I would rather go into a relationship with a good friend than some random girl, ya know?

I'm actually planning on telling her about my feelings tomorrow after school, if I can work up the courage, that is. Sucks though, she's moving to Richmond soon.

[QUOTE=Tess-Tube Baby](I)f you [I]do[/I] get into a great relationship like option B, then wouldn't the person be understanding if you make mistakes? I mean, if they care so much about you and stuff.[/QUOTE]

If your significant other is receptive to human beings being naturally fallible, then the answer should be yes, since he/she "cares about you and stuff." If not, then he/she's a moron, as that person isn't invincible from making mistakes.

[quote=Junooni]I would rather go into a relationship with a good friend than some random girl, ya know?

I'm actually planning on telling her about my feelings tomorrow after school, if I can work up the courage, that is. Sucks though, she's moving to Richmond soon.[/quote]

I've been tracking your story - I think it would be good for you (and her) to tell her before she moves, just so you guys can still be connected fairly strongly, even after she leaves.

Plus, it leaves the door open for her returning to visit, which would rule for you, right?

And even if it's awkward a little bit, you have nothing to lose.

[QUOTE=Jom]
HOLY PARENTHETICALS, BATMAN.[/QUOTE]

Your green is seriously messing with my eyes.

Sometimes it works out. Sometimes it does.

[QUOTE=Junooni]I would rather go into a relationship with a good friend than some random girl, ya know?[/quote]
Oh, exactly. Everything feels so much..safer with someone you wholly trust.
[QUOTE=Junooni]
I'm actually planning on telling her about my feelings tomorrow after school, if I can work up the courage, that is. Sucks though, she's moving to Richmond soon.[/QUOTE]
:):(. How far away is that?

[QUOTE=Tess-Tube Baby]I know what you mean.

See, I'm a sophomore too. I just see it as...I don't want to waste my time and emotions on stupid relationships. I don't think it'd be worth it even in the long run, because if you [I]do[/I] get into a great relationship like option B, then wouldn't the person be understanding if you make mistakes? I mean, if they care so much about you and stuff.[/QUOTE]

I can see it from both sides. Not wanting to waste my time, sure but there is something about having someone to talk to. Though I hate how most poeple put no thought into who they go out with and do get a new person every week, I do like the chance and feeling of having someone that really cares about you and though it may fade away, it was there for a moment. Not every person you find though should be that person.

Check the edit above...

Jom, thanks man. I don't know man, I'm not sure if I can, YET. Maybe next week, but another friend, who is a girl, is pushing me to tell her tomorrow after school. It's crunch time, man.

It's about 3 hours, away, that is.

Man, this thread is turning into a freakin' "Mr. Jones" clinic :p

[i]We all want something beautiful - I know I wish I was beautiful...

... believe in me - help me believe in anything - 'ause I want to be someone who believes...

... Mr. Jones and me tell each other fairy tales, and we stare at the beautiful women

"She's looking at you."

"Ah, no, no, she's looking at me."

Smilin' in the bright lights coming through in stereo...

... when everybody loves you, you can never be lonely...

... I want to be a lion - yeah, everybody wants to pass as cats
We all want to be big, big stars, but we got different reasons for that
Believe in me, 'cause I don't believe in anything
And I want to be someone to believe...

... Mr. Jones and me stumbling through the barrio
Yeah, we stare at the beautiful women

"She's perfect for you."

"Man, there's got to be somebody for me..."[/i]

I want to be Bob Dylan :p

^^^^^

***flicks bic in air and cries

[QUOTE=pohl_56]^^^^^

***flicks bic in air and cries[/QUOTE]

Don't set your hair on fire...

[quote=Junooni]Jom, thanks man. I don't know man, I'm not sure if I can, YET. Maybe next week, but another friend, who is a girl, is pushing me to tell her tomorrow after school. It's crunch time, man.[/quote]

Don't do it on anyone else's terms but your own. You are in control of your emotions and your situation and your thoughts. NOBODY dictates otherwise.

Do this on YOUR terms and when YOU feel comfortable in doing so.

Pretend I was emphasizing certain words that are in ALL CAPS or something.

[QUOTE=Jom]Don't do it on anyone else's terms but your own. You are in control of your emotions and your situation and your thoughts. NOBODY dictates otherwise.

Do this on YOUR terms and when YOU feel comfortable in doing so.

Pretend I was emphasizing certain words that are in ALL CAPS or something.[/QUOTE]

123 to that. I hate when I see people being pushed all the time by people to do things. Some encouragement is needed to get them to act on it but still... Let time take over.

And if this girl is like "I'm her friend I know what to do listen to me," punch her in the face as hard as you can.

She needs to smell what you're cooking.

[QUOTE=Jom]And if this girl is like "I'm her friend I know what to do listen to me," punch her in the face as hard as you can.

