[QUOTE=Wizard.]So I told her I kissed Kristen yesterday, hoping that she'd hate me or whatever now. That's all I told her though.

Didn't help. Now apparently she wants to kill herself and won't answer the phone. She's acting like a moron. Should I call her dad?[/QUOTE]

You may want to call him just to make sure that she is okay. I wouldn't talk to her, though, if I were you. I'm glad you decided to move on. You made the right choice. :thumb:

Ok, her friend is talking to her on the phone, and yelling at me on MSN. So I shouldn't need to involve her dad.

This girl is really chewing me out too. :(

[QUOTE=incubliss]Well, thank you - it means a lot. What hurts most is that she seems to not even give a **** about me now. She has a boyfrined in Uni, and loads of great new friends.

She doesn't need me in her life anymore, but I need her more than ever.[/QUOTE]
Maybe she just dosen't know what to say to you so she developed a new crowd than rather cope with it? I'm not sure if that makes much sense...she may have a new b/f and all these things but that dosen't mean anything, you two were best friends for 2 years if I remember correctly and that's just something you dont walk away from and dont ever talk again, She must have some unresolved issues with it and thats her problem that she took it so harshly, not yours.. She can't stay mad at you because of the way you feel, That's just messed up bro, It's not your fault that she's so perfect to you, And as for her not needing you in her life...You dont know that bro, you dont know what she thinks about when she's lying in bed, Dont lose hope. Have you tried calling her or anything?

:)

I haven't, I wouldn't dare to at the moment. I wouldn't be able to find any words to say. I'm just gonna wait until she comes down in mid April, and talk to her then. By then, I think i'll be much better off than I am now. I mean, 4 months ago I was a wreck. College work went down the drain, I was just the worst i've ever been. I'm almost back to my normal self, but it's taking time.

Thanks for the help.

[QUOTE=Wizard.]Ok, her friend is talking to her on the phone, and yelling at me on MSN. So I shouldn't need to involve her dad.

This girl is really chewing me out too. :([/QUOTE]

:amaze:

I hate it when girls hide behind their friends like that. It really doesn't show much character. If she has something to say to you, she should be saying it to you, and not her friend.

No, it's all her friend. Brit isn't telling her to do it, but I'm friends with this other girl too, and she's pissed at me for upsetting Brit.

Ah, okay. My misunderstanding.

[QUOTE]Leigh~ says:
I just want to say thats for the ****ing greatest year of my life I ****ing love you more than anything and I always will I hope whoever you end up with makes you happy I love you-Brit[/QUOTE]
:upset:

Dumb hoe is layin' a guilt trip on me. It's working too.

My fourth girlfriend, who I dated for seventeen months, is stuck in my head. I dumped her (either because I'm afraid of committment, didn't love her anymore/never did, needed space, any other ****ing rationalization imaginable). I know I should feel some regret for breaking up with her in an undeserved way and for missing a best friend because of it, but cemented to the back wall of my skull are two pictures of what my life could be like.

One is the country farm with a bunch of animals, wonderful kids, and a not-quite-blissful, but certainly manageable marriage to this girl (we were that serious). The other is a transitory landscape that blends every thing and place I've seen and been to. Above all comes my love of writing, but that's wholly dependent on my own motivation, which wears thin no matter which future I favor.

I feel like I could manage both with the right girl, if I loved her enough. And I can't figure out if I love this girl, my now-ex who is torn and aching because of the breakup. Her smile makes me happy and our personalities are like single skis of the same set. But I know there are other girls, besides the bigger problem--I need too much space. I can't be around her for more than three weeks at school without getting sick of things, let alone spending a week at her house. And I've always felt like this. Plus, I just dated her on the rebound; I got rejected and she was there.

I know that this will go away with time and that I just need to keep myself busy. I just can't reconcile my fear of Love, being decimated as a romantic, clinging high schooler, and the portrayal of it in movies.

High Fidelity is my favorite movie. A Love Song for Bobby Long is rating up there with at least my wishes of what love is. And I just can't let myself surrender enough ground to see the other person close enough, let alone hold them at arms length.

[QUOTE=Wizard.]:upset:

Dumb hoe is layin' a guilt trip on me. It's working too.[/QUOTE]

STOP BEING SUCH A PUSS[font=verdana]Y[/font].

KTHX.[url=http://www.captainmanbitchoftheSSwhipped.com/] [/url]

[QUOTE=Jom]STOP BEING SUCH A PUSS[font=verdana]Y[/font].

KTHX.[url=http://www.captainmanbitchoftheSSwhipped.com/] [/url][/QUOTE]
Hey man, I'm working on it, and doing pretty good. Before, I would've already broke down and given into her. I'm staying strong now, but her acting like this is still unsettling.

