[QUOTE=Jom]Have fun on the honeymoon.[/QUOTE]

Since you and I couldn't ever get it together I had to go elsewhere.

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[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Since you and I couldn't ever get it together I had to go elsewhere.

*expects edit or delete*[/QUOTE]



yeah .... I got tickets for two for a cruise in the Mediteranean. :)

*also expects edit or delete*

[QUOTE=g°®†]yeah .... I got tickets for two for a cruise in the Mediteranean. :)

*also expects edit or delete*[/QUOTE]


Does that make you our e-dad now? or e-stepdad, perhaps....:confused:


To ilikebasslikethis- Yeah, I mean, she could verywell have meant that truly. I know i had a situation like that, with my (ex)girlfriend, where I thought i was just giving her attention, but in retrospect, I was quite overbearing there after every class, etc..

But yeah, wait a few days and see. But if you're not to keen on her freindship anyway, i guess you needn't worry too much.

But of course, more expierinced L&Rers have much better advice.

[QUOTE=Ibasslikethis!]Hello L&R thread.

I am pissed off. My exgirlfriend made a huge deal about wanting to stay friends with me, and then about three weeks ago, jsut stopped talking to me.
I saw her online last night, and I talked to her about random things like we usually talk about, then before I went to bed, I asked her what happened, and why she stoppped talking to me. this is what we said:

me: well, its like you have been avoiding me
her: hey im about to say something and i mean it in the nicest way possible.
her: are you ready?
me: sure
her: my life doesnt revolve around you anymore, so dont think what you said offends me
her: i have **** to do and people to take care of
her: me and you are still friends but just cos i have things to do doesnt mean im avoiding you

i understand she is busy, but the way she said it, it hurt me. I told one of my other friends, who doesnt like her, and she told me just forget about her, and to stop being friends with her.
i dont know. am i over reacting?[/QUOTE]
Sounds like the state I'm in with my ex at the moment. I broke up with him a couple of weeks ago and he keeps obsessively trying to contact me. Before we went out, he never used to come online because he had dial up, and when we were going out he would come online all the time and talk to me all the time. He still does it now and I know he's doing it specifically to talk to me, if I don't answer for a few minutes he gets seriously paranoid. It's not that I'm avoiding, just trying to encourage a little less contact to let him cool down. If I don't answer online he rings my mobile, if I don't answer that he rings my home phone. Give her space otherwise you'll just annoy her and there will be less chance of you staying mates.

[QUOTE=Herbert_da_fish]if I don't answer for a few minutes he gets seriously paranoid. If I don't answer online he rings my mobile, if I don't answer that he rings my home phone. Give her space otherwise you'll just annoy her and there will be less chance of you staying mates.[/QUOTE]

You should tell him to stop or else he won't. Honesty is the best policy and all that.

[QUOTE=g°®†]yeah .... I got tickets for two for a cruise in the Mediteranean. :)

[/QUOTE]
Lucky bastard.

[QUOTE=Tillius]Lucky bastard.[/QUOTE]

I'll divorce him when you turn 18. :)

Who are you going out with THIS week?

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]

Who are you going out with THIS week?[/QUOTE]
:lol:
Still Pamela. Still Pamela.
I think it'll stay that way for awhile, unless of course something else happens, but I'm not gonna leave her for Erica or anything like that.

[QUOTE=Ibasslikethis!]Hello L&R thread.

