Ask her to prom.

Ask her to prokm. Fuggit, I'm gonna leave the styupid typos in. This key baorrd is the work of th4e devil.

Either that, or ,ma nails are too damned long.

Whichever.

Ask her to pro9m. If she says no, then write the ltter.

Just ask her.

[quote=Kimmie]/a bunch of garbage[/quote]

Translation:

Ask her to prom. Fuc[font=verdana]k[/font] it, I'm gonna leave the stupid typos in. This keyboard is the work of the devil.

Either that or my nails are too damned long.

Whichever.

Ask her to prom. If she says no, then write the letter.

ASK HER:) good luck, and we expect stories and what not

You'd think I was drunk, but this keyboard is one of those ergo, aero, whateverthe[size=2]f[/size]ucko keyboards, and I can't get enough speed on it to type properly.

Hence tyhe garbage...

[QUOTE=NachoChez]Translation:

One would assume I was under the influence of alcohol, but the reason my posts are so ridden with typos is because the keyboard I am currently employing is an ergonomic one, and the way it is designed makes it difficult for me to correctly type.

Thus, the astonishing amount of typos you see in my posts.[/QUOTE]

:lol:

ps: she's drunk.

Im not really having any problems worthy to post on the L&R thread, but I like the ergonomic keyboards. during the week, i use a normal one, and on the weekend, when i visit my grandparrents and use my grandpa's computer, I have to use his ergonomic one. it takes a few minutes, but I get used to it fast.

[QUOTE=NachoChez]Translation:

One would assume I was under the influence of alcohol, but the reason my posts are so ridden with typos is because the keyboard I am currently employing is an ergonomic one, and the way it is designed makes it difficult for me to correctly type.

Thus, the astonishing amount of typos you see in my posts.[/QUOTE]

fu. :p

[quote=justinhuges2]ps: she's drunk.[/quote]

fu2. :p

It's just one of those really close to the body keyboards...to where I have no leverage...or what ev er...

lol, my keybored-rolly-thing (it pulls my keyboard from under my desk) broke a couple of days ago, and for a couple of days i had to have the keyboard on my lap. wasnt too bad

Is it kinda fu[SIZE="2"]c[/SIZE]ked up that I like this one girl so much that I'm getting thin so that she'll find me more attractive? Seeing as I don't even know if she likes me in the first place and she seems to have an interest in almost everyone that I know that is thin. Is she worth it? I've gone out with her once before shortly and I kinda screwed it up I think. Anyways yeah, this girl is all I think about every day and I've really liked her pretty much since I've met her which was about....4 years ago. I've been getting the wierdest mood swings and I have the most savagely unhealthy body self-image I've ever had, probably why I'm having problems with my goal. I'm wondering if I should just lose weight more for me than for her.

Well, here I am back in action.

My keyboard kicks some serious assinine.

:D

yeah.

not eating = mood swings?

trying to get thin is good, but unless you are obese and/or trying to get in shape, then it probably isnt that good for you. when you say get thin, do you mean get thin like buff, but not fat, or just try to get thin. because 2 things

1. Not eating makes you look too skinny and weak, and unnatractive, not to mention how bad it is for you

2. chicks dont [I]really[/I] dig skinny guys, no matter what you think, they like strong guys (i'm not strong:p)

sorry for being a bit brutal

Is it just me, but, after you break up with your girlfriend, she always seems so much more attractive?

[QUOTE=King]Is it kinda fu[SIZE="2"]c[/SIZE]ked up that I like this one girl so much that I'm getting thin so that she'll find me more attractive?[/quote]

I'm not quite sure how to react yet.

Are we talking healthy thin, or emo kid thin?

[quote]Seeing as I don't even know if she likes me in the first place and she seems to have an interest in almost everyone that I know that is thin. Is she worth it? I've gone out with her once before shortly and I kinda screwed it up I think. Anyways yeah, this girl is all I think about every day and I've really liked her pretty much since I've met her which was about....4 years ago. I've been getting the wierdest mood swings and I have the most savagely unhealthy body self-image I've ever had, probably why I'm having problems with my goal. I'm wondering if I should just lose weight more for me than for her.[/QUOTE]

1. Stop internalizing everyone else perceptions of you.
2. Internalize your own self image and make sure you're happy about it. Any problems you need to work on, work on them and be happy with that.
3. Don't be needy.
4. Don't act like a woman's girlfriend. Act like evolution tells you to: like a man, as cliche as that sounds.
5. Learn to let go. Four years? Holy sh[size=2]i[/size]t, dude.

