[QUOTE=Jonzey]Only talks to me when she has to. Which I try to make sure is as little as possible. I'm just gonna avoid that bitch as much as possible.[/QUOTE]

Good idea to do that. It sounds like she's making you miserable.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Good idea to do that. It sounds like she's making you miserable.[/QUOTE]


Ya, she really does. I remember a girl who did that to me. She was bad news. Dont let her get you down.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Good idea to do that. It sounds like she's making you miserable.[/QUOTE]
Definately. Just look at this graph:
[url]http://i2.tinypic.com/rbd2ty.png[/url]

[QUOTE=Jonzey]Definately. Just look at this graph:
[url]http://i2.tinypic.com/rbd2ty.png[/url][/QUOTE]

Damn, that's rough.

[QUOTE=Jonzey]Definately. Just look at this graph:
[url]http://i2.tinypic.com/rbd2ty.png[/url][/QUOTE]

Thats no good. :(

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Damn, that's rough.[/QUOTE]
Yeah, MSoffice really went downhill after the 2003 version...

im a firm believer that no one can make you feel any kind of mood you dont choose to feel yourself...


unless you are a pregnant chick, or having PMS :lol:


but even that i could hardly argue as an excuse

[QUOTE=Che Guevara]im a firm believer that no one can make you feel any kind of mood you dont choose to feel yourself...


unless you are a pregnant chick, or having PMS :lol:
[/QUOTE]
I'm both.


:/

well, damn, when you expecting?

[QUOTE=Jonzey]Yeah, MSoffice really went downhill after the 2003 version...[/QUOTE]

:lol:

Help my friend with his girl issue. Here's out MSN conversation:

[QUOTE]
[Prophet 京] says:
I went to Missoula, and didn't really have time to call anyone
• Damien needs a band • says:

[Prophet 京] says:
And now a ton of people are pissed off at me o_O
• Damien needs a band • says:
o.o
[Prophet 京] says:
Including Eva
[Prophet 京] says:
o_o
• Damien needs a band • says:
uh oh
[Prophet 京] says:
Mhm
[Prophet 京] says:
And I haven't even talked to her about it yet.
[Prophet 京] says:
>_>
• Damien needs a band • says:
WHy not?
[Prophet 京] says:
I got in at 9 or so
[Prophet 京] says:
Last night
[Prophet 京] says:
and she wasn't on
[Prophet 京] says:
Meh
[Prophet 京] says:
Anyway
[Prophet 京] says:
The trip was fun
• Damien needs a band • says:
Awesome
[Prophet 京] says:

• Damien needs a band • says:
I forgot why you were going though <.,
[Prophet 京] says:
A friend was having a rough time
[Prophet 京] says:
Really depressed all the time, right?
[Prophet 京] says:
Then I tried to set her up with a friend from here
• Damien needs a band • says:
Oh yeah
• Damien needs a band • says:

[Prophet 京] says:
That ended up hurting her even more, because he's a ****ing douche.
[Prophet 京] says:
And I felt really bad for it
• Damien needs a band • says:
oh shi ><
• Damien needs a band • says:
Setting people up normally doesn't work <.<
[Prophet 京] says:
Because like, I convinced her that he wouldn't
[Prophet 京] says:
And yeah
[Prophet 京] says:
So I went there to cheer her up
[Prophet 京] says:
And I did
• Damien needs a band • says:
you did?
[Prophet 京] says:
And like
[Prophet 京] says:
yeah, I brought Liam and we helped her feel way better
• Damien needs a band • says:
Well, at least she was happy for a little whlie
[Prophet 京] says:

[Prophet 京] says:
Anyway
[Prophet 京] says:
Uhm
[Prophet 京] says:
So like, Eva HATES the girl I visited
[Prophet 京] says:
Because she likes me
[Prophet 京] says:
But the girl, Mia, knows I love Eva and wouldn't do anything
• Damien needs a band • says:
lol, that won't end well. I had the same sort of problem for awhile
[Prophet 京] says:
Before leaving, I told Eva I would call her
[Prophet 京] says:
But then Eva said that she did not want to speak with Mia AT ALL.
[Prophet 京] says:
Well, we were really busy all weekend, and I never really got a chance to be alone for more than 2 minutes.
• Damien needs a band • says:
Don't let the two girls talk...
• Damien needs a band • says:
Seriously, bad idea.
• Damien needs a band • says:
><
[Prophet 京] says:
So I decided not to call, to prevent a fight on the phone and ruin the weekend
[Prophet 京] says:
Good or bad idea?
• Damien needs a band • says:
Not good. girls like being called, no matter what the circumstance, lol.
[Prophet 京] says:
Bleh >_>
• Damien needs a band • says:
She would've felt better if she thought you were thinking about her whiel you were gone
• Damien needs a band • says:
And not the other girl
• Damien needs a band • says:
Since she is jealous
[Prophet 京] says:
gyah
[Prophet 京] says:
But you said not to let them talk, because it was a bad idea
[Prophet 京] says:
And Mia likes Eva
[Prophet 京] says:
And would have asked to talk
[Prophet 京] says:
Mia doesn't know that Eva doesn't like her
• Damien needs a band • says:
Oh, I thought you meant you were trying to get them to talk together
[Prophet 京] says:
Oh, noo
[Prophet 京] says:
I mean, they would have if I called
[Prophet 京] says:
And Eva said she didn't want to talk to Mia
[Prophet 京] says:
And Mia would have asked had I called
[Prophet 京] says:
And yeah, see my problem? >_>
• Damien needs a band • says:
Yeah. if the two girls talk, and Eva doesn't like Mia, they'll just get into a fight. <.< Happened with me
• Damien needs a band • says:
Depending on how volatile Eva is though
[Prophet 京] says:
I just didn't want a fight to happen, and for Mia to think that Eva hates her
[Prophet 京] says:
Then Mia would feel horrible for me even being there
[Prophet 京] says:
And boom, the whole trip would'a been pointless
• Damien needs a band • says:

