so theres this chick that i really like, and i think she likes me too. but the thing is we've been friends for a really long time, but we still do stuff together, sort of like friends with benefits. and i want to ask her out. what do i do. and dont just say ask her out.

[QUOTE=Worrpigs;13382458]so theres this chick that i really like, and i think she likes me too. but the thing is we've been friends for a really long time, but we still do stuff together, sort of like friends with benefits. and i want to ask her out. what do i do. and dont just say ask her out.[/QUOTE]

I dunno. Just sort of broach the topic and maybe suggest that you'd like to become sometihing more than friends.

[QUOTE=BenJammin;13382478]I dunno. Just sort of broach the topic and maybe suggest that you'd like to become sometihing more than friends.[/QUOTE]

eh, that seems so middle schoolish though.

[QUOTE=BenJammin;13382441]By the way, Spiff, that Plato paper I was bitching about?

A-. :)[/QUOTE]

Good job. :thumb:

[QUOTE=Worrpigs;13382495]eh, that seems so middle schoolish though.[/QUOTE]

Then ask her out... ?

[QUOTE=Worrpigs;13382495]eh, that seems so middle schoolish though.[/QUOTE]

Fine then.

Burn down her house, pillage her crops, sling her over your shoulder and claim her as your property.

Simple.

[QUOTE=Spaceman Spiff;13382500]Good job. :thumb:[/QUOTE]

Yeah. I was surprised and happy.

This bodes well for my midterm next week.

[QUOTE=Spaceman Spiff;13382514]Then ask her out... ?[/QUOTE]

Yeah, exactly.

Just talk to her about it. You should be comfortable enough around her to be open about such topics seeing as you two have known each other for a long while, and you already do activities together as it is, so what is the big deal?

Either go for it or bring up the topic in conversation.

123, Ben. It can't fail.



Personally, I think you should just tell her how you feel.

[QUOTE=Worrpigs;13382458]so theres this chick that i really like, and i think she likes me too. but the thing is we've been friends for a really long time, but we still do stuff together, sort of like friends with benefits. and i want to ask her out. what do i do. and dont just say ask her out.[/QUOTE]

You obviously don't see her as a friend, you see herm ore than that. Tell her that.

man, were like all you guys shrinks in a previous life? your good at this.

I still want to tell this one girl how I feel... but that'll be difficult. I don't know her too well, but we do talk occasionally, but right now she's living in another city where she goes to university. :upset:

[QUOTE=Worrpigs;13382568]man, were like all you guys shrinks in a previous life? your good at this.[/QUOTE]

MX: Filled with doctorate holder bass players who still waste their time on the internet! :p

[QUOTE=Spaceman Spiff;13382577]I still want to tell this one girl how I feel... but that'll be difficult. I don't know her too well, but we do talk occasionally, but right now she's living in another city where she goes to university. :upset:[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=BenJammin;13382518]Fine then.

Burn down her house, pillage her crops, sling her over your shoulder and claim her as your property.

Simple.[/QUOTE]

:thumb:

[QUOTE=Spaceman Spiff;13382577]I still want to tell this one girl how I feel... but that'll be difficult. I don't know her too well, but we do talk occasionally, but right now she's living in another city where she goes to university. :upset:[/QUOTE]

How far is that city?

[QUOTE=BenJammin;13382518]Fine then.

Burn down her house, pillage her crops, sling her over your shoulder and claim her as your property.

Simple.[/QUOTE]

hmmm... the barbarian route seems like it cant fail.

[QUOTE=Spaceman Spiff;13382577]I still want to tell this one girl how I feel... but that'll be difficult. I don't know her too well, but we do talk occasionally, but right now she's living in another city where she goes to university. :upset:[/QUOTE]

You know how I managed to summon up the courage to tell the girl I like just that?

I didn't.

It was 3 am, we're talking on the phone, and I'm too sleepy to know what I'm talking about, and I blurt it out. :p

Try that.

[QUOTE=Pluperfect_Arson;13382589]MX: Filled with doctorate holder bass players who still waste their time on the internet! :p[/QUOTE]

lol. you guys all get rep cause ya'lls da shiznit.

I still have nothing on the horizon, lady-wise. Except maybe this senior, but I don't think she knows how old I am.

[QUOTE=User Name;13382609]I still have nothing on the horizon, lady-wise. Except maybe this senior, but I don't think she knows how old I am.[/QUOTE]

I've fallen for one of my friends, but she currently has a boyfriend.

[QUOTE=BenJammin;13382594]:thumb:[/QUOTE]

She lives less than a 5 minute walk from me... her house here, that is... maybe I shall... :D

[QUOTE=Plooop]How far is that city?[/QUOTE]
A couple of hours.

[QUOTE=User Name;13382609]I still have nothing on the horizon, lady-wise. Except maybe this senior, but I don't think she knows how old I am.[/QUOTE]

My lady friend is a year younger, which makes some things in the future a bit tricky.

:(

[QUOTE=BenJammin;13382616]I've fallen for one of my friends, but she currently has a boyfriend.[/QUOTE]

Kick the **** out of him.


[QUOTE=Radiobass81;13382623]My lady friend is a year younger, which makes some things in the future a bit tricky.

:([/QUOTE]

It's like Ferris Bueller!