[QUOTE=Wizard.]Hey man, I'm working on it, and doing pretty good. Before, I would've alrady broke down and given into her. I'm staying strong now, but her acting like this is still unsettling.[/QUOTE]

I know, I'm glad that you're doing well. But you need to stop acting like you're going to lose. Everyone is telling you to move on because it'd be best for you. You need to wash your hands of this whole thing and you need to do it as soon as possible. Talk to her dad, do whatever. But get rid of contact with her and her family at all costs. She will accept the fact that she can't just win by being all crazy and suicidal. You can't lose to that, either. Talk to her dad, get his opinion, but you need to ween yourself off of contact. Period.

[QUOTE=incubliss]Well, thank you - it means a lot. What hurts most is that she seems to not even give a **** about me now. She has a boyfrined in Uni, and loads of great new friends.

She doesn't need me in her life anymore, but I need her more than ever.[/QUOTE]

Seriously, stop it. This woman is not going to make or break you. Don't be so needy. That's how guys end up becoming friends instead of romantic potential.

Before you worry about dating, you have to work on yourself.

[QUOTE=Wizard.]:upset:

Dumb hoe is layin' a guilt trip on me. It's working too.[/QUOTE]

This girl must have a lot of issues with dependency. You really need to talk to her about this face to face.

[QUOTE=Wizard.]Hey man, I'm working on it, and doing pretty good. Before, I would've already broke down and given into her. I'm staying strong now, but her acting like this is still unsettling.[/QUOTE]

Don't go back to her by any means. But you need to get her to stop this ridiculous behavior.

[QUOTE=Jom]I know, I'm glad that you're doing well. But you need to stop acting like you're going to lose. Everyone is telling you to move on because it'd be best for you. You need to wash your hands of this whole thing and you need to do it as soon as possible. Talk to her dad, do whatever. But get rid of contact with her and her family at all costs. She will accept the fact that she can't just win by being all crazy and suicidal. You can't lose to that, either. Talk to her dad, get his opinion, but you need to ween yourself off of contact. Period.[/QUOTE]
Yeah, I'm trying. She's going to therapy and junk now. I mainly post here right when the bad moods hit me, so I come out sounding worse than I really am. I'm not going to have to deal with her soon. She still keeps finding ways to get to me. I couldn't just ignore her when she was still thinking she had a chance to get with me.

I'm not going to lose, it's just disturbing seeing someone you love do and say all these things. :(

[QUOTE=Wizard.]She still keeps finding ways to get to me.[/quote]

You need to remedy this one way or another.

[quote]I'm not going to lose, it's just disturbing seeing someone you love do and say all these things. :([/QUOTE]

It seems like the love is gone. She might love you, you might love her, but it's not mutual. There's different levels of love going on, and it's not equal.

Yeah, I love her, and she doesn't love me. I'm just a tool for attention, which is why I'm breaking up with her.

Btw, who is that in your avatar? <.<

[QUOTE=NachoChez]OK here's one

Late last year, I was in a relationship with a girl who I had a lot in common with, and who I was very into and who was very into me. After a while though, I started losing interest romantically for whatever reason, and I broke up with her. She flipped out, cried, asked me to take her back, etc., among other worrying things, and it wasn't a good time. She then found out that a few days later I kissed a different girl, flipped out again, and cut off all contact with me. It's been over a month, and I miss her as a friend, because we really did have a lot in common and she was fun to hang out with. I'm wondering if I should try to initiate contact again and try to call her or something, or if that's not the best move.[/QUOTE]
I don't know, but I doubt that would end well. Best just to leave it alone. Ya know, better safe than sorry and all. :-/

[QUOTE=Jom]STOP BEING SUCH A PUSS[font=verdana]Y[/font].

KTHX.[url=http://www.captainmanbitchoftheSSwhipped.com/] [/url][/QUOTE]


*high five*


I see things havent changed that much in here, eh? The Wiz is still menstruating?

Maybe you should read the past few posts before you talk.

[QUOTE=Wizard.]Maybe you should read the past few posts before you talk.[/QUOTE]


I cant read or write.

duh.

Hi, guys.

Tiger's on my computer; I'm on my singers.

The worst thing possibly ever has happened to me today

My fiancee said that she does not love me. She broke off the wedding :(

Im mentaly and physicall unstable. I have been crying for hours ans hours :(




:(

Im in denial. This is the worst day of my life. Ever. I dont think i will be online for a while guys.

Bye for now everbody :(


I cant even sum up how i am feeling right now. I want to kill myself.

