[quote=Chrysostom]Wut? That was Deutsch right? Where was the 'e' on the end?[/quote]

Wouldst Thou grant me somewhere between two and a thousand pardons for such a malogamous oversight?...

Kimmie, his definition of "spam-lite" must be different than mine.

I don't care if you know him personally, but this is L&R, and I can't just any user come on here, ellipses or not, and post crap that has absolutely nothing do with with L or R.

He can tra-la-la on RockThis where nobody cares, but I can't make any exceptions to the rules for you or anyone else.

EDIT: Fine, fine. Whatever. Surely he has other ways of ...-ing you other than through here, where I couldn't care less for it.

[QUOTE=Jom]Kimmie, his definition of "spam-lite" must be different than mine.

I don't care if you know him personally, but this is L&R, and I can't just any user come on here, ellipses or not, and post crap that has absolutely nothing do with with L or R.[/QUOTE]

I'm sorry. I told him that conversations were permitted off topic when it was slow in here and we had no problems to address. I didn't mean for him to pull a Doug.

Please accept my apologies.

[QUOTE=got tool?]Ok so i asked this girl to my school's junior prom, and her answer was that she would think about it. Good or bad?[/QUOTE]
Just so you know, whenever I answer somebody with "I'll think about it," it means that I don't want to hurt her feelings by saying no.

Funnily enough it only actually came up once, eight and a half years ago, where the girl in question took it to mean yes... not one of my better memories.

So don't get your hopes up too high... just wait and see, like they say. If she says yes, fantastic. But be prepared for her to say no.

chill guys - chill.

to got tool?:

when someone says something like that - like mmfan said, yea, possibly a definate no m8. unless she is going to go talk to her girly friends about it and do eachothers hair while gossiping. but who knows. just presume not.

Well, she is known to be a nice person...so i guess it's probably just a kind no.

At least i tried.

So im back.


This is really destined_for

I got a username change. So whats going on?

Hi Jon. What's up with you?

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Hi Jon. What's up with you?[/QUOTE]



Nothing really. You?

Ugh, don't ask.

How come you got your name changed?

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Ugh, don't ask.

How come you got your name changed?[/QUOTE]


i didnt like the old one. and it really didnt make sense.


So hows life?

Life's okay.

Been kinda slow in here today.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Life's okay.

Been kinda slow in here today.[/QUOTE]


Ya. It seems like it.


Life isnt too good for me right now.

i prefered you're other username m8. lol. go change it back.

[QUOTE=~grif~]i prefered you're other username m8. lol. go change it back.[/QUOTE]


Oh lol.


My username right now is my nickname.

[QUOTE=JohnnyT]Oh lol.


My username right now is my nickname.[/QUOTE]
yea my username is my nickname. thought it just made sense :)

[QUOTE=JohnnyT]Ya. It seems like it.


Life isnt too good for me right now.[/QUOTE]

Why?

[QUOTE=Route 1]True. But, sex can change things for the worst in some situations.[/QUOTE]

Very true, but I am awesome and infinitely wise so it has never had negative ramifications.

[QUOTE=Eggo]Very true, but I am awesome and infinitely wise so it has never had negative ramifications.[/QUOTE]

You forgot modest. :p

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Why?[/QUOTE]


the marrying thing.

Oh.

That's apt to bother you for awhile.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]You forgot modest. :p[/QUOTE]

Modesty is only for those who are afraid of offending people they don't care about.

[QUOTE=Eggo]Modesty is only for those who are afraid of offending people they don't care about.[/QUOTE]


See me in 20 years and tell me that same thing.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Oh.

That's apt to bother you for awhile.[/QUOTE]


yep.

not much L&R tonight is there =|

Not much at all.

I can always make up stories or something.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]See me in 20 years and tell me that same thing.[/QUOTE]

okay=)

Like THAT'S never happened before.

EDIT: To Jom.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Like THAT'S never happened before.

EDIT: To Jom.[/QUOTE]

Haha, you're so bitter about that. Hahahahahaha.

I never quite figured out why the sexual urge of men and women differ so much. And I never have figured out the whole Venus and Mars thing. I have never figured out why men think with their head and women with their heart.

For example: one evening last week, my girlfriend and I were getting into bed.

Well, the passion starts to heat up, and she eventually says "I don't feel like it, I just want you to hold me."

I said "What?! What did you say?"

So she says the words that every boyfriend on the planet dreads to hear: "You're just not in touch with my emotional needs as a woman enough for me to satisfy your physical needs as a man." She responded to my puzzled look by saying, "Can't you just love me for who I am and not what I do for you in the bedroom?"

Realizing that nothing was going to happen that night, I went to sleep.

The very next day I opted to take the day off of work to spend time with her. We went out to a nice lunch and then went shopping at a big, unnamed store. I walked around with her while she tried on several different very expensive outfits. She couldn't decide which one to take so I told her we'd just buy them all. She wanted new shoes to compliment her new clothes, so I said lets get a pair for each outfit. We went onto the jewelry department where she picked out a pair of diamond earrings. Let me tell you... she was so excited. She must have thought I was one wave short of a shipwreck. I started to think she was testing me because she asked for a tennis bracelet when she doesn't even know how to play tennis. I think I threw her for a loop when I said, "That's fine, honey." She was almost nearing sexual satisfaction from all of the excitement. Smiling with excited anticipation she finally said, "I think this is all, dear, let's go to the cashier."

