Look what I noticed today while browsing:

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EmergencyRoom: That post was you talking crap. No "advice" really. Just bringing me down is all...

To everyone else:

1. I'm NOT mexican. I've heard all these mexican jokes and whatnot going around. I'm 1/3 italian, 1/3 russian, 1/3 german. No hispanic blood.

2. I NEVER (NEVER!!) got her pregnant. We had a scare. She took a pregnancy test and the results came back negative. This occured a couple months back. June I think. She's never been pregnant. NEVER.

3. I've already explained the "30,000 album" thing.

(BUT...i'll do it one last time for those who missed out...so listen up)

I picked a high (out of reach number) of blank cd-r's. I knew it was a crazy goal, most likely not reachable (unless by miracle or something). I came into the guitar forum (i believe) and asked where could I get 30,000 blank cd-r's. I was so dead-set in the thread because i've learned if you come on mx and say you were "thinking" about doing something you'll get 100 replys telling you to do otherwise. If you come into MX and say "im DOING" this you get flamed.

I'd rather be flamed and possibly get some help rather than tell you all I "think" im going to do something and get no help for what I wanted. Instead I get 20 links that send me to what THEY think I should do.

I got flamed...i expected it. I didn't think it would get as out of hand as it did.

4. I think it's really screwed up that people are coming here and cracking jokes about my fiance. That's not cool. How would (well...we dont have many girls here...but) you feel if your boyfriend was telling you that all the people on a musican's forum were saying you were fat, ugly, and what not? That's not cool.

Jessica is a very sensitive/emotionally-driven person. She wanted to come here and read the thread. I told her that i'd rather read her SOME of the cruel posts about her rather than she get stuck reading them ALL. I read some to her. After all of it she asked if I believe any of that is true (ie. fat, ugly, whore, bitch, ****) and I told her the truth. I said that I didn't think a word of it were true. She told me that the only opinion that matters is her own and mine. in the past, EVERYONE'S opinion mattered to her. I showed her that the only opinions that should matter are her own and mine.

She doesn't have much self-confidence or self-esteem. It not cool that you guys/girls try and bring her down. I ask you all to please not judge her. You don't know her. AT ALL. I may post on this forum and to an extent you know me. You don't know her at all (other than myspace comments we left each other).

5. These threads have went on long enough and everyone (seriously) needs to let them die.



I know everone here is hoping for a divorce or whatnot but I hate to break it to you...it's not happening.

However (since I know you all thrive on flaming me and my relationship) i'll keep you all posted and you can continue to flame our relationship then. I think my next thread on the relationship will be on the wedding. Then you can all flame me and say I look like a "tard" in my suit and she looks "like a ugly cow" in her dress.

Or...

When we move out I can take pics and you can all flame me for my "crappy tastes in houses".

The wedding wont be for awhile and kids aren't coming until after college so just hang tight "flamers of MX" :lol:


I'll be more than happy to take the time to relpy to some SERIOUS questions so if you have any feel free to ask. :)


sorry if anything was spelled wrong, if I used incorrect grammer, or if I just flat out didn't make sense.

[QUOTE=apromisingyear][B]EmergencyRoom: That post was you talking crap. No "advice" really. Just bringing me down is all...[/B]To everyone else:

1. I'm NOT mexican. I've heard all these mexican jokes and whatnot going around. I'm 1/3 italian, 1/3 russian, 1/3 german. No hispanic blood.

2. I NEVER (NEVER!!) got her pregnant. We had a scare. She took a pregnancy test and the results came back negative. This occured a couple months back. June I think. She's never been pregnant. NEVER.

3. I've already explained the "30,000 album" thing.

(BUT...i'll do it one last time for those who missed out...so listen up)

I picked a high (out of reach number) of blank cd-r's. I knew it was a crazy goal, most likely not reachable (unless by miracle or something). I came into the guitar forum (i believe) and asked where could I get 30,000 blank cd-r's. I was so dead-set in the thread because i've learned if you come on mx and say you were "thinking" about doing something you'll get 100 replys telling you to do otherwise. If you come into MX and say "im DOING" this you get flamed.

