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Special Brew 02-11-2006 09:21 PM

Well, I messaged her on MSN and asked her why she was pissed, and if it was because I actually got out of my house for a change. Now I'm just going to leave her alone, because she won't get the message for awhile, because she's "busy"(which means she's on the game). She doesn't know I was with my ex or anything, or even where I went. All she knows is that I'm going to go have fun, and I didn't ask her permission. (hehe)

So I guess I wait now. :)

ThePinkPanther 02-11-2006 09:30 PM

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Oh, god, how cute!

If your gf doesn't want him can I have him plzkthnx?

:)
[/QUOTE]

Sure.

But she'll probably love him.

Chaindrive 02-11-2006 09:37 PM

[QUOTE=ThePinkPanther]Sure.

But she'll probably love it.[/QUOTE]

It's a "him", Evan. :D

If she doesn't want him, I do. He's darling.

|~Iceb0x~| 02-11-2006 09:50 PM

I have a question,

Which do girls find more appeling?

And any advice, on making a girl feel attracted towards you? Do give some crap that you can't, because attraction isn't a choice!

ThePinkPanther 02-11-2006 09:54 PM

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]It's a "him", Evan. :D

If she doesn't want him, I do. He's darling.[/QUOTE]

That's what i said. >_>

I'm thinking of giving it to her in science class. Cause i already talked to the teacher and she said i can keep it in her room. But i'm gonna ask if i can get my teacher to be like "jessica, can you go get the thing offa my chair." But on her chair the bear will be with a note that she can read that says something like "Happy Valentine's Day Jessica, Love Evan" or something.

Tiger 02-11-2006 09:56 PM

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]EDIT! I am dateless again. My guy called me to cancel because he's sick. He sounded really sorry, though. He said, "I'm sorry. You have no idea how sorry I am."

I'm kinda glad, though. I did a lot of running around (errands) today and as much as I want to see him, I was dreading that hour plus drive...[/QUOTE]


Go ahead and use this as a reason to end it. :cool:

Chaindrive 02-11-2006 10:01 PM

[QUOTE=Tiger]Go ahead and use this as a reason to end it. :cool:[/QUOTE]
Um, no. I am so glad I didn't have to make the drive...


When are you hitting my doorstep, my cub?

Chaindrive 02-11-2006 10:06 PM

[QUOTE=ThePinkPanther]*That's what i said. >_>

I'm thinking of giving it to her in science class. Cause i already talked to the teacher and she said i can keep it in her room. But i'm gonna ask if i can get my teacher to be like "jessica, can you go get the thing offa my chair." But on her chair the bear will be with a note that she can read that says something like "Happy Valentine's Day Jessica, Love Evan" or something.[/QUOTE]

*Editeditedit....

That idea is a good one.

But if she sneers at him...I am the one and only stuffed bear protection agency here...and I'll want him immediately.

ThePinkPanther 02-11-2006 10:09 PM

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]That idea is a good one.

But if she sneers at him...I am the one and only stuffed bear protection agency here...and I'll want him immediately.[/QUOTE]

I had a whole bunch of ideas of things to do, but i didn't have the money to do them all. One of the ideas was to put a rose in her locker every period so she got a new one each time she went to it.

And of course I'll give it to you if she doesn't like him.

Tiger 02-11-2006 10:13 PM

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Um, no. I am so glad I didn't have to make the drive...


When are you hitting my doorstep, my cub?[/QUOTE]


Mid March

Chaindrive 02-11-2006 10:19 PM

[QUOTE=Tiger]Mid March[/QUOTE]

K. My singer washed all the linens for your bed (should you decide to sleep there) and made the bed for you. Of course the floor is there as well...

Jom 02-11-2006 10:27 PM

That was a huge bear. I'm sure she'll like it. Nice idea, too. It's cool that your teacher was... well, cool with all that (I'm adjective-retarded today).




And Kimmie, I'm instantly regretting sending that package now. Why is it after the fact that things come up after you've done something? I guess it goes to show you that there are no absolutes in life, haha :p


:-\

Chaindrive 02-11-2006 10:31 PM

[QUOTE=Jom]That was a huge bear. I'm sure she'll like it. Nice idea, too. It's cool that your teacher was... well, cool with all that (I'm adjective-retarded today).




And Kimmie, I'm instantly regretting sending that package now. Why is it after the fact that things come up after you've done something? I guess it goes to show you that there are no absolutes in life, haha :p


:-\[/QUOTE]

There is no perfect world. But, we do the best we can. You sent the package...no turning back.

And, what you did in sending the package is fine. So, now you wait...