I am pissed off. My exgirlfriend made a huge deal about wanting to stay friends with me, and then about three weeks ago, jsut stopped talking to me.
I saw her online last night, and I talked to her about random things like we usually talk about, then before I went to bed, I asked her what happened, and why she stoppped talking to me. this is what we said:

me: well, its like you have been avoiding me
her: hey im about to say something and i mean it in the nicest way possible.
her: are you ready?
me: sure
her: my life doesnt revolve around you anymore, so dont think what you said offends me
her: i have **** to do and people to take care of
her: me and you are still friends but just cos i have things to do doesnt mean im avoiding you

i understand she is busy, but the way she said it, it hurt me. I told one of my other friends, who doesnt like her, and she told me just forget about her, and to stop being friends with her.
i dont know. am i over reacting?[/QUOTE]

What she said doesn't sound [i]that[/i] unreasonable to me. A little bitchy, but not unreasonable. Just give her the space she wants. Instead of calling her or trying to talk to her, just occupy your time with something else. Eventually you'll only be calling her once a week instead of every day and from there if she's still not hip on the friends thing, just break away from her all together.

hi thread

just in a really deep mood kinda.. just want to go up and hug everyone

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]My friend doesn't like my double posts. What he doesn't see is when you merge posts in a thread like this; it detracts from the attention Kimmie, or whomever is dishing advice, needs to give inidividually.

*sends my psycho guy to your room with a chainsaw*

In other news...I just got married. To Gort. Congratulate me.[/QUOTE]

congraduations!

Hi Kyle and Jon.

Thanks for the congrats on my e-marriage. :p

I feel like complete and utter sh[size=2]it[/size].

If how I felt was crap, you'd need a ladder to get to the mid-section.

:upset::upset::upset:

sooo tomorrow im playing in front of my grade (680 people :eek: ) with a band and we're playing Ender by Finch.

I have never played in front of more than a dozen people so it's going to be pretty nerve wracking........

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]I'll divorce him when you turn 18. :)

Who are you going out with THIS week?[/QUOTE]




:eek: :upset:



...it's okay though ... I always have my love interest (the one I've told you guys about). Things are moving along with her ... slowly but surely.

[QUOTE=g°®†]:eek: :upset:



...it's okay though ... I always have my love interest (the one I've told you guys about). Things are moving along with her ... slowly but surely.[/QUOTE]

Sometimes it takes awhile to get to where you want to be.

Hi, hubby.

When are we going on the cruise? :)

sup thunder? I'm gonna be playing to at least 200-300 people on the 31st, so I kinda know how you feel. First actual gig, not counting guitar class concerts, those are ensemble things that no one actually listens to, but this is gonna be the first real Gig.

International night at school, so I'm performing this:

[url]http://rapidshare.de/files/14874866/12_Dobara_Phir_Say__Acoustic_.mp3.html[/url]

Enjoy.

[QUOTE=Junooni]sup thunder? I'm gonna be playing to at least 200-300 people on the 31st, so I kinda know how you feel. First actual gig, not counting guitar class concerts, those are ensemble things that no one actually listens to, but this is gonna be the first real Gig.

International night at school, so I'm performing this:

[url]http://rapidshare.de/files/14874866/12_Dobara_Phir_Say__Acoustic_.mp3.html[/url]

Enjoy.[/QUOTE]

whats up?
niiice dude.. this sounds really cool. What I play is really easy, just strumming chords but I do forget the transitions sometimes.. :( i maaay want to pay attention to those on stage tomorrow

[QUOTE=g°®†]:eek: :upset:



...it's okay though ... I always have my love interest (the one I've told you guys about). Things are moving along with her ... slowly but surely.[/QUOTE]
you have the best avatar on this mothafu[size=2]cking[/size] planet. Congrats. :thumb:

Good luck with that, man.
Chords are fun, I kinda have that problem too, transitions are gay. My only main problem is I'm kinda sloppy at times, you got any tips for that?

[QUOTE=Junooni]Good luck with that, man.
Chords are fun, I kinda have that problem too, transitions are gay. My only main problem is I'm kinda sloppy at times, you got any tips for that?[/QUOTE]

haha i wish.. im a sloppy player too
but good luck with yours too

[QUOTE=Junooni]Good luck with that, man.
Chords are fun, I kinda have that problem too, transitions are gay. My only main problem is I'm kinda sloppy at times, you got any tips for that?[/QUOTE]

Practice. I barely play guitar (well, not really, I can play good rhythm) but the speed and accuracy came from a ton of practice.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Sometimes it takes awhile to get to where you want to be.