[Prophet 京] says:
Bah
[Prophet 京] says:
Oh well.
[Prophet 京] says:
>>
[/QUOTE]

I'm sorry that it looks so sloppy. I really don't feel like going through all that and fixing it. If you care to read it, please help him out. I don't know what to say to him.

[QUOTE=Wizard.]Help my friend with his girl issue. Here's out MSN conversation:



I'm sorry that it looks so sloppy. I really don't feel like going through all that and fixing it. If you care to read it, please help him out. I don't know what to say to him.[/QUOTE]


I must not be tracking properly this morning because that made no sense to me at all...

Maybe you need to know a bit of the history first. He is a long-distance thing too, and his girl, Eva, is incredibly jealous of his friend, Mia. He went with one of his friends to visit Mia, because she was really depressed and he wanted to set them up or something, and to go cheer her up. Mia likes him, and Eva knows this, but Mia knows that he's completely dedicated to Eva, so doesn't try anything.

Eva is still incredibly jealous, and is upset that he didn't call her all weekend, so she is probably thinking he's interested in Mia. He didn't call, because if he did, Mia would ask to talk to Eva, to assure her nothing's going on, because she wants to be friends with her. Eva doesn't want to have anything to do with Mia, and won't talk to her. My friend thought it would be a bad idea to call, because if Mia asked to talk to Eva and she refused, it may upset her a little, and he was only there to cheer her up, and he didn't want to ruin the weekend.

is that understandable?

Oic, thanks.

Well, he didn't call, and now it's water under the bridge. So he needs to just go from there.

Yeah, I just told him that they'd get over it pretty much, and that he should've called. I just wasn't sure if that was the right thing for me to say. :-/

UGH! I have Brit literally screaming and crying and repeatedly calling me. What do I do? She's going nuts because I gave her a solid answer that we're not getting back together, because apparently I wasn't too clear before.

I don't know what to say to her! I can't handle her being emotional. i can't stand her being sad. >< ****

I'm sorry to just ignore everyone else's posts, but i'm in need of help.

I always come here, and I always get really good advice. I should have probably asked for advice before I made my mistake, as with hindsight i've done the wrong thing.

For the past 2 years or so, i've been in love with this girl. Absolutely, head over heels about her. Thing is, she's also my best friend. This was why I never did want to tell her. I didn't tell her straight off because;

1. She would never have gone for me.
2. She liked someone else at the time.
3. And because she saw our relationship as good friends only.

So, I was stuck with my thoughts, and feelings for this girl for about a year and a half. Come September, she leaves for uni. Me being an idiot, failed an exam, and am now stuck here until this September when I go off to uni. So, it was really sad seeing her go, because I knew from then on it would never be the same between us. Her being over 300 miles away from me could never have helped anything. All this time she's away in uni, I can't stop thinking about her. I just can't ever get her out of my head. We talk a lot on the phone/text/e-mail whenever we can, so there's still good contact. Late late November, a band are playing by her uni, I go to hers to stay over and watch the band.

Thing is though, i've never once thought of 'trying it on' with her, because it's such a silly idea. It would never work out, and she would hate me forever for advancing. But, I can't actually do anything other than think of her. I need to get it off my chest. I tell her on the trip up there, and it's absolutely ruined our friendship (and my life as I know it so far). I thought she would be more understanding, and see that in time I would get over it; I just needed to get it off my chest! But no, she said some really horrible things, in which I retaliated with more horrible words. Left hers in a sour mood, very upset; with a 5 hour train journey to try and salvage any thought on what to do next.

Well, i've tried everything I can, and i'm becoming more apparent as a pest, than a friend. She never talks to me, wouldn't return texts, or pick up the phone. I'm so heartbroken. I've given up on her, and myself. I feel absolutely drained about what's happened. I still can't get her out of my head, and i've only made it worse. She thinks I resent her now, and I do; but only because she wasn't supportive at all. Of course, what I had to tell her was very shocking. But she just didn't understand at all.

I don't know what to do. I need guidance more than anything I guess. In about a months time, she'll be back home, and this is the worst thing. None of our other direct friends know about what happened. I pleaded with her, and she's kept her promise. But it's going to be SO awkward when she comes back, and we're all in the same room together; they're gonna wonder why we aren't talking. I really have no idea what to do, and i'm hoping someone on here can be of some assistance. I think i'm already over the worst of it, but the hardest thing is that I don't want anyone else to know; and I only ever confided in her before now. I have no-one to talk to.