I'd rather be flamed and possibly get some help rather than tell you all I "think" im going to do something and get no help for what I wanted. Instead I get 20 links that send me to what THEY think I should do.

I got flamed...i expected it. I didn't think it would get as out of hand as it did.

4. I think it's really screwed up that people are coming here and cracking jokes about my fiance. That's not cool. How would (well...we dont have many girls here...but) you feel if your boyfriend was telling you that all the people on a musican's forum were saying you were fat, ugly, and what not? That's not cool.

Jessica is a very sensitive/emotionally-driven person. She wanted to come here and read the thread. I told her that i'd rather read her SOME of the cruel posts about her rather than she get stuck reading them ALL. I read some to her. After all of it she asked if I believe any of that is true (ie. fat, ugly, whore, bitch, ****) and I told her the truth. I said that I didn't think a word of it were true. She told me that the only opinion that matters is her own and mine. in the past, EVERYONE'S opinion mattered to her. I showed her that the only opinions that should matter are her own and mine.

She doesn't have much self-confidence or self-esteem. It not cool that you guys/girls try and bring her down. I ask you all to please not judge her. You don't know her. AT ALL. I may post on this forum and to an extent you know me. You don't know her at all (other than myspace comments we left each other).

5. These threads have went on long enough and everyone (seriously) needs to let them die.



I know everone here is hoping for a divorce or whatnot but I hate to break it to you...it's not happening.

However (since I know you all thrive on flaming me and my relationship) i'll keep you all posted and you can continue to flame our relationship then. I think my next thread on the relationship will be on the wedding. Then you can all flame me and say I look like a "tard" in my suit and she looks "like a ugly cow" in her dress.

Or...

When we move out I can take pics and you can all flame me for my "crappy tastes in houses".

The wedding wont be for awhile and kids aren't coming until after college so just hang tight "flamers of MX" :lol:


I'll be more than happy to take the time to relpy to some SERIOUS questions so if you have any feel free to ask. :)


sorry if anything was spelled wrong, if I used incorrect grammer, or if I just flat out didn't make sense.[/QUOTE]

He actually thought i was gonna help him out.

Silly apy, tricks are for kids...

rofl@U

Although i still stand by every word i posted. I think it's great advice. :D

never get married.

that was my father's advice to me.

[QUOTE=apromisingyear] that big-a[SIZE=2]s[/SIZE]s post a few up [/QUOTE]

:lol:

oh man, it's funny how a bunch of words on the computer screen can send two people go crazy.

[QUOTE=NachoChez]APY

seriously

no one actually cares about you or your wife's wedding and whatnot. This is the internet and we have no idea who either of you are. You are both complete strangers. The only reason we make fun of you is because you're getting so personal on an internet forum where no one knows you.[/QUOTE]
shh! you'll ruin it :upset:

[QUOTE=Tom]:lol:

oh man, it's funny how a bunch of words on the computer screen can send two people go crazy.[/QUOTE]

it's funny how a bunch of words on the computer screen can send people go confused.

[QUOTE=apromisingyear]4. I think it's really screwed up that people are coming here and cracking jokes about my fiance. That's not cool. How would (well...we dont have many girls here...but) you feel [b]if your boyfriend was telling you that all the people on a musican's forum were saying you were fat, ugly, and what not? That's not cool.[/b]

Jessica is a very sensitive/emotionally-driven person. She wanted to come here and read the thread. I told her that [b]i'd rather read her SOME of the cruel posts about her rather than she get stuck reading them ALL. I read some to her.[/b] After all of it she asked if I believe any of that is true (ie. fat, ugly, whore, bitch, ****) and I told her the truth. I said that I didn't think a word of it were true. She told me that the only opinion that matters is her own and mine. in the past, EVERYONE'S opinion mattered to her. I showed her that the only opinions that should matter are her own and mine.