I could hardly contain myself when I blurted out, "No honey, I don't feel like it."

Her face just went completely blank as her jaw dropped with a baffled "WHAT?!"

I then said "Honey! I just want you to HOLD this stuff for a while. You're just not in touch with my financial needs as a man enough for me to satisfy your shopping needs as a woman." And just when she had this look like she was going to kill me, I added, "Why can't you just love me for who I am and not for the things I buy you?"

Apparently I'm not having sex tonight either...

... but at least that bitch knows I'm smarter than her.

(wooooo @ mySpace bulletins)

Alright here's my situation:
My girlfriend means the world to me, we've been dating for a year. And without her, I don't even know what would happen to me. But here's her only downfall. She gets mad at her mom all the time. And when she gets mad at her mom, she takes it out on me. Or just if she's having a bad day, she takes it out on me. Like one day, this one girl was mad at her or something, and she was really pissed off. So I wanted to do something with her, so I call her and ask her if she wants to do anything that night. So I can already tell she's in a bad mood by the way she says " hello ". So I ask her" what's wrong with you ". And so she tells me " Nothing, but why are you always butting into my business. Maybe I don't want to tell you EVERYTHING about my life! ". And then she hung up on me. And she just gets into bitch mode like that often. And no she doesen't have abnormal periods. Haha. But I can tell that she loves me because by the end of the day we end up making out anyways. =) hehe. But anyways I'm kinda getting tired of it. And I don't want to come out and say it, because I have a feeling she'll go bitch mode on me. And most likely break up with me, but I dunno. Any advice?

[QUOTE=Sabian4015]Alright here's my situation:
My girlfriend means the world to me, we've been dating for a year. And without her, I don't even know what would happen to me. But here's her only downfall. She gets mad at her mom all the time. And when she gets mad at her mom, she takes it out on me. Or just if she's having a bad day, she takes it out on me. Like one day, this one girl was mad at her or something, and she was really pissed off. So I wanted to do something with her, so I call her and ask her if she wants to do anything that night. So I can already tell she's in a bad mood by the way she says " hello ". So I ask her" what's wrong with you ". And so she tells me " Nothing, but why are you always butting into my business. Maybe I don't want to tell you EVERYTHING about my life! ". And then she hung up on me. And she just gets into bitch mode like that often. And no she doesen't have abnormal periods. Haha. But I can tell that she loves me because by the end of the day we end up making out anyways. =) hehe. But anyways I'm kinda getting tired of it. And I don't want to come out and say it, because I have a feeling she'll go bitch mode on me. And most likely break up with me, but I dunno. Any advice?[/QUOTE]

Funny, this was mentioned here by someone else earlier today.

Unless you come out and say it I think you're probably doomed. She does that to you because you're allowing her to. She'll keep doing it until you stop allowing it.

Girls make me go hmm
because of their actions of wanting to get attention confuses the male, and thus, leads the male into thinking he is doing the right thing and ends up hurting the female.
Such example as follows

Are you sure you are ok about us breaking up
Yes

And the guy gets a new gf

OMG IT HURTS IM CRYING

You said you were ok, a lot of times that I asked

YOU DONT CARE

I care a lot, and I asked you so many times if you are okay and you said yes, like there was no worry in your head


Why do they do this, they are only hurting themselves, and am I wrong for getting another girlfriend?
It kills me, because I am not a guy who just walks out of someones life, I care, a lot.

I saw you posted this in another thread.

Is this for real?

Nah, you're not wrong for getting another girlfriend - she's just unstable after she realizes that you're with someone new. It's like going into singledom shock or something.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]I saw you posted this in another thread.

Is this for real?[/QUOTE]
Yeah, I posted it in the "what makes you think" thread, and someone suggested to post it in here.
This recently happened to me and I dont know how to handle it.

Still have feelings for the X, strongly

[QUOTE=RahXephoN]Yeah, I posted it in the "what makes you think" thread, and someone suggested to post it in here.
This recently happened to me and I dont know how to handle it.

Still have feelings for the X, strongly[/QUOTE]

Seems like she has feelings for you too. It can't be worked out?

wow sooo much has happened in the past few days, but i don't feel like typing it all out

basically, i got into some [b]very[/b] unneeded drama aand even though i do know its pointless and stupid aaand i know it will pass (like all drama) its so friggen annoying

My whole life i had avoided drama like the plauge and i was happy, but i stupidly got myself into it.....


oooh welll

[QUOTE=thunderzstruck]wow sooo much has happened in the past few days, but i don't feel like typing it all out

basically, i got into some [b]very[/b] unneeded drama aand even though i do know its pointless and stupid aaand i know it will pass (like all drama) its so friggen annoying

My whole life i had avoided drama like the plauge and i was happy, but i stupidly got myself into it.....


oooh welll[/QUOTE]

What's the point in posting this if you're not going to tell us? You can't just be like "Derr developments but I'm not gonna post them derr." :p

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Seems like she has feelings for you too. It can't be worked out?[/QUOTE]
I tried to work it out while I was single and she was, but she acted like meh, like I can tell she had feelings, but I sorta saw them slipping away to a friendship type feelings. I tried to get close again but I dont know if I did something wrong, its all too confusing.
I think I should stay with where I am at now, ya know

I already broke up with the current gf to give the X a try, I dont think I wanna do it again. Its more painful to me and it is to them.