[QUOTE=FockerTheLopper]Not yet I haven't but then again I never really had a girlfriend for a long time but yeah me and my friend are gonna go out with sisters, really cute girls. Think about it, you go out with them 3 months they cheat on you or break up. You feel mad stupid or like **** if you didn't do anything. You cheat then you'll be gratified. After 6 months though you've gone far and theres more trust[/QUOTE]
You're right, cheating does promote trust. I can't believe I didn't think of that earlier.

I don't know, it got me worried. I have a reputation to uphold.. (my rep points prove it..)

[QUOTE=FockerTheLopper]Not yet I haven't but then again I never really had a girlfriend for a long time but yeah me and my friend are gonna go out with sisters, really cute girls. Think about it, you go out with them 3 months they cheat on you or break up. You feel mad stupid or like **** if you didn't do anything. You cheat then you'll be gratified. After 6 months though you've gone far and theres more trust[/QUOTE]

you are a dumbass. You cheat on her, then start getting jealous and thinking she's cheating on you. Not to mention it's wrong. You are a ****ing tool buddy.

was there a flamefest in here a bit ago? if its a personal flame thing i dont see why it cant be taken over PM or something..its a bit annoying to have to scroll through to where the last meaningful conversation was..

[QUOTE=wholedzep]You're right, cheating does promote trust. I can't believe I didn't think of that earlier.[/QUOTE]
It makes more sense when in person. Just think about it a little, it seems like a scumbag thing to do but it isn't. How many girls have you gone out with and when you broke up you felt like crap and didn't have anything to show for it? Most the girl I went out with that happened, especially if they cheated. Its one of the only things that get me angry. So you cheat while you guys still aren't really "dating" because if its a short time its not really a big relationship yet then when you break up(yes you will) you don't feel like crap and if she was a bitch you throw that in her face.

See, this is why I don't read backlog of posts.

[QUOTE=aznriceball]was there a flamefest in here a bit ago? if its a personal flame thing i dont see why it cant be taken over PM or something..its a bit annoying to have to scroll through to where the last meaningful conversation was..[/QUOTE]
Theres PM?

That just doesn't work for me. I'd rather be a loyal trustworthy person and get dumped for some cracked out reason than cheat on someone that you actually really liked.

[QUOTE=derryk]Faith, what did you mean by that? Where was I flaming people?[/QUOTE]
Back a page. I really want to know..

Edit: this is just for the new page thing, sorry

[QUOTE]Faith, what did you mean by that? Where was I flaming people?[/QUOTE]I wasnt speaking to you.
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Whats wrong with that post? I can't laugh at the womans stupidity? Or am I missing something?[/QUOTE] You and loytons constant bitching is annoying.

[QUOTE=FockerTheLopper]It makes more sense when in person. Just think about it a little, it seems like a scumbag thing to do but it isn't. How many girls have you gone out with and when you broke up you felt like crap and didn't have anything to show for it? Most the girl I went out with that happened, especially if they cheated. Its one of the only things that get me angry. So you cheat while you guys still aren't really "dating" because if its a short time its not really a big relationship yet then when you break up(yes you will) you don't feel like crap and if she was a bitch you throw that in her face.[/QUOTE]
You know, I think there's a good reason why you can't keep a long-lasting relationship. Judging by your logic, you are a wart on the collective backside of humanity.

And yes, cheating is ALWAYS a scumbag thing to do.

[QUOTE=faith+1]I wasnt speaking to you.
You and loytons constant bitching is annoying.[/QUOTE]
Fair, I deleted some of the flame posts that weren't nesicarry.

[QUOTE]Fair, I deleted some of the flame posts that weren't nesicarry.[/QUOTE]Thanks focker :D

[QUOTE=FockerTheLopper]It makes more sense when in person. Just think about it a little, it seems like a scumbag thing to do but it isn't. How many girls have you gone out with and when you broke up you felt like crap and didn't have anything to show for it? Most the girl I went out with that happened, especially if they cheated. Its one of the only things that get me angry. So you cheat while you guys still aren't really "dating" because if its a short time its not really a big relationship yet then when you break up(yes you will) you don't feel like crap and if she was a bitch you throw that in her face.[/QUOTE]

and that's why this loser has never had a "real serious" girlfriend. God, idiot, I hope you get caught, and she rips your nuts off.

