Thanks Tojes. That's appreciated. :) I'll bear it in mind.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]What did you tell your mom?[/QUOTE]
i didnt. if she asks il say it, but i told them not to get my mother involved because im 18, old enough to sort things out myself.

Becky: you've just had uncharacteristically bad luck. A lot of it hasn't really been your fault, from the looks of things you've written here or on MSN. You just seem to be attracted to or run into guys who aren't serious about commitment and that lets you down in the end because you don't see it coming. It's kind of hard to find people who want to be serious with one another at the age of eighteen. But just because you've had a bad string of luck [i]now[/i] doesn't mean that you will continue to do so when you're 19, 20, 21, and older. There will be that certain maturity hit and a lot of things will be more sensical or what-have-you. But just because what happened when you were younger and at your current age - as tragic or unfortunate as they may be - you can still walk under the sun and you can still be you, and things will work themselves out. On a positive, at least you've been learning about what you want.

Tojes' story: it was kind of like reading a story about myself, in a way, except not really. Excuse that Byzantine sentence.

It would be rather silly of me to give you advice because it'd be somewhat like the blind leading the blind, in a way, sort of.

But, I will tell you this:

Regardless of what institution you go to, you [i]will[/i] be meeting hundreds, even thousands, of new people. Everyday, in every way. A new school is like a brand new start: nobody is going to judge you for your past, they're only going to judge you based on how you present yourself and your behavior to them and others. People pick up on you when you treat others well, and will acknowledge it. You're going to have new neighbors, new classmates, and eventually new friends and acquaintances. And because you'll be there for eight or nine months or so a year, you'll get acclimated to the new environment quickly.

Now, I'm not going to address my personal stories, but I will tell you that you definitely will meet new people constantly, and when you form your niche, things like relationships will fall into line - regardless of your 'experience' (or lack thereof) with them previously.

[QUOTE=Jom]werds[/QUOTE]

Couldn't have said it better myself.

O wait, I did say almost exactly that, earlier.

:p

Meh, I read from where I last left off in the thread. And by the time I see all your stuff, I still might as well post it if I'm going to write all that out. If people whine about redundancy, then so be it.

[QUOTE=pohl_56]Ha! I laughed at that part. So true. So what are the consequences of the situation? Suspended? Did ur mom flip?

Hello thread. I = tired now.[/QUOTE]
Just saw this.

Well, they gave me a day of ISS. Nope, mom didn't flip, because I kinda lessened the story a little bit.

I kinda made it worse by revealing to my assistant principal that I can't have sex for two months or I'll die.

Your's was the story about sex in the bathroom, right?

If so, why don't you explain that it was a rumour?

If im completely off, or missing something, link to the post?

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[QUOTE=The Fonz]Your's was the story about sex in the bathroom, right?

If so, why don't you explain that it was a rumour?

If im completely off, or missing something, link to the post?

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It's because the rumor wasn't entirely false, just not nearly as bad as the bitch cheerleader made it out to be. First of all, she said I was in a stall, when I had no more than a foot in there. Secondly, my g/f wasn't even in the bathroom while I was doing it.

[QUOTE=Tillius]It's because the rumor wasn't entirely false, just not nearly as bad as the bitch cheerleader made it out to be. First of all, she said I was in a stall, when I had no more than a foot in there. Secondly, my g/f wasn't even in the bathroom while I was doing it.[/QUOTE]


so... what was the rumour? just that you were in the girls bathroom, or that you did something?

(I'd check, but I'm at my dads, and the computer sucks here)

[QUOTE=The Fonz]so... what was the rumour? just that you were in the girls bathroom, or that you did something?

(I'd check, but I'm at my dads, and the computer sucks here)[/QUOTE]
The rumor was that I was in the stall with my girlfriend in the girls bathroom and that we were going to have sex but we were walked in on.

[QUOTE=Tillius]The rumor was that I was in the stall with my girlfriend in the girls bathroom and that we were going to have sex but we were walked in on.[/QUOTE]


Ohhhhh, well, why don't you just say it was a rumour?

[QUOTE=The Fonz]Ohhhhh, well, why don't you just say it was a rumour?[/QUOTE]
Because, even though I'm popular with most people, so is the girl who told the office.
She's a preppy cheerleader office aid, and I'm a rocker who, though I end up doing good in the classes, slacks off all the time.
It was my word against hers, and there's no way I was getting out of that one.

Thanks Jom, that was quite a helpful piece of advice. I'll keep it in mind. :D

[QUOTE=Tillius]Because, even though I'm popular with most people, so is the girl who told the office.
She's a preppy cheerleader office aid, and I'm a rocker who, though I end up doing good in the classes, slacks off all the time.
It was my word against hers, and there's no way I was getting out of that one.[/QUOTE]

That sucks. Well, when it comes to your mom, telling her it was a rumour should work. Right?

At anyrate, good luck.

Where the hell is mom? I need some actual advice.

[QUOTE=Baliente]Where the hell is mom? I need some actual advice.[/QUOTE]

If i remember correctly. She should be on her wayy from work to home..

