[QUOTE=Wizard.]I don't see anything wrong with it, if that's what those people want to do. I just don't want to have sex with someone that I'm not entirely sure about, just because she's my current girlfriend.

And I'm not waiting for a single person. I'll have sex, as long as I love the person. I don't believe in anything like "one true love" or anything. It's possibly to fall in love many times.

Also, I'm straightedge, and the label helps me from running into any situations I don't want to give into, and sort of reinforces my backbone so I'm not talked into things. Because as you can tell, I'm not the most willed individual when it comes to other people, especially girls. :-/[/QUOTE]

You've already had sex with your most recent girlfriend, because you were close. There will be many more girls you will find like that, and it's bound to happen a few more times before marriage.

[QUOTE=The pet beaver on bass]so you're still stuck with the L&R gig eh[/QUOTE]

That's all right; I enjoy it in here. :)

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]I didn't actually. Thanks.[/QUOTE]



o jeez, if i cant "play" towards the OLDER crowd, then what?


:upset:

[QUOTE=Che Guevara]o jeez, if i cant "play" towards the OLDER crowd, then what?


:upset:[/QUOTE]

Problem is I never thought the 3 Stooges were funny.

But, thanks for thinking of me. :cool:

[QUOTE=ProSeries]You've already had sex with your most recent girlfriend, because you were close. There will be many more girls you will find like that, and it's bound to happen a few more times before marriage.[/QUOTE]
Yeah, I assume it will hapen quite a few times before I find the one I marry, but I just won't have sex with someone that's my girlfriend, unless I'm very serious about them.

[QUOTE=jessy rabbit]as this has gone off the point a bit, can anyone tell me how long it takes for these relationship things to all straighten out?[/QUOTE]

Depends. If this guy is going to just move on with his life, it won't take long. But if he's going to continue being a wanker, it's best ot just sever all ties with him immediately so he can't continue to bring his crap into your life.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]That's all right; I enjoy it in here. :)[/QUOTE]

it's quite cozy really

yeah i know. maybe it sounds silly after everything but i do miss him sometimes. and i don't know how much this other lad likes me back either.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Problem is I never thought the 3 Stooges were funny.

But, thanks for thinking of me. :cool:[/QUOTE]

SLAPSTICK COMEDY ITT

As for this whole thing about talking to people on the Internet, I don't talk to anyone about my problems openly any more. I was reluctant to even talk to Kimmie privately about it, but she was very open to listening to me go on and on about something that's in the past now, so it's something I'm thankful for, anyway.

But now I don't talk to anyone about my personal stories, past or present.

I just try to keep this organized and give suggestions (I hesitate to call it advice because I'm not qualified).

Overall though, some good discussion, which is nice to see.

And big lulz at this:

[quote]What's a slut?[/quote]

[quote=ProSeries]Look to pick up guys for sex, and sex only. They are like whores, but they don't take money.[/quote]

Hahahaha.

[QUOTE=Wizard.]Yeah, I assume it will hapen quite a few times before I find the one I marry, but I just won't have sex with someone that's my girlfriend, unless I'm very serious about them.[/QUOTE]

Oh I know. It's just that love isn't the right word to use in each and every one of those cases. Lets just say...extremely close.

[QUOTE=Jom]




Hahahaha.[/QUOTE]

>.>
<.<

Hey Jom, nice avatar.


Well, my ex just said something, and now I will never talk to her again.

She knew i didnt want to be friends afterwards, and she knew it hurt me to talk to her, but she cried, and said she didn want to lose a friend, so i talked to her, and i tried to be friends, and now that i feel good enough to be a friend again, feel good enough to hang out as just friends, she starts saying sh[I]i[/I]t.

Well, I told her how I felt about her, but she doesn't like me back. :(:(:(

Now I feel like complete s[size=2]hit[/size]. I thought she'd be the one girl who could be mine, but I guess not, I guess I'm forced to be single forever.

:upset:

[QUOTE=Strongbad]Well, I told her how I felt about her, but she doesn't like me back. :(:(:(

Now I feel like complete s[size=2]hit[/size]. I thought she'd be the one girl who could be mine, but I guess not, [b]I guess I'm forced to be single forever.[/b]

:upset:[/QUOTE]

You do realize that by saying this [bolded statement], I'm going to have to give you one of my trademarked anti-emo bitchslaps, right?

You need to learn to embrace the "NEXT!" policy. With over three billion females in the world, what makes you think that one will be the last?

Were you afraid for my little drill on Male Confidence Boot Camp?

But she's the only one I want.

[QUOTE=Strongbad]But she's the only one I want.[/QUOTE]

I thought the same thing, but there are other fish in the sea. Keep your options open and try and move on. It's a hard thing to do, but you can if you believe. I'm still in the process of moving on. I am doing pretty good because now me and my ex are both really good friends and we know that's all it will ever be.

whatever, but im sick of hearing that stupid "there are other fish in the sea" saying. For one thing, women are not FISH. :rolleyes:

[QUOTE=Ibasslikethis!]Hey Jom, nice avatar.


Well, my ex just said something, and now I will never talk to her again.

