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Junooni 03-13-2006 11:08 PM

Ask her to prom.

Chaindrive 03-13-2006 11:10 PM

Ask her to prokm. Fuggit, I'm gonna leave the styupid typos in. This key baorrd is the work of th4e devil.

Either that, or ,ma nails are too damned long.

Whichever.

Ask her to pro9m. If she says no, then write the ltter.

Jom 03-13-2006 11:11 PM

Just ask her.

[quote=Kimmie]/a bunch of garbage[/quote]

Translation:

Ask her to prom. Fuc[font=verdana]k[/font] it, I'm gonna leave the stupid typos in. This keyboard is the work of the devil.

Either that or my nails are too damned long.

Whichever.

Ask her to prom. If she says no, then write the letter.

dazmo 03-13-2006 11:12 PM

ASK HER:) good luck, and we expect stories and what not

Chaindrive 03-13-2006 11:19 PM

You'd think I was drunk, but this keyboard is one of those ergo, aero, whateverthe[size=2]f[/size]ucko keyboards, and I can't get enough speed on it to type properly.

Hence tyhe garbage...

FA 03-13-2006 11:26 PM

[QUOTE=NachoChez]Translation:

One would assume I was under the influence of alcohol, but the reason my posts are so ridden with typos is because the keyboard I am currently employing is an ergonomic one, and the way it is designed makes it difficult for me to correctly type.

Thus, the astonishing amount of typos you see in my posts.[/QUOTE]

:lol:

ps: she's drunk.

IPolkaLikeThis! 03-13-2006 11:39 PM

Im not really having any problems worthy to post on the L&R thread, but I like the ergonomic keyboards. during the week, i use a normal one, and on the weekend, when i visit my grandparrents and use my grandpa's computer, I have to use his ergonomic one. it takes a few minutes, but I get used to it fast.

Chaindrive 03-14-2006 12:20 AM

[QUOTE=NachoChez]Translation:

One would assume I was under the influence of alcohol, but the reason my posts are so ridden with typos is because the keyboard I am currently employing is an ergonomic one, and the way it is designed makes it difficult for me to correctly type.

Thus, the astonishing amount of typos you see in my posts.[/QUOTE]

fu. :p

[quote=justinhuges2]ps: she's drunk.[/quote]

fu2. :p

It's just one of those really close to the body keyboards...to where I have no leverage...or what ev er...

dazmo 03-14-2006 12:33 AM

lol, my keybored-rolly-thing (it pulls my keyboard from under my desk) broke a couple of days ago, and for a couple of days i had to have the keyboard on my lap. wasnt too bad

King 03-14-2006 12:41 AM

Is it kinda fu[SIZE="2"]c[/SIZE]ked up that I like this one girl so much that I'm getting thin so that she'll find me more attractive? Seeing as I don't even know if she likes me in the first place and she seems to have an interest in almost everyone that I know that is thin. Is she worth it? I've gone out with her once before shortly and I kinda screwed it up I think. Anyways yeah, this girl is all I think about every day and I've really liked her pretty much since I've met her which was about....4 years ago. I've been getting the wierdest mood swings and I have the most savagely unhealthy body self-image I've ever had, probably why I'm having problems with my goal. I'm wondering if I should just lose weight more for me than for her.

Chaindrive 03-14-2006 12:45 AM

Well, here I am back in action.

My keyboard kicks some serious assinine.

:D

yeah.

dazmo 03-14-2006 12:46 AM

not eating = mood swings?

trying to get thin is good, but unless you are obese and/or trying to get in shape, then it probably isnt that good for you. when you say get thin, do you mean get thin like buff, but not fat, or just try to get thin. because 2 things

1. Not eating makes you look too skinny and weak, and unnatractive, not to mention how bad it is for you

2. chicks dont [I]really[/I] dig skinny guys, no matter what you think, they like strong guys (i'm not strong:p)

sorry for being a bit brutal

frkn'loud 03-14-2006 12:49 AM

Is it just me, but, after you break up with your girlfriend, she always seems so much more attractive?

Steerpike 03-14-2006 01:07 AM

[QUOTE=King]Is it kinda fu[SIZE="2"]c[/SIZE]ked up that I like this one girl so much that I'm getting thin so that she'll find me more attractive?[/quote]

I'm not quite sure how to react yet.