Oh God Help me.
Help me
Help me
HELEPPEda'
me

:upset:

God damn, dude, I'm sorry to read that :(

But that's it? She was just like "No wedding" and took off without anything else?

[quote=Nacho]Late last year, I was in a relationship with a girl who I had a lot in common with, and who I was very into and who was very into me. After a while though, I started losing interest romantically for whatever reason, and I broke up with her. She flipped out, cried, asked me to take her back, etc., among other worrying things, and it wasn't a good time. She then found out that a few days later I kissed a different girl, flipped out again, and cut off all contact with me. It's been over a month, and I miss her as a friend, because we really did have a lot in common and she was fun to hang out with. I'm wondering if I should try to initiate contact again and try to call her or something, or if that's not the best move.[/quote]

You could write her and say you miss her as a good friend, but if she's unreceptive, don't push the issue if she won't let it.

[QUOTE=Jom]:upset:

God damn, dude, I'm sorry to read that :(

But that's it? She was just like "No wedding" and took off without anything else?[/QUOTE]


She just said that she didnt love me anymore. and took off. :(

:eek:

But why would she just leave like that with no explanation? Wait it out. Maybe she just got spooked and needs some time. Maybe she reacted rashly. She had a realization that her life is going to change drastically soon and she is trying to stop that... but she's gonna realize she can't.

Just wait it out, man, and try to get a hold of her soon.

[QUOTE=Destined_for]Crap.[/QUOTE]
:/ Sorry, dude.

It might not be much consolation, but at least she didn't wait until after the wedding and kids.

And now on with the boycott.

Oh, man, Jon.

Cold feet, maybe.

[QUOTE=Jom]But why would she just leave like that with no explanation? Wait it out. Maybe she just got spooked and needs some time. Maybe she reacted rashly. She had a realization that her life is going to change drastically soon and she is trying to stop that... but she's gonna realize she can't.

Just wait it out, man, and try to get a hold of her soon.[/QUOTE]


I have called her and she wont pick up....:(

I dont know what to do. She has always been straight up about everything.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Oh, man, Jon.

Cold feet, maybe.[/QUOTE]


Please help me Kimmie.

I feel like im dying. :(

Like I said, she's probably spooked because life is starting to pick up for her. Or, as Kimmie said, cold feet. Just wait it out. It's going to seem like an eternity, but she will come back to talk to you.

[QUOTE=Jom]Like I said, she's probably spooked because life is starting to pick up for her. Or, as Kimmie said, cold feet. Just wait it out. It's going to seem like an eternity, but she will come back to talk to you.[/QUOTE]


I hope so.

Im going to bed.

Goodnight. :(

hey guys

thers this girl shes the hottest girl ive ever seen

anyway problem is i dont study medecine

all the ppl who study medecine at my colege hang out together and they dont talk to ne one who doesnt do med

they are huge snobs they dont talk to anyone who dont do med

ne way i know we can bond heaps good

wat do i do

:( wow, im sorry

that same thing happened to my dad, i bet she just needs some space. Like what Jom's saying

[QUOTE=Destined_for]Please help me Kimmie.

I feel like im dying. :([/QUOTE]

I know you do, baby.

My singer's keyboard is brand new and I can't operate it, so gimme a break on typos...

I think she might just be scared.

Both of you just step back for a minute and take a breath.

Give her some space, and take some for yourself.

Then, try to figure it out.

Aww, everyone hates on Aria and he's one of the funnest members on this board.

Damien: Jom's avatar is Andrew W.K

Ben: study medicine on the internet and the be smarter than them and get with that hot chick

then beat up the snobby kids

[QUOTE=Wizard.]Aww, everyone hates on Aria and he's one of the funnest members on this board.[/QUOTE]

Your momma dropped you on your head when you were a baby...amirite?

hay hay ben is cool leave him alone

I fell down the stairs when I was 9 months old, before you ask >_> :P

OK OK. I have a bit of a predicament concerning a girl that I've liked for a really long time. I've never had the guts to tell her and I'm moving to a different state for my senior year (next year). Originally I planned on writing a letter that explained my liking of her so that I could just have some closure and know that she knows how I feel.

But recent events have prompted me into considering asking her to prom. We chatted about prom a few days ago and the way she responded to my questions made me feel like if I asked her THE question (Will you go to prom with me?) that she would say yes. I still can't be 100% sure but thats why I'm writing this whole thing.

What should I do: Write the letter or ask her to prom and go from there?

Ask her and go from there. What do you have to lose? And this way, you're doing all actions in one - letting her know you like her, finding out if she reciprocates, and asking her to prom.