It helps if you have one or two really good features. Thankfully, girls love my eyes and hair, so if you have one thing that stands out in a positive manner you will find a girl.

tbh your hair isn't that bad, work with it.

not really, being a complete shut-in with no job and no social life is

[QUOTE]tbh your hair isn't that bad, work with it.[/QUOTE]

yes it is. The chick I'm going after said she loves long hair, and I was growing it out anyways. But like I said, she doesn't seem to want to respond/ or is really busy

in order for confidence to pay off you have to have tact and a quick wit on your side, otherwise you just come off as annoying or an asshole

is this a new side of adb? i never remember him admitting that he was a loser.

outward narcissism is usually a cover for self-loathing :x

[QUOTE=Nostalgia;17298613]is this a new side of adb? i never remember him admitting that he was a loser.[/QUOTE]

I thought it was obvious

I'm on this forum all day and night

Step up your game, dude.

adb, I know huge ****ing douchebags who have a gf and whatnot. So a dude like you should have little/no problem bagging a babe.

Those douchebags probably have jobs and don't post on internet forums 10 hours a day

that said, I'm not worried about having a chick until I move out (if I ever do)

It's not like we all have these raging social lives either. I think you'll find if you ask most R&Mers that 95% of us really aren't genuinely happy.

[QUOTE=RetiredAt21;17298572]Aw come on, dude. Don't be so self depreciating, I think ur a qt.[/QUOTE]I never said I look bad, I said I'm no where near as handsome as adb and that's not too much of an insult.

Confidence only matters if you want normal girls. I'm socially awkward as hell and creepy indie girls throw themselves at me.

I lol'd pretty hard at "creepy indie girls", I totally know lots of chicks like that.

I'd settle for creepy indie chick as long as she gave decent head
[QUOTE]Confidence only matters if you want normal girls[/QUOTE]

agreed.

So in a nutshell, what girl would want to be with a guy who:

-is 21, lives w/ parents
-looks about 16 years old
-no job
-no social life
-listens to death metal

yeah.

[QUOTE=Nostalgia;17298626]It's not like we all have these raging social lives either. I think you'll find if you ask most R&Mers that 95% of us really aren't genuinely happy.[/QUOTE]

yes i fall into that 5%

hahaha Those creepy indie chicks... I almost dated one once, then I realized she was out of her ****ing mind.

yay si1v3rfaNg post!

[QUOTE=Si1v3RfaNg;17298643]hahaha Those creepy indie chicks... I almost dated one once, then I realized she was out of her ****ing mind.[/QUOTE]

:smash:

I'd go for a nerdy girl. If she listens to metal it's a plus but most chicks that listen to metal that i've met are ****ing sociopaths so idk.

[QUOTE=asSi1v3RfaNgsburn;17298639]I'd settle for creepy indie chick as long as she gave decent head


agreed.

So in a nutshell, what girl would want to be with a guy who:

-is 21, lives w/ parents
-looks about 16 years old
-no job
-no social life
-listens to death metal

yeah.[/QUOTE]

Dude, come on. Even when I was addicted to heroin and looked like a total ****ing scumbag I still had chicks that were into me. People that are way worse off than you are still somehow manage to get chicks.

ohhhhhhhhhhh burn

ADB I think your somewhat similar to my friend when it comes to chicks. See he doesnt think it's possible for him to get a gf... yet I know like 4 decent looking girls who are really into him. You gotta look at the signs and be more aware of whats going on.

[QUOTE=Si1v3RfaNg;17298660]ADB I think your somewhat similar to my friend when it comes to chicks. See he doesnt think it's possible for him to get a gf... yet I know like 4 decent looking girls who are really into him. You gotta look at the signs and be more aware of whats going on.[/QUOTE]

This.

EDIT @ fatty: I wasn't trying to burn him, sorry if it sound that way, adb.

lol Si1v3RfaNg
[QUOTE=masscows;17298652]I'd go for a nerdy girl. If she listens to metal it's a plus but most chicks that listen to metal that i've met are ****ing sociopaths so idk.[/QUOTE]

I'll say it one more time, but the chick I'm after is nerdy and listens to metal, is really good at art/photography, plays 5 instruments, and seems socially awkward too (she admitted it to me already). Oh, and she's really cute.

She is the [U]only[/U] shot I have.

wow

go for it

Then go for it dude.

[QUOTE=asSi1v3RfaNgsburn;17298663]I'll say it one more time, but the chick I'm after is nerdy and listens to metal, is really good at art/photography, plays 5 instruments, and seems socially awkward too (she admitted it to me already). Oh, and she's really cute.

