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ProSeries 03-15-2006 02:07 PM

[QUOTE=Wizard.]Not at all. *sigh* because I've been around too many sluts before. I hate sluts with a fiery passion. I don't understand them.[/QUOTE]

Sluts are everywhere, you can't not be around them.
Though, I don't hate sluts. Just pity them.
[QUOTE=Tillius]'twas a joke my good sir.[/QUOTE]

I don't know, you player.
>.>
<.<

jessy rabbit 03-15-2006 02:09 PM

[QUOTE=Steerpike]Have you ever considered just telling him to take the dildo out of his [size=2]a[/size]ss and quit the Jekyll and Hyde routine? There really is no excuse for that sort of manipulative, shifty behavior.[/QUOTE]

yeah i told him that he was only nice to me when he felt like it or thought that i wasn't kinda under his control anymore or something. but he got upset and i felt sorry for him.

Special Brew 03-15-2006 02:09 PM

[QUOTE=ProSeries]Sluts are everywhere, you can't not be around them.[/QUOTE]
yeah, but my first two girlfriends were both huge sluts. Especially the second one, and she was the first girl I thought I was "in love" with. The hoe had sex with 3 other guys furing our 4 month relationship, and one was within the first week of dating me.

ProSeries 03-15-2006 02:11 PM

[QUOTE=Wizard.]yeah, but my first two girlfriends were both huge sluts. Especially the second one, and she was the first girl I thought I was "in love" with. The hoe had sex with 3 other guys furing our 4 month relationship, and one was within the first week of dating me.[/QUOTE]

Ummmm...look on the bright side, you did get some.
Wait...did you!?

Tillius 03-15-2006 02:12 PM

[QUOTE=ProSeries]I don't know, you player.
>.>
<.<[/QUOTE]
:lol:

[quote=ProSeries]Ummmm...look on the bright side, you did get some.
Wait...did you!?[/quote]
No offense to Wizard or anything, but getting sex from a slut is not much of an accomplishment.

jessy rabbit 03-15-2006 02:13 PM

[QUOTE=Wizard.]Tons of younger girls are like that, so don't worry. :-/

With many young girls, they'll do anything for a guy they like, or at least, it seems so.[/QUOTE]

I'm not that young! that sounded a bit patronising, and i have to say, your age doesn't affect how much you'd do for a guy. right?

Tillius 03-15-2006 02:14 PM

[QUOTE=jessy rabbit]I'm not that young! that sounded a bit patronising, and i have to say, your age doesn't affect how much you'd do for a guy. right?[/QUOTE]
You're right.


And how old are you by the way?

Special Brew 03-15-2006 02:15 PM

[QUOTE=jessy rabbit]I'm not that young! that sounded a bit patronising, and i have to say, your age doesn't affect how much you'd do for a guy. right?[/QUOTE]
I didn't mean it like that, I didn't mean that you were one of those kinds of girls. It was a general statement. Older girls seem to know better, and have more will than younger ones. Not always true.

Chaindrive 03-15-2006 02:15 PM

[QUOTE=Che Guevara]"bods for mods"


the irony of the situation is priceless :lol: It really helps me NOT get pissed over something this dumb[/QUOTE]

That's funnier than [size=2]f[/size]uck.

:lol:

ProSeries 03-15-2006 02:15 PM

[QUOTE=Tillius]:lol:


No offense to Wizard or anything, but getting sex from a slut is not much of an accomplishment.[/QUOTE]

No, not really. But getting cheated on with 3 guys within 4 months and not getting some is quite an accomplishment.

jessy rabbit 03-15-2006 02:15 PM

i'm 16

Tillius 03-15-2006 02:16 PM

[QUOTE=ProSeries]No, not really. But getting cheated on with 3 guys within 4 months and not getting some is quite an accomplishment.[/QUOTE]
Not a very good one though.

ProSeries 03-15-2006 02:17 PM

[QUOTE=Tillius]Not a very good one though.[/QUOTE]

Obviously, it's quite embarrasing actually. It's an accomplishment only gullible innocents could accomplish. No offense Wizard.