She doesn't have much self-confidence or self-esteem. It not cool that you guys/girls try and bring her down. I ask you all to please not judge her. You don't know her. AT ALL. I may post on this forum and to an extent you know me. You don't know her at all (other than myspace comments we left each other).[/QUOTE]

Why in heaven's name are you [i][B]telling[/B][/i] her about what people are saying about her on this board? It's the internet. It's not serious business. And why are you compromising her self-esteem by [i][B]reading[/B][/i] to her what you consider to be cruel posts?

I cannot get my mind around what you're doing...

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Why in heaven's name are you [i][B]telling[/B][/i] her about what people are saying about her on this board? It's the internet. It's not serious business. And why are you compromising her self-esteem by [i][B]reading[/B][/i] to her what you consider to be cruel posts?

I cannot get my mind around what you're doing...[/QUOTE]

You forget... he's retarded.

Why should he have done any of these other things?

Retard.

He pretty much established that from day one.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Why in heaven's name are you [i][B]telling[/B][/i] her about what people are saying about her on this board? It's the internet. It's not serious business. And why are you compromising her self-esteem by [i][B]reading[/B][/i] to her what you consider to be cruel posts?

I cannot get my mind around what you're doing...[/QUOTE]

He's not smart. He's only 16.

[QUOTE=NachoChez]skinnypuppyfreak is 13, and compared to APY he's a nuclear physicist.[/QUOTE]

True, but he isn't that bright, either.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Why in heaven's name are you [i][B]telling[/B][/i] her about what people are saying about her on this board? It's the internet. It's not serious business. And why are you compromising her self-esteem by [i][B]reading[/B][/i] to her what you consider to be cruel posts?

I cannot get my mind around what you're doing...[/QUOTE]


I wasn't going to make a big deal out of it or anything.

What happened was...

I was posting back and fourth with you guys.
She called.
We talked as I was finishing a post.
I said (to my self/under my breath) you fu[SIZE=2]ck[/SIZE]ers (i was refering to someone being very clever...cant remember who exactly)
She said, "what? I didn't here you"
I said I was talking to myself and she asked "what are you doing babe? whats wrong"
I said i was just sitting here arguing with people on a forum.
She I asked why
I told her why

THEN she wanted specifics. we promised to always be honest with each other so I said we were arguing about our engagement. She asked what are they saying and I said that you guys were talking s[SIZE=2]hi[/SIZE]t about our relationship, her, and I.

she wanted a link but we argreed to have me read some "choice" posts.


I didn't ruin her self-confidence because we have patched it up (for the most part).

She didn't ask why you were telling strangers who had previously collectively made fun of you about your engagement?

[QUOTE=NachoChez]seriously.

APY you are one hell of a manipulative person.[/QUOTE]

not exactly. she has realized the only two opinons that matter are hers and mine. No one elses. She was just curious. She was too bothered by it. no emotional damage (or harm what-so-ever) done...so no biggie.

[QUOTE=apromisingyear]THEN she wanted specifics. we promised to always be honest with each other so I said we were arguing about our engagement. She asked what are they saying and I said that you guys were talking s[SIZE=2]hi[/SIZE]t about our relationship, her, and I.
[/QUOTE]

Haven't you ever seen Forrest Gump? Little white lies don't hurt no one! For ****'s sake man... That guy shoul be your hero. A retard that made something of himself.

Wow man, you have a very screwy life.

Congratulations on the engagement and all, but making such a big deal about an internet forum is ridiculous.

[QUOTE=apromisingyear]I wasn't going to make a big deal out of it or anything.

What happened was...

I was posting back and fourth with you guys.
[B]She called.[/B]
We talked as I was finishing a post.
I said (to my self/under my breath) you fu[SIZE=2]ck[/SIZE]ers (i was refering to someone being very clever...cant remember who exactly)
She said, "what? I didn't here you"
I said I was talking to myself and she asked "what are you doing babe? whats wrong"
I said i was just sitting here arguing with people on a forum.
She I asked why
I told her why

THEN she wanted specifics. [B]we promised to always be honest with each other[/B] so I said we were arguing about our engagement. She asked what are they saying and I said that you guys were talking s[SIZE=2]hi[/SIZE]t about our relationship, her, and I.

she wanted a link but we argreed to have me read some "choice" posts.