She is the [U]only[/U]shot I have.[/QUOTE]

Then you need to work doubly hard to make this **** work, man.

I've had a lengthy convo w/ her and asked what she was doing for the summer.
[B]she hasn't messaged me back in 4 days. [/B]
I'm still holding out since I know she had to move out of the dorms and probably still getting everything situated. Might not even have internet idk. All I know is I'm holding out and hoping to get a message back one day.

[QUOTE]So in a nutshell, what girl would want to be with a guy who:

-is 21, lives w/ parents
-looks about 16 years old
-no job
-no social life
-listens to death metal[/QUOTE]

I know a couple, I actually have a friend who is into guys that look very much like you.

She doesn't listen to DM though.

Good luck with the other chick though, seems like you two have a lot in common.

I hate when that happens... cuz then you get all paranoid like something is wrong and it ends up being something stupid.

[QUOTE=asSi1v3RfaNgsburn;17298668]I've had a lengthy convo w/ her and asked what she was doing for the summer.
[B]she hasn't messaged me back in 4 days. [/B]
I'm still holding out since I know she had to move out of the dorms and probably still getting everything situated. Might not even have internet idk. All I know is I'm holding out and hoping to get a message back one day.[/QUOTE]

You need to be persistent, let her know how interested in her you are. I CANNOT STRESS THIS ENOUGH.

haha That is very true, cuz women overanalyze too much.

I have been persistent. I keep complementing her and saying how jealous I am of her talents. I keep hinting at hanging out too. And I know she doesn't drink so that's a plus too.

[U]but she hasn't messaged me back, and possibly never will[/U]

Oh come on, you listen to death metal and look like you're 16.

I'm seventeen and look like I'm 25
I have no noticeable personality whatsoever
I'm not fat or anything but I have some chub on my stomach, a beard, refuse to wear matching socks
All I listen to is industrial and rap
I'm obsessed with robotripping, been diagnosed with asperger's and ADHD
And all my friends are obnoxious potheads who sit around listening to Lil Wayne and talking about how much they want to get in fights.

And bitches still gel me without an LP. I would say that you're not trying hard enough, but I've never even tried, so if anything it must be a case of girls coming to you and you purposely scaring them off.

[QUOTE=asSi1v3RfaNgsburn;17298676]I have been persistent. I keep complementing her and saying how jealous I am of her talents. I keep hinting at hanging out too. And I know she doesn't drink so that's a plus too.

[U]but she hasn't messaged me back, and possibly never will[/U][/QUOTE]

Dude, don't hint. Never hint. Just tell her you definitely wanna hang out.

Don't be so negative man

[QUOTE=Jaundice;17298678]Oh come on, you listen to death metal and look like you're 16.

I'm seventeen and look like I'm 25
I have no noticeable personality whatsoever
I'm not fat or anything but I have some chub on my stomach, a beard, refuse to wear matching socks
All I listen to is industrial and rap
I'm obsessed with robotripping, been diagnosed with asperger's and ADHD
[B]And all my friends are obnoxious potheads who sit around listening to Lil Wayne and talking about how much they want to get in fights.[/B]

And bitches still gel me without an LP.[/QUOTE]

:lol:

[QUOTE]refuse to wear matching socks
[/QUOTE]

why am I laughing at this

[QUOTE=asSi1v3RfaNgsburn;17298639]I'd settle for creepy indie chick as long as she gave decent head


agreed.

So in a nutshell, what girl would want to be with a guy who:

-is 21, lives w/ parents
-looks about 16 years old
-no job
-no social life
-listens to death metal

yeah.[/QUOTE]
metal chicks

but theyre all ugly/fat/ginger/taken

[QUOTE=Jaundice;17298678]Oh come on, you listen to death metal and look like you're 16.

I'm seventeen and look like I'm 25
I have no noticeable personality whatsoever
I'm not fat or anything but I have some chub on my stomach, a beard, refuse to wear matching socks
All I listen to is industrial and rap
I'm obsessed with robotripping, been diagnosed with asperger's and ADHD
And all my friends are obnoxious potheads who sit around listening to Lil Wayne and talking about how much they want to get in fights.

And bitches still gel me without an LP. I would say that you're not trying hard enough, but I've never even tried, so if anything it must be a case of girls coming to you and you purposely scaring them off.[/QUOTE]
hey man we got the same friends

except my irish friends

replace pot with keiths and fights with brawls

I can't directly relate to all this I want a metal girl talk but I suppose I understand.

If I ever had another chance at an industrial girl I'd get serious.