[QUOTE=Dookie56]is it lame that i am 15 and have never made with out anyone before???:([/QUOTE]

Dude, you've got nothing to worry about. I'm turning 17 in May and no girl has ever asked me out, I've never asked anyone out and I certainly haven't had a kiss.

Anyone have certain problems with parnoia?

I have them big time. Somtimes i dont have it but i get paranoid randomly its weird.

EDIT: I also have problems with friends meeting my gfs. I see them as seperate worlds and if they mix. Everything explodes. Does anybody agree with this? I even get mad at my friends sometimes, because they TRY to meet her. It buggs the hell out of me.

Ok, so I spend my days in school hanging out with my female friend (shes not my girlfriend) and we get along well, she does get really touchy sometimes, well a lot.
Yes, I do like her, a lot, but she just seems to ignore that, but to someone who looks at us, it would appear that we are a couple. The problem is, she doesn't want to hang out with me, outside of school, she seems to avoid the topic. Whcih is weird because im talking to her most of the time in school, she doesnt find me annoying or anything liek that, we get along really well.

Help?
I just wanna hang out with her, nothing more

[QUOTE=kevinaro]Ok, so I spend my days in school hanging out with my female friend (shes not my girlfriend) and we get along well, she does get really touchy sometimes, well a lot.
Yes, I do like her, a lot, but she just seems to ignore that, but to someone who looks at us, it would appear that we are a couple. The problem is, she doesn't want to hang out with me, outside of school, she seems to avoid the topic. Whcih is weird because im talking to her most of the time in school, she doesnt find me annoying or anything liek that, we get along really well.

Help?
I just wanna hang out with her, nothing more[/QUOTE]


Then just hang out with her, but apprently you like her. Try to look for clues that she might give you, because she might like you too.

[QUOTE=Destined_for]Then just hang out with her, but apprently you like her. Try to look for clues that she might give you, because she might like you too.[/QUOTE]

thats the thing, it seems she doesnt want to hang out.

it's come down to:

"wanna hang out tomorrow"

"nah"

thats it, she says she has her reasons for it.

:(

[QUOTE=kevinaro]thats the thing, it seems she doesnt want to hang out.

it's come down to:

"wanna hang out tomorrow"

"nah"

thats it, she says she has her reasons for it.

:([/QUOTE]


What are her reasons usually? and are the same?

[QUOTE=Destined_for]What are her reasons usually? and are the same?[/QUOTE]

she wont tell me them :confused:

[QUOTE=Destined_for]

EDIT: I also have problems with friends meeting my gfs. I see them as seperate worlds and if they mix. Everything explodes. Does anybody agree with this? I even get mad at my friends sometimes, because they TRY to meet her. It buggs the hell out of me.[/QUOTE]

Oh yea,dude. I have that problem. I think it's because I'm afraid that I'd rather not have to find new friends if we break up and for some reason, my friends are on her side. It's probably irrational but it's a huge hangup for me.

[QUOTE=ATC]Oh yea,dude. I have that problem. I think it's because I'm afraid that I'd rather not have to find new friends if we break up and for some reason, my friends are on her side. It's probably irrational but it's a huge hangup for me.[/QUOTE]


Ya one of my friends met her and it just bugs me so much. Im even thinking of him not even being my friend anymore. As u see from this example. Gfs and friends dont f[B]u[/B]ckin mix.


[QUOTE=kevinaro]she wont tell me them :confused:[/QUOTE]


Then tell her that you like her and you want an honest explaination why she cant hang out.

I know what you mean. It's scary. I won't date people that are within my circle of friends, ever. I only date outside my circle and it takes very very long before I let her hang out with my friends but hypocritically, I have no problem hanging out with her friends, not excessively, but still. It's worked out for me so far so probably, they don't need to mix.

[QUOTE=Destined_for]


Then tell her that you like her and you want an honest explaination why she cant hang out.[/QUOTE]

did that, she wont tell me at all, but then she goes to hang out with some kids who don't even look at her in school.

also, i always get random texts duting the day of her just saying whats up

[QUOTE=kevinaro]did that, she wont tell me at all, but then she goes to hang out with some kids who don't even look at her in school.[/QUOTE]


I dont know dude. Apprently from what i know she doesnt even like you. Maybe she just wants a regular friend at school or something like that.

[QUOTE=Destined_for]I dont know dude. Apprently from what i know she doesnt even like you. Maybe she just wants a regular friend at school or something like that.[/QUOTE]

yea idk.

can i get a girls point of view on this?

[QUOTE=ATC]I know what you mean. It's scary. I won't date people that are within my circle of friends, ever. I only date outside my circle and it takes very very long before I let her hang out with my friends but hypocritically, I have no problem hanging out with her friends, not excessively, but still. It's worked out for me so far so probably, they don't need to mix.[/QUOTE]


Ya when they mix. Your ****ed. But my gf knows that i get jealous easily and she just makes fun of him the whole time. She twists his words and makes fun of him constanly. She does that to me somestimes but im used to it and i know she loves me. I just get mad at my friend matt for trying to meet my gf's. I dont tell him anything anymore. Because it just doesnt mix. and i told him if anything happens that i will kill him and torture him but he cant get her anyway because he is a f[B]u[/B]cking drunk and he is a slob. I just get pissed when friends do this. Because i wouldnt do that to any of my friends.

Okay, I'm gonna explode if I don't ask for advice, and please, I don't want this strictass crap like "Suck it up" or "Stop bitching" or any of that. Please hear me out and give me some decent advice.

