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purplefeet 03-12-2006 10:32 PM

[QUOTE=Junooni]Why does he have to go away every weekend?[/QUOTE]

His band. They are signed onto a label and are trying to get their full length out. So, he goes up there to practice and party pretty much every weekend (not always but most of the time).

purplefeet 03-12-2006 10:33 PM

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Adnan has a good question, Nicole my love.

And, as for your feelings, I guess you can try to tromp them, but your gut pretty much rules when it comes to that.[/QUOTE]

I just feel like Im being silly, thats all. I mean he didnt do anything wrong, he just didnt come back. Im going to see him tomorrow, so it isnt really a big deal...:confused: bleh.

Junooni 03-12-2006 10:34 PM

So what you're feeling is basically that he's spending time with his band over time with you? I'm just trying to make this clearer.

Sorry I can't help more right now, got 3 tests tomorrow, but will get back to this. Good night.

Special Brew 03-12-2006 10:34 PM

Bawhaha there's a naked girl in my shower. :nawty:

Had an awesome time at the show. I stopped by here to drop off some merch I bought, and Kristen wanted to take a shower, because she smelled like pot because of the people we were was hanging out with, and she can't stand the smell. Kind of useless, since we're just going to go to a party when she gets out. I'm probably going to get drunk for the first time in like 6 months. Hooray for underage drinking!

See you guys tomorrow.

Jom 03-12-2006 10:47 PM

I don't condone underage drinking :(

So be safe, for what it's worth. And have fun I guess.

dazmo 03-12-2006 10:53 PM

[QUOTE=Wizard.]Bawhaha there's a naked girl in my shower. :nawty:

Had an awesome time at the show. I stopped by here to drop off some merch I bought, and Kristen wanted to take a shower, because she smelled like pot because of the people we were was hanging out with, and she can't stand the smell. Kind of useless, since we're just going to go to a party when she gets out. I'm probably going to get drunk for the first time in like 6 months. Hooray for underage drinking!

See you guys tomorrow.[/QUOTE]
Since I'm not gonna go through 5 pages of stuff, im gonna presume that you've decided to drop what's her face (brit, was it?)

Junooni 03-12-2006 10:53 PM

I don't condone drinking at all.

Chaindrive 03-12-2006 11:10 PM

No one condones me, then. :(

*drinker*

purplefeet 03-12-2006 11:24 PM

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]No one condones me, then. :(

*drinker*[/QUOTE]


I do :)

Chaindrive 03-12-2006 11:30 PM

[QUOTE=purplefeet]I do :)[/QUOTE]

Thank you, my Nicole.

grrls unite.

purplefeet 03-12-2006 11:46 PM

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Thank you, my Nicole.

grrls unite.[/QUOTE]


Oh, always.

Im listening to Wild Child by Scorpions..Im in a very good mood now :p

Chaindrive 03-12-2006 11:56 PM

I'm in a okay mood...I had a weird day for some reason...

Panopticon 03-12-2006 11:59 PM

I've sort of got a problem.

I've been going out with my girlfriend for a year and 8 months. I feel like I am very much in love but i feel like this relationship is all me. She isn't doing anything to further it. She hasn't met my parents or even been to my house. She always has an excuse and we haven't gone very far sexually.

I'm always the one that has to call her and she never calls me then gets mad when I don't call her.

When I'm not with her I feel like just letting it all go and just being free without her, but when I'm with her it's completely different.

I'm so confused!:confused:

FA 03-13-2006 12:00 AM

[QUOTE=enemytopublic2]I've sort of got a problem.

I've been going out with my girlfriend for a year and 8 months. I feel like I am very much in love but i feel like this relationship is all me. She isn't doing anything to further it. She hasn't met my parents or even been to my house. She always has an excuse and we haven't gone very far sexually.

I'm always the one that has to call her and she never calls me then gets mad when I don't call her.

When I'm not with her I feel like just letting it all go and just being free without her, but when I'm with her it's completely different.

I'm so confused!:confused:[/QUOTE]

Well it doesn't seem like she's trying to hard to stay with you. Cheat on her, see what she thinks. :thumb:

Chaindrive 03-13-2006 12:05 AM

Nice, Justin. :rolleyes:

You don't always have to be the one to call...so don't.

purplefeet 03-13-2006 12:07 AM

[QUOTE=enemytopublic2]I've sort of got a problem.

I've been going out with my girlfriend for a year and 8 months. I feel like I am very much in love but i feel like this relationship is all me. She isn't doing anything to further it. She hasn't met my parents or even been to my house. She always has an excuse and we haven't gone very far sexually.

I'm always the one that has to call her and she never calls me then gets mad when I don't call her.

When I'm not with her I feel like just letting it all go and just being free without her, but when I'm with her it's completely different.

I'm so confused!:confused:[/QUOTE]

Its not fair that you are the only person who is trying in this relationship.
If you dont call her, she will eventually call you. Maybe you should give that a shot.

Im confused, however, to why she hasnt met your parents yet if you have been dating for almost 2 years :confused: How the hell does that work?

Panopticon 03-13-2006 12:07 AM

yeah...also, lately (read: for the past 3 months) We haven't seen eachother much or talked. It used to be we get home from school, I call her, and we talk till 8pm. Now we barely talk.

Chaindrive 03-13-2006 12:10 AM

[QUOTE=purplefeet]Im confused, however, to why she hasnt met your parents yet if you have been dating for almost 2 years :confused: How the hell does that work?[/QUOTE]

I'd like to know that as well.

