[QUOTE=illmitch;18874773]gonna be honest sam i dont really like talking about having sex on the internet[/QUOTE]

lol that's cool man didn't mean to make you uncomfortable

@malcolm yeah i hope you're right i've never been cheated on that i know of but that seems like it would suck. I guess we could ask brent what it's like :lol:

i mean i've had sex/one night stands with random girls so i cant really think less of girls who do the same thing

youre a horrible person and are going to hell

[QUOTE=blockhead;18874760]did you or have you ever fucked her?[/QUOTE]

nah man, that was a first date kinda thing. we talked a bit back when we used to work together, but she always had bfs. we reconnected at our friend's memorial and kinda took it from there. nothing happened yet but i was fixing to try and make a move when dummy walked in

[QUOTE=illmitch;18874779]i mean i've had sex/one night stands with random girls so i cant really think less of girls who do the same thing[/QUOTE]

I've done that a few times too when I was younger but the vast majority of girls I have slept with/hooked up with were really close friends or girlfriends. I try not to have casual sex with people I don't know because it makes me feel like a scumbag.

I think that saying is true "A key that can open any lock is a really great key but a lock that will open for any key is a pretty shitty lock."

i dont think that saying is true at all, its pretty sexist

it basically goes along with the idea that guys are always pursuing sex and girls aren't, and guys have to "conquer" girls to have sex with them

idk i'm getting liberal here

[QUOTE=Tyler;18874782]nah man, that was a first date kinda thing. we talked a bit back when we used to work together, but she always had bfs. we reconnected at our friend's memorial and kinda took it from there. nothing happened yet but i was fixing to try and make a move when dummy walked in[/QUOTE]

that sucks man. maybe she will think more highly of you for handling the situation well and plus in comparison to him i'm sure you look fantastic

[QUOTE=blockhead;18874786]that sucks man. maybe she will think more highly of you for handling the situation well and plus in comparison to him i'm sure you look fantastic[/QUOTE]

that's certainly the hope. she's pretty awesome, never met a girl i can sit around and listen to old anarcho punk and crust records with so i'm hoping it goes somewhere. she lives kinda far though, total opposite side of the city.

opposite side of the city isnt that big a deal bro

[QUOTE=illmitch;18874785]i dont think that saying is true at all, its pretty sexist

it basically goes along with the idea that guys are always pursuing sex and girls aren't, and guys have to "conquer" girls to have sex with them

idk i'm getting liberal here[/QUOTE]

Aren't men hardwired to spread their seed and women are supposed to be more selective of their mates because they can only have a baby every 9 months? I know birth control exists but I think biology plays a factor in how people view sex.

Any way I feel like I have the right to judge women who whore around because I don't sleep with random people.

[QUOTE=witchxrapist;18874789]opposite side of the city isnt that big a deal bro[/QUOTE]

toronto's kinda big though, it takes me at least 45 minutes on the transit to get down to her area. idgaf or anything though, when i lived in the burbs and dated a girl in midtown, with the way the subway is set up it took me like an hour 30. if the broad is worth it, i dont mind

i don't think either of us have studied enough biology to make a statement about how it affects human sexuality

do you judge men who have sex with lots of girls too, because you don't sleep around?

[QUOTE=blockhead;18874790]Aren't men hardwired to spread their seed and women are supposed to be more selective of their mates because they can only have a baby every 9 months? I know birth control exists but I think biology plays a factor in how people view sex.[/QUOTE]

idk that's kind of an arcane and sexist way of looking at things

[QUOTE]Any way I feel like I have the right to judge women who whore around because I don't sleep with random people.[/QUOTE]
I'm not sure if you have the right, but I think it's fair so long as you do the same for men. My roommate has probably slept with more women than I've ever met, and I think it's repulsive. Much the same for a close female friend of mine. She's real easy and again, repulsive.

^^^ basically sums up my thoughts on the matter

[QUOTE=Tyler;18874787]that's certainly the hope. she's pretty awesome, never met a girl i can sit around and listen to old anarcho punk and crust records with so i'm hoping it goes somewhere. she lives kinda far though, total opposite side of the city.[/QUOTE]

that feeling you get when you go on the first few dates with a really cool new girl is great

[QUOTE=Tyler;18874798]I'm not sure if you have the right, but I think it's fair so long as you do the same for men. My roommate has probably slept with more women than I've ever met, and I think it's repulsive. Much the same for a close female friend of mine. She's real easy and again, repulsive.[/QUOTE]
i'm judgmental to both sexes as well hi5

i have the same situation with two good friends... and theyre dating now

and they both constantly spam each other's facebook walls like omg bb ily and then link a techno video, its like theyre desperately trying to convince each other that theyre not sleeping around, but they totally are

girl flipped out on me because i unsubscribed from her facebook page in order to alleviate the burden on my news feed :lol:

[QUOTE=Tyler;18874798]idk that's kind of an arcane and sexist way of looking at things


I'm not sure if you have the right, but I think it's fair so long as you do the same for men. My roommate has probably slept with more women than I've ever met, and I think it's repulsive. Much the same for a close female friend of mine. She's real easy and again, repulsive.[/QUOTE]

I don't think that's sexist because I'm looking at it from a biological perspective. That's the way men and women are programmed to view sex. People just want to be so PC and accepting of everything but I believe in calling a spade a spade.