There's this girl that I just think is amazing, and I just can't stop thinking about her. She's already my friend, but she isn't as close as most of my friends. She already knows that I really like her (I think I may love her since I care about her so much), but she doens't share the same feelings towards me. Now, I know I could just forget about her and look for someone else, but I don't want to. When I think of her I feel great, anytime I'm depressed and I think about being with her, everything feels wonderful. Now, I know that there's been people who liked girls that said they'd never like the people that like em', but somehow, they end up being together, and I'm hoping this'll happen with me and her. Problem is, I don't know what to do.

I want to do something that'll show her how much I care for her, and may get her to wake up and realise that I should be with her, but I don't want to do something that'll annoy her, because I don't want to ruin our friendship. Like, I don't want to keep begging her, not that I have, but I want to do something that could make her maybe change her mind and maybe even fall in love with me. According to her, it's not my looks she doesn't like, she just for some reason does not like me that way.

Please guys, give me some good tips to where I can get her. Please.

[QUOTE=kevinaro]yea idk.

can i get a girls point of view on this?[/QUOTE]

I'm thinking that she does only want a friend at school. But if she's really touchy there I'd tell her to quit.

[QUOTE=Dookie56]is it lame that i am 15 and have never made with out anyone before???:([/QUOTE]

No, there's nothing lame about it. I'm 15 and have never had a girlfriend in my life. People that say you're lame because you've never madeout before are just looking for something wrong with you to take attention away from themselves. When you feel ready to ask people out and perhaps make out, then do it. Don't try and get a girlfriend just because people make fun of you for not having it.

Should i be worried about any of these reasons


1. Before we went out she got fingered a lot just by friends that were guys.
2. She hangs out with boys a lot.


Should i be worried about this kind of stuff? It is in the past and i know she does love me and i trust her. what do u think? Am i just going crazy? Should i just stop worrying?

Destined for, I'd say stop worrying. It's irrational to hold someone's past against them unless they give you a solid reason to think they're still the same person. Unless you've got an absolutely clean past and you made it clear that you were looking only for other such people, that's unfair on the girl. You trust her and are in a relationship with her. That should be all that matters, ideally. And hell, a finger's a finger. She's got fingers too. Fingers are French. The French make croissants. Croissants taste good. Fingers are your friend.

[QUOTE=ATC]Destined for, I'd say stop worrying. It's irrational to hold someone's past against them unless they give you a solid reason to think they're still the same person. Unless you've got an absolutely clean past and you made it clear that you were looking only for other such people, that's unfair on the girl. And hell, a finger's a finger. She's got fingers too. Fingers are French. The French make croissants. Croissants taste good. Fingers are your friend.[/QUOTE]


lol. well im not so clean, but she said it happened like 6 times. and i like like 4 of them were just with friends.

[QUOTE=Dookie56]is it lame that i am 15 and have never made with out anyone before???:([/QUOTE]
no. wait till your with someone you really like.

the first time i made out with someone i was 12, behind our school caffeteria, next to a dumpster:rolleyes:

real romantic

[QUOTE=Destined_for]Should i be worried about any of these reasons


1. Before we went out she got fingered a lot just by friends that were guys.
2. She hangs out with boys a lot.


Should i be worried about this kind of stuff? It is in the past and i know she does love me and i trust her. what do u think? Am i just going crazy? Should i just stop worrying?[/QUOTE]

How 'bout you tell her that you'd never do that crap to her??

[QUOTE=Strongbad]How 'bout you tell her that you'd never do that crap to her??[/QUOTE]


She knows that. I have fingered her. Its not like i think she is a whore or anything. It just kind of shocked me when she told me. Then i told her never to bring anything like that up again.

[QUOTE=Destined_for]Should i be worried about any of these reasons


1. Before we went out she got fingered a lot just by friends that were guys.
2. She hangs out with boys a lot.


Should i be worried about this kind of stuff? It is in the past and i know she does love me and i trust her. what do u think? Am i just going crazy? Should i just stop worrying?[/QUOTE]

I'm confused. Are you still with this girl even after she said she didn't want to marry you?

[QUOTE=Destined_for]She knows that. I have fingered her. Its not like a think she is a whore or anything. It just kind of shocked me when she told me. Then i told her never to bring anything like that up again.[/QUOTE]
this sounds a bit...confusing

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]I'm confused. Are you still with this girl even after she said she didn't want to marry you?[/QUOTE]


No im not with her anymore. Im with a new girl. I just moved on really fast. I have always been that way with girls.

[QUOTE=Destined_for]No im not with her anymore. Im with a new girl. I just moved on really fast. I have always been that way with girls.[/QUOTE]

That's very fast. You fell out of love and fell in love with someone new, all in a matter of days?

[QUOTE=Destined_for]No im not with her anymore. Im with a new girl. I just moved on really fast. I have always been that way with girls.[/QUOTE]
Are you sure your not suppressing anything

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]That's very fast. You fell out of love and fell in love with someone new, all in a matter of days?[/QUOTE]


Yes, I have. like well im not sure that i love her. but i have know this girl for like 10 years. We have been friends so for so long. and lately i think that i have been going pretty fast. I think im just confused about everything. ugh.

[QUOTE=Destined_for]Yes. I have like well im not sure that i love her. but i have know this girl for like 10 years. We have been friends so for so long. and lately i think that i have been going pretty fast. I think im just confused about everything. ugh.[/QUOTE]

I think you need to step back and take a breath, Jon.