http://www.xanga.com/[/url]
[url]http://www.aboutmylife.net/[/url]

As opposed to you trying to seek gratification on the Internet.

You're how old, again? Fifteen?

If you're having the worst time of your life right now, I envy you, kid, 'cause you're going to lead one happy life.

FIFTEEN YEARS OLD. How can you be depressed at age fifteen?[/QUOTE]

I'm not seeking attention. I'm not depressed.

I just want you to LEAVE ME THE FU[size=2]CK[/size] ALONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Jom 03-19-2006 08:13 PM

[QUOTE=Strongbad]I'm not seeking attention. I'm not depressed.

I just want you to LEAVE ME THE FU[size=2]CK[/size] ALONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!![/QUOTE]

You're clearly not tracking here.

You cannot expect to receive incendiary remarks from R&M regulars by derailing their conversation in the community thread with "im so bored :(" or "im always going to be single :upset:"

How is that not seeking attention? Do you want a hug or a cookie or a belly rub?

You might get that in Pop-Punk where people are nice, but in R&M where a vast majority of users listen to black and death metal, they couldn't care less about a fifteen year old's arbitrary whinefest in their thread.

Nobody - I repeat for the sake of repetition - NOBODY likes to have someone who's not a regular there to sit in a thread out of the blue with frowny faces and lines of sadness and interrupt the normally decent discussion that's taking place.

Now, this is your final warning. You can either a) drop this because you're going to lose convincingly, or b) continue this tirade and fully expect to be banned on behalf of everyone who has been inconvenienced by you in the past.

Either move on, or take a break from the Internet. It doesn't bug me either way, as it's not hard to do one or the other.

Point is: you're dumping on this thread now, which isn't a place to dump on. Ever. You can play with fire, if you'd like, but I have no qualms about making you wet :naughty:

nobodyblossomsforever 03-19-2006 08:23 PM

What I mean is, you're always on my case, even before that "im bored" incident. I'd like to know why are you so hard on me, yet all these "vets" as you like to call em, can get away with murder practically, I just wanted some stupid advice about how I could get a girl, I know that's stereotypical for this thread to be asking for advice on getting a girl, and I could just look at other peoples questions, but I have a slowass computer and can't waste my time searching through the whole thread to find my answers. Plus, apparently, I'm a sensitive guy, so when I ask for a simple answer and I get responses like "Stop thinking about you all the time" or"stop bitching", it's hurtful. I'm sorry if you guys think all I care about is me, I just wanted a damn answer. You can ban me if you wish though, i seriously don't care. My 3,000 and some odd posts have been nothing but waste anyway, because my music knowledge is so low, there's no point in sticking around.

ATC 03-19-2006 08:35 PM

Dude, you've got people answering your problem specifically. Drop it. I'm not trying to be mean but you're not helping your case by going at it.

The Profit of Maine 03-19-2006 08:54 PM

[QUOTE=Jom]FIFTEEN YEARS OLD. How can you be depressed at age fifteen?[/QUOTE]Hey! Are you making fun of me?

Ahh, you two are awesome. Much love from the momentary emo.

Jom 03-19-2006 09:02 PM

[QUOTE=The Profit of Maine]Hey! Are you making fun of me?

Ahh, you two are awesome. Much love from the momentary emo.[/QUOTE]

Man, you must be one freakin' smart dude to be at an institution of higher learning at age fifteen and momentary emo status :eek:

Just kidding, heh. Any word/developments for you since you last popped up here?

pohl_56 03-19-2006 09:03 PM

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Hi, Jay.

:wave:

How's it going?[/QUOTE]

It's going well, I guess. I am sick/allergies so I feel bad but that negativity is counteracted in part by the mere fact that I am in a new relationship. Ill spare you the long story but it tis great.

How are things going with you? :wave:

The Profit of Maine 03-19-2006 09:12 PM

[QUOTE=Jom]Man, you must be one freakin' smart dude to be at an institution of higher learning at age fifteen and momentary emo status :eek:

Just kidding, heh. Any word/developments for you since you last popped up here?[/QUOTE]
To not sidetrack our conversation: I was emo last night and still a bit today because of not knowing if I'm in love with my ex. When I mention a specific detail, that Chaindrive picked out, too, everyone tells me no. So it just sucks to know that a year and a half of close friendship is for nothing because whenever we get close, it's just going to end up how it was: me getting sick of being around her. But given Tennyson and all that, I'm glad we had something. Sorry, dude.

But yeah, brought on last night because she ended up going to a party uni and I was getting jealous/possessive/whatever.

Pitch Fork6 03-19-2006 09:12 PM

I just had a huge fight with my gf of 2 years, again. She pretty much got mad at me and before leaving deciding to try to punch and hit me in the face, I kept telling her to settle down but she didnt, mom came up stairs and told her to get off me and leave and she said "**** your son." Should I seriously break up with her or forgive her. I do love her and all but, I now have over a year span, broken door, broken computer, broken guitar, and now a swollen face, everything of hers remains intact. This isnt right is it?