I didn't ruin her self-confidence because we have patched it up (for the most part).[/QUOTE]

how cute

[B]Ikik:[/b]

Maybe...but...this is weird...him telling her about this...

[b]Nacho:[/b]

I think manipulative might be a spot on description...

[b]John:[/b]

At 16 you'd think he'd have the sense not to say anything to Jessica...but I could be wrong...

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]
[b]John:[/b]

At 16 you'd think he'd have the sense not to say anything to Jessica...but I could be wrong...[/QUOTE]

I had the sense to know what to keep to myself when I was a pre-teen.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive][B]Ikik:[/b]

Maybe...but...this is weird...him telling her about this...
[/quote]
Maybe?

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]
[b]John:[/b]

At 16 you'd think he'd have the sense not to say anything to Jessica...but I could be wrong...[/QUOTE]

Perhaps lying requires more brainpower than he can muster.

[QUOTE=ikikdababy]



Perhaps lying requires more brainpower than he can muster.[/QUOTE]

"Do you have any fireworks in your car?"

"Yes"

....


Da[SIZE=2]mn[/SIZE]it! I always get that one wrong!"

This is like what happened to Murray. :lol:

I wonder if murray's thread is in the MX history thread? :amaze:

[QUOTE=Tom]"Do you have any fireworks in your car?"

"Yes"

....


Da[SIZE=2]mn[/SIZE]it! I always get that one wrong!"[/QUOTE]

Uncle Jimbo is in the house...

hide the beer.

[QUOTE=jimmybowels]I had the sense to know what to keep to myself when I was a [b]pre-teen[/b].[/QUOTE]

Hah for the pre-teen remark...

I don't mean him any ill will...I just am having a hard time understanding why one would tell someone that they purport to love about insults on the internet. And make that big of a deal about it.

[QUOTE=ikikdababy]Uncle Jimbo is in the house...

hide the beer.[/QUOTE]

:cool:

[QUOTE=jimmybowels]She didn't ask why you were telling strangers who had previously collectively made fun of you about your engagement?[/QUOTE]

After I proposed we talked later that night and she wanted to tell all our friends/family and whoever else we knew.

I have a feature in my cellphone's voicemail which enables you to send a voicemail to EVERYONE in your phone at once so we recorded a voicemessage and sent it out to everyone in both our phones...told our family, told everyone we left out.

Then we were talking and she asked is that it... I replied "yeah, i think so, what about you?" and she replied, "yeah, thats it"

After a slight pause she said, "hey!, post it in the forum your always on". I asked which one. She said, "the one about music and guitars". I said, "oh that one".
So she thought it would be great to let everyone on the forum know.

We weren't trying to make it into as big of a deal is evolved into. Just a simple, "hey! im getting married" thread and thats it...not a history of me on MX and all this attention.

She was just excited and wanted to let everyone know.


The funny thing is, indians of this generation (at least where we live) are pretty supportive of it. They are supportive because 1. She's, "doing the right thing" and getting married at a tender age and the "americanized indians are supportive/happy because 2. She's getting married to a person of non-indian descent. Breaking the mold in this regions indian society. Very happy indians... :lol: it gets a little creepy after awhile... :amaze:

It would have went over well if you were say, 27, 28 years old.

Not 16, that's just stupid, you should be walking around asking people if you can mow their lawns for money, not getting married to some bitch that you will be stuck with for the rest of your life.

Think of it, you only had 16 years of freedom.

[QUOTE=apromisingyear]I showed her that the only opinions that should matter are her own and mine.[/QUOTE]
So, you tell her that things are always okay if [I]you [/I]say they are? That your terribly flawed judgement is to be trusted to guide her through your inevitably short-lived marriage, over the opinions of the thousands of other people in her life?

