I'm not sure. That's another problem, but now that I think about it the only reason I started being friends with her is because of the crush.

[QUOTE=dr._feelgood]I'm not sure. That's another problem, but now that I think about it the only reason I started being friends with her is because of the crush.[/QUOTE]

At this point you're probably too deeply lodged in "let's be friends" land.

You need to move on, to learn to say "Next!"

MTV can help you out there. :p

Hiyah everyone :) Havent been in here much within the last couple days so I thought I would peek my head in and say hello!

Everything is going pretty well lately for me and my boyfriend I guess. I think Ive come to the conclusion that our relationship has reached the comfortable stage. This is after over 5 months of officially dating, talking to each other everyday and seeing eachother 2-3 times a week.

I dont know what exactly Im going on about, but anyway, Ive been feeling kind of neglected lately. Which doesnt really make much sense. I think that its been hard getting our schedules to fit with one another lately..so I havent seen him much.

But even the last couple times that Ive seen him it hasnt been that great. Monday he was all out of it from the weekend cause he got plastered on Saturday and Sunday. And Wednesday he was just really blitzed the whole time. Which I have no problem with or anything, Im glad he is enjoying himself and all, but I guess Ive just been feeling needy the last few days.

Next week I wont be able to see him really since I have to work Sunday - Thursday and then the Sunday following and he is going away this weekend, and probably next cause of his band stuff. I might get to see him for a few hours though tomorrow.

I dont really know what Im going on about, in conclusion I guess I just want a kiss on the forehead and a quick cuddle (yah, Im a suck).

[QUOTE=Junooni]MTV can help you out there. :p[/QUOTE]

I have a friend who watches that show to feel better about himself. More often than not, the people on that show are a textbook case of what not to do.

He had me sit through a couple episodes to make a point and some of these people you have to wonder where they dug them up. The only exception was one guy who was a psychology student and an athlete who actually turned out to be an archetypal ladies' man.

k this is kinda weird.
but my girlfriend ain't relaly the physical type much. but we've talked and i've eased her into a couple diff. things but still nothing risqué...waht you might call somewhere b/w 2nd-3rd base.

prom's comin up though and i decided that i would try and push it a little further to move our relationship along, cuz it's been pretty stagnant until we had our talk. i am absolutely against doing anything she doesn't want/or feels uncomfortable with, but man...it's been over a year already and im wanting to get somewhere with this. i ain't gonna lie cuz im a guy (hey it rhymed) that i want some pooty-tang...

should i still go with this?

Well, I'd suggest the famous method of "going with the flow", see how it goes and if she starts feeling uncomfortable, just let her know you will comply to that and that you won't force anything on her, but when she is ready that you will be there with her.

[QUOTE=ghettoeddo]k this is kinda weird.
but my girlfriend ain't relaly the physical type much. but we've talked and i've eased her into a couple diff. things but still nothing risqué...waht you might call somewhere b/w 2nd-3rd base.

prom's comin up though and i decided that i would try and push it a little further to move our relationship along, cuz it's been pretty stagnant until we had our talk. i am absolutely against doing anything she doesn't want/or feels uncomfortable with, but man...it's been over a year already and im wanting to get somewhere with this. i ain't gonna lie cuz im a guy (hey it rhymed) that i want some pooty-tang...

should i still go with this?[/QUOTE]
you shouldnt really push her into anything she dosent want to do. Make sure she wants it too man.
She might not be ready even if she has been going out with you over a year.

[QUOTE=purplefeet]Hiyah everyone :) Havent been in here much within the last couple days so I thought I would peek my head in and say hello!

Everything is going pretty well lately for me and my boyfriend I guess. I think Ive come to the conclusion that our relationship has reached the comfortable stage. This is after over 5 months of officially dating, talking to each other everyday and seeing eachother 2-3 times a week.

I dont know what exactly Im going on about, but anyway, Ive been feeling kind of neglected lately. Which doesnt really make much sense. I think that its been hard getting our schedules to fit with one another lately..so I havent seen him much.

But even the last couple times that Ive seen him it hasnt been that great. Monday he was all out of it from the weekend cause he got plastered on Saturday and Sunday. And Wednesday he was just really blitzed the whole time. Which I have no problem with or anything, Im glad he is enjoying himself and all, but I guess Ive just been feeling needy the last few days.

Next week I wont be able to see him really since I have to work Sunday - Thursday and then the Sunday following and he is going away this weekend, and probably next cause of his band stuff. I might get to see him for a few hours though tomorrow.

I dont really know what Im going on about, in conclusion I guess I just want a kiss on the forehead and a quick cuddle (yah, Im a suck).[/QUOTE]

*kisses and hugs*

:)

Sorry this is so late, Nicole. I hope it gets better for you.