Steerpike 03-15-2006 02:17 PM

[QUOTE=jessy rabbit]yeah i told him that he was only nice to me when he felt like it or thought that i wasn't kinda under his control anymore or something. but he got upset and i felt sorry for him.[/QUOTE]

Don't. He's just being manipulative. He knows your instinct is to feel sorry for him.

jessy rabbit 03-15-2006 02:19 PM

yeah. i'm trying to be stronger now though! i used to be kinda dependent on him in a way, so that's why it's been pretty hard. all this advice has been good though. :)

[QUOTE=ProSeries]Obviously, it's quite embarrasing actually. It's an accomplishment only gullible innocents could accomplish. No offense Wizard.[/QUOTE]

well maybe if he really thought he loved her then he didn't just want to use her for sex

ProSeries 03-15-2006 02:21 PM

[QUOTE=jessy rabbit]yeah. i'm trying to be stronger now though! i used to be kinda dependent on him in a way, so that's why it's been pretty hard. all this advice has been good though. :)[/QUOTE]

But seriously, it's upto you to figure relationships out. Talk to your mom, your best friends, a psychiatrist...

[QUOTE=jessy rabbit]well maybe if he really thought he loved her then he didn't just want to use her for sex[/QUOTE]

Falling in love within 4 months is just a hasty assumption, and just non-existent. I'm sure he realises how pathetic it was.

Tillius 03-15-2006 02:22 PM

[QUOTE=ProSeries]But seriously, it's upto you to figure relationships out. Talk to your mom, your best friends, a psychiatrist...[/QUOTE]
We are all those things.

Except we're unregistered in psychiatry.

jessy rabbit 03-15-2006 02:23 PM

yeah i talk to my friends, my mum is cool but she loves my ex so she's no help lol. and a psychiatrist? i'm not crazy yet :)

ProSeries 03-15-2006 02:23 PM

[QUOTE=Tillius]We are all those things.

Except we're unregistered in psychiatry.[/QUOTE]

But we are strangers..it's always easier pouring your heart out to people you know, and that to, in person.

Chaindrive 03-15-2006 02:23 PM

[QUOTE=Tillius]We are all those things.

Except we're unregistered in psychiatry.[/QUOTE]

We don't need no stinkin' certificate... :p

jessy rabbit 03-15-2006 02:24 PM

[QUOTE=Tillius]We are all those things.

Except we're unregistered in psychiatry.[/QUOTE]

how are you my mum?

Special Brew 03-15-2006 02:24 PM

[QUOTE=ProSeries]Ummmm...look on the bright side, you did get some.
Wait...did you!?[/QUOTE]
Nope, I didn't. I've only slept with one girl, which was my fourth and last girlfriend. I try to avoid it actually, unless I'm sure I'm going to last awhile with that girl.

ProSeries 03-15-2006 02:24 PM

[QUOTE=jessy rabbit]yeah i talk to my friends, my mum is cool but she loves my ex so she's no help lol. and a psychiatrist? i'm not crazy yet :)[/QUOTE]

Lol. Your mum loves your ex?
Call Jerry Springer.

[QUOTE=Wizard.]Nope, I didn't. I've only slept with one girl, which was my fourth and last girlfriend. I try to avoid it actually, unless I'm sure I'm going to last awhile with that girl.[/QUOTE]

Experience is always good.
>.>
<.<

Tillius 03-15-2006 02:24 PM

[QUOTE=jessy rabbit]yeah i talk to my friends, my mum is cool but she loves my ex so she's no help lol. and a psychiatrist? i'm not crazy yet :)[/QUOTE]
Wouldn't your mom kinda team up with you no matter what, though?

Steerpike 03-15-2006 02:25 PM

[QUOTE=jessy rabbit]yeah. i'm trying to be stronger now though! i used to be kinda dependent on him in a way, so that's why it's been pretty hard. all this advice has been good though. :)[/QUOTE]

Think of this experience as a lesson learned the hard way. There are a lot of men out there who are mentally and emotionally unstable. They abuse and take for granted people close to them and refuse to accept any help. You cannot change other people, least of all these types.

That's not to say this experience should sour you to men. It's just a spectrum. On the lower end, there's the guys who cheat and manipulate. On the upper end, there are the men who become the love of your life. It just takes a little more trying to get the latter.

You just need to watch out and never be afraid to call them on second-class (or no-class) behavior at any time.

jessy rabbit 03-15-2006 02:26 PM

yeah but there's too much to tell her. she just found out that i wasn't a virgin the other month, i don't want to pile too much on her at once. besides my friends are a good help. and my mum loves him as a sort of son lol

[QUOTE=ProSeries]But we are strangers..it's always easier pouring your heart out to people you know, and that to, in person.[/QUOTE]

actually, sometimes it's easier talking to strangers.

ProSeries 03-15-2006 02:27 PM

[QUOTE=jessy rabbit]yeah but there's too much to tell her. she just found out that i wasn't a virgin the other month, i don't want to pile too much on her at once. besides my friends are a good help. and my mum loves him as a sort of son lol[/QUOTE]

Why didn't you say so. Call Jerry Springer incase, though...