Are we talking healthy thin, or emo kid thin?

[quote]Seeing as I don't even know if she likes me in the first place and she seems to have an interest in almost everyone that I know that is thin. Is she worth it? I've gone out with her once before shortly and I kinda screwed it up I think. Anyways yeah, this girl is all I think about every day and I've really liked her pretty much since I've met her which was about....4 years ago. I've been getting the wierdest mood swings and I have the most savagely unhealthy body self-image I've ever had, probably why I'm having problems with my goal. I'm wondering if I should just lose weight more for me than for her.[/QUOTE]

1. Stop internalizing everyone else perceptions of you.
2. Internalize your own self image and make sure you're happy about it. Any problems you need to work on, work on them and be happy with that.
3. Don't be needy.
4. Don't act like a woman's girlfriend. Act like evolution tells you to: like a man, as cliche as that sounds.
5. Learn to let go. Four years? Holy sh[size=2]i[/size]t, dude.

Steerpike 03-14-2006 01:11 AM

[QUOTE=dazmo]2. chicks dont [I]really[/I] dig skinny guys, no matter what you think, they like strong guys (i'm not strong:p)[/QUOTE]

In my opinion the women who go after those scrawny emo kids don't actually find that attractive. They're suffering from the feminine delusion that goes something like this:

"Hmm, this guy has lots and lots of faults, but I feel strangely attracted to him anyway because he behaves differently from other men. Maybe, just maybe, there's some good in him. I can be the one to heal his wounds and bring out the Prince Charming inside of him!"

Naturally, it's all bullsh[size=2]i[/size]t. It's the flipside of the coin to where men think that by acting sycophantic chivalrous to extremes with women, they'll [i]eventually[/i] get a happily ever after. Neither assumption could be farther from the truth.

King 03-14-2006 01:23 AM

I mean like healthy thin. I'm thinking moreso that I want to have a healthy body self-image and if she likes it, and makes it obvious, then so be it. If not then she ain't worth it. That's my angle to it.

dazmo 03-14-2006 01:26 AM

you should work out, then challenge the weak klids to arm wrestles

btw chicks like me coz im cute:p

The Profit of Maine 03-14-2006 06:33 AM

Hey Mom!

[url]http://www.musicianforums.com/forums/showpost.php?p=11717174&postcount=2137[/url]

Special Brew 03-14-2006 09:10 AM

[QUOTE=Fire Whispers]Damien: Jom's avatar is Andrew W.K[/QUOTE]
I knew it! =o

I thought I was the only guy who liked him!

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Your momma dropped you on your head when you were a baby...amirite?[/QUOTE]
Actually... my older cousin did... down stairs... :upset:

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Ask her to prokm. Fuggit, I'm gonna leave the styupid typos in. This key baorrd is the work of th4e devil.

Either that, or ,ma nails are too damned long.

Whichever.

Ask her to pro9m. If she says no, then write the ltter.[/QUOTE]
lmao, ilu Kimmie
[QUOTE=dazmo]2. chicks dont [I]really[/I] dig skinny guys, no matter what you think, they like strong guys (i'm not strong:p)[/QUOTE]
Not true. And you can be fit and thin. It's not only scene kids that are into overly skinny guys either. Some girls just have different tastes. Being fit always is a plus though.

FVG27 03-14-2006 10:08 AM

[QUOTE=Wizard.]I knew it! =o

I thought I was the only guy who liked him!


Actually... my older cousin did... down stairs... :upset:


lmao, ilu Kimmie

Not true. And you can be fit and thin. It's not only scene kids that are into overly skinny guys either. Some girls just have different tastes. Being fit always is a plus though.[/QUOTE]
Every girl is different. Personally, I'm not too keen on really scrawny guys and on the other extreme obesity doesn't do much for me either.
To the guy in question: make sure you're getting [B]fit[/B] as opposed to [B]thin[/B].

Special Brew 03-14-2006 10:11 AM

What she said, fit not thin. You'll be so much more successful if your fit as opposed to scrawny.

Yeah, I know, blank post.

Chaindrive 03-14-2006 11:29 AM

[QUOTE=The Profit of Maine]Hey Mom!

[url]http://www.musicianforums.com/forums/showpost.php?p=11717174&postcount=2137[/url][/QUOTE]

Sorry, son, I didn't see this last night.

If you're not sleeping, eating, breathing this girl then it's not really love. And probably won't ever be. The fact that you get sick of her tells me that to pursue a life with her would be disastrous.

Leave it, and move on.

Jonny 03-14-2006 11:43 AM

Guys, today was better. I just didn't look at her or talk to her unless I had to, and I felt so much better. :)

Chaindrive 03-14-2006 11:46 AM

[QUOTE=Jonzey]Guys, today was better. I just didn't look at her or talk to her unless I had to, and I felt so much better. :)[/QUOTE]

You've found your solution, then. :)

Aakon_Keetreh 03-14-2006 11:49 AM

So i talked to her and she gave me the reasons why.

It was mostly how she really didnt love me. She thought she did but she didnt apparently. And She said that she doesnt want to live with me. Basically she just doesnt love me. She also said that she can not marry somebody that she doesnt love, which i can understand. But oh well. Im just gonna let go..... :(

Chaindrive 03-14-2006 11:51 AM

[QUOTE=Destined_for]So i talked to her and she gave me the reasons why.

It was mostly how she really didnt love me. She thought she did but she didnt apparently. And She said that she doesnt want to live with me. Basically she just doesnt love me. She also said that she can not marry somebody that she doesnt love, which i can understand. But oh well. Im just gonna let go..... :([/QUOTE]

Oh, Jon...I'm so sorry.

I admire her honesty, though.

*hugs*

drunkoveryou 03-14-2006 11:52 AM

[QUOTE=King]Is it kinda fu[SIZE="2"]c[/SIZE]ked up that I like this one girl so much that I'm getting thin so that she'll find me more attractive? Seeing as I don't even know if she likes me in the first place and she seems to have an interest in almost everyone that I know that is thin. Is she worth it? I've gone out with her once before shortly and I kinda screwed it up I think. Anyways yeah, this girl is all I think about every day and I've really liked her pretty much since I've met her which was about....4 years ago. I've been getting the wierdest mood swings and I have the most savagely unhealthy body self-image I've ever had, probably why I'm having problems with my goal. I'm wondering if I should just lose weight more for me than for her.[/QUOTE]

if it gives you more motivation, then hell yeah you can work out and get in shape with the goal of impressing her. nobody here is above impressing poeple, and if they say otherwise they are lying. and if you are unhealthy right now, this is oging to improve your life. you'll be happier about yourself, you'll be giving off good vibes and other girls will notice that too..... you will probably meet somebody you like more, and it will all work out for you in the end.

Aakon_Keetreh 03-14-2006 11:55 AM

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Oh, Jon...I'm so sorry.

I admire her honesty, though.

*hugs*[/QUOTE]


Thanks Kimmie. We have always had great trust with each other. We were always straight up with each other. So know this is for real. But i will be okay. give me a few months and ill be good as new. I am feeling okay right now because i know this was not meant to be. But these next few months will be hard.

Thaks for ur support everybody. :)

allalone 03-14-2006 12:10 PM

You know, it's been over 2 months and I still miss this girl. I always feel different about her each day. Like sometimes I'll get pissed at her or other times I miss her. It's always different. But I still always think about her. Is this normal? I don't know.

We were so close. And now we barely even talk, but I seriously think about her like every night. I still wonder if she ever thinks about me anymore or anything. I don't even know what's going on in her head anymore.

Part of me wants her to come back into my life, and part of me is, I don't know, pissed off at her for just leaving me out in the cold like that and I just... I don't know, don't want her to have me again because of what she did. For her to know that that was the decision she made and this was the consequence she gets for it. But I miss her.:(

Chaindrive 03-14-2006 12:13 PM

[QUOTE=allalone]You know, it's been over 2 months and I still miss this girl. I always feel different about her each day. Like sometimes I'll get pissed at her or other times I miss her. It's always different. But I still always think about her. Is this normal? I don't know.

We were so close. And now we barely even talk, but I seriously think about her like every night. I still wonder if she ever thinks about me anymore or anything. I don't even know what's going on in her head anymore.

Part of me wants her to come back into my life, and part of me is, I don't know, pissed off at her for just leaving me out in the cold like that and I just... I don't know, don't want her to have me again because of what she did. For her to know that that was the decision she made and this was the consequence she gets for it. But I miss her.:([/QUOTE]

Maybe you should try to see other girls. That'll help.


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