Jom 03-19-2006 09:15 PM

[QUOTE=Pitch Fork6]I just had a huge fight with my gf of 2 years, again. She pretty much got mad at me and before leaving deciding to try to punch and hit me in the face, I kept telling her to settle down but she didnt, mom came up stairs and told her to get off me and leave and she said "**** your sun." Should I seriously break up with her or forgive her. I do love her and all but, I now have over a year span, broken door, broken computer, broken guitar, and now a swollen face, everything of hers remains intact. This isnt right is it?[/QUOTE]

No, it's not right. You shouldn't take any physical abuse or watch your stuff get busted because she's a loose cannon. How can you forgive someone for that? Geez.

Chaindrive 03-19-2006 09:16 PM

[QUOTE=pohl_56]It's going well, I guess. I am sick/allergies so I feel bad but that negativity is counteracted in part by the mere fact that I am in a new relationship. Ill spare you the long story but it tis great.

How are things going with you? :wave:[/QUOTE]

Congrats on your new relationship!

Except for the fact that I want to rip my psycho man's hair out, everything is fine.

pohl_56 03-19-2006 09:22 PM

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Congrats on your new relationship!

Except for the fact that I want to rip my psycho man's hair out, everything is fine.[/QUOTE]

Uh oh. Whats the story now?

The Profit of Maine 03-19-2006 09:25 PM

[QUOTE=pohl_56]Uh oh. Whats the story now?[/QUOTE]
Yeah!

/sits cross-legged with hot chocolate

No, I really am ten. Shut up, Jom.

Chaindrive 03-19-2006 09:31 PM

He called me on Thursday night and we talked for like 2 1/2 hours. I really thought I had those feelings under control But I didn't, and I got upset, and he got upset, and I felt like I was gonna lose it, so I hung up on him.

The next day he posted a song on his board that was aimed at me.

What really gets to me is the fact that he won't give it a chance because he's too afraid. I mean, he tells me Thursday night that I'm awesome, and all that stuff, but he won't try it, which makes me feel totally unspecial.

Bah.

He'll probably read this tomorrow, since he's now an MXer.

Bah.

Jom 03-19-2006 09:51 PM

Honestly, who cares if he reads this. You wouldn't be posting it here if you were afraid of him reading it. He's probably out lumberjacking while performing Wiccan rituals or something.

Chaindrive 03-19-2006 09:54 PM

He can read it if he wants...it's not like he doesn't know how I feel, and he knows I mention him here already.

"I'm a lumberjack and I'm okay."

:D

pohl_56 03-19-2006 10:01 PM

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]He can read it if he wants...it's not like he doesn't know how I feel, and he knows I mention him here already.

"I'm a lumberjack and I'm okay."

:D[/QUOTE]

I thought things between you 2 were almost good and now this. I would be crazy by now.

Jom 03-19-2006 10:08 PM

All she has to do is shove garlic in his face or throw Holy water on him and he'll go away. Crucifixes are hard to come by these days, especially if you don't want to steal from a church and guarantee your place in Hell.

Chaindrive 03-19-2006 10:11 PM

Or, in the alternative, I could pull his hair.

Which I've done before, on occassion. When he's frustrated me to the point of no return. I mean, why does he HAVE all that hair if I'm not meant to pull it?

pohl_56 03-19-2006 10:12 PM

[QUOTE=Jom]All she has to do is shove garlic in his face or throw Holy water on him and he'll go away. Crucifixes are hard to come by these days, especially if you don't want to steal from a church and guarantee your place in Hell.[/QUOTE]

I would probably go with a silver bullet. Though not as effective as anything else, it not only removes the pesky howling demon, but u can keep your distance so as not to bite.

[b][color=deepskyblue]Load a Super Soaker with Holy water, too, heh.

-Jom[/b][/color]

Chaindrive 03-19-2006 10:27 PM

[QUOTE=pohl_56]I would probably go with a silver bullet. Though not as effective as anything else, it not only removes the pesky howling demon, but u can keep your distance so as not to bite.

[b][color=deepskyblue]Load a Super Soaker with Holy water, too, heh.

-Jom[/b][/color][/QUOTE]

I think I'd rather just pull his hair. It gets the point across.

As does my "Boys Are Stupid Throw Rocks At Them" T-shirt.

:)

pohl_56 03-19-2006 10:31 PM

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]I think I'd rather just pull his hair. It gets the point across.

As does my "Boys Are Stupid Throw Rocks At Them" T-shirt.

:)[/QUOTE]

Supersoaker idea works too. U pull his hair, Ill get the water gun, Jom can supervise the operation and make sure we dont get banned and then discard of the melted carcas/ash.

Junooni 03-19-2006 10:37 PM

what's his username?

Chaindrive 03-19-2006 10:43 PM

[QUOTE=pohl_56]Supersoaker idea works too. U pull his hair, Ill get the water gun, Jom can supervise the operation and make sure we dont get banned and then discard of the melted carcas/ash.[/QUOTE]

Teamwork, ftw!

[quote=Adnan]what's his username?[/quote]

blatherskite.

Special Brew 03-19-2006 10:54 PM

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]I think I'd rather just pull his hair. It gets the point across.

As does my "Boys Are Stupid Throw Rocks At Them" T-shirt.

:)[/QUOTE]
I want that shirt. <.<


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