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It also helps to stop making excuses for social ineptitude's and to not feel sorry for yourself.

yeah gotta stop talking about this with you guys cause you are completely off base in your assumptions

Only going off what you've told us, it seems like you have a lot of excuses is all, and I'm just telling you that making them is only going to hurt your overall chances with women.

so you don't think being homeschooled till i was 16 with a strict religious upbringing has anything to do with why i have problems? do you realize i couldnt even TALK to a girl i found attractive without feeling sick and nervous until the last couple years?

I feel you ethan

:(

[QUOTE=Glitterati;18807643]haha we got on at the same stop and it was really humid out and she asked me how her bangs looked, and we guessed each others ages and i guessed she was mid-twenties and she thought i was 24 (im 23 in November) and we talked for a bit, and when she got off she shook my hand and said it was nice talking to me and i gently kissed the back of her hand and said the pleasure was all mine and she smiled and laughed


emh used self-confidence, it was super effective[/QUOTE]

why didn't you ask for her number?

[QUOTE=publicastration;18807798]so you don't think being homeschooled till i was 16 with a strict religious upbringing has anything to do with why i have problems? do you realize i couldnt even TALK to a girl i found attractive without feeling sick and nervous until the last couple years?[/QUOTE]


I'm not saying it didn't have an effect, I used to be really socially awkward too but I didn't dwell on it as a reason or excuse for any shortcomings with women that I've had.

ethan, you have to stop putting the pussy on a pedestal

like, girls arent that great dont give them more respect than they deserve bro

[QUOTE=Angmar;18807804]I'm not saying it didn't have an effect, I used to be really socially awkward too but I didn't dwell on it as a reason or excuse for any shortcomings with women that I've had.[/QUOTE]

I really don't. I used to for sure, but lately not so much, I'm not sitting down and being like oh well im gonna fuck this up anyway im not even gonna try.

[QUOTE=Juddybear;18807805]ethan, you have to stop putting the pussy on a pedestal

like, girls arent that great dont give them more respect than they deserve bro[/QUOTE]

yo [B]ETHAN[/B]

yeah i know

imma come to philly and we are gonna go hit on brown chicks dawg

girls are the best **~~~

that fucking scarf

just think

something in his head told him that it was a good idea

it boggles the mind

dressing ridiculous on some occasions > caring way too much about how people dress and dressing like a wiener by a lot of people's standards regularly

i dress ridiculous on many occasions but i don't do it to get attention from girls

i'm commenting because i care about luc

you dress like a wiener on all occasions

to be a man you must be overweight and wear booty shorts

lol, ok

why are you upset mappy

in all honesty i just wanted to blindly call somebody a wiener

ethan you just gotta slay a dragon to start going after princesses. get the pheremones going yknow the first cut is the deepest.

wtf did i just read?

tyler when did you get so brilliant?

it's pointless to go after girls

you will have a much higher success rate if you just let them come to you

[QUOTE=blockhead;18807874]it's pointless to go after girls

you will have a much higher success rate if you just let them come to you[/QUOTE]

i agree

its hard to pursue without coming off too aggressive/invested/creepy

self-confidence and restraint are necessary, and not everyone has this

wait until you come across a girl who has an interest in you, and then its kind of hard to fuck it up.

[QUOTE=kitsch;18807881]wait until you come across a girl who has an interest in you, and then its kind of hard to fuck it up.[/QUOTE]

this is literally how I got any girl I've had sex with/dated.

if you don't give a fuck girls want you more for some reason

[QUOTE=illmitch;18807855]i dress ridiculous on many occasions but i don't do it to get attention from girls

i'm commenting because i care about luc[/QUOTE]

I didn't do it to get attention :/

I just felt like it lol

sometimes i forget to do laundry and i have one backup pair of jeans with massive holes on each knee, like HUGE HOLES with my knee and half of my shins sticking out. I'll wear PJs under them because im too lazy to patch them and then ill go out and not give a fuck.

I'll get complimented on "my style" at shows and shit by crazy girls and if I wasnt looking to get laid I'd call her retarded

dressing "ridiculous" can get you ridiculously odd responses from people

not even negative odd


but then when it is negative you can basically make a joke of whoever has a problem with it

you said something to the effect of it got girls talking to you so i assumed thats what you meant