She knew i didnt want to be friends afterwards, and she knew it hurt me to talk to her, but she cried, and said she didn want to lose a friend, so i talked to her, and i tried to be friends, and now that i feel good enough to be a friend again, feel good enough to hang out as just friends, she starts saying sh[I]i[/I]t.[/QUOTE]

Ditch her, Gregg. There's no need to put up with that.

[QUOTE=Strongbad]whatever, but im sick of hearing that stupid "there are other fish in the sea" saying. For one thing, women are not FISH. :rolleyes:[/QUOTE]

Someone's PMSing.

[QUOTE=Strongbad]whatever, but im sick of hearing that stupid "there are other fish in the sea" saying. For one thing, women are not FISH. :rolleyes:[/QUOTE]

For another thing, that's a pretty shi[font=verdana]t[/font]ty form of rationalization you have there. If this is the worst thing that's going to happen in your life, I envy you sincerely because you're going to have one freakin' easy life.

Here's the thing: you can't have this defeatist attitude. If you set your sight on one girl and get let down, pick yourself back up and re-assert yourself. If you crumble at the littlest anti-Strongbad thing that happens to you, you're going to have to grow a pair and a spine, because this will not be the most of your worries.

Come on, man. It's an adage for a reason: people remember clever sayings. There are thousands of girls out there - just have the confidence and the willpower to meet them and get to know some.

[QUOTE=Strongbad]whatever, but im sick of hearing that stupid "there are other fish in the sea" saying. For one thing, women are not FISH. :rolleyes:[/QUOTE]
Stop being a little bitch and move on then, that way you won't have to hear it.

Im gonna pop my head in here again since it's been about a week. Anyone care to know the exciting weekend I had resulting in me having a gf, a ton of new friends, and memories to last forever?

[QUOTE=Fire Whispers]Stop being a little bitch and move on then, that way you won't have to hear it.[/QUOTE]
I knew I shouldnt've posted my problem on this goddamn forum. Anytime I say anything everyone has to come back with something and make it seem like they're the more mature ones. I hope for a little sympathy, and instead I get "Stop being a little bitch, go fu[size=2]ck[/size] yourself, you suck at life" and I should've known it. The thing is, girls NEVER like me, they tend to despise me and I just can't stand it. I thought this one girl, who happens to be the nicest girl I know, would like me, but if she doesn't, then who the hell is?

(im sorry, im just a typical 15 yearold who is just now really getting into girls and im not used to being heartbroken)

[QUOTE=Strongbad]I knew I shouldnt've posted my problem on this goddamn forum. Anytime I say anything everyone has to come back with something and make it seem like they're the more mature ones. I hope for a little sympathy, and instead I get "Stop being a little bitch, go fu[size=2]ck[/size] yourself, you suck at life" and I should've known it. The thing is, girls NEVER like me, they tend to despise me and I just can't stand it. I thought this one girl, who happens to be the nicest girl I know, would like me, but if she doesn't, then who the hell is?

(im sorry, im just a typical 15 yearold who is just now really getting into girls and im not used to being heartbroken)[/QUOTE]

Well, he was speaking the truth. I need to get over it.

See, I used to think the same about me, but there might be a girl that likes you and you just have overlooked her. You need to watch for things. There were girls that I have found out used to like me and I at one point liked them.

[QUOTE=Pazz]Well, he was speaking the truth. I need to get over it.

See, I used to think the same about me, but there might be a girl that likes you and you just have overlooked her. You need to watch for things. There were girls that I have found out used to like me and I at one point liked them.[/QUOTE]

It's hard to tell though. They always give mixed messages it seems. At one point, I thought this girl liked me, and I heard that she did. Then when I tell her how I feel, I get rejected. It's all so confusing...

Girls like sending mixed messages. I have been given them many of times, and so has everyone else. You just have to try and read them.

I think I just suck at life, lol.

girls don't just despise everyone when they first meet them (unless they have a reason to or they're not even worth being with) So if [i]every[/i] girl, like oyu say, despises you.. there must be a reason

[QUOTE=Strongbad]I think I just suck at life, lol.[/QUOTE]

There's something I do a lot of. Putting myself down, it doesn't help, seriously. Putting yourself down won't help any except make you feel worse about yourself and less likely to find that girl.

[QUOTE=Strongbad]It's hard to tell though. They always give mixed messages it seems. At one point, I thought this girl liked me, and I heard that she did. Then when I tell her how I feel, I get rejected. It's all so confusing...[/QUOTE]

Girls don't always give mixed messages.

A little insight: The girls that want to be with you will say it. Those of us who are secure will say it, or make it obvious.

"Hearing" that a girl likes you is not written in stone, until SHE tells you that.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Girls don't always give mixed messages.

A little insight: The girls that want to be with you will say it. Those of us who are secure will say it, or make it obvious.

"Hearing" that a girl likes you is not written in stone, until SHE tells you that.[/QUOTE]

She makes a good point. My first/recent/last girlfriend was the one who told me she liked me. I had liked her for about a month, and it was New Years Eve and I was going to tell her at the end of the night because she was walking me home. But on the walk home she told me. So sometimes, you might need to wait for them to tell you.