[QUOTE=fishbulb;16273393]Is it not better for the kids though?[/QUOTE]
idk is raising a child in a subtly hostile environment that ingrains the ideas of poor relationship management better than raising the child in separate homes? i doubt it.

[QUOTE=Permanent Solution;16273388]bad reason to stay in a bad marriage tbh.[/QUOTE]

I agree.


Tbh ever since they've gotten back together, all we do is argue. the past 4 weeks have **** for me. I've been miserable. I actually enjoy going to school because I dont have to be at home surrounded by constant negativity.

Sorry to hear that mate :(

Enjoy school? Things must be really bad....

yeah bro its all right.

Seriously though, my parents finally divorced when I was a senior in HS...it was more of a relief than anything and I wished they had done it years earlier.

I'm so glad my parents continue to adore each other; I hold a much less cynical view of marriage than most people I know as a result I think.

its wierd for me to say that i actually want my parents to divorce. My mom was having mad financially troubles on her own while it seemed like my dad was doing awesome for supporting 3 kids and a house and stuff. If they were to split again. it would put her in a wierd place if they did decide to split.

[QUOTE=Permanent Solution;16273447]I'm so glad my parents continue to adore each other; I hold a much less cynical view of marriage than most people I know as a result I think.[/QUOTE]

true story, actually. I agree.


such a strange country here, the US.

i always feel left out. my parents love eachother.

The Say Anything drummer uses Istanbuls.


Cool.

So yeah, I"m not sure how long that avatar will last you :cool:

[QUOTE=Undisco Kidd;16273606]i always feel left out. my parents love eachother.[/QUOTE]

that puts you into a strange demographic. When you stick someone who has relatively few, minor, problems in an environment where s/he with the worst environment wins, that person will actually search for, if not create, hardships.

just think about that for a moment. usually the kids that come from so-called "perfect" families are the ones who end up with the biggest problems, simply because they don't have problems.

weird, huh?

damnit, yesterday (friday) was the day of silence and i completely missed it.

didn't you hear? kekeke.

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is 28"x14" too big a bass drum? I can get one for $390AU.

[quote=Aaron;16274012]
is 28"x14" too big a bass drum? I can get one for $390AU.[/quote]

i think it depends how you mount your toms. Mounting toms on a 28 would mean nigh on vertical tom angles [unless you are very tall]. but if you play a four piece with the rack tom mounted to the left side of the bass drum it might be more feasible, still, imo, not very comfy, as you would have to have the tom quite a way left of the bass drum.

[QUOTE=Berk;16273454]its wierd for me to say that i actually want my parents to divorce. [/QUOTE]

I know exactly how ya feel. The last 5 years I've wanted my parents to split and go their separate ways. A month ago it finally happened... and as bill said.. what a relief it was.

I also got 2 separate birthday presents this year haha

[QUOTE]is 28"x14" too big a bass drum?[/QUOTE]

Pretty much what gimp fest said. Trying to mount 2 rack toms on top of that would be a pain in the ***, even if they were only 7" or 8" deep.

how is everyone this morning?

T

[quote=TTTSNB;16271604]That's what I've always said about muffled heads. Slight sustain and overtones help the drum to cut through, honestly.[/quote]
I agree. I love that people rave on about suspension systems and mounts etc, and then put two ply heads on their kits and make threads asking for tuning help. Idiots.

I'm hungry.

Does anyone else find that playing music really loud is therapeutic? I'm absolutely exhausted so I'm listening to APC real loud and it feels fantastic. Kinda feels like the subwoofer is massaging my aching legs.

I love Bjork too.

[QUOTE=Jezen;16274279]Does anyone else find that playing music really loud is therapeutic? I'm absolutely exhausted so I'm listening to APC real loud and it feels fantastic. Kinda feels like the subwoofer is massaging my aching legs.[/QUOTE]

Yes

[QUOTE=Jezen;16274279]Does anyone else find that playing music really loud is therapeutic? I'm absolutely exhausted so I'm listening to APC real loud and it feels fantastic. Kinda feels like the subwoofer is massaging my aching legs.[/QUOTE]
I listen to SunnO))) White2 as loud as I can for that therapeutic feeling ~_~

^ Great album for that sort of thing. I've found whenever I'm really sick/ tired/ high as hell it sounds amazing, otherwise it bores me.

I did that with Burzum's [I]Filosofem[/I] and still nodded off a bit...

meshuggah puts me to sleep

I've never listened to meshuggah, am i missing anything?

to be quite honest, not really.

I'm hungry again even though I went to Denny's and had oatmeal, hash, sausage, and an English muffin this morning. =/