:(

I really dont know what to tell you, All I can say is that it took alot of courage for you to bring it up and tell her and you should be damn proud of that regardless of what happened, Alot of people would have never said a thing, maybe just give her some time to think about it and get over it and maybe things will be different when she comes home.

So I told her I kissed Kristen yesterday, hoping that she'd hate me or whatever now. That's all I told her though.

Didn't help. Now apparently she wants to kill herself and won't answer the phone. She's acting like a moron. Should I call her dad?

Well, thank you - it means a lot. What hurts most is that she seems to not even give a **** about me now. She has a boyfrined in Uni, and loads of great new friends.

She doesn't need me in her life anymore, but I need her more than ever.

[QUOTE=Wizard.]So I told her I kissed Kristen yesterday, hoping that she'd hate me or whatever now. That's all I told her though.

Didn't help. Now apparently she wants to kill herself and won't answer the phone. She's acting like a moron. Should I call her dad?[/QUOTE]

You may want to call him just to make sure that she is okay. I wouldn't talk to her, though, if I were you. I'm glad you decided to move on. You made the right choice. :thumb:

Ok, her friend is talking to her on the phone, and yelling at me on MSN. So I shouldn't need to involve her dad.

This girl is really chewing me out too. :(

[QUOTE=incubliss]Well, thank you - it means a lot. What hurts most is that she seems to not even give a **** about me now. She has a boyfrined in Uni, and loads of great new friends.

She doesn't need me in her life anymore, but I need her more than ever.[/QUOTE]
Maybe she just dosen't know what to say to you so she developed a new crowd than rather cope with it? I'm not sure if that makes much sense...she may have a new b/f and all these things but that dosen't mean anything, you two were best friends for 2 years if I remember correctly and that's just something you dont walk away from and dont ever talk again, She must have some unresolved issues with it and thats her problem that she took it so harshly, not yours.. She can't stay mad at you because of the way you feel, That's just messed up bro, It's not your fault that she's so perfect to you, And as for her not needing you in her life...You dont know that bro, you dont know what she thinks about when she's lying in bed, Dont lose hope. Have you tried calling her or anything?

:)

I haven't, I wouldn't dare to at the moment. I wouldn't be able to find any words to say. I'm just gonna wait until she comes down in mid April, and talk to her then. By then, I think i'll be much better off than I am now. I mean, 4 months ago I was a wreck. College work went down the drain, I was just the worst i've ever been. I'm almost back to my normal self, but it's taking time.

Thanks for the help.

[QUOTE=Wizard.]Ok, her friend is talking to her on the phone, and yelling at me on MSN. So I shouldn't need to involve her dad.

This girl is really chewing me out too. :([/QUOTE]

:amaze:

I hate it when girls hide behind their friends like that. It really doesn't show much character. If she has something to say to you, she should be saying it to you, and not her friend.

No, it's all her friend. Brit isn't telling her to do it, but I'm friends with this other girl too, and she's pissed at me for upsetting Brit.

Ah, okay. My misunderstanding.

[QUOTE]Leigh~ says:
I just want to say thats for the ****ing greatest year of my life I ****ing love you more than anything and I always will I hope whoever you end up with makes you happy I love you-Brit[/QUOTE]
:upset:

Dumb hoe is layin' a guilt trip on me. It's working too.

My fourth girlfriend, who I dated for seventeen months, is stuck in my head. I dumped her (either because I'm afraid of committment, didn't love her anymore/never did, needed space, any other ****ing rationalization imaginable). I know I should feel some regret for breaking up with her in an undeserved way and for missing a best friend because of it, but cemented to the back wall of my skull are two pictures of what my life could be like.

One is the country farm with a bunch of animals, wonderful kids, and a not-quite-blissful, but certainly manageable marriage to this girl (we were that serious). The other is a transitory landscape that blends every thing and place I've seen and been to. Above all comes my love of writing, but that's wholly dependent on my own motivation, which wears thin no matter which future I favor.

I feel like I could manage both with the right girl, if I loved her enough. And I can't figure out if I love this girl, my now-ex who is torn and aching because of the breakup. Her smile makes me happy and our personalities are like single skis of the same set. But I know there are other girls, besides the bigger problem--I need too much space. I can't be around her for more than three weeks at school without getting sick of things, let alone spending a week at her house. And I've always felt like this. Plus, I just dated her on the rebound; I got rejected and she was there.

I know that this will go away with time and that I just need to keep myself busy. I just can't reconcile my fear of Love, being decimated as a romantic, clinging high schooler, and the portrayal of it in movies.

High Fidelity is my favorite movie. A Love Song for Bobby Long is rating up there with at least my wishes of what love is. And I just can't let myself surrender enough ground to see the other person close enough, let alone hold them at arms length.

[QUOTE=Wizard.]:upset:

Dumb hoe is layin' a guilt trip on me. It's working too.[/QUOTE]

STOP BEING SUCH A PUSS[font=verdana]Y[/font].

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