I hold myself to the same standard that I judge other people by. There have been plenty of times I could have fucked girls but didn't because I thought it would be wrong since I didn't really even know them. I agree about it being repulsive. This is why so many people have STDs now.

the worst is when my roommate uses me to pick up chicks. i want to meet girls pick up girls etc but i dont want to outright lie to them. he uses me being a writer as a way to start convos but always says it's my birthday or some shit to which i always go "oh, no it isn't".

i mean i'd love random hookups here and there sure but i'd rather date/hang out and not ruin a girl's week yknow? im kind of a catch iw ouldn't wanna hurt anyones feelinz

if men are programmed to spread their seed why are there gay people

[QUOTE]I don't think that's sexist because I'm looking at it from a biological perspective. That's the way men and women are programmed to view sex.[/QUOTE]
That's societal though, not biological.

[QUOTE=illmitch;18874808]if men are programmed to spread their seed why are there gay people[/QUOTE]

because sometimes butts need planting too

because gay people are deviantz~*~*~*

[QUOTE=illmitch;18874808]if men are programmed to spread their seed why are there gay people[/QUOTE]

That's like saying why are there serial killers? They're deviants. I don't mean that in a judgmental way but more in a by the definition way. I'm fine with gay people.

[QUOTE=Tyler;18874809]That's societal though, not biological.[/QUOTE]

Well you could say it's both but males want to impregnate as many women as possible and women are naturally more selective because they can't have more than one baby every 9 months.

I'm almost positive that's a biological fact but if anyone can prove me wrong feel free to.

Where is mr ron when you need him?

just saying you can't use 19th century biological principles to explain human sexuality, human sexuality is a lot more complex than that

well considering the bisexual tendencies of most humans and animals in general i dont really think homosexuality is deviant at all

compare women to locks

claim u aren't sexist

a kid on my lacrosse team freshman year had sex with 87 girls in his life, in 2009. he's easily broken 100 by now. wonder if he ever got crabs thatd be pretty funny

[QUOTE=StaffReviewer;18874831]compare women to locks

claim u aren't sexist[/QUOTE]

I didn't invent the metaphor. What would you know about any of this nick? You're a fat, shut in slob who aspires to be a transexual.

I don't believe in all this liberal, PC bullshit that you guys do. If someone sleeps around a lot they're a whore with poor morals and they deserve to get STDs. There's no reason to whore around with random people whenever you're horny. People who make a habit of that are trashy in my book.

I have to go to sleep but this has been an interesting conversation.

[QUOTE=illmitch;18874824]just saying you can't use 19th century biological principles to explain human sexuality, human sexuality is a lot more complex than that[/QUOTE]

How is that "19th century bio concept" any less relevant now?

How do you explain women who have sex with random people all the time? I think it's poor self esteem and morals. For example I know a girl who has slept with 30+ people and she's 21. I don't think there's any kind of reasonable explanation for that other than her being a slut.

because in the 19th century scientists were dumb and prejudiced

maybe she has a bigger sexual appetite than other people and doesn't care for relationships? what gives you the right to play armchair psychologist? you never answered what you think of guys who have sex with lots of girls, either

sam you do realize that 19th century biological principles were the ones saying black people deserve to be conquered because of the principle of survival of the fittest, right

early psychiatrists diagnosed women who enjoyed sex with nymphomania and prescribed them dildos

js

mappy do you ever post anything not about dildos

lol

[QUOTE=illmitch;18874849]because in the 19th century scientists were dumb and prejudiced

maybe she has a bigger sexual appetite than other people and doesn't care for relationships? what gives you the right to play armchair psychologist? you never answered what you think of guys who have sex with lots of girls, either[/QUOTE]

I did answer the question, I said I think they're scumbags. She should control herself more in my opinion especially since 1/4 of sexually active adults in America have Herpes and even more people have HPV. I didn't say my "armchair psychology" was definitively correct or anything. A lot of psychologists seem to think that's true too from what I've understand (about the father issues and poor self esteem.)

I think our society is way too PC and wants to be tolerant of things that really shouldn't be accepted.

[QUOTE=xMalcolmXx;18874859]mappy do you ever post anything not about dildos[/QUOTE]

not a single thing

if she makes sure guys wear condoms whats wrong with that

also i once knew this scene slut girl who had sex with 21 guys in a single year

and do you know where she is now?

pregnant [I]with her husbands baby[/I]

moral of the story is who cares as long as you don't cheat or get pregnant/stds

[QUOTE=illmitch;18874852]sam you do realize that 19th century biological principles were the ones saying black people deserve to be conquered because of the principle of survival of the fittest, right[/QUOTE]

um yeah i'm aware there were theories like that around the time but I don't really think that's relevant other than the time period.

Tell me why you think that the theory that men want to spread their seed and women are naturally more selective of their mates is wrong? You don't think that makes sense from a biological/evolutionary standpoint? It makes sense to me, men want to pass on their genes as much as possible and women want the best potential mate.