Hi, hubby.

When are we going on the cruise? :)[/QUOTE]



This upcoming Friday ... that way, we can spend the entire day Saturday basking in the sun, enjoying the view of the waterfront of Greece, sipping on Long Beaches and beers.

[QUOTE=g°®†]This upcoming Friday ... that way, we can spend the entire day Saturday basking in the sun, enjoying the view of the waterfront of Greece, sipping on Long Beaches and beers.[/QUOTE]

Sounds lovely. I can't wait.

[QUOTE=thunderzstruck]haha i wish.. im a sloppy player too
but good luck with yours too[/QUOTE]


yeshshir..i got time, tho. Almost a month. but I gotta find a singer, as mine called me up this morning and said he couldnt. Some crap about writing a thesis for his senior year of college and needing it to graduate or something..:p

ok so last night i spent from 9pm to 3am talking to sierra on MSN, now thats 6hours, its pretty normal though. We do it all the time.

Then today i was writing her a letter for about 5hours on off, its v.long.

Then she called me at 12 and we talked for 2hours on the phone.

as you can tell we talk alot, its like this all the time and i love it - just missing her with me is the worst.

but as we were on the phone my mom came out started being all mad and said "that girl has no respect for you or the family" and she heard it.
She thinks, even before, my mom hates her and my family do not like her - to me, i dont care what my family thing, cause i dont like them and they dont really matter to me at all. Il be gone in July and wont have to deal with them.

but it really got her down this time and she was realy quiet for the rest of the conversation. i know its going to be on her mind forever, and i dont know what to say to make her know that it dosent matter. im really going to off on my mom tomorrow for what she said - its really bummed me out and her, she is really upset over it and yea.
even my sister on the same night was complainig about me running up a 150euro phonebill and she thinks its all her fault. Its not, i told her i was paying for it and that she dosent have to worry.

i dont know what to say to her though about what my mom said.

[QUOTE=~grif~]ok so last night i spent from 9pm to 3am talking to sierra on MSN, now thats 6hours, its pretty normal though. We do it all the time.

Then today i was writing her a letter for about 5hours on off, its v.long.

Then she called me at 12 and we talked for 2hours on the phone.

as you can tell we talk alot, its like this all the time and i love it - just missing her with me is the worst.

but as we were on the phone my mom came out started being all mad and said "that girl has no respect for you or the family" and she heard it.
She thinks, even before, my mom hates her and my family do not like her - to me, i dont care what my family thing, cause i dont like them and they dont really matter to me at all. Il be gone in July and wont have to deal with them.

but it really got her down this time and she was realy quiet for the rest of the conversation. i know its going to be on her mind forever, and i dont know what to say to make her know that it dosent matter. im really going to off on my mom tomorrow for what she said - its really bummed me out and her, she is really upset over it and yea.
even my sister on the same night was complainig about me running up a 150euro phonebill and she thinks its all her fault. Its not, i told her i was paying for it and that she dosent have to worry.

i dont know what to say to her though about what my mom said.[/QUOTE]
why dont you telln her, exactly what you just wrote

[QUOTE=dazmo]why dont you telln her, exactly what you just wrote[/QUOTE]
eh?

like tell her you dont care what ur family thinks, its ur life, not their's and they dont have the connection you two have with each other, and you'd drop your family in a second for her:)

[QUOTE=dazmo]like tell her you dont care what ur family thinks, its ur life, not their's and they dont have the connection you two have with each other, and you'd drop your family in a second for her:)[/QUOTE]
i did tell her that i dont care about what my family thinks. But its not that - its that she cares what my family think, my mom.
i told her i was sorry, apologised for my mom and like said not to worry about it and so on...but she was still pretty upset about it.