She needs to smell what you're cooking.[/QUOTE]

Muahahaha violence. I love it.

Ok. I'm gonna go for the night so peace, love, and harmony all!

Well, she doesn't know her. I don't think tomorrow's a good idea. I'm talking to her right now though. :p

I cook Pakistani food pretty well. /off topic.

[QUOTE=Junooni]
I cook Pakistani food pretty well. /off topic.[/QUOTE]

Mmmm mutton.

:drool:


Take your time with things. You shouldn't have to make important choices when you're stressed.

But she's moving, so I know I'm going to have to rush into it.

I'm trying to drop hints like crazy though.

ie..she thinks my sister's cute, I said, "well, you know, people say we look a lot alike.." and just little stuff like that.

i have another problem
i accidentally slept with the same guy again but i can't quite remember as i was out of it. he told me i did and i asked whether we used condom and he said yes.
what do i do cos i keep sleeping with this guy and i can't help it. it wasn't my fault though.

[QUOTE=mismartini]i have another problem
i accidentally slept with the same guy again but i can't quite remember as i was out of it. he told me i did and i asked whether we used condom and he said yes.
what do i do cos i keep sleeping with this guy and i can't help it. it wasn't my fault though.[/QUOTE]

It was your fault. Stop being so stupid.

Jesus christ, no wonder the UK has the highest teen pregnancy rates in Europe.

hey no need to have a go at the uk.
i am not stupid how is that going to help me? telling me im stupid. meanie.im only 15

[QUOTE=mismartini]hey no need to have a go at the uk.
i am not stupid how is that going to help me? telling me im stupid. meanie.im only 15[/QUOTE]

Your being 15 doesn't make it any less stupid. People aren't telling you you're stupid to be mean or hurtful, its because you should realise you've got to stop acting like this. If you want to stop sleeping with the guy, then stop sleeping with him. Being "out of it" is no excuse, if you are dedicated to your boyfriend, and drugs/alchohol are making a problem such as this, you should start taking more responsibility. If you're going to have sex at such a young age then at least take resposibility for your own actions.

[quote=Slut @ Age 15]i accidentally slept with the same guy again but i can't quite remember as i was out of it. he told me i did and i asked whether we used condom and he said yes.
what do i do cos i keep sleeping with this guy and i can't help it. it wasn't my fault though.

i am not stupid how is that going to help me? telling me im stupid. meanie.im only 15[/quote]

Hi guys I'm fifteen years old and I sleep with random guys and even though I ask them if they use a rubber I can't help but fall on their dicks accidentally because I'm out of it AND IT'S NOT MY FAULT DERRHRRHRR.

Look at how stupid you are. How do you "accidentally" sleep with someone?

"Oh, hello, Mr. Penis, what a coincidence that I accidentally let you stick yourself inside me yet again, ho, ho!"

I hope you "accidentally" get pregnant. Maybe then you'll realize how stupid you are, hm? Be accountable for your actions, you whore.

[QUOTE=mismartini]hey no need to have a go at the uk.
i am not stupid how is that going to help me? telling me im stupid. meanie.im only 15[/QUOTE]

Jesus cross-dressing Christ, this is the saddest thing I've seen all month.

How stupid do you think we are to buy a bogus story like "None of this is my fault."? Do not insult our intelligence.

You need to face the truth that you're irresponsible and selfish. You don't want to be called a whore, then stop acting like one.

"Oh, but I was out of it." Shut the f[size=2]u[/size]ck up. You're 15. Not only should you be more cautious about sex, but you shouldn't be getting drunk/high or partying to the point where sleeping with every random Tom, Dick, and Harry sounds like a good idea.

Shut up and take some responsibility for your actions, little girl.

[QUOTE=Steerpike]Jesus cross-dressing Christ, this is the saddest thing I've seen all month.

How stupid do you think we are to buy a bogus story like "None of this is my fault."? Do not insult our intelligence.

You need to face the truth that you're irresponsible and selfish. You don't want to be called a whore, then stop acting like one.

"Oh, but I was out of it." Shut the f[size=2]u[/size]ck up. You're 15. Not only should you be more cautious about sex, but you shouldn't be getting drunk/high or partying to the point where sleeping with every random Tom, Dick, and Harry sounds like a good idea.

Shut up and take some responsibility for your actions, little girl.[/QUOTE]
we are living in a new age now.

kids that age drink,smoke and have sex - its not the 1950's no more. but you are right, he should of taken responsibility for it - it is his fault - too young to understand that but not too young to go have a drink.

[QUOTE=~grif~]its not the 1950's no more.[/QUOTE]

Pity.

mismartini, you are a massive tool because of your addiction to guys tools. It isn't hard to NOT SLEEP WITH A GUY. Try it sometime. :thumb: :rolleyes:

It would be poetic justic if nine months from now you find yourself giving birth.