Steerpike 03-15-2006 02:27 PM

[QUOTE=jessy rabbit]yeah but there's too much to tell her. she just found out that i wasn't a virgin the other month, i don't want to pile too much on her at once. besides my friends are a good help. and my mum loves him as a sort of son lol[/QUOTE]

Another clear demonstration of just how manipulative this guy is. She needs to know just what this guy has been doing, one way or another. Don't hold back for fear of burdening her. She's a parent, that's her job.

ProSeries 03-15-2006 02:28 PM

[QUOTE=jessy rabbit]actually, sometimes it's easier talking to strangers.[/QUOTE]

That's cause this is the internet. You're not face to face. It's much easier. If we met up with you in person, you'd be running scared.

Chaindrive 03-15-2006 02:29 PM

[QUOTE=Steerpike]She's a parent, that's her job.[/QUOTE]

Exactly.

jessy rabbit 03-15-2006 02:31 PM

[QUOTE=ProSeries]That's cause this is the internet. You're not face to face. It's much easier. If we met up with you in person, you'd be running scared.[/QUOTE]

well, talking to a computer with strangers on it is easier then

Tillius 03-15-2006 02:32 PM

[QUOTE=jessy rabbit]yeah but there's too much to tell her. she just found out that i wasn't a virgin the other month, i don't want to pile too much on her at once. besides my friends are a good help. and my mum loves him as a sort of son lol[/QUOTE]
Yeah, but you're her ACTUAL daughter.

ProSeries 03-15-2006 02:34 PM

[QUOTE=jessy rabbit]well, talking to a computer with strangers on it is easier then[/QUOTE]

Yeah, I guess. But not everyone is honest like they claim. Especially on the internet..

jessy rabbit 03-15-2006 02:35 PM

i know, but she confuses me and keeps asking me about it afterwards when i just wanna sort things out for myself. if i really need to talk to her, i will, but this seems a bit trivial and she might brush it off as a silly teenage thing.

Special Brew 03-15-2006 02:35 PM

[QUOTE=ProSeries]No, not really. But getting cheated on with 3 guys within 4 months and not getting some is quite an accomplishment.[/QUOTE]
She tried to get me to have sex with her, but I wouldn't. Probably one of the reasons she dumped me, that, and me getting pissed at her over one of the guys. I didn't know she slept with others until afterwards.

[QUOTE=ProSeries]Experience is always good.
>.>
<.<[/QUOTE]
The way I see it, sex is something very special you only share with people you truly love. I wouldn't have sex with someone for fun, or for experience.

jessy rabbit 03-15-2006 02:35 PM

shes mostly concerned that i do well in my exams right now as well

kurrpt 03-15-2006 02:36 PM

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]That's funnier than [size=2]f[/size]uck.

:lol:[/QUOTE]


yea, its my belief that this litte factoid led to the perm banning


Surprisingly, 2 people totally supported my request for a account merger. The crazy thing is, its not like i talk to those people frequently. Apparently they approve of my posting habbits, and find the incident be extremely isolated as i stated in that respective thread.


"Im just a victim of circumstance" :lol:


damn that would make a good UT


/changes

ProSeries 03-15-2006 02:37 PM

[QUOTE=Wizard.]She tried to get me to have sex with her, but I wouldn't. Probably one of the reasons she dumped me, that, and me getting pissed at her over one of the guys. I didn't know she slept with others until afterwards.


The way I see it, sex is something very special you only share with people you truly love. I wouldn't have sex with someone for fun, or for experience.[/QUOTE]

Sigh, that's what they all say. All them hypocrits. I'm not saying that you're lying. But I've seen so many guys/girls who claim that they'll wait for the person they truely love, but just succumb to temptation, or just were saying that to attract attention and thus, eventually get laid.

And in todays generation, having experience is a good trait, which women and men alike look for...

EDIT: There's a big difference between having a one night stand with a slut, and having sex with a girl you've been with for a while. You did the right thing not having sex with that slut, though. As long as you and your girlfriend/s agree to having consunsual sex, there's nothing wrong with that.

Tillius 03-15-2006 02:42 PM

[QUOTE=Wizard.]She tried to get me to have sex with her, but I wouldn't. Probably one of the reasons she dumped me, that, and me getting pissed at her over one of the guys. I didn't know she slept with others until afterwards.


The way I see it, sex is something very special you only share with people you truly love. I wouldn't have sex with someone for fun, or for experience.[/QUOTE]
You're commendable. I praise you.:thumb:

jessy rabbit 03-15-2006 02:42 PM

What is a slut classified as anyways?


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