Dang. I just plowed down a large portion of pages in my book whilst enduring load times. Good thing I have new ones, because I'm almost finished with the one I'm reading.

Hi guys.

Baliente, if you're still on line, hit me up if you want. Or anyone else.

Sorry, got kicked off. If you haven't already, read my posts on pages 54 and 55. Tell me when you do, because there's more stuff I want to add.

Also, what are your thoughts on all that?

I read both pages.

Update?

My thoughts say ditch her, unless you have something important that's happened since then?

No, nothing's happened.

I don't know why, but I want to hang out with her again. Possibly because I had some good memories with her last summer (spefically her getting me started smoking) and I can't really turn to the guy I smoked with because he hates me for some reason, so yeah.

And a wierd thing happened today. I was spacing off, thinkin about her, then I came back to and realized what I had been staring at. A picture of a bottle of red wine :eek:

Sorta creepy, eh?

Red, red wine.

Neil Diamond.

I love that song.

Well, hang out if she'll hang out, but don't expect anything.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Red, red wine.

Neil Diamond.

I love that song.

Well, hang out if she'll hang out, but don't expect anything.[/QUOTE]

I prefer the UB40 version.

And I was told she doesn't hang out with anyone but her boyfriend. Not even her lady friends.

edit: this would be the 3rd "relapse" if you would like to call it that.

Hello L&R thread.

I am pissed off. My exgirlfriend made a huge deal about wanting to stay friends with me, and then about three weeks ago, jsut stopped talking to me.
I saw her online last night, and I talked to her about random things like we usually talk about, then before I went to bed, I asked her what happened, and why she stoppped talking to me. this is what we said:

me: well, its like you have been avoiding me
her: hey im about to say something and i mean it in the nicest way possible.
her: are you ready?
me: sure
her: my life doesnt revolve around you anymore, so dont think what you said offends me
her: i have **** to do and people to take care of
her: me and you are still friends but just cos i have things to do doesnt mean im avoiding you

i understand she is busy, but the way she said it, it hurt me. I told one of my other friends, who doesnt like her, and she told me just forget about her, and to stop being friends with her.
i dont know. am i over reacting?

Her boyfriend. Yeah, right. Give that [size=2]s[/size]hit up.

UB40 "cover". Neil Diamond wrote it; I'm sure you know.

EDIT: To Baliente.

[QUOTE=Ibasslikethis!]Hello L&R thread.

I am pissed off. My exgirlfriend made a huge deal about wanting to stay friends with me, and then about three weeks ago, jsut stopped talking to me.
I saw her online last night, and I talked to her about random things like we usually talk about, then before I went to bed, I asked her what happened, and why she stoppped talking to me. this is what we said:

me: well, its like you have been avoiding me
her: hey im about to say something and i mean it in the nicest way possible.
her: are you ready?
me: sure
her: my life doesnt revolve around you anymore, so dont think what you said offends me
her: i have **** to do and people to take care of
her: me and you are still friends but just cos i have things to do doesnt mean im avoiding you

i understand she is busy, but the way she said it, it hurt me. I told one of my other friends, who doesnt like her, and she told me just forget about her, and to stop being friends with her.
i dont know. am i over reacting?[/QUOTE]

No, Gregg, you're not over reacting, but...you need to move on.

:(

I don't think she said it in 'the nicest way possible,' so that's why it stings a little bit. Give it a couple days to cool off and absorb it, and you'll realize that she was probably feeling like you put her on the spot so she reacted rather harshly. If she still is standoffish to you when you speak to her next, you guys should just take a break, it seems, or even completely call it off, period.

My friend doesn't like my double posts. What he doesn't see is when you merge posts in a thread like this; it detracts from the attention Kimmie, or whomever is dishing advice, needs to give inidividually.

*sends my psycho guy to your room with a chainsaw*

In other news...I just got married. To Gort. Congratulate me.

Congrats on you and Gort.

I am over her. I was ok with being friends, because she wanted to be friends really badly, she said she didnt want to loose a good friend, so I stayed a friend with her.

I really dont want to be friends with her any more. I think it would be easier to just stay away from her.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]
In other news...I just got married. To Gort. Congratulate me.[/QUOTE]
Congratulations. I'll have to send a wedding gift with Tiger.

You are so right. Stay away, at least until the emotions are over. And, they will be.

EDIT: Thanks, Tess.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]My friend doesn't like my double posts. What he doesn't see is when you merge posts in a thread like this; it detracts from the attention Kimmie, or whomever is dishing advice, needs to give inidividually.[/QUOTE]

When you're addressing people by username, it's *really* not that hard for people to figure out who is being addressed (EDIT: sweet verb agreement, Jom). I don't think people here are that retarded.

[quote]*sends my psycho guy to your room with a chainsaw*[/quote]

Pffft. I bet he's ticklish and has a soft spot for Dr. Phil.

[quote]In other news...I just got married. To Gort. Congratulate me.[/quote]

Have fun on the honeymoon.