Gimmick perhaps....

[QUOTE=~grif~]we are living in a new age now.

kids that age drink,smoke and have sex - its not the 1950's no more. but you are right, he should of taken responsibility for it - it is his fault - too young to understand that but not too young to go have a drink.[/QUOTE]

If you're going to do anything of the sort, you should be taking repsonsibility for it. It really frosts me to see all these kids who are 15 or 16 and think that drinking, smoking, and f[size=2]u[/size]cking makes them mature. Maybe 1 out of 5 knows how to take repsonsibility for their actions.

[QUOTE=Chrysostom]Pity.

mismartini, you are a massive tool because of your addiction to guys tools. It isn't hard to NOT SLEEP WITH A GUY. Try it sometime. :thumb: :rolleyes:
[/QUOTE]
Oh, so why do you keep doing it? :p

[QUOTE=Jonzey]Oh, so why do you keep doing it? :p[/QUOTE]

You've never complained before. :p

[QUOTE=Chrysostom]You've never complained before. :p[/QUOTE]
You just implied that we were gay together. That's gotta be the worst comeback ever.

[QUOTE=Jonzey]You just implied that we were gay together. That's gotta be the worst comeback ever.[/QUOTE]

Yeah but:

a) I'm not quick enough for good comebacks, and therefore:

b) If I'm going down, I'm taking you with me.

Haha, this exchange was entertaining. Thanks, guys :lol:

I especially liked the part of: "If I'm going down I'm taking you with me."

Good stuff.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]I especially liked the part of: "If I'm going down I'm taking you with me."

Good stuff.[/QUOTE]

I'm glad my comic genius has finally been realised. :amaze:

I find you funnier than hell.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]I find you funnier than hell.[/QUOTE]

Oh you. You're just saying that.

*insert camp/coy hand gesture here*

:_* (botched nose job)

:lol:

Ahh. I'm currently (well.. maybe youll see later) in a relationship that is/was going really well. About 6 weeks we've been going out now, and about three weeks this guy (Jack) said that my girlfriend liked this other guy (ashley) and of course she said she didn't and things just carried on.

And tonight she just spoke to me, and said we shouldn't go out with each other because it doesn't feel right and that i've changed since this guy said that she liked ashley. I don't know what to do to try and save the relationship - i love her loads.. and i can't do any more than tell her this and how much ill miss her.

[QUOTE=mikethecoug]Ahh. I'm currently (well.. maybe youll see later) in a relationship that is/was going really well. About 6 weeks we've been going out now, and about three weeks this guy (Jack) said that my girlfriend liked this other guy (ashley) and of course she said she didn't and things just carried on.

And tonight she just spoke to me, and said we shouldn't go out with each other because it doesn't feel right and that i've changed since this guy said that she liked ashley. I don't know what to do to try and save the relationship - i love her loads.. and i can't do any more than tell her this and how much ill miss her.[/QUOTE]

Do you feel like you've acted any differently toward her since you found out she might like Ashley? Maybe that's the problem?

[QUOTE=mikethecoug]Ahh. I'm currently (well.. maybe youll see later) in a relationship that is/was going really well. About 6 weeks we've been going out now, and about three weeks this guy (Jack) said that my girlfriend liked this other guy (ashley) and of course she said she didn't and things just carried on.

And tonight she just spoke to me, and said we shouldn't go out with each other because it doesn't feel right and that i've changed since this guy said that she liked ashley. I don't know what to do to try and save the relationship - i love her loads.. and i can't do any more than tell her this and how much ill miss her.[/QUOTE]

As sad as it is. She probably likes Ashley. And if she found the time to come talk to you and tell you that she doesn't want to be with you anymore. That means she really doesn't think that your relationship will work out.

[QUOTE=mikethecoug]Ahh. I'm currently (well.. maybe youll see later) in a relationship that is/was going really well. About 6 weeks we've been going out now, and about three weeks this guy (Jack) said that my girlfriend liked this other guy (ashley) and of course she said she didn't and things just carried on.

And tonight she just spoke to me, and said we shouldn't go out with each other because it doesn't feel right and that i've changed since this guy said that she liked ashley. I don't know what to do to try and save the relationship - i love her loads.. and i can't do any more than tell her this and how much ill miss her.[/QUOTE]

Um, I hope you were friends with this girl longer than the amount of time that youve been dating. 6 weeks isnt a long time, and I dont think you should be as attached to someone as you seem to be at this point. Not because I think its wrong, I just dont think its healthy.

But anyway, enough of my opinion. She says yuo guys cant be together...you can try and see if shes willing to try again. If she isnt and she says no, you let it go. Dont pressure her or anything. She'll know where you stand on the issue.