[QUOTE=wholedzep]You know, I think there's a good reason why you can't keep a long-lasting relationship. Judging by your logic, you are a wart on the collective backside of humanity.

And yes, cheating is ALWAYS a scumbag thing to do.[/QUOTE]
No, I still haven't cheated and it doesn't work out. Plus man I'm still young, I don't live in a little community with 500 people. I don't want to settle down until I'm like 30.

NP faith, I don't see the use in flaming people most the time, but loyton is an exeption as I said before, read the crap he writes about me and how much he changes what I say.

[QUOTE=motleyguy197666]and that's why this loser has never had a "real serious" girlfriend. God, idiot, I hope you get caught, and she rips your nuts off.[/QUOTE]
Don't you just hate people who act like that?

[QUOTE=FockerTheLopper]No, I still haven't cheated and it doesn't work out. Plus man I'm still young, I don't live in a little community with 500 people. I don't want to settle down until I'm like 30.

NP faith, I don't see the use in flaming people most the time, but loyton is an exeption as I said before, read the crap he writes about me and how much he changes what I say.[/QUOTE]

that doesn't make it right. You are a scumbag for simply entertaining the thought.

[quote]Don't you just hate people who act like that?[/quote]

very, very much. I used to have a mild amount of respect for this dude. It remains no longer.

[QUOTE=FockerTheLopper]No, I still haven't cheated and it doesn't work out. Plus man I'm still young, I don't live in a little community with 500 people. I don't want to settle down until I'm like 30.[/QUOTE]
I didn't say you fail at relationships because you cheat, I said you fail because you are stupid.

[QUOTE]NP faith, I don't see the use in flaming people most the time, but loyton is an exeption as I said before, read the crap he writes about me and how much he changes what I say.[/QUOTE]This will stop. I have nothing against either of you. I come on here to talk drums, not read 13 posts of tripe.

[QUOTE=wholedzep]Don't you just hate people who act like that?[/QUOTE]
Why how old are you, your gonna look back on it your gonna have hooked up with as many girls as you can count, this time your settled and w/e your gonna think good times. Your gonna think on big serious relationships for 3 years that she was cheating on you your gonna think, wow, I was so stupid not to have seen it coming. I'd rather be the first guy

Alright faith, thats fair. Lets talk drums!

[QUOTE=motleyguy197666]very, very much. I used to have a mild amount of respect for this dude. It remains no longer.[/QUOTE]
Agreed.

[QUOTE=FockerTheLopper]It makes more sense when in person. Just think about it a little, it seems like a scumbag thing to do but it isn't. How many girls have you gone out with and when you broke up you felt like crap and [B]didn't have anything to show for it[/B]? Most the girl I went out with that happened, especially if they cheated. Its one of the only things that get me angry. So you cheat while you guys still aren't really "dating" because if its a short time its not really a big relationship yet then when you break up(yes you will) you don't feel like crap and if she was a bitch you throw that in her face.[/QUOTE]

I'd worry more about how serious and mature your relationships are. I seriously cannot believe you would do something like that.

I've had my share of people I cared for showing me that they no longer felt the same way, but even knowing this before I could not do something so.. selfish. Maybe that's not the right word.. more like paranoia mixed with something else.

I can't even really think of anything to say. That's just.. depressing.

[QUOTE=FockerTheLopper]Why how old are you, your gonna look back on it your gonna have hooked up with as many girls as you can count, this time your settled and w/e your gonna think good times. Your gonna think on big serious relationships for 3 years that she was cheating on you your gonna think, wow, I was so stupid not to have seen it coming. I'd rather be the first guy

Alright faith, thats fair. Lets talk drums![/QUOTE]

well, since we're done talking about you being a complete bag of scum, anyone into Fear Factory? If so, I need some confirmation, their drummers double bass playing sounds sampled like most of the time. Any thoughts?