[QUOTE=dazmo]2. chicks dont [I]really[/I] dig skinny guys, no matter what you think, they like strong guys (i'm not strong:p)[/QUOTE]

In my opinion the women who go after those scrawny emo kids don't actually find that attractive. They're suffering from the feminine delusion that goes something like this:

"Hmm, this guy has lots and lots of faults, but I feel strangely attracted to him anyway because he behaves differently from other men. Maybe, just maybe, there's some good in him. I can be the one to heal his wounds and bring out the Prince Charming inside of him!"

Naturally, it's all bullsh[size=2]i[/size]t. It's the flipside of the coin to where men think that by acting sycophantic chivalrous to extremes with women, they'll [i]eventually[/i] get a happily ever after. Neither assumption could be farther from the truth.

I mean like healthy thin. I'm thinking moreso that I want to have a healthy body self-image and if she likes it, and makes it obvious, then so be it. If not then she ain't worth it. That's my angle to it.

you should work out, then challenge the weak klids to arm wrestles

btw chicks like me coz im cute:p

Hey Mom!

[url]http://www.musicianforums.com/forums/showpost.php?p=11717174&postcount=2137[/url]

[QUOTE=Fire Whispers]Damien: Jom's avatar is Andrew W.K[/QUOTE]
I knew it! =o

I thought I was the only guy who liked him!

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Your momma dropped you on your head when you were a baby...amirite?[/QUOTE]
Actually... my older cousin did... down stairs... :upset:

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Ask her to prokm. Fuggit, I'm gonna leave the styupid typos in. This key baorrd is the work of th4e devil.

Either that, or ,ma nails are too damned long.

Whichever.

Ask her to pro9m. If she says no, then write the ltter.[/QUOTE]
lmao, ilu Kimmie
[QUOTE=dazmo]2. chicks dont [I]really[/I] dig skinny guys, no matter what you think, they like strong guys (i'm not strong:p)[/QUOTE]
Not true. And you can be fit and thin. It's not only scene kids that are into overly skinny guys either. Some girls just have different tastes. Being fit always is a plus though.

[QUOTE=Wizard.]I knew it! =o

I thought I was the only guy who liked him!


Actually... my older cousin did... down stairs... :upset:


lmao, ilu Kimmie

Not true. And you can be fit and thin. It's not only scene kids that are into overly skinny guys either. Some girls just have different tastes. Being fit always is a plus though.[/QUOTE]
Every girl is different. Personally, I'm not too keen on really scrawny guys and on the other extreme obesity doesn't do much for me either.
To the guy in question: make sure you're getting [B]fit[/B] as opposed to [B]thin[/B].

What she said, fit not thin. You'll be so much more successful if your fit as opposed to scrawny.

Yeah, I know, blank post.

[QUOTE=The Profit of Maine]Hey Mom!

[url]http://www.musicianforums.com/forums/showpost.php?p=11717174&postcount=2137[/url][/QUOTE]

Sorry, son, I didn't see this last night.

If you're not sleeping, eating, breathing this girl then it's not really love. And probably won't ever be. The fact that you get sick of her tells me that to pursue a life with her would be disastrous.

Leave it, and move on.

Guys, today was better. I just didn't look at her or talk to her unless I had to, and I felt so much better. :)

[QUOTE=Jonzey]Guys, today was better. I just didn't look at her or talk to her unless I had to, and I felt so much better. :)[/QUOTE]

You've found your solution, then. :)

So i talked to her and she gave me the reasons why.

It was mostly how she really didnt love me. She thought she did but she didnt apparently. And She said that she doesnt want to live with me. Basically she just doesnt love me. She also said that she can not marry somebody that she doesnt love, which i can understand. But oh well. Im just gonna let go..... :(

[QUOTE=Destined_for]So i talked to her and she gave me the reasons why.

It was mostly how she really didnt love me. She thought she did but she didnt apparently. And She said that she doesnt want to live with me. Basically she just doesnt love me. She also said that she can not marry somebody that she doesnt love, which i can understand. But oh well. Im just gonna let go..... :([/QUOTE]

Oh, Jon...I'm so sorry.