Well, Lela and I had a big fight, I was about to break up with her and then her dad called to inform me that Lela and I are done. He told me not to call her anymore or he would dial up a restraining order, so I called her one more time to say goodbye and she wouldn't even answer the phone. I guess that's it.

Now I have a sprained hand from taking out my anger on a wall and I just feel completely f[size=2]ucked[/size] over.

WTF Jared?

What caused this?

We had a super-heated argument the other night in which I told her that if she hung up on me I would come kick her door in to finish the conversation. She told her dad [b]just that part[/b] and he decided it was finished.

[QUOTE=Iscariot]We had a super-heated argument the other night in which I told her that if she hung up on me I would come kick her door in to finish the conversation. She told her dad [b]just that part[/b] and he decided it was finished.[/QUOTE]



arrrgg, [B]bias[/B] *shakes fist*.

That sucks. I understand the fustration.

She's a child anyway. I don't need that dead weight holding me down.

Even if I do love her.

Dearly.

I'll be back after I get entirely trashed.

I'd get trashed with you, but you're too far away.

And, I'm sorry about this, but maybe it's for the better.

[QUOTE=Iscariot]We had a super-heated argument the other night in which I told her that if she hung up on me I would come kick her door in to finish the conversation. She told her dad [b]just that part[/b] and he decided it was finished.[/QUOTE]
That's a heaping pile of gay.

[QUOTE=Iscariot]She's a child anyway. I don't need that dead weight holding me down.

Even if I do love her.

Dearly.

I'll be back after I get entirely trashed.[/QUOTE]


Im sorry. Getting trashed is really not the best way to deal with this but hell go ahead. Im really sorry.

if you are going to be so angry and violent over it maybe she dosent want that hm?
careful what you say man.

Kev, she's a pain in Jared's side. I can understand his frustration.

How can he love someone that he knows himself is a "pain in his side" or a "child"
How can she love him if she is hanging up on him and him threatening to kick in her door?
How are ye still together? lol

funny stuff really, one of those relationships where the sex is keeping ye together.
Amirite? lol

I have a question.
Do ye ever get when ye miss someone so much that their name keeps popping up.
For instance, i was watching a movie today and just as i was thinking about sierra some guy on the tv says something about a car and sierra.

Then one time last week i was walking out of the pub and on the noticeboard i noticed a poker table thing and as one of the players - his/her name was "ward griffin" - now her second name being ward and mine griffin, i found that quiet weird - and when she comes here im showing it to her cause she dosent beleive me.

It happens alot with random little things, the name sierra is just - not popular, but lol used for everything, like a mountain, or a company or whatever.
I saw it written on a wall in an Ad today is well and im like :confused:

and now to bring to a point, just 2 seconds ago
[url]http://www.homeclick.com/products/sierra0.jpg[/url]
that was just in a thread of some guy winning some raffle and her name is at the end of the link

omfg wtf

As my psycho guy calls it...it's synchronicity.

[url]http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=define%3A+synchronicity&btnG=Google+Search[/url]
:p

It's weird how it happens, but it happens. Good defs, Kev. :)

we can thank define: google for that :thumb:

Edit- Nevermind.

As to the jared situation. It probabaly wasnt going to great anyway, and you said she was dead weight. Go get hammered, and enjoy singledom.

WTF?

Page 4?

I don't think so.

'Sup?

I've got a quick question. What do you do when you have feelings for someone you don't want to have feelings for?

This particular girl is a good friend of mine and I don't want anything to happen between us at all. At the same time, I don't want to avoid her or anything because we're friends. I just want to go back to being friends with her.

If it's just a crush, it'll pass in time.

Hey how do I choose between two girls? Like, there's the girl I've been messing with for awhile, Kristen, and her best friend, Shelly. They both like me, and I've done things with both of them, and they know about each other, because Kristen put her up to it, since Shelly's too shy. But I think I like Shelly more, but I'm more involved with Kristen, and if I were to go with Shelly I'd surely break their friendship. But then if I stay with Kristen I pretty much have both girls, but not emotionally with Shelly, and I think I'm ready to find someone to actually care for, not just fool around with. :/

So, what looks like the best choice? lol

If you like Shelly the most, go there. She should be the one to decide to pursue it with you even if it breaks up their friendship.

I think I'll just stay single and try to get closer to Shelly as friends before choosing someone to work with. 'Cause I don't know her all too well, and I could just be having those new feelings like I had when I was starting to get involved with Krissy, which will fade eventually, and I don't want to ruin friendships to satisfy a temporary feeling. I want a girl to call mine though. =(

And also, I have another different question; if a girl likes you, and you take their virginity, will they become even more attached to you even if there is an understanding that you aren't together and probably won't be? I mean, she wouldn't see it as one nigth of fun, she'd see it as something more meaningful wouldn't she? Even if she knows we're not together and I may be with someone else? I know it's an odd question...