Iscariot 03-13-2006 12:11 AM

So that Jazmin girl that I used to be really fond on sent me a message on myspace telling me she moved back in with her mom in Portland and she wanted me to call her. I called her tonight and we talked for about an hour about everything that's been going on. She recently broke up with her boyfriend (this morning :eek: ) and she said she was really happy that I called her. She told me that she loves the necklace I sent her while I was in Kentucky and she's keeping it forever and she wants to get together and smoke bowls this next weekend.

Jared is getting LAID! YES!

Chaindrive 03-13-2006 12:13 AM

Oh, goody.

Hi Jared.

Iscariot 03-13-2006 12:13 AM

Hi Kimmie.

Panopticon 03-13-2006 12:15 AM

[quote=purplefeet]Im confused, however, to why she hasnt met your parents yet if you have been dating for almost 2 years :confused: How the hell does that work?[/quote]

It seems like she always has excuses...

I tried threatening her. I told her that she had a month to come over to my house or else i would completely stop communicating with her unless she said something to me first. I would move out of her locker (we share lockers in school) but i just couldnt go through with it...

purplefeet 03-13-2006 12:25 AM

[QUOTE=Iscariot]So that Jazmin girl that I used to be really fond on sent me a message on myspace telling me she moved back in with her mom in Portland and she wanted me to call her. I called her tonight and we talked for about an hour about everything that's been going on. She recently broke up with her boyfriend (this morning :eek: ) and she said she was really happy that I called her. She told me that she loves the necklace I sent her while I was in Kentucky and she's keeping it forever and she wants to get together and smoke bowls this next weekend.

Jared is getting LAID! YES![/QUOTE]

Wait..I guess I missed a lot...Lela?

[QUOTE=enemytopublic2]It seems like she always has excuses...

I tried threatening her. I told her that she had a month to come over to my house or else i would completely stop communicating with her unless she said something to me first. I would move out of her locker (we share lockers in school) but i just couldnt go through with it...[/QUOTE]

As much as I hate saying this, I dont see your relationship going very far. I mean, lets face it babe..its been almost 2 years and she still has not met your parents. 2 YEARS! You guys apparently are barely talking, she doesnt call you..and even when you threaten her, it doesnt make her change her behaviour. I think it would be best if you were to move on from this, or maybe have some time apart to see if this is the kind of relationship you want to be in.

Special Brew 03-13-2006 09:24 AM

[QUOTE=Junooni]I don't condone drinking at all.[/QUOTE]
Me either. I don't drink ever, but I just wanted to have fun. :-/ I didn't get drunk anyway. I kind of felt bad drinking when kristen doesn't, and was kind of upset that I was. I spent most of the night kissing and making out with her...

I guess there's no chance of going back to Brit now. :-S

Jonny 03-13-2006 10:09 AM

[QUOTE=Wizard.]Me either. I don't drink ever, but I just wanted to have fun. :-/ I didn't get drunk anyway. I kind of felt bad drinking when kristen doesn't, and was kind of upset that I was. I spent most of the night kissing and making out with her...

I guess there's no chance of going back to Brit now. :-S[/QUOTE]
I don't really drink anymore. I just kinda got bored of it. But you realise it's not important.

And y'know, maybe Brit would be a lot happier if you referred to her by name, not by an abbreviation of her country of origin? :p




On a Jonzier note, I've realised I absolutely hate Katy. She managed to send me from being happy, chatty and optimistic to miserable and reclusive in under 2 minutes. Which is like a record or something for her. I really wish there was a way I never had to see her again.

:/

Aakon_Keetreh 03-13-2006 10:14 AM

[QUOTE=Jonzey]I don't really drink anymore. I just kinda got bored of it. But you realise it's not important.

And y'know, maybe Brit would be a lot happier if you referred to her by name, not by an abbreviation of her country of origin? :p




On a Jonzier note, I've realised I absolutely hate Katy. She managed to send me from being happy, chatty and optimistic to miserable and reclusive in under 2 minutes. Which is like a record or something for her. I really wish there was a way I never had to see her again.

:/[/QUOTE]


I think a way to do that, would just to ignore her. If she calls dont pick it up. Just forget and go on with life, but of course this will take time.

Special Brew 03-13-2006 10:14 AM

I sat here for a couple of minutes before I actually knew what you meant about abbreviating her country.

I'm so dumb. :upset:

Jonny 03-13-2006 10:20 AM

[QUOTE=Destined_for]I think a way to do that, would just to ignore her. If she calls dont pick it up. Just forget and go on with life, but of course this will take time.[/QUOTE]
Oh, she doesn't ever call. It's mutual hatred I think. Either that or she's constantly PMSing. I have to see her every day. And there's only 5 of us on my course so we always end up sitting together. Usually me and her next to each other since the other guys are either late or don't show up.

Aakon_Keetreh 03-13-2006 10:23 AM

[QUOTE=Jonzey]Oh, she doesn't ever call. It's mutual hatred I think. Either that or she's constantly PMSing. I have to see her every day. And there's only 5 of us on my course so we always end up sitting together. Usually me and her next to each other since the other guys are either late or don't show up.[/QUOTE]


Does she even talk to you? If she doesnt you could just tell her to stay away from you, or something like that. Tell her your reasons for it too.

[QUOTE=Wizard.]I sat here for a couple of minutes before I actually knew what you meant about abbreviating her country.

I'm so dumb. :upset:[/QUOTE]


haha its okay. Everybody has their dumb moments, i know i have had mine :)

Jonny 03-13-2006 10:47 AM

[QUOTE=Destined_for]Does she even talk to you? If she doesnt you could just tell her to stay away from you, or something like that. Tell her your reasons for it too.[/QUOTE]
Only talks to me when she has to. Which I try to make sure is as little as possible. I'm just gonna avoid that bitch as much as possible.


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