[QUOTE=Tillius]We are all those things.

Except we're unregistered in psychiatry.[/QUOTE]

how are you my mum?

[QUOTE=ProSeries]Ummmm...look on the bright side, you did get some.
Wait...did you!?[/QUOTE]
Nope, I didn't. I've only slept with one girl, which was my fourth and last girlfriend. I try to avoid it actually, unless I'm sure I'm going to last awhile with that girl.

[QUOTE=jessy rabbit]yeah i talk to my friends, my mum is cool but she loves my ex so she's no help lol. and a psychiatrist? i'm not crazy yet :)[/QUOTE]

Lol. Your mum loves your ex?
Call Jerry Springer.

[QUOTE=Wizard.]Nope, I didn't. I've only slept with one girl, which was my fourth and last girlfriend. I try to avoid it actually, unless I'm sure I'm going to last awhile with that girl.[/QUOTE]

Experience is always good.
>.>
<.<

[QUOTE=jessy rabbit]yeah i talk to my friends, my mum is cool but she loves my ex so she's no help lol. and a psychiatrist? i'm not crazy yet :)[/QUOTE]
Wouldn't your mom kinda team up with you no matter what, though?

[QUOTE=jessy rabbit]yeah. i'm trying to be stronger now though! i used to be kinda dependent on him in a way, so that's why it's been pretty hard. all this advice has been good though. :)[/QUOTE]

Think of this experience as a lesson learned the hard way. There are a lot of men out there who are mentally and emotionally unstable. They abuse and take for granted people close to them and refuse to accept any help. You cannot change other people, least of all these types.

That's not to say this experience should sour you to men. It's just a spectrum. On the lower end, there's the guys who cheat and manipulate. On the upper end, there are the men who become the love of your life. It just takes a little more trying to get the latter.

You just need to watch out and never be afraid to call them on second-class (or no-class) behavior at any time.

yeah but there's too much to tell her. she just found out that i wasn't a virgin the other month, i don't want to pile too much on her at once. besides my friends are a good help. and my mum loves him as a sort of son lol

[QUOTE=ProSeries]But we are strangers..it's always easier pouring your heart out to people you know, and that to, in person.[/QUOTE]

actually, sometimes it's easier talking to strangers.

[QUOTE=jessy rabbit]yeah but there's too much to tell her. she just found out that i wasn't a virgin the other month, i don't want to pile too much on her at once. besides my friends are a good help. and my mum loves him as a sort of son lol[/QUOTE]

Why didn't you say so. Call Jerry Springer incase, though...

[QUOTE=jessy rabbit]yeah but there's too much to tell her. she just found out that i wasn't a virgin the other month, i don't want to pile too much on her at once. besides my friends are a good help. and my mum loves him as a sort of son lol[/QUOTE]

Another clear demonstration of just how manipulative this guy is. She needs to know just what this guy has been doing, one way or another. Don't hold back for fear of burdening her. She's a parent, that's her job.

[QUOTE=jessy rabbit]actually, sometimes it's easier talking to strangers.[/QUOTE]

That's cause this is the internet. You're not face to face. It's much easier. If we met up with you in person, you'd be running scared.

[QUOTE=Steerpike]She's a parent, that's her job.[/QUOTE]

Exactly.

[QUOTE=ProSeries]That's cause this is the internet. You're not face to face. It's much easier. If we met up with you in person, you'd be running scared.[/QUOTE]

well, talking to a computer with strangers on it is easier then

[QUOTE=jessy rabbit]yeah but there's too much to tell her. she just found out that i wasn't a virgin the other month, i don't want to pile too much on her at once. besides my friends are a good help. and my mum loves him as a sort of son lol[/QUOTE]
Yeah, but you're her ACTUAL daughter.

[QUOTE=jessy rabbit]well, talking to a computer with strangers on it is easier then[/QUOTE]

Yeah, I guess. But not everyone is honest like they claim. Especially on the internet..

i know, but she confuses me and keeps asking me about it afterwards when i just wanna sort things out for myself. if i really need to talk to her, i will, but this seems a bit trivial and she might brush it off as a silly teenage thing.

[QUOTE=ProSeries]No, not really. But getting cheated on with 3 guys within 4 months and not getting some is quite an accomplishment.[/QUOTE]
She tried to get me to have sex with her, but I wouldn't. Probably one of the reasons she dumped me, that, and me getting pissed at her over one of the guys. I didn't know she slept with others until afterwards.