D, don't take someone's virginity unless it's serious between the two of you. It would be a bad move to do that to a girl. A one night stand is okay if you're both non-virgins, but, otherwise...not a good idea.

True lol, IM still a vigine, but Years of TV has told me not to do that haha. Also. Im wondring What do you do when you like a girl who has a boyfriend????? wait it out, or break em up. I dont wanna break em up thoguh lol.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]D, don't take someone's virginity unless it's serious between the two of you. It would be a bad move to do that to a girl. A one night stand is okay if you're both non-virgins, but, otherwise...not a good idea.[/QUOTE]
I didnt think it was a good idea, but this girl nearly begged me to, and I wouldn't mainly because she's a virgin. You don't know how that is for a guy... rofl.

We have done everything up to actually having sex though. She says she loves me, and wants me to be the person she doe sit with, but she's just another 16 y/o that has no clue what she's talking about. But what if we are drunk? I would feel guilty as hell and it's going to be impossible to avoid her, plus there's Kristen there pushing her on.

Bah, w/e. If it happens, it happens, but I'm not going to be the one to initiate it. I'll just wait to calm down with one girl. :/

[QUOTE=White]True lol, IM still a vigine, but Years of TV has told me not to do that haha. Also. Im wondring What do you do when you like a girl who has a boyfriend????? wait it out, or break em up. I dont wanna break em up thoguh lol.[/QUOTE]

Dont break them up. Just wait it out otherwise you will end up in a pickle.

Evening all...

ya. Thats why I said I don't wanna break em up because she is my friend and shes happy with him. So What I was really asking was should I try and hang out with her alot more and attempt to get her to like me or just keep my distance until they break up?

[QUOTE=pohl_56]I would probably keep my distance just becuase i wouldnt want the other person to hate me too much.[/QUOTE]

EDIT: Plus I am the guy that thinks everyone should have their chance to make someting with someone and shouldn ahve to worry about their significant other being tempted by someone else.

[QUOTE=White]ya. Thats why I said I don't wanna break em up because she is my friend and shes happy with him. So What I was really asking was should I try and hang out with her alot more and attempt to get her to like me or just keep my distance until they break up?[/QUOTE]

You pick option C: get over her.

I hate to tell you this but hanging around like a loyal puppy, hoping someday she'll eventually recognize you for the wonder you are does not work in real life.

So I really [I]really[/I] like this beautiful Hungarian girl in my school.

I don't know what to do. I'm kind of shy and not very good at approaching random people at all. Even though I guess she'd be easier to approach because she isn't one of the bitchy, arrogant slutty blondes. And that's what I like about her. Her english isn't perfect, she hangs out with the dorkier kids and isn't so stuck-up that I wouldn't feel 'cool' enough to go talk to her. She's been in the school for less than half a year and I don't think she has any good friends. (- I got that because she hangs out in the library/computer rooms a lot during break times and free lessons.)

I think if I had a couple of pints of beer in me I'd be able to go up and talk to her. But I've only met her at a party once (at the start of the year) and I remember talking to her for a few minutes in a small group. (I can’t remember what about. It was probably about alcohol or something lame)

Now, last week I had sports day, and the first thing was swimming. Now I was totally in awe when I saw her in her bathing suit/bikini kind of thing. I must have been staring at her for the whole hour or so haha. Then during hockey I felt like she was looking at me a couple times but that might just have been my imagination.

So basically I'd really like to talk to her or something. I've seen her play tennis at the local club a couple of times so that's cool (I play tennis too. \m/). What I was thinking of myself was to look up on the internet how to say a little sentence or something in Hungarian, try to impress her :p. For example I could say something like "I am a little fairy", and then act all "oh! I thought it ment "hey, how are ya?"!. I dunno if that'd make her laugh at all though.

Anyway, if anyone could help me out here. How/where should I approach this girl? As I said I find it hard to just start a random conversation with a random person as I'm quite shy. Please feel free to ask for any other info. Thanks!

I wouldn't try to say anything in Hungarian to impress her...but that's just me. That would be kinda awkward. You should just talk about tennis or something else that you guys have in common. I'm not really a person to give advice, since i was totally freaked out at the prospect of even making eye contact with this one girl for about a month, but the best thing to do is just to be like "Hey," and just be yourself and let it flow.

And a question for me to L&R:

Ok so i asked this girl to junior prom and she gave me a extremely nice no, and it turns out that she's going with someone else (who i happen to be pretty good friends with). Now i don't know how close they are, but would you guys say that my chances of making any progress with her are pretty much shot to hell?