JohnXDoesn't 02-11-2006 10:37 PM

Hey Kimmie. I saw my ex today walking down the street. She dyed her hair blonde and was looking tall and breezy in her high-heeled sandels and summer clothes. It's warm here just about now. I haven't layed eyes on her in over a year. She looks better then I expected. Or want her too. She looked happy. Which somehow has me feeling bad. :upset:

Kimmie :-*

Tiger 02-11-2006 10:38 PM

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]K. My singer washed all the linens for your bed (should you decide to sleep there) and made the bed for you. Of course the floor is there as well...[/QUOTE]



aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaw

I have a bed!

Chaindrive 02-11-2006 10:41 PM

[QUOTE=Tiger]aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaw

I have a bed![/QUOTE]

Or you have the floor of my many closets. Your choice.

But, yes the bed is waiting for you if you decide you want that.

Chaindrive 02-11-2006 10:43 PM

[QUOTE=JohnXDoe]Hey Kimmie. I saw my ex today walking down the street. She dyed her hair blonde and was looking tall and breezy in her high-heeled sandels and summer clothes. It's warm here just about now. I haven't layed eyes on her in over a year. She looks better then I expected. Or want her too. She looked happy. Which somehow has me feeling bad. :upset:

Kimmie :-*[/QUOTE]

John :-*

Why, exactly are you in here? :confused:

I can drive down to you and make you feel better?

Jom 02-11-2006 10:45 PM

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]There is no perfect world. But, we do the best we can. You sent the package...no turning back.

And, what you did in sending the package is fine. So, now you wait...[/QUOTE]

I'm afraid I didn't make myself clear. This has bad news written all over it now, as in, something just came up and knowing how she blows things out of proportion it's going to turn really, really ugly.

But at least I have a couple days to prepare for it, which is hopefully enough time for me to build an external bomb shelter on my skin, heh.

And bummer about your one-year anniversary thing not panning out, but at least you're getting some quality R&R. I'm sure it'll be made up soon.

JohnXDoesn't 02-11-2006 10:46 PM

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]John :-*

Why, exactly are you in here? :confused:

I can drive down to you and make you feel better?[/QUOTE]
I'm just venting, I suppose. I really don't express myself very well about her. Too many unresolved feelings.

And one day I shall take you up on your visit. We'll post naughty pics all over MX. :)

_ThisSecretNinja_ 02-11-2006 10:50 PM

Jeebus the girl I like hasnt made any attempt to talk or hangout with me for the past two days and I'm getting worried shes losing interest in me...is this long enough to be worried about or am I just being a little bitch?

I feel so alone :upset:

Chaindrive 02-11-2006 10:54 PM

[QUOTE=JohnXDoe]I'm just venting, I suppose. I really don't express myself very well about her. Too many unresolved feelings.

And one day I shall take you up on your visit. We'll post naughty pics all over MX. :)[/QUOTE]

Oh...god...yeah. I am so there, :knotty: pics and all... :p

Talk to me if you want, you know where to find me.
[quote=Jom]I'm afraid I didn't make myself clear. This has bad news written all over it now, as in, something just came up and knowing how she blows things out of proportion it's going to turn really, really ugly.

But at least I have a couple days to prepare for it, which is hopefully enough time for me to build an external bomb shelter on my skin, heh.

And bummer about your one-year anniversary thing not panning out, but at least you're getting some quality R&R. I'm sure it'll be made up soon.[/quote]

But it's a done deal. You sent it. And I think you needed to.

I'd rather have the R&R, to tell you the truth. Than make that drive. How devoted am I, I have to wonder here...

Jom 02-11-2006 10:57 PM

Yeah, I thought I needed to... a few days ago. Now, I'm hoping it gets lost in the mail because of what's gone down now.

And I don't blame you regarding R&R. You were saying how you've had a busy week, so yeah, any and all R&R is a good R&R. Rock on.

Chaindrive 02-11-2006 11:02 PM

[QUOTE=Jom]Yeah, I thought I needed to... a few days ago. Now, I'm hoping it gets lost in the mail because of what's gone down now.
[/QUOTE]

No. Not lost in the mail, don't wish for it.

What has gone down now?

[b][color=deepskyblue]I just realized that this is a whole new story. It's not important now - forget I said anything, heh. Sorry about that.

-Jom[/b][/color]

Tillius 02-11-2006 11:12 PM

[QUOTE=Super Cameron]where you at mozza

nah what i meant guys is um im prolly moving and going to a new school depending on how this audition goes

um

jom how do you know where i go to school[/QUOTE]
But, are you just saying you really want a girlfriend, no matter where you move to, or that you really want one where you are now?

Jom 02-11-2006 11:14 PM

[QUOTE=Super Cameron]jom how do you know where i go to school[/QUOTE]

You've posted where you go lots of times on MX, I thought. And your location is Marquette, so that's another giveaway. But think of it this way, you could be a Husky and go to school with a whole bunch of nerds.

Where are you auditioning/going?

Chaindrive 02-11-2006 11:15 PM

Just so everyone knows...I'm wearing black nail polish...

Gothola.

That would be me.