[QUOTE=ProSeries]Experience is always good.
>.>
<.<[/QUOTE]
The way I see it, sex is something very special you only share with people you truly love. I wouldn't have sex with someone for fun, or for experience.

shes mostly concerned that i do well in my exams right now as well

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]That's funnier than [size=2]f[/size]uck.

:lol:[/QUOTE]


yea, its my belief that this litte factoid led to the perm banning


Surprisingly, 2 people totally supported my request for a account merger. The crazy thing is, its not like i talk to those people frequently. Apparently they approve of my posting habbits, and find the incident be extremely isolated as i stated in that respective thread.


"Im just a victim of circumstance" :lol:


damn that would make a good UT


/changes

[QUOTE=Wizard.]She tried to get me to have sex with her, but I wouldn't. Probably one of the reasons she dumped me, that, and me getting pissed at her over one of the guys. I didn't know she slept with others until afterwards.


The way I see it, sex is something very special you only share with people you truly love. I wouldn't have sex with someone for fun, or for experience.[/QUOTE]

Sigh, that's what they all say. All them hypocrits. I'm not saying that you're lying. But I've seen so many guys/girls who claim that they'll wait for the person they truely love, but just succumb to temptation, or just were saying that to attract attention and thus, eventually get laid.

And in todays generation, having experience is a good trait, which women and men alike look for...

EDIT: There's a big difference between having a one night stand with a slut, and having sex with a girl you've been with for a while. You did the right thing not having sex with that slut, though. As long as you and your girlfriend/s agree to having consunsual sex, there's nothing wrong with that.

[QUOTE=Wizard.]She tried to get me to have sex with her, but I wouldn't. Probably one of the reasons she dumped me, that, and me getting pissed at her over one of the guys. I didn't know she slept with others until afterwards.


The way I see it, sex is something very special you only share with people you truly love. I wouldn't have sex with someone for fun, or for experience.[/QUOTE]
You're commendable. I praise you.:thumb:

What is a slut classified as anyways?

[QUOTE=jessy rabbit]What is a slut classified as anyways?[/QUOTE]

Look to pick up guys for sex, and sex only. They are like whores, but they don't take money.

[QUOTE=Che Guevara]
"Im just a victim of circumstance" :lol:


damn that would make a good UT


/changes[/QUOTE]

Nice work.

:D

[QUOTE=ProSeries]They are like whores, but they don't take money.[/QUOTE]

Oh i didn't know that was the difference between them. i don't know any sluts or whores i don't think, or at least i'm not friendly with any. there is a girl called zoe in my year at school who got payed £50 to have sex with her ex's dad, who was something like 52. and this was last year, and she was 15.

[QUOTE=jessy rabbit]Oh i didn't know that was the difference between them. i don't know any sluts or whores i don't think, or at least i'm not friendly with any. there is a girl called zoe in my year at school who got payed £50 to have sex with her ex's dad, who was something like 52. and this was last year, and she was 15.[/QUOTE]

Well, sluts are more complex than I can explain. Some do it because guys are rich. That girl you speak of, is just headed to becoming a full time whore...

[QUOTE=ProSeries]Sigh, that's what they all say. All them hypocrits. I'm not saying that you're lying. But I've seen so many guys/girls who claim that they'll wait for the person they truely love, but just succumb to temptation, or just were saying that to attract attention and thus, eventually get laid.

And in todays generation, having experience is a good trait, which women and men alike look for...

EDIT: There's a big difference between having a one night stand with a slut, and having sex with a girl you've been with for a while. You did the right thing not having sex with that slut, though. As long as you and your girlfriend/s agree to having consunsual sex, there's nothing wrong with that.[/QUOTE]
I don't see anything wrong with it, if that's what those people want to do. I just don't want to have sex with someone that I'm not entirely sure about, just because she's my current girlfriend.

And I'm not waiting for a single person. I'll have sex, as long as I love the person. I don't believe in anything like "one true love" or anything. It's possibly to fall in love many times.

Also, I'm straightedge, and the label helps me from running into any situations I don't want to give into, and sort of reinforces my backbone so I'm not talked into things. Because as you can tell, I'm not the most willed individual when it comes to other people, especially girls. :-/

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Nice work.

:D[/QUOTE]


its actually an OLD 3 stooges quote, in case you didnt pick up on that :thumb:

i agree.

[QUOTE=Che Guevara]its actually an OLD 3 stooges quote, in case you didnt pick up on that :thumb:[/QUOTE]

I didn't actually. Thanks.

as this has gone off the point a bit, can anyone tell me how long it takes for these relationship things to all straighten out?

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]I didn't actually. Thanks.[/QUOTE]

so you're still stuck with the L&R gig eh