I admire her honesty, though.

*hugs*

[QUOTE=King]Is it kinda fu[SIZE="2"]c[/SIZE]ked up that I like this one girl so much that I'm getting thin so that she'll find me more attractive? Seeing as I don't even know if she likes me in the first place and she seems to have an interest in almost everyone that I know that is thin. Is she worth it? I've gone out with her once before shortly and I kinda screwed it up I think. Anyways yeah, this girl is all I think about every day and I've really liked her pretty much since I've met her which was about....4 years ago. I've been getting the wierdest mood swings and I have the most savagely unhealthy body self-image I've ever had, probably why I'm having problems with my goal. I'm wondering if I should just lose weight more for me than for her.[/QUOTE]

if it gives you more motivation, then hell yeah you can work out and get in shape with the goal of impressing her. nobody here is above impressing poeple, and if they say otherwise they are lying. and if you are unhealthy right now, this is oging to improve your life. you'll be happier about yourself, you'll be giving off good vibes and other girls will notice that too..... you will probably meet somebody you like more, and it will all work out for you in the end.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Oh, Jon...I'm so sorry.

I admire her honesty, though.

*hugs*[/QUOTE]


Thanks Kimmie. We have always had great trust with each other. We were always straight up with each other. So know this is for real. But i will be okay. give me a few months and ill be good as new. I am feeling okay right now because i know this was not meant to be. But these next few months will be hard.

Thaks for ur support everybody. :)

You know, it's been over 2 months and I still miss this girl. I always feel different about her each day. Like sometimes I'll get pissed at her or other times I miss her. It's always different. But I still always think about her. Is this normal? I don't know.

We were so close. And now we barely even talk, but I seriously think about her like every night. I still wonder if she ever thinks about me anymore or anything. I don't even know what's going on in her head anymore.

Part of me wants her to come back into my life, and part of me is, I don't know, pissed off at her for just leaving me out in the cold like that and I just... I don't know, don't want her to have me again because of what she did. For her to know that that was the decision she made and this was the consequence she gets for it. But I miss her.:(

[QUOTE=allalone]You know, it's been over 2 months and I still miss this girl. I always feel different about her each day. Like sometimes I'll get pissed at her or other times I miss her. It's always different. But I still always think about her. Is this normal? I don't know.

We were so close. And now we barely even talk, but I seriously think about her like every night. I still wonder if she ever thinks about me anymore or anything. I don't even know what's going on in her head anymore.

Part of me wants her to come back into my life, and part of me is, I don't know, pissed off at her for just leaving me out in the cold like that and I just... I don't know, don't want her to have me again because of what she did. For her to know that that was the decision she made and this was the consequence she gets for it. But I miss her.:([/QUOTE]

Maybe you should try to see other girls. That'll help.

Go out and collect some women's phone numbers. You don't even need to follow up on them. Just demnostrate to yourself that you are able to move on. That you always have more options.

Brit's been calling my phone, and messaging me on Myspace and Soulseek like non-stop for two hours. I haven't answered, and I blocked her on MSN last night. She won't give up, damnit.

Should I just pick up the phone and tell her to stop or what? I don't want to be mean, but she seriously hasn't stopped since 11am, and it's 1:12pm now. If I talk to her, it won't make things better 'cause she'll just whine and beg me to take her back.

So what do I do to make her stop? Wait it out maybe?

Oh yeah, Must add that she knows that I'm here, even though she hasn't been able to conact me. I forgot that people can tell when someone reads there messages on Myspace. So she knows I'm ignoring her. :-/

Just wait it out, I think.

You see, I'm not that kind of guy to just go out and get girls' numbers or try to find someone else. I seriously have no self-confidence whatsoever. I'm self-conscious about myself all the time.

I used to be really fat. I weighed around 190 lbs and I always used to be overweight untill recently I tried doing something about it. Now I weigh 145 lbs and I do feel a little better about myself, but not much. I'm still not happy with what my body looks like. I guess it's because I've always been called fat by my brother and his friends and I always felt depressed and I ate even more to feel better. And then just one day I was like F**k what everyone says. I'm gonna do something about it. I'm gonna stop feeling sorry for myself.