Not only are you a manipulative bast[font=]ard[/font], but if she believed a word of what you said, the idiot deserves nothing better.

about the lying remarks...

she asked. we promised truth so I said we were all arguing...

i didn't just call her and go, "these people are talking **** omfg" or anything like that. she called...she asked me...

lol pags

Seriously, I'm telling you now, this is a decision you will regret.

Come back with a new thread two months after you get married and prove me otherwise.

If I got engaged, I would post it here in my spare time. I mean, if I was that happy, I'd be telling random strangers on the street :lol:

But I know better than to fuc[b][i][/i][/b]king get married at 16!

[QUOTE=Rrrrrrr]So, you tell her that things are always okay if [I]you [/I]say they are? That your terribly flawed judgement is to be trusted to guide her through your inevitably short-lived marriage, over the opinions of the thousands of other people in her life?

Not only are you a manipulative bast[font=]ard[/font], but if she believed a word of what you said, the idiot deserves nothing better.[/QUOTE]

i wonder if they didn't meet in the special ed. class...

[QUOTE=Rrrrrrr]So, you tell her that things are always okay if [I]you [/I]say they are? That your terribly flawed judgement is to be trusted to guide her through your inevitably short-lived marriage, over the opinions of the thousands of other people in her life?

Not only are you a manipulative bast[font=]ard[/font], but if she believed a word of what you said, the idiot deserves nothing better.[/QUOTE]

our age shouldn't mean anything about the quality/lenth/whatever of our marriage. We pave our own way. We handle our issues, we make it through.

We have been discussing all the future changes (long term and short). She doesn't resent her answer to my proposal. She's happy, I happy. Thats all that should matter right? as long as people our happy?

[QUOTE=BlindWriting]Come back with a new thread two months after you get married and prove me otherwise.[/QUOTE]

deal. :)

[QUOTE=apromisingyear]our age shouldn't mean anything about the quality/lenth/whatever of our marriage. We pave our own way. We handle our issues, we make it through.

We have been discussing all the future changes (long term and short). She doesn't resent her answer to my proposal. She's happy, I happy. Thats all that should matter right? as long as people our happy?[/QUOTE]

Hindsight is going to kick your *** so hard.

Plz remember us when things do go bad. Come back and make a thread about it.

[QUOTE=apromisingyear]our age shouldn't mean anything about the quality/lenth/whatever of our marriage. We pave our own way. We handle our issues, we make it through.

We have been discussing all the future changes (long term and short). She doesn't resent her answer to my proposal. She's happy, I happy. Thats all that should matter right? as long as people our happy?[/QUOTE]
u happy? i our happy too!

you never told us what your main source of income is going to be. unless i missed it. Please explain in great detail

1/3, you a straight-up fu[size=2]ck[/size]ing Italian Frank Paganini.

[QUOTE=apromisingyear]about the lying remarks...

she asked. we promised truth so I said we were all arguing...

i didn't just call her and go, "these people are talking **** omfg" or anything like that. she called...she asked me...[/QUOTE]

I have this to say about that...and you will acquire this very important knowledge when you are older (hopefully)...

Sometimes "omission" is not lying. It's protecting someone whom you think may be hurt by others' comments. Especially if the "someone" is not exactly secure with herself. Before you spout off and hork up unnecessary details you need to think about how she might feel, first. Unless, of course, you are really that manipulative.

Again, the internet is not important business unless you're playing the stock market online. And this means that any comments others might have to offer aren't really important in the scheme of life.

You understand my take on this, do you not? You may have hurt her without reason by letting her know what the population of MX thought. Hurt her without reason.

Unless, you both are digging this sort of controversy...

[QUOTE=Solos_are_Mandatory]u happy? i our happy too!

you never told us what your main source of income is going to be. unless i missed it. Please explain in great detail[/QUOTE]
He's going to sell off the 30,000 CDs he ended up really buying.

That and anal sex in dark alleys.

[QUOTE=Stone Cold Bush]1/3, you a straight-up fu[size=2]ck[/size]ing Italian Frank Paganini.[/QUOTE]
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your russian and german ancestors should be ashamed. As should your italian ones, but for different reasons.