[QUOTE=FockerTheLopper]Why how old are you, your gonna look back on it your gonna have hooked up with as many girls as you can count, this time your settled and w/e your gonna think good times. Your gonna think on big serious relationships for 3 years that she was cheating on you your gonna think, wow, I was so stupid not to have seen it coming. I'd rather be the first guy[/QUOTE]
I'm 16. And actually, I've had one serious relationship, and that's my current one. Way to judge without knowing me.

Also, I happen to trust my girlfriend, because I love her. Trust is a prerequisite of a serious relationship.

[QUOTE=wholedzep]I'm 16. And actually, I've had one serious relationship, and that's my current one. Way to judge without knowing me.

Also, I happen to trust my girlfriend, because I love her. Trust is a prerequisite of a serious relationship.[/QUOTE]

it's true, there is more to relationships then hooking up. In the only serious relationship I've been in, I was cheated on. Yet, I'm not running around being a ****ing loser, grow up kid. Seriously if you had any idea what it feels like when you find something like that out, you would not even entertain the thought.

[QUOTE=aznriceball]I'd worry more about how serious and mature your relationships are. I seriously cannot believe you would do something like that.

I've had my share of people I cared for showing me that they no longer felt the same way, but even knowing this before I could not do something so.. selfish. Maybe that's not the right word.. more like paranoia mixed with something else.

I can't even really think of anything to say. That's just.. depressing.[/QUOTE]
I guess your right but were different people. I don't get attached as easily.
Your right it is selfish, theres nothing to justify cheating exept for being selfish. Plus if I were to cheat it would be like a drunken hookup at a party or something not something planned. Its like manslaughter vs murder. I'm not aiming to hurt my girlfriend just acting on instinct.

[QUOTE=motleyguy197666]it's true, there is more to relationships then hooking up. In the only serious relationship I've been in, I was cheated on. Yet, I'm not running around being a ****ing loser, grow up kid. Seriously if you had any idea what it feels like when you find something like that out, you would not even entertain the thought.[/QUOTE]
That's the way I always think of it: if she did it to me, I'd be devastated, so how could I think of hurting her like that?

[QUOTE=FockerTheLopper]I guess your right but were different people. I don't get attached as easily.
Your right it is selfish, theres nothing to justify cheating exept for being selfish. Plus if I were to cheat it would be like a drunken hookup at a party or something not something planned. Its like manslaughter vs murder. I'm not aiming to hurt my girlfriend just acting on instinct.[/QUOTE]

THAT DOESN'T MAKE IT BETTER. YOU ARE CLEARLY NOT MATURE ENOUGH TO EVEN MAINTAIN A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP!!! THERE IS NO WAY TO JUSTIFY CHEATING, DRUNKEN HOOK UP OR NOT!!!


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[quote]That's the way I always think of it: if she did it to me, I'd be devastated, so how could I think of hurting her like that?[/quote]

exactly, it's the worst feeling I have ever had. You love someone and think they share those feelings, then they tell you they went to some dudes house when no one else was home to watch a movie in the dark. ****ing whore!!! anyways, FtL, I'll say it again, grow up.

[QUOTE=FockerTheLopper]It makes more sense when in person. Just think about it a little, it seems like a scumbag thing to do but it isn't. How many girls have you gone out with and when you broke up you felt like crap and didn't have anything to show for it? Most the girl I went out with that happened, especially if they cheated. Its one of the only things that get me angry. So you cheat while you guys still aren't really "dating" because if its a short time its not really a big relationship yet then when you break up(yes you will) you don't feel like crap and if she was a bitch you throw that in her face.[/QUOTE]

here's an idea. Don't be an as[I]s[/I] and don't cheat on girls. It's just stupid. and don't go out with somone who's gona cheat on you

[QUOTE=wholedzep]I'm 16. And actually, I've had one serious relationship, and that's my current one. Way to judge without knowing me.

Also, I happen to trust my girlfriend, because I love her. Trust is a prerequisite of a serious relationship.[/QUOTE]
You don't love her. I'm 16 too, and from what people told me is that we aren't mature enough to experience love and now looking from the outside I believe it.