Tillius 02-11-2006 11:16 PM

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Just so everyone knows...I'm wearing black nail polish...

Gothola.

That would be me.[/QUOTE]
:eek:
/grabs a crucifix

Chaindrive 02-11-2006 11:19 PM

[QUOTE=Tillius]:eek:
/grabs a crucifix[/QUOTE]

Do what you think you need to...I wear black polish a lot.

Mattfanatic 02-11-2006 11:23 PM

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Just so everyone knows...I'm wearing black nail polish...

Gothola.

That would be me.[/QUOTE]
i read that as Got[I]hola[/I] like the thing rappers say/ ghetto people

and i took it as a black reference, then i re-read it and it all came to me

Tillius 02-11-2006 11:23 PM

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Do what you think you need to...I wear black polish a lot.[/QUOTE]
I wore some a few weeks ago.

Special Brew 02-12-2006 12:23 AM

So, uh, I deleted my gf from all my messengers and blocked her. I messaged her and told her to call me when she's willing to work things out, and not to bother me until then.

So now I will never be able to tell if she's online or anything, so I won't be tempted to randomly message her or yell at her.

This also means I won't be talking to her for awhile, which will kill me. She'll eventually call me for one reason or another. I'm too impatient...

comptonassrobert 02-12-2006 04:12 AM

My friend just auditioned at Berklee last week for bass =-O

camelfarmer 02-12-2006 04:43 AM

[QUOTE=Wizard.]So, uh, I deleted my gf from all my messengers and blocked her. I messaged her and told her to call me when she's willing to work things out, and not to bother me until then.

So now I will never be able to tell if she's online or anything, so I won't be tempted to randomly message her or yell at her.

This also means I won't be talking to her for awhile, which will kill me. She'll eventually call me for one reason or another. I'm too impatient...[/QUOTE]

You're neither here nor there. You want things to work out but you're just waiting on it. Either block her out and get over her or try hard to work things out. Blocking her out and waiting and hoping sounds depressing.

Special Brew 02-12-2006 05:43 AM

It is depressing, but I can't work things out with her until she comes to her senses, and I have to wait to see if that will even happen. I'll give it a week or two, before doing anything else... hopefully. I'm prone to doing rash and stupid things.

So this is sort of a "last chance" thing, I guess.

camelfarmer 02-12-2006 05:44 AM

Fair enough.

Special Brew 02-12-2006 07:10 AM

oh shi oh shi

I forgot about Valentine's Day in two days! Well, since I'm distancing myself from her, sending her something may work to my advantage to show her I haven't forgotten her or anything. I planned on sending her some cliche flowers and choclates or something.

I sent her a dozen roses on our six month, so I am a little reluctant to send the same thing again, but it's kind of the V-Day staple. I could send her tulips or something though. (I'm about 90% sure they're her favorite flower). I'll write her a short love letter too, 'cause she loves getting letters from me.

So, flowers + choclates(if I can) + love letter = a happy girl on V-Day?

I Am a Hat 02-12-2006 07:19 AM

[QUOTE=Wizard.]oh shi oh shi

I forgot about Valentine's Day in two days! Well, since I'm distancing myself from her, sending her something may work to my advantage to show her I haven't forgotten her or anything. I planned on sending her some cliche flowers and choclates or something.

I sent her a dozen roses on our six month, so I am a little reluctant to send the same thing again, but it's kind of the V-Day staple. I could send her tulips or something though. (I'm about 90% sure they're her favorite flower). I'll write her a short love letter too, 'cause she loves getting letters from me.

So, flowers + choclates(if I can) + love letter = a happy girl on V-Day?[/QUOTE]
you've totally fu[I]c[/I]ked up

if you send her stuff on valentine's it shows you're not at all serious about being willing to walk away from this

and i don't think you really have the ability to make not sending anything work alright for you

i'd probably be an evil mastermind and send whatever you're sending late so if she calls you the day after valentine's pissed that you didn't get her anything you can just be like "i guess it's still in the mail" then guilt trip her and hang up.


honestly you'll have to resort to girlish tactics here man

Special Brew 02-12-2006 07:36 AM

Nah,I'm going to send her something. I'm not going to let our fight ruin a special day, especially if it could possibly be the last holiday we are together. If we do break up, i want her to be able to at least appreciate the time we had.

I'm sending her something no matter what, but I'm not going to be talking to her until she decides to change, or at least talk seriously. Not sending stuff just because I'm currently mad at her is kind of childish, and I've done enough childish things already.

camelfarmer 02-12-2006 08:40 AM

Send her your nuts.

Jom 02-12-2006 09:11 AM

[QUOTE=Super Cameron]I'm auditioning for Berklee at the end of this month


where do you live/how do you know about the UP[/QUOTE]

Wow, man. Good luck!

I live in Michigan, so not only do I know about the LP, but the UP as well.

Say Yah! to the UP, eh? :)


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