You can still keep in touch, though. It's not 1986. It would be tough, but if you really care for eachother, you could try it.

I'm only 16 and this girl is 18. She seems to think I'm a senior too.

[QUOTE=User Name;13382624]Kick the **** out of him.[/QUOTE]

:lol:

No... he's a nice guy.

I'll just wait for them to break up and then swoop in.

[QUOTE=Radiobass81;13382601]You know how I managed to summon up the courage to tell the girl I like just that?

I didn't.

It was 3 am, we're talking on the phone, and I'm too sleepy to know what I'm talking about, and I blurt it out. :p

Try that.[/QUOTE]

Blurting it out has worked more times than not.

Don't be afraid of rejection, people! If you are indeed rejected, just accept it and move on. Plenty of other ladies out there!

[QUOTE=Radiobass81;13382601]You know how I managed to summon up the courage to tell the girl I like just that?

I didn't.

It was 3 am, we're talking on the phone, and I'm too sleepy to know what I'm talking about, and I blurt it out. :p

Try that.[/QUOTE]

Hmm... I could try something similar.

I'll deprive myself of sleep for a day or two, then I'll just be so out of it that I'll be able to say anything without really worrying. :p

I <3 sleep deprivation... I act like I don't because people would think I'm just too weird, but screw sleep.

[QUOTE=BenJammin;13382636]:lol:

No... he's a nice guy.

I'll just wait for them to break up and then swoop in.[/QUOTE]

How much do you like her?

If you truly love her, you want her to be happy, with or without you.

It's tough.

[QUOTE=BenJammin;13382636]:lol:

No... he's a nice guy.

I'll just wait for them to break up and then swoop in.[/QUOTE]

Be cute and flirty with her when he isn't around. That will give you the definite spot of boyfriend after they break up. You have to do it correctly, though; otherwise, you just f[b]u[/b]ck yourself over.

[QUOTE=Pluperfect_Arson;13382650]Be cute and flirty with her when he isn't around. That will give you the definite spot of boyfriend after they break up. You have to do it correctly, though; otherwise, you just f[b]u[/b]ck yourself over.[/QUOTE]

That causes more trouble than good, from what I've seen.

[QUOTE=Radiobass81;13382648]How much do you like her?

If you truly love her, you want her to be happy, with or without you.

It's tough.[/QUOTE]

Oh, I know. I'd never do anything to jeopardize their relationship. I do care about her that much.

I do want her to be happy.

If things are meant to work out, I can wait for it to happen. I just got out of a long relationship, so I'm in no rush to get back into one.

[QUOTE=User Name;13382655]That causes more trouble than good, from what I've seen.[/QUOTE]

Yeah. I would seriously loose respect for anyone who tries that. She's in a relationship, happy, and just because you're ego can't let that go, doesn't mean you should try and get her mixed feelings on everything.

[QUOTE=Pluperfect_Arson;13382650]Be cute and flirty with her when he isn't around. That will give you the definite spot of boyfriend after they break up. You have to do it correctly, though; otherwise, you just f[b]u[/b]ck yourself over.[/QUOTE]

Eh... we already had a few intimate moments together during the summer, anyway.

[QUOTE=User Name;13382655]That causes more trouble than good, from what I've seen.[/QUOTE]

That is why you have to do it correctly! I have done it before, and it works if you can pull it off. If you don't have the charm of abilities to do it, though, you kind of just mess everything up.

I would advise not to do it, actually, but it is up to the doer!

[QUOTE=BenJammin;13382668]Eh... we already had a few intimate moments together during the summer, anyway.[/QUOTE]

That is better than nothing!

[QUOTE=Radiobass81;13382667]Yeah. I would seriously loose respect for anyone who tries that. She's in a relationship, happy, and just because you're ego can't let that go, doesn't mean you should try and get her mixed feelings on everything.[/QUOTE]

I wasn't telling him to go and ruin the relationship. :lol:

Just to clear things up with everyone, I don't go around doing that to people just to steal their girlfriends. :lol: I wouldn't do anything like that. I have had boyfriends be mad at me for attempting to "steal" their girlfriend, and that was when I wasn't even interested in the girl. Boyfriends can be douchebags sometimes. I am just overly nice and sometimes flirty with most girls, so it isn't like I am intentionally doing it, if that makes sense.

[QUOTE=Pluperfect_Arson;13382669]That is why you have to do it correctly! I have done it before, and it works if you can pull it off. If you don't have the charm of abilities to do it, though, you kind of just mess everything up.[/QUOTE]

With me, it's not a matter of if it works or not, but it's an incredibly filthy thing to do.

[QUOTE=BenJammin;13382668]Eh... we already had a few intimate moments together during the summer, anyway.[/QUOTE]

PLAYA!!!





[SIZE="1"]*player[/SIZE]

[QUOTE=Radiobass81;13382690]With me, it's not a matter of if it works or not, but it's an incredibly filthy thing to do.[/QUOTE]

I explained myself in my last post.

[QUOTE=jcs497;13382698]PLAYA!!!





[SIZE="1"]*player[/SIZE][/QUOTE]

:lol:

Yeah... <_<

hey ben, how was the chili peppers show?

I'm off. Goodnight!

Later!