I started running 3-4 times a week and progressed and it's great seeing my body look better. But I don't know. I'm still not happy. And then I met this great girl who seriously changed me as a person. She really helped me and what made it better was that she really honestly liked me. She actually cared [I]more [/I]about me than her boyfriend at the time. And then she just stopped in like a day. Now how's that supposed to make you feel? It was bad. Especially the first week after. But I know it's better now. I don't know, it's just hard when you've never felt that way about someone and no one's ever felt that way about you before and it just ends so abruptly.

I guess what I'm trying to say is, that I really miss her a lot and I can't get girls.

This is starting to sound pretty creepy. Someone needs to explain to this girl that she is now officially stalking you.

Try and wait it out, but if she doesn't let up, you need to explain to her just how emotionally unhealthy this is for her.

EDIT: To Wizard

[QUOTE=allalone]You see, I'm not that kind of guy to just go out and get girls' numbers or try to find someone else. I seriously have no self-confidence whatsoever. I'm self-conscious about myself all the time. [/quote]

Then you need to give yourself a quick bitch slap in the mirror and start shaping up.

[quote]I used to be really fat. I weighed around 190 lbs and I always used to be overweight untill recently I tried doing something about it. Now I weigh 145 lbs and I do feel a little better about myself, but not much. I'm still not happy with what my body looks like. I guess it's because I've always been called fat by my brother and his friends and I always felt depressed and I ate even more to feel better. And then just one day I was like F**k what everyone says. I'm gonna do something about it. I'm gonna stop feeling sorry for myself.[/quote]

Then keep doing that!!

Jesus, the more you tell yourself how self-conscious and unconfident you are, the more it's going to happen.

You have problems. You can fix them. So stop complaining about them and fix them!

[quote]I started running 3-4 times a week and progressed and it's great seeing my body look better. But I don't know. I'm still not happy.[/quote]

Because you still internalize everyone else's opinion of you. Stop it.

[quote]And then I met this great girl who seriously changed me as a person. She really helped me and what made it better was that she really honestly liked me. She actually cared [I]more [/I]about me than her boyfriend at the time. And then she just stopped in like a day. Now how's that supposed to make you feel? It was bad. Especially the first week after. But I know it's better now. I don't know, it's just hard when you've never felt that way about someone and no one's ever felt that way about you before and it just ends so abruptly.[/quote]

So why the hell are you acting as if she's the last woman you'll ever get?

[quote]I guess what I'm trying to say is, that I really miss her a lot and I can't get girls.[/QUOTE]

And what I'm trying to say is stop acting like a spineless emo kid and find the impetus in yourself to affect change in your own life.

I used to be the same way. I believed that things were bad then, and that was just the way it was going to be. Then I decided to change everything once and for all. I'm not fully there yet, but I've made progress, and that's all the encouragement I need to continue.

Stop internalizing everyone else's opinions of you, stop feeling sorry for yourself, and stop acting like things aren't going to change. The only reason you can't get girl is because you won't let yourself. I know that's not the answer you want, but it's the truth.

steerpike translation : stop being whiney bitches



i must say, that man has a point

Normally, I'm not as blunt. But in cases like this I do believe in tough love. It kills me to see guys beating up on themselves and acting like their current situation is the way it's always going to be.

How the hell am I supposed to stop when all my fuc[SIZE="2"]king[/SIZE] life everyone has something to say about me. No ones happy with me. I'm not even fuc[SIZE="2"]king[/SIZE] happy with myself. It's so easy to say it, but not to actually do it. I'm never going to be happy with myself because of everyone's perception to me and all the torment that I have gotten. All my fuc[SIZE="2"]king [/SIZE] life I've been tormented. How am I supposed to try and get a girl when I'm not even happy with myself? How am I supposed to love someone else when I don't even love myself?

[QUOTE=allalone]How the hell am I supposed to stop when all my fuc[SIZE="2"]king[/SIZE] life everyone has something to say about me. No ones happy with me. I'm not even fuc[SIZE="2"]king[/SIZE] happy with myself. It's so easy to say it, but not to actually do it. I'm never going to be happy with myself because of everyone's perception to me and all the torment that I have gotten. All my fuc[SIZE="2"]king [/SIZE] life I've been tormented. How am I supposed to try and get a girl when I'm not even happy with myself? How am I supposed to love someone else when I don't even love myself?[/QUOTE]

Don't get caught in this train of thought. There is no reason to not be happy with yourself. Don't let things other people say shape your opinion of yourself.