nope

or if they were i was oblivious

my life

[QUOTE=beans;18891845]honestly just start being a dick and you'll get play from someone, and just be drunk whenever it happens you'll know what to do[/QUOTE]

i can crack the surface already just cant break the ice if you know what i mean

im usually kind of a dick anyway at least playfully especially wheni m drunk

how old are you? honestly just wondering

21.

dude ethan you are a good looking guy no homo, if you don't have faith in yourself with females, even just putting up an air that you do will show you results thus giving you faith in yourself haha

you can always hit on a random in a mundane public place like a bookstore and use the apologetic stalkerish charm

last time i got a girlfriend i was riding on the public bus and saw some geeky chick with acne get off, so i jumped off at her stop and pulled the whole "heyyy im sorry to run up on you like this but uh uh you're cute umm could i by any chance get your number" in a total shy niceguy way and it actually worked

granted its not gonna work on a really attractive girl who can easily get big muscular frat guys but yougotta start somewhere

wow thats really something to try for alex

[QUOTE=bringonthebreakdown;18891865]dude ethan you are a good looking guy no homo, if you don't have faith in yourself with females, even just putting up an air that you do will show you results thus giving you faith in yourself haha[/QUOTE]

bump because advice

i know i just have really bad luck with this

quit moping

[QUOTE]wow thats really something to try for alex[/QUOTE]if that's sarcasm you're deeply underestimating my shyness

i was probably terrified out my mind but you can bet i felt like a boss afterward

tbh guy doesn't need anymore advice he just needs to go out and try. i think you're afraid to fail luc

[QUOTE=Haz;18891871]quit moping[/QUOTE]

I'm not moping I'm being honest

there's a clear difference

yeah dude if you get turned down you get turned down its not the end of the world, but if you don't put forth any effort you'll just always never know and that sucks. alex's thing with randos is fun sometimes im not gonna lie haha

i can just be real emotional sometimes and i dont want to freak out or fall to pieces i have no idea what will happen

don't you have an alter ego in your head whos like a more badass version of you and makes fun of you for being a pussy ?

just pretend to be that guy

[IMG]http://www.blackheartmagazine.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/tyler-durden.jpg[/IMG]

[IMG]http://i48.tinypic.com/347v5fl.jpg[/IMG]

if i could tell if a girl was into me that owuld make it so much easier but i really cant read signals at all

[QUOTE=Mr. Ron;18891893][IMG]http://i48.tinypic.com/347v5fl.jpg[/IMG][/QUOTE]

hahahahahaha

i've never seen fight club but i get the feeling its really fun and eccentric

i love that movie but i feel like every person says that

[QUOTE=publicastration;18891817]eh still not quite in shape i have very little muscle tone so i dont look good under a shirt atm

plus have some hair on my back, its not even that much but its something i reallly hate

should still lose 20 pounds

i need to stop being lazy and do pushups and crunches at least but I dont even have motivation to considering how darkly i view my future with girls[/QUOTE]

i dont have any fucking muscle tone and i do fine

in terms of physicality it is less about looks and how you come across with your body language

[QUOTE=publicastration;18891878]I'm not moping I'm being honest

there's a clear difference[/QUOTE]

if you want something use all the information and tools at your disposal to get it

treat it like a math problem that needs to be solved

me + u = [COLOR=Magenta][B]<333[/B][/COLOR]

[QUOTE=Mr. Ron;18891966]me + u = [COLOR=Magenta][B]<333[/B][/COLOR][/QUOTE]

[I][SIZE="2"]i know my calculus[/SIZE][/I]
[B][COLOR="Magenta"][I][SIZE="4"]it says you plus me equals us[/SIZE][/I][/COLOR][/B]

[QUOTE=illmitch;18891968][I][SIZE="2"]i know my calculus[/SIZE][/I]
[B][COLOR="Magenta"][I][SIZE="4"]it says you plus me equals us[/SIZE][/I][/COLOR][/B][/QUOTE]

:thumb: fuck ya 2ge+her, loved that show

lmao

i have an exam on derivatives of compositions and derivatives of logarithmic functions on thursday, as well as an exam on the muscles and bones of the lower limbs

im so dead

[QUOTE=shortz;18891972]:thumb: fuck ya 2ge+her, loved that show[/QUOTE]

girl you've gotta say it
don't spray it
i want the news
not the weaaaather

all my exams were made into take homes


[I]i'm so livin'[/I]

@ mitch Haha nice.

been done with exams for over a month :cool:

but yeah we should probably take this to the community thread

yeah exams were beginning of may for me

No exams for me this last term, just a fuckload of things I have to turn in before this Friday.

EDIT: oh shit, I thought this was the comm thread for a moment.

i've made that mistake on thousands of separate occasions

yo ethan seriously i have a lot of the same problems you do with broads and anxiety and i dont kill it by any means but seriously just try to feel like you're a good dude and it works, like, im usually pretty stone-faced but sometimes i'll just try to make sure i'm smiling a bit or laughing with people y'know, girls are usually drawn to assholes but that's just because they have an obvious personality about them, that's the hardest part.

i mean me i'm hanging out with this girl i know is into me but i always bitch out on making the first move, shit sucks.

xanax helps with having the confidence to make the first move tbh

im telling you alcohol solves all woes in the nervousness department

i did way better on xanax than being drunk

There's seriously no way to meet people in a town that's both full of